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"As per the title really. Are there many cucks out there? " Are you looking for one then? | |||
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"I’ve given up looking. As others say, plenty of wannabes and those that just don’t get it. Some confuse it with being a pimp…." ?? | |||
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"I’ve given up looking. As others say, plenty of wannabes and those that just don’t get it. Some confuse it with being a pimp…. ??" First time I have ever heard that before lol do they really? Lol I have heard people get confused about the context of the word, and think it means into choking and strangulation and that lol | |||
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"I’ve given up looking. As others say, plenty of wannabes and those that just don’t get it. Some confuse it with being a pimp…. ?? First time I have ever heard that before lol do they really? Lol I have heard people get confused about the context of the word, and think it means into choking and strangulation and that lol " Not sure why they use the word cuck or cuckold for someone getting turned on watching their wife be unfaithful to him or a guy being submissive for a female lol see why people get mixed up what the word actually means! | |||
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"Also many sl*ves think it’s the same thing. My house really could be spotless " Haha | |||
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"I've had many messages from guys offering to be my cuck because I have it listed as an interest. So I would say there are certainly some out there that claim to be. *Shrugs* I've no interest as I already have one, so never taken them up on their offer." I bet it is hard for them to find someone who is up for it tho! I find it really difficult to find someone who will give me a chance being a first timer on here. I know and understand people want to see verts and that, but surely they were all first timers when they joined on here! | |||
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"Also many sl*ves think it’s the same thing. My house really could be spotless " | |||
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"I've had many messages from guys offering to be my cuck because I have it listed as an interest. So I would say there are certainly some out there that claim to be. *Shrugs* I've no interest as I already have one, so never taken them up on their offer. I bet it is hard for them to find someone who is up for it tho! I find it really difficult to find someone who will give me a chance being a first timer on here. I know and understand people want to see verts and that, but surely they were all first timers when they joined on here!" The trouble with this is being in a cuckold relationship takes time to develop and grow. You can't instantly become someone's cuck. It just doesn't work on such a superficial level. | |||
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"Also many sl*ves think it’s the same thing. My house really could be spotless " Some subs have are cuck interested too... | |||
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"I've had many messages from guys offering to be my cuck because I have it listed as an interest. So I would say there are certainly some out there that claim to be. *Shrugs* I've no interest as I already have one, so never taken them up on their offer. I bet it is hard for them to find someone who is up for it tho! I find it really difficult to find someone who will give me a chance being a first timer on here. I know and understand people want to see verts and that, but surely they were all first timers when they joined on here! The trouble with this is being in a cuckold relationship takes time to develop and grow. You can't instantly become someone's cuck. It just doesn't work on such a superficial level. " Well that should be for most things on here I reckon. E.g. Like having discrete fun with someone on a regular basis. Trust and getting to know someone first before jumping into it would be just stupid. Same goes for cuck! | |||
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" Well that should be for most things on here I reckon. E.g. Like having discrete fun with someone on a regular basis. Trust and getting to know someone first before jumping into it would be just stupid. Same goes for cuck!" Absolutely not the same at all. There needs to be a loving concrete relationship before even entering into cuckolding. That's central to the whole thing. Without that it's just 2 people claiming to be a couple and one of them fucking about. It's so much more complex than that. You've completely missed my point. | |||
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"I've had many messages from guys offering to be my cuck because I have it listed as an interest. So I would say there are certainly some out there that claim to be. *Shrugs* I've no interest as I already have one, so never taken them up on their offer. I bet it is hard for them to find someone who is up for it tho! I find it really difficult to find someone who will give me a chance being a first timer on here. I know and understand people want to see verts and that, but surely they were all first timers when they joined on here! The trouble with this is being in a cuckold relationship takes time to develop and grow. You can't instantly become someone's cuck. It just doesn't work on such a superficial level. Well that should be for most things on here I reckon. E.g. Like having discrete fun with someone on a regular basis. Trust and getting to know someone first before jumping into it would be just stupid. Same goes for cuck!" some just dont know what cuckolding is they watch a porn film and think ill try that .... | |||
