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Hi all, always been very curious about this one. Do any of you lovely people actually wear a sly symbol when in public, to show/advertise your open to swinging or hotwife play ??? If so what symbols do you show/wear and do they actually work or get you attention  x
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over a year ago
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"Was told an ankle bracelet and toe ring was the sign for a hot wife "
years ago i mean 30/40 years ago may be but not in last 15 20 years it is just fashion |
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"Just looking to explore this and try a few things out, see what affect they have x"
Well it appears you already have the hotwife anklet sorted.
I think with these symbols you have to be pretty clear for them to have any effect.
So an anklet is just jewellery, a hotwife anklet will be clearer, but actually anklets are so discrete that they don't get noticed and very few men are looking at ankles on a night out.
My wife has a bi sexual necklace, but again few people are aware of the colour scheme and in a pub the light is not amazing so purple pink and blue do not stand out that well.
In the end it's a nice thought but not sure they have ever worked that well for anyone.
Probably because in the end even if you notice a symbol you still have to have to gumption to go and talk to that person and even when in a swingers club we find that most people want to be approached and not to be the person approaching.
I think fear of rejection rules over attraction. |
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"Was told an ankle bracelet and toe ring was the sign for a hot wife
Ha I've got both. I always wear my anklet."
I think my anklet would be a dead give away as it has hotwife written in it although I wear another one all of the time |
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"Hi all, always been very curious about this one. Do any of you lovely people actually wear a sly symbol when in public, to show/advertise your open to swinging or hotwife play ??? If so what symbols do you show/wear and do they actually work or get you attention x
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There are a lot of myths flying around, as others have already mentioned. However, if these so called secret symbols are so well known it stands to reason that they are not secret after all. |
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We also go to a lot of music festivals and dance music events. Would be super hot to see someone with an anklet or necklace at one of those as for us, the thought of dancing and flirting unplanned is such a turn on. |
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Tattoos are something to look out for, but its down to people recognising symbols in the right circumstances and context, as well as the people knowing the meanings by certain tattoo designs. |
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"Tattoos are something to look out for, but its down to people recognising symbols in the right circumstances and context, as well as the people knowing the meanings by certain tattoo designs."
Doesn't have to be a design. I have been out with the word Slut on my ankle as an example |
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"Tattoos are something to look out for, but its down to people recognising symbols in the right circumstances and context, as well as the people knowing the meanings by certain tattoo designs.
Doesn't have to be a design. I have been out with the word Slut on my ankle as an example"
Its a pretty clear indication, did anyone act on noticing it?
(consensually of course, no uninvited ass grabbing etc) |
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"Tattoos are something to look out for, but its down to people recognising symbols in the right circumstances and context, as well as the people knowing the meanings by certain tattoo designs.
Doesn't have to be a design. I have been out with the word Slut on my ankle as an example
Its a pretty clear indication, did anyone act on noticing it?
(consensually of course, no uninvited ass grabbing etc) "
Not that one but I have been approached over an anklet once and a queen of spades tattoo another time. |
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Lots of great ideas here, but nothing that might just be worn or displayed 'anyway' by non-swingers. I liked the idea of a discreet chameleon sticker in a car, although that wouldn't work if generally 'out and about'. Perhaps we just need someone to develop a location specific app that allows willing participants to know when similar people are in the same area ...? |
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"Was told an ankle bracelet and toe ring was the sign for a hot wife "
Most people wouldn’t think it was and therefore a lot of regular girls wear them. Strike that one off the list. We are fully sure it’s basically a myth. Unless you have Hotwife written on it, it’s a standard bit of jewellery that a ton of people wear. |
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over a year ago
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An upside down whole pineapple (not on a pizza! Lol) is meant to depict a swinger. We have one on the back of our camper but not as yet been mentioned by anyone.
As a tongue-in-cheek gesture we also have a vase of pampas grass in an upstairs window in the house facing the road but again no recognition from the neighbours! |
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I wear the key to his chastity cage on my necklace daily, sometimes on an anklet if I wanted to be real extra with it.
Brilliant when we’re out with friends, I’ll just fiddle with it and put it in my mouth and watch him squirm  |
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"I wear the key to his chastity cage on my necklace daily, sometimes on an anklet if I wanted to be real extra with it.
