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Approaching muggles in the real world?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have any of you approached an individual or a couple away from this site or a club?
How did you broach it?
How was it received?
Were they ok with it or were they offended?"
why would you, there are plenty of swingers about |
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we've been approached twice in the "real world" both times were on holiday and we played dumb. The first time the couple approached us in a swimming pool in a type of pincer movement, he headed Mr N off and she sort of pinned me up against the edge of the pool. they didn't actually ask outright if we'd have sex with them but we picked up the vibes. They cleared off pretty sharpish when it became clear we weren't interested. The second time the people were more subtle but we guessed their motive.
We weren't offended but we didn't really appreciate being approached
I'd recommend being pretty sure the people you're approaching are up for it. |
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We keep this part of our lives secret too.
Sometimes, one of us picks up on a vibe from someone away from this arena and we wonder whether or not we should suggest it or not.
Would hate to miss out on an opportunity if they were thinking the same thing. |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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It is a difficult one, we have been very much a part of the community/scene for many years, lot of people know us through the scene - even work have from time to time come from the scene.
We are often in public and do get recognised (no we are not celebrities) 
We do a lot shows and exhibitions, but i guess we have become very good fielding. Unsurprisingly it tends to be the blokes that try and force the issue when it happens.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is this not how it started? Getting back to grass roots? I’d find it very interesting to be approached in this manner outside of this cosseted, little bubble where every man and his dog knows one another.
Some bizarre, almost, double standards going on here. What’s the big difference? |
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"Is this not how it started? Getting back to grass roots? I’d find it very interesting to be approached in this manner outside of this cosseted, little bubble where every man and his dog knows one another.
Some bizarre, almost, double standards going on here. What’s the big difference?"
Because as a couple we want to be sure that the people we approach are actually interested in group sex. We hope that other people would extend the same courtesy to us. |
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We wouldn’t want to be approached, I think maybe if it was on fab might not be so bad, so like a message saying “ hey was it you in Tesco?? Didn’t want to come over to you incase it wasn’t” we would prob laugh it off and maybe on holiday if we were at bar a subtle hint in chat might be ok if we were at the bar if it’s not pushy |
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