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"plenty looking for relationships on here not sure how many are true but looking for a cuck is not going to be easy as it needs to be a loving relationship too and they are hard to find ... i dont think it can be done as most of us cuckold couples have years under our belts no such thing as a off the shelf relationship ... think maybe just looking for a sub male might do it but a sub male is no cuck hes just a sub male ie a single male cannot be a cuck as much as a single woman cant be a cuckqueen its just not the right dynamic at all" I remember you created a nice thread on this topic. But couldn't find the link to it | |||
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" Well that should be for most things on here I reckon. E.g. Like having discrete fun with someone on a regular basis. Trust and getting to know someone first before jumping into it would be just stupid. Same goes for cuck! Absolutely not the same at all. There needs to be a loving concrete relationship before even entering into cuckolding. That's central to the whole thing. Without that it's just 2 people claiming to be a couple and one of them fucking about. It's so much more complex than that. You've completely missed my point. " Yeah I agree, that was sort of my point in a way but I didn't put it into perspective like you had done. It takes work basically, and lot's of trust I'd say | |||
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"I've had many messages from guys offering to be my cuck because I have it listed as an interest. So I would say there are certainly some out there that claim to be. *Shrugs* I've no interest as I already have one, so never taken them up on their offer. I bet it is hard for them to find someone who is up for it tho! I find it really difficult to find someone who will give me a chance being a first timer on here. I know and understand people want to see verts and that, but surely they were all first timers when they joined on here! The trouble with this is being in a cuckold relationship takes time to develop and grow. You can't instantly become someone's cuck. It just doesn't work on such a superficial level. Well that should be for most things on here I reckon. E.g. Like having discrete fun with someone on a regular basis. Trust and getting to know someone first before jumping into it would be just stupid. Same goes for cuck! some just dont know what cuckolding is they watch a porn film and think ill try that ...." Have you done it before? And gone wrong | |||
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"It seems to be an odd ad on a woman's profile So I'm gonna say it will be difficult to find " thats the problem dont think you can find it i think its developed out of a solid loving relationship ..... there are some cuckold couples that start from getting married were they lay the terms down before the wedding but ive never met any and we are on quite a few cuckold forums most come from long term relationships .... | |||
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" Well that should be for most things on here I reckon. E.g. Like having discrete fun with someone on a regular basis. Trust and getting to know someone first before jumping into it would be just stupid. Same goes for cuck! Absolutely not the same at all. There needs to be a loving concrete relationship before even entering into cuckolding. That's central to the whole thing. Without that it's just 2 people claiming to be a couple and one of them fucking about. It's so much more complex than that. You've completely missed my point. " I think it would be a mistake to jump into cuckolding straight away as it doesn't make sense at all. Maybe the right approach would be to find someone who is open to the idea of cuckolding, but begin with regular dating like vanilla relationships. If the couple like each other and are ready for something more serious, they can then start experimenting with the idea of cuckolding. | |||
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"As per the title really. Are there many cucks out there? " you rang ?? | |||
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"As per the title really. Are there many cucks out there? you rang ??" Haha I am from coatbridge originally lol | |||
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"As per the title really. Are there many cucks out there? you rang ?? Haha I am from coatbridge originally lol" Townhead | |||
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"I've had many messages from guys offering to be my cuck because I have it listed as an interest. So I would say there are certainly some out there that claim to be. *Shrugs* I've no interest as I already have one, so never taken them up on their offer. I bet it is hard for them to find someone who is up for it tho! I find it really difficult to find someone who will give me a chance being a first timer on here. I know and understand people want to see verts and that, but surely they were all first timers when they joined on here! The trouble with this is being in a cuckold relationship takes time to develop and grow. You can't instantly become someone's cuck. It just doesn't work on such a superficial level. Well that should be for most things on here I reckon. E.g. Like having discrete fun with someone on a regular basis. Trust and getting to know someone first before jumping into it would be just stupid. Same goes for cuck! some just dont know what cuckolding is they watch a porn film and think ill try that .... Have you done it before? And gone wrong" done it before ?? erm we are a full on sexual cuckold couple we have been for the last 4 and half years but before that we had 24 years as a full on swinging couple /bi couple /and both played on our own its taken years to get whhere we are now .. ill health played a big part as he can no longer get erections so hesuggested this ...its not a million miles away how we played as a couple and we love it ... no nothing has ever gone wrong between us because the relationship is rock solid and we always talk so we know what we want no maybe or mmmmm shall i and we are 100% drama free because of this too | |||