Brilliant when we’re out with friends, I’ll just fiddle with it and put it in my mouth and watch him squirm "
now that's hot/sexy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is more than just anklets. Necklaces, clothing and temporary tatoos to name a few.
What kind of clothing?
Leather assless chaps
Im in,do they sell them in Primark? "
Start a trend by ordering Primarny to stock them. |
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"There is more than just anklets. Necklaces, clothing and temporary tatoos to name a few.
What kind of clothing?
Leather assless chaps
Im in,do they sell them in Primark?
Start a trend by ordering Primarny to stock them."
I'll have a look in the charity shops first,you never know! |
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"Lots of great ideas here, but nothing that might just be worn or displayed 'anyway' by non-swingers. I liked the idea of a discreet chameleon sticker in a car, although that wouldn't work if generally 'out and about'. Perhaps we just need someone to develop a location specific app that allows willing participants to know when similar people are in the same area ...?"
Apparently the 'What 3 words' app is catching on to arrange discreet meets  |
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"I wear the key to his chastity cage on my necklace daily, sometimes on an anklet if I wanted to be real extra with it.
Brilliant when we’re out with friends, I’ll just fiddle with it and put it in my mouth and watch him squirm "
I dream of being on the receiving end of this situation. She holds all the cards. Amazingly powerful symbol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We need a masonic style ring ??"
Two V shaped legs laying across each other like a square & compass?
One female, one male, or same sex to define which persuation a person takes.
There is a symbol that some swingers use, it is in a design of a swing, but to me looks like a superhero logo  |
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When I was in the forces (17)
A older guy was showing me around the camp as I was fresh out of training and into the battalion in Germany… he told me watch out for a washing machine detergent box in the windows of the houses the married people where in as this meant that the wife’s where up for mmf lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ankle chains were always a bit of a maybe but as previously said more of a fashion accessory nowadays.
However I always look and if there is a saucy charm or 2 on it I ask lol |
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"When I was in the forces (17)
A older guy was showing me around the camp as I was fresh out of training and into the battalion in Germany… he told me watch out for a washing machine detergent box in the windows of the houses the married people where in as this meant that the wife’s where up for mmf lol"
.... legend has it that a box of OMO meant 'Old Man is Out' |
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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago
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"When I was in the forces (17)
A older guy was showing me around the camp as I was fresh out of training and into the battalion in Germany… he told me watch out for a washing machine detergent box in the windows of the houses the married people where in as this meant that the wife’s where up for mmf lol.... legend has it that a box of OMO meant 'Old Man is Out'"
Yes I also remember the packet of OMO scenario very well. From memory, the OMO box was displayed in the kitchen window, the kicthen light was also left on? |
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Wow some of these replies are amazing, so really some symbols are out there, although it looks like the more easy to understand words are shown to , hotwife, slut, whore. I have a hotwife anklet that may be on the next time we are out. I will see 
Love this thanks x |
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By *exfordMan
over a year ago
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"Hi all, always been very curious about this one. Do any of you lovely people actually wear a sly symbol when in public, to show/advertise your open to swinging or hotwife play ??? If so what symbols do you show/wear and do they actually work or get you attention x
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White baggy T Shirt with large black print on the front saying 'Frankie says Hotwife' |
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"Was told an ankle bracelet and toe ring was the sign for a hot wife
Ha I've got both. I always wear my anklet.
I think my anklet would be a dead give away as it has hotwife written in it although I wear another one all of the time "
Mine has hot wife on it too |
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By *exfordMan
over a year ago
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"Hi all, always been very curious about this one. Do any of you lovely people actually wear a sly symbol when in public, to show/advertise your open to swinging or hotwife play ??? If so what symbols do you show/wear and do they actually work or get you attention x
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'fancy a fuck' t shirt.....
I'm still a Virgin  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When i see an ankle bracelet it makes me wonder thats for sure . A woman i have met and meeting again soon wears one that says “hot wife” on it … drives me crazy |
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Well done you..hehehe....always look out for women wearing anklets with keys or acronyms...especially on nights out. Now Autumn is here not as visible. But they do turn me on. Would always approach and say hi if they had on. |
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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago
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My wife wears anklet most of the time, they are normally simple chains with, maybe, a small charm of no significance, however if she’s feeling mischievous she well one her (many) anklets that have “slut” lettering as a prominent design feature |
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"An upside down whole pineapple (not on a pizza! Lol) is meant to depict a swinger. We have one on the back of our camper but not as yet been mentioned by anyone.
