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Unusual to want mental connection too??

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hello all,

Just a quick question. Am I unusual in wanting a mental connection as well as a physical connection, or is that off putting in general?

Thanks

Taz

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By *aseMan over a year ago

Gourock

Sounds a bit mental to me.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s not usual at all

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By *AYENCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I wouldn't say it's unusual, you probably get the full range on here from totally NSA right through to meaningful connections.

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By *rKinksMan over a year ago

Alton

Not the most common reason people are on here but not unusual.

I'd ideally like to find someone that could develope into more with

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By *ockosaurusMan over a year ago

Warwick

Most people I've spoken to want that connection too.

It's not weird at all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think it's unusual personally. Do what works for you OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I will only meet with someone if there’s a connection too, and not looking for one offs, seems very difficult to find though

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By *ister-mischiefMan over a year ago

Trafford

Not at all its not in my mantra to not have. Everyone is different but if there no connection there its not for me. I love the social side as much as the swinging and there needs to be something there for me anyway.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple over a year ago

Bexley

"Hello all,

Just a quick question. Am I unusual in wanting a mental connection as well as a physical connection, or is that off putting in general?

Thanks

Taz "

No. We never play with anyone we don't have a mental connection with.

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By *exy Black JenWoman over a year ago

London/Eastbourne weekends

I agree. There has to be a connection..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not at all, I need a connection .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s not usual at all

*Unusual I mean! Definitely need that mental connection to meet someone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had a mental connection with my ex wife absolutely mental that I married her...

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By *orkshrCplCouple over a year ago

Ripon

I'd say that's perfectly normal x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

Not at all,

I'd rather not bother if there's no connection.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its a 50/50 thing in this lifestyle so want the connection and some dont .... i look for a sexual connection anything else is just nope not interested

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A mental connection is really important to us. We want to make friends and long-term fun as opposed to bed hopping.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not the most common reason people are on here but not unusual.

I'd ideally like to find someone that could develope into more with"

Me too

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By *uchislife66Man over a year ago

Leeds

I agree Sweetboobies x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the problem for alot of swingers is if you allow that connection to get out of hand its no longer swinging .... not so much now but when we were swinging (not cuckolding) there was alot of guys who just got clingy in all ways it was too much yes we do have friends and very good friends on here one guy ive been meeting over 10 years and another nearly 20 years now but they get it they understand how to be a friend and swing but alot dont ...

from a couples perspective .... totally different game if singel or poly type couples

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At first when I met Rocksteady it was to have fun and lots of it.. as time went by we realised that we both have the same sense of humour and mentally click which is something that has taken me by surprise at first but really happy that it has happened!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not unusual this site is for different people wanting different things... personally we like both sometimes we want a connection and a friendship almost other times we want a hook up. There is plenty for everyone to have as they please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mr PD always wants a mental/emotional connection with playmates..for me I am the exact opposite.

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