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"I've had many messages from guys offering to be my cuck because I have it listed as an interest. So I would say there are certainly some out there that claim to be. *Shrugs* I've no interest as I already have one, so never taken them up on their offer." Good to know though, that you have one. It feels a bit like looking for a needle in a haystack | |||
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"plenty looking for relationships on here not sure how many are true but looking for a cuck is not going to be easy as it needs to be a loving relationship too and they are hard to find ... i dont think it can be done as most of us cuckold couples have years under our belts no such thing as a off the shelf relationship ... think maybe just looking for a sub male might do it but a sub male is no cuck hes just a sub male ie a single male cannot be a cuck as much as a single woman cant be a cuckqueen its just not the right dynamic at all" But it needs to have that potential doesn’t it? It’s no good getting into a relationship and hoping, I want to be honest from the outset. | |||
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"I've had many messages from guys offering to be my cuck because I have it listed as an interest. So I would say there are certainly some out there that claim to be. *Shrugs* I've no interest as I already have one, so never taken them up on their offer. I bet it is hard for them to find someone who is up for it tho! I find it really difficult to find someone who will give me a chance being a first timer on here. I know and understand people want to see verts and that, but surely they were all first timers when they joined on here! The trouble with this is being in a cuckold relationship takes time to develop and grow. You can't instantly become someone's cuck. It just doesn't work on such a superficial level. Well that should be for most things on here I reckon. E.g. Like having discrete fun with someone on a regular basis. Trust and getting to know someone first before jumping into it would be just stupid. Same goes for cuck! some just dont know what cuckolding is they watch a porn film and think ill try that .... Have you done it before? And gone wrong done it before ?? erm we are a full on sexual cuckold couple we have been for the last 4 and half years but before that we had 24 years as a full on swinging couple /bi couple /and both played on our own its taken years to get whhere we are now .. ill health played a big part as he can no longer get erections so hesuggested this ...its not a million miles away how we played as a couple and we love it ... no nothing has ever gone wrong between us because the relationship is rock solid and we always talk so we know what we want no maybe or mmmmm shall i and we are 100% drama free because of this too" Sorry to hear that happened to him. You both sound like a close couple which is really good. I suppose with a lot of patience you can get it hard for him in many ways. Great to hear you are both honest with each other and talk to each other about everything. That's what makes it work in a healthy relationship. I think that is half the problem why couples break up, due to lack of conversation | |||
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"I've had many messages from guys offering to be my cuck because I have it listed as an interest. So I would say there are certainly some out there that claim to be. *Shrugs* I've no interest as I already have one, so never taken them up on their offer. Good to know though, that you have one. It feels a bit like looking for a needle in a haystack " I've never looked for one. It just kinda developed after many years together so wouldn't know how or even if it works if you deliberately go looking! Best of luck. | |||
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"plenty looking for relationships on here not sure how many are true but looking for a cuck is not going to be easy as it needs to be a loving relationship too and they are hard to find ... i dont think it can be done as most of us cuckold couples have years under our belts no such thing as a off the shelf relationship ... think maybe just looking for a sub male might do it but a sub male is no cuck hes just a sub male ie a single male cannot be a cuck as much as a single woman cant be a cuckqueen its just not the right dynamic at all But it needs to have that potential doesn’t it? It’s no good getting into a relationship and hoping, I want to be honest from the outset. " yes i agree but most of us started as normal swingers but already in relationships.. so the hard thing for a lady looking for a cuck is to find someone to love as well as someone to cuck | |||
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"There are many, I’ve come across a fair few in the forums, how genuine they are I suppose I couldn’t say. That being said I was in a cuck relationship for 3 years with my ex, that was quite intense and gradually explored more and more until we had a regular bull. I have also explored it with a mistress on fabs, after a few months of Building a connection it actually worked, which disproved the myth that only couples can explore the cuckold scene " how can it be a myth lol look up what cuckold means its pretty simple cuckold = a couple at the very least | |||
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"how can it be a myth lol look up what cuckold means its pretty simple cuckold = a couple at the very least " Maybe a myth was the wrong word, but it’s proven that it doesn’t need to be a fully committed couple, it can be between two single people that have a connection with one another. | |||