As a tongue-in-cheek gesture we also have a vase of pampas grass in an upstairs window in the house facing the road but again no recognition from the neighbours! "
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Mrs P always has lots of cleavage on show when we go out for a drink, it always attracts lots of attention! We find it hard to see which guys are fab guys when out though, perhaps we could have a dress code for fab guys? |
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"I regularly wear anklets but more as a fashion item than anything else. Never been approached specifically for that reason though."
The anklet idea is such a turn on for us. The risk is that it may just be someone wearing it for fashion and then it would be a bit awkward. Like the charms ideas though as makes it a little clearer |
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"I regularly wear anklets but more as a fashion item than anything else. Never been approached specifically for that reason though.
The anklet idea is such a turn on for us. The risk is that it may just be someone wearing it for fashion and then it would be a bit awkward. Like the charms ideas though as makes it a little clearer "
I think even with charms there is always going to be a conversation.
Even those wearing slut or whore may have a preference for who they are slutty or whory (is that a word?) with.
I'm sure a question related to the jewellery would make everything clearer.
Eg
I like your pineapple anklet
Or
Does the anklet mean you are just a slut for hubby or open to offers?
The cheeky grin is mandatory.
I'm sure if they were not interested in you they would have a comeback ready.
Eg
I'm a slut for any hot guys, so I'm afraid that's you out. (ouch - burned) |
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"I regularly wear anklets but more as a fashion item than anything else. Never been approached specifically for that reason though.
The anklet idea is such a turn on for us. The risk is that it may just be someone wearing it for fashion and then it would be a bit awkward. Like the charms ideas though as makes it a little clearer
I think even with charms there is always going to be a conversation.
Even those wearing slut or whore may have a preference for who they are slutty or whory (is that a word?) with.
I'm sure a question related to the jewellery would make everything clearer.
Eg
I like your pineapple anklet
Or
Does the anklet mean you are just a slut for hubby or open to offers?
The cheeky grin is mandatory.
I'm sure if they were not interested in you they would have a comeback ready.
Eg
I'm a slut for any hot guys, so I'm afraid that's you out. (ouch - burned) "
Great points. Guess we will look and then initiate a chat and see. |
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over a year ago
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"We read about the pineapples too x we have a few things with pineapples on now !! X
Yeah I read pineapple are a sign for swingers, but surly many don’t know this. Anything for a hotwife? "
Pineapples upside down are splashed all over tik tok so I'm sure it's common knowledge |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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Of course, any symbol would be easy for papers and others to find out about. And if it were knowledge for the ordinary swinger, it would soon be known by others and then the kids. No more wondering why you wear that Chameleon pin. Or why you constantly wear that pineapple broach upside down. Why would you risk that?
One thing we did hear of was asking a question of those who look or act like swingers (However that is noted!) The question was "Are you friends with Ellis" Ellis = LS = Life Style. But for anything to work it has to be common knowledge and that is the last thing we need! |
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"Of course, any symbol would be easy for papers and others to find out about. And if it were knowledge for the ordinary swinger, it would soon be known by others and then the kids. No more wondering why you wear that Chameleon pin. Or why you constantly wear that pineapple broach upside down. Why would you risk that?
One thing we did hear of was asking a question of those who look or act like swingers (However that is noted!) The question was "Are you friends with Ellis" Ellis = LS = Life Style. But for anything to work it has to be common knowledge and that is the last thing we need!"
That is a new one on me.
I'm not sure how you look or act like a swinger?
I doubt anyone suspects us we are very covert. |
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I would love there to be something that informed people knew and then to get my wife to wear it would be v cool. I agree that many years ago ankle braclets were they thing, but too common now. Knowing that people in the know would know that there was a chance to enjoy her would be v erotic.
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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"A black ring on the right ring finger is known to many."
Char and I got married on Friday. We have black wedding bands....one reason was that we could swap them to our right hands if we wanted to hint at anyone.... |
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"I would love there to be something that informed people knew and then to get my wife to wear it would be v cool. I agree that many years ago ankle braclets were they thing, but too common now. Knowing that people in the know would know that there was a chance to enjoy her would be v erotic.
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But you’ve just described a system that is already in use - if you know…you know. As soon as you make it so that ‘everyone’ knows the ‘secret’ it’s no longer a secret
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