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"always thought that a cuck is part of a loving couple for it to work, so not really sure what you are looking for but not sure a cuck is it" That is exactly what I’m looking for, a loving relationship, with a Cuck!? | |||
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"how can it be a myth lol look up what cuckold means its pretty simple cuckold = a couple at the very least Maybe a myth was the wrong word, but it’s proven that it doesn’t need to be a fully committed couple, it can be between two single people that have a connection with one another. " then that just a sub male nothing more | |||
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"always thought that a cuck is part of a loving couple for it to work, so not really sure what you are looking for but not sure a cuck is it That is exactly what I’m looking for, a loving relationship, with a Cuck!? " I get it. You're looking for someone to enter into a relationship with with the knowledge that at some point you'd like to cuckold him. I guess it would help to find someone open to the idea from the offset. Saves having to bring it up at a later date. | |||
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"always thought that a cuck is part of a loving couple for it to work, so not really sure what you are looking for but not sure a cuck is it That is exactly what I’m looking for, a loving relationship, with a Cuck!? " i think you'll have much more luck with finding a sub guy rather than a single who calls himself a cuck because if they dont understand fron the start what cuck means then they wont live up to what you want | |||
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"As per the title really. Are there many cucks out there? " I'm sure that as well as me there are plenty others. It appears it's just as difficult for cucks to be found as it is you searching for us | |||
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"As per the title really. Are there many cucks out there? I'm sure that as well as me there are plenty others. It appears it's just as difficult for cucks to be found as it is you searching for us " but thats the problem your saying your a cuck when your not your just a single sub guy | |||
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"As per the title really. Are there many cucks out there? I'm sure that as well as me there are plenty others. It appears it's just as difficult for cucks to be found as it is you searching for us but thats the problem your saying your a cuck when your not your just a single sub guy " Totally understand your point. However after being in cuckold relationships in the past it makes sense to regard myself as a cuck | |||
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"As per the title really. Are there many cucks out there? I'm sure that as well as me there are plenty others. It appears it's just as difficult for cucks to be found as it is you searching for us but thats the problem your saying your a cuck when your not your just a single sub guy Totally understand your point. However after being in cuckold relationships in the past it makes sense to regard myself as a cuck " nope if your single then your not a cuck its not hard ...its a bit like saying your married but your not your single when you split you dont carry on saying your married do you ????? | |||
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"As per the title really. Are there many cucks out there? I'm sure that as well as me there are plenty others. It appears it's just as difficult for cucks to be found as it is you searching for us but thats the problem your saying your a cuck when your not your just a single sub guy Totally understand your point. However after being in cuckold relationships in the past it makes sense to regard myself as a cuck nope if your single then your not a cuck its not hard ...its a bit like saying your married but your not your single when you split you dont carry on saying your married do you ?????" OK, no worries | |||
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" Totally understand your point. However after being in cuckold relationships in the past it makes sense to regard myself as a cuck " I don’t, there’s a difference between sub guys and cucks, you are correct to refer to yourself as a cuck, a cuck who is looking for a form of long term relationship, wether that be as two singles or as a couple with the woman being a cuckoldress. A sub guy is someone that doesn’t need to connect with just one woman and can be a sub to numerous women’s. Admittedly, there is a cross over between the two. | |||
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" Totally understand your point. However after being in cuckold relationships in the past it makes sense to regard myself as a cuck I don’t, there’s a difference between sub guys and cucks, you are correct to refer to yourself as a cuck, a cuck who is looking for a form of long term relationship, wether that be as two singles or as a couple with the woman being a cuckoldress. A sub guy is someone that doesn’t need to connect with just one woman and can be a sub to numerous women’s. Admittedly, there is a cross over between the two. " and thats the point how can you be a cuck with no connect ?? you've answered the question without knowing | |||
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" and thats the point how can you be a cuck with no connect ?? you've answered the question without knowing " Well no, if you see my previous reply, I was single with another woman on here as was she. We built a connect that was as close as being as a couple, and I became her Cuck. It felt very natural and real and I remained single throughout | |||
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"2 singles do not make a cuckold couple ....come on its so simple to understand no matter what your relationship is with her its not the 24/7 of a married couple/partners who live together thats a massive bond not just some fwb who meet here n there ??? its really not hard to understand the concept" Ahh so you have to be married and live together then to create a bond suitable enough…? Lol. | |||
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"2 singles do not make a cuckold couple ....come on its so simple to understand no matter what your relationship is with her its not the 24/7 of a married couple/partners who live together thats a massive bond not just some fwb who meet here n there ??? its really not hard to understand the concept" Must be hard, you can’t seem to grasp the concept | |||
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"So, from reading the replies, maybe I’m going about this the wrong way? I know what I want, but do I need to approach it differently?" my reading is you are looking for a (romantic?) partner who has cuck tendencies... So you can explore that at some point. Rather than just a fella who will be a cuxk tonight? My reading is many have answered from the POV of the second version. | |||
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"So, from reading the replies, maybe I’m going about this the wrong way? I know what I want, but do I need to approach it differently?my reading is you are looking for a (romantic?) partner who has cuck tendencies... So you can explore that at some point. Rather than just a fella who will be a cuxk tonight? My reading is many have answered from the POV of the second version. " You are exactly right. I’m looking for a ltr, with someone who has Cuck tendencies. I know I want that, but I don’t know much about it.. | |||
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"So, from reading the replies, maybe I’m going about this the wrong way? I know what I want, but do I need to approach it differently?my reading is you are looking for a (romantic?) partner who has cuck tendencies... So you can explore that at some point. Rather than just a fella who will be a cuxk tonight? My reading is many have answered from the POV of the second version. You are exactly right. I’m looking for a ltr, with someone who has Cuck tendencies. I know I want that, but I don’t know much about it.." thought so. Not that I can help too much here ... Other than being clear in profiles etc. Maybe clubs are a better bet ? Or maybe there a clever way of putting it out there on tinder or OKC ? | |||
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"So, from reading the replies, maybe I’m going about this the wrong way? I know what I want, but do I need to approach it differently?my reading is you are looking for a (romantic?) partner who has cuck tendencies... So you can explore that at some point. Rather than just a fella who will be a cuxk tonight? My reading is many have answered from the POV of the second version. You are exactly right. I’m looking for a ltr, with someone who has Cuck tendencies. I know I want that, but I don’t know much about it.." go and take a look at some of the brilliant cuckold forums that will give you solid advice or wait and talk to the many cuckold couples on here get it from the perspective couples who are living it ... i can tell you its a great lifestyle i have a boyfriend popping around to stay the evening and he will leave knowing me and cuck are totally satisfied (cuck mentally) | |||
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"So, from reading the replies, maybe I’m going about this the wrong way? I know what I want, but do I need to approach it differently?my reading is you are looking for a (romantic?) partner who has cuck tendencies... So you can explore that at some point. Rather than just a fella who will be a cuxk tonight? My reading is many have answered from the POV of the second version. You are exactly right. I’m looking for a ltr, with someone who has Cuck tendencies. I know I want that, but I don’t know much about it.. go and take a look at some of the brilliant cuckold forums that will give you solid advice or wait and talk to the many cuckold couples on here get it from the perspective couples who are living it ... i can tell you its a great lifestyle i have a boyfriend popping around to stay the evening and he will leave knowing me and cuck are totally satisfied (cuck mentally) " Can I message you and ask a question? No problem if not | |||
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"So, from reading the replies, maybe I’m going about this the wrong way? I know what I want, but do I need to approach it differently?my reading is you are looking for a (romantic?) partner who has cuck tendencies... So you can explore that at some point. Rather than just a fella who will be a cuxk tonight? My reading is many have answered from the POV of the second version. You are exactly right. I’m looking for a ltr, with someone who has Cuck tendencies. I know I want that, but I don’t know much about it.. go and take a look at some of the brilliant cuckold forums that will give you solid advice or wait and talk to the many cuckold couples on here get it from the perspective couples who are living it ... i can tell you its a great lifestyle i have a boyfriend popping around to stay the evening and he will leave knowing me and cuck are totally satisfied (cuck mentally) Can I message you and ask a question? No problem if not " feel free to ...i am going to shower now for my meet but ill answer best i can | |||
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"So, from reading the replies, maybe I’m going about this the wrong way? I know what I want, but do I need to approach it differently?my reading is you are looking for a (romantic?) partner who has cuck tendencies... So you can explore that at some point. Rather than just a fella who will be a cuxk tonight? My reading is many have answered from the POV of the second version. You are exactly right. I’m looking for a ltr, with someone who has Cuck tendencies. I know I want that, but I don’t know much about it.." I hope you find what you are looking for but I suspect your challenge will be finding someone that is happy to be in a long term romantic relationship with you, where the physical relationship fails to meet up to their agenda. Its easy to claim to be something you are not in the hopes of getting something you want. The advice from foxy n hubs is spot on | |||
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"So, from reading the replies, maybe I’m going about this the wrong way? I know what I want, but do I need to approach it differently?my reading is you are looking for a (romantic?) partner who has cuck tendencies... So you can explore that at some point. Rather than just a fella who will be a cuxk tonight? My reading is many have answered from the POV of the second version. You are exactly right. I’m looking for a ltr, with someone who has Cuck tendencies. I know I want that, but I don’t know much about it.. I hope you find what you are looking for but I suspect your challenge will be finding someone that is happy to be in a long term romantic relationship with you, where the physical relationship fails to meet up to their agenda. Its easy to claim to be something you are not in the hopes of getting something you want. The advice from foxy n hubs is spot on " That’s why I’d like to be open from the outset, and hope they would too. | |||
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" and thats the point how can you be a cuck with no connect ?? you've answered the question without knowing Well no, if you see my previous reply, I was single with another woman on here as was she. We built a connect that was as close as being as a couple, and I became her Cuck. It felt very natural and real and I remained single throughout " Then you clearly have no clue. No disrespect but that is nothing like a true cuckold relationship. You cannot be single and a cuckold. Part of the definition is you have to be married. | |||
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"Wow. People are arguing too much about nomenclature. One has to be married to be a cuckold. Agreed. The ones who aren't married yet can still see cuckold relationships and want to be in one of those relationships. They can be called "wannabe cucks" or just cucks or whatever you want to call them. No point in debating about the names and going around in circles " They can call themselves whatever they want. They won't be viewed as such by most though so it's a bit pointless if it's just a label. They aren't living the lifestyle. Simple as that | |||
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"Wow. People are arguing too much about nomenclature. One has to be married to be a cuckold. Agreed. The ones who aren't married yet can still see cuckold relationships and want to be in one of those relationships. They can be called "wannabe cucks" or just cucks or whatever you want to call them. No point in debating about the names and going around in circles " and people wonder why some get muddled up with whats what the cuckold label and cuck label are what they are ??you just cant change them it dont work .... so if labels are pointless then we just as well put we are gay but hey its ok its only a label we not really but just want to use the label even if not ok | |||
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"im a police woman but im not but i want to be so no harm is saying i am ...?? is there" I totally agree | |||
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"I thought a “cuck” was someone who would be told too clean the lady up after she had been out with her “bull” who satisfied her amd then she told him about it while he was cleaning her up " Ha bless. Really no idea. Stop pretending guys. It's boring. | |||
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"I thought a “cuck” was someone who would be told too clean the lady up after she had been out with her “bull” who satisfied her amd then she told him about it while he was cleaning her up " there are plenty of guys who do this that are not in a cuckold relationship so no its not the deffinition of a cuck tho some do also there are cuckold couples who play safe | |||
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"As per the title really. Are there many cucks out there? you rang ?? Haha I am from coatbridge originally lol" it blows is your name Andy ? | |||
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"Wow. People are arguing too much about nomenclature. One has to be married to be a cuckold. Agreed. The ones who aren't married yet can still see cuckold relationships and want to be in one of those relationships. They can be called "wannabe cucks" or just cucks or whatever you want to call them. No point in debating about the names and going around in circles and people wonder why some get muddled up with whats what the cuckold label and cuck label are what they are ??you just cant change them it dont work .... so if labels are pointless then we just as well put we are gay but hey its ok its only a label we not really but just want to use the label even if not ok " As long as the people involved understand what someone is saying, I don't see a big problem. There are arguments in favour of both sides. As you said, I can't say I am police before actually becoming police. On the other hand, I can say I am submission before finding a dominant partner and submitting to them. I just don't see a big problem. Everyone understands what the OP mentioned in her post. Instead of answering her question, we are all fighting about what the word means though we all know what it means in the context. | |||
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"Wow. People are arguing too much about nomenclature. One has to be married to be a cuckold. Agreed. The ones who aren't married yet can still see cuckold relationships and want to be in one of those relationships. They can be called "wannabe cucks" or just cucks or whatever you want to call them. No point in debating about the names and going around in circles and people wonder why some get muddled up with whats what the cuckold label and cuck label are what they are ??you just cant change them it dont work .... so if labels are pointless then we just as well put we are gay but hey its ok its only a label we not really but just want to use the label even if not ok As long as the people involved understand what someone is saying, I don't see a big problem. There are arguments in favour of both sides. As you said, I can't say I am police before actually becoming police. On the other hand, I can say I am submission before finding a dominant partner and submitting to them. I just don't see a big problem. Everyone understands what the OP mentioned in her post. Instead of answering her question, we are all fighting about what the word means though we all know what it means in the context." arguments ?? nope just stating the facts as you'll see all your answers from couples and women on this thread will tell you the facts you cant be a cuck unless your in a serious relationship .. its the relationship the living together that makes a cuckold couple now the op wanted to know how to find someone for a real relationship that eventally will go the cuckold way ....how can she do that with single guys who call themselves cucks ?? how can she have a relationship with a guy who cant understand in the first place what a cuck is ?? its simple as i and others keep saying to be a cuck you need to be cuckold and the only way you can cuckold is to be in a loving relationship.... the loving bit is proberly the most important bit as thats what both in the relationship need from each other for it to work .. so the best way for a woman to find a want to be cuck is to find a guy who is sub and early in the relationship mention the road that she and he would like to take (even then theres no 100% this will work) most of us cuckold couples have been together for years before even thinking about cuckold. guys (and women) need to stop calling themselves things that they are not its the same with bulls/doms/and plenty off other thing that they are clearly not .. so now the op can steer clear of them that aint a clue and steer towards finding a relationship that will hopefully blossom and become a cuckold one.. now the op wont be fooled hopefully by the masses of fakes on here as that not what she wants.... its hard to find a partner to fall in love with and do normal swinging even harder to find one to share a kink and even harder again to find one that want a real cuckold relationship bearing in mind all the normal attractions of dating and finding some one to love first n formost.. ps roleplay is a totally different senario you can role play anything but its not real even if its fun so im not trying to piss on the role play side of things ..that op dont want. | |||
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"Wow. People are arguing too much about nomenclature. One has to be married to be a cuckold. Agreed. The ones who aren't married yet can still see cuckold relationships and want to be in one of those relationships. They can be called "wannabe cucks" or just cucks or whatever you want to call them. No point in debating about the names and going around in circles and people wonder why some get muddled up with whats what the cuckold label and cuck label are what they are ??you just cant change them it dont work .... so if labels are pointless then we just as well put we are gay but hey its ok its only a label we not really but just want to use the label even if not ok As long as the people involved understand what someone is saying, I don't see a big problem. There are arguments in favour of both sides. As you said, I can't say I am police before actually becoming police. On the other hand, I can say I am submission before finding a dominant partner and submitting to them. I just don't see a big problem. Everyone understands what the OP mentioned in her post. Instead of answering her question, we are all fighting about what the word means though we all know what it means in the context. arguments ?? nope just stating the facts as you'll see all your answers from couples and women on this thread will tell you the facts you cant be a cuck unless your in a serious relationship .. its the relationship the living together that makes a cuckold couple now the op wanted to know how to find someone for a real relationship that eventally will go the cuckold way ....how can she do that with single guys who call themselves cucks ?? how can she have a relationship with a guy who cant understand in the first place what a cuck is ?? its simple as i and others keep saying to be a cuck you need to be cuckold and the only way you can cuckold is to be in a loving relationship.... the loving bit is proberly the most important bit as thats what both in the relationship need from each other for it to work .. so the best way for a woman to find a want to be cuck is to find a guy who is sub and early in the relationship mention the road that she and he would like to take (even then theres no 100% this will work) most of us cuckold couples have been together for years before even thinking about cuckold. guys (and women) need to stop calling themselves things that they are not its the same with bulls/doms/and plenty off other thing that they are clearly not .. so now the op can steer clear of them that aint a clue and steer towards finding a relationship that will hopefully blossom and become a cuckold one.. now the op wont be fooled hopefully by the masses of fakes on here as that not what she wants.... its hard to find a partner to fall in love with and do normal swinging even harder to find one to share a kink and even harder again to find one that want a real cuckold relationship bearing in mind all the normal attractions of dating and finding some one to love first n formost.. ps roleplay is a totally different senario you can role play anything but its not real even if its fun so im not trying to piss on the role play side of things ..that op dont want. " I would have said exactly this if I could be bothered. I would add though that by the OP looking for someone who shares the interest is a great start. But that doesn't mean that is what the relationship will be from day one. Just an aspiration. And it will help if you're both on the same page from the get go. | |||
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" its the relationship the living together that makes a cuckold couple now the op wanted to know how to find someone for a real relationship that eventally will go the cuckold way ....how can she do that with single guys who call themselves cucks ?? how can she have a relationship with a guy who cant understand in the first place what a cuck is ?? its simple as i and others keep saying to be a cuck you need to be cuckold and the only way you can cuckold is to be in a loving relationship.... the loving bit is proberly the most important bit as thats what both in the relationship need from each other for it to work .. so the best way for a woman to find a want to be cuck is to find a guy who is sub and early in the relationship mention the road that she and he would like to take (even then theres no 100% this will work) most of us cuckold couples have been together for years before even thinking about cuckold. guys (and women) need to stop calling themselves things that they are not its the same with bulls/doms/and plenty off other thing that they are clearly not .. so now the op can steer clear of them that aint a clue and steer towards finding a relationship that will hopefully blossom and become a cuckold one.. " Just because certain couples started a vanilla relationship and then changed it into a cuckold relationship, it doesn't mean the whole world should follow similar dynamics. I still don't understand why you are concerned about wannabe cucks calling themselves cucks. If a guy is single and he says he is a cuck, I can easily connect the dots and say he is a wannabe cuck. Just like a guy can call himself a sub even if he is not serving anyone at that moment. Imagine a guy who had a relationship in the past where he had a cuckold fantasy that he never had a chance to try out. So in his mind, he had the realisation that he is a cuck. And what about someone who used to be a cuck to his wife and then got divorced? Strictly speaking, he is an ex-cuck. But should we stop him from calling himself a cuck? A pro-domme should stop calling herself that until she gets her first client? These are just words people use to describe themselves. As long as the message is conveyed and others understand it, no one needs to lose sleep over it. We both agree that it must be a loving relationship first before it leads the way to cuckolding. But I wouldn't say stay away from guys who call themselves cucks just as in every group of people with different fetishes, there are people who understand what they are getting into and a big chunk with no clue. It's easy to them out with a small chat. | |||
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"As per the title really. Are there many cucks out there? " It’s easy just walk around the streets saying cuck, cuck cuck and they all come running. | |||
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" Just because certain couples started a vanilla relationship and then changed it into a cuckold relationship, it doesn't mean the whole world should follow similar dynamics. " so ok tell me how you can be in a cuckold relationship if the bond of a vanilla relationship is not there ?? its the bond of the relationship that allows the cuckolding to happen the cuck is a devoted husband/oertner is you dont have that then how the hell can you be cuck ?? thats how cuckold couples get all the feelings and mental side of the cuckold relationship .. so why call yourself a cuck if your not ?? you cant cuckold unless you know each other inside out so how can you cuckold as a single ?? maybe a split personality ? as ive sais all along call your self a want to be cuck but to call yourself a cuck as a single is just bonkers | |||
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"keep it to the forums ive had to block all messaging me due to some nasty men its a debate i have my say you have yours. im not going to shut up just because people want me to so they can carry on ..... so the bully tactics wont work " . Good for you . Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this my favorite subject xx | |||
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"keep it to the forums ive had to block all messaging me due to some nasty men its a debate i have my say you have yours. im not going to shut up just because people want me to so they can carry on ..... so the bully tactics wont work " Sorry to hear this. I actually messaged you too, was curious about the other forums you mentioned? I’ve enjoyed your comments x | |||
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" Just because certain couples started a vanilla relationship and then changed it into a cuckold relationship, it doesn't mean the whole world should follow similar dynamics. so ok tell me how you can be in a cuckold relationship if the bond of a vanilla relationship is not there ?? its the bond of the relationship that allows the cuckolding to happen the cuck is a devoted husband/oertner is you dont have that then how the hell can you be cuck ?? thats how cuckold couples get all the feelings and mental side of the cuckold relationship .. " A couple finding each other through fab, both like the idea of being in a cuckold relationship. They meet each other regularly, go to swinger clubs where the guy plays as her partner and watches her being satisfied by other men. They do go on vanilla dates on the side. But they satisfy their cuckolding urges by doing this meanwhile before getting into a serious relationship. This is a perfectly fine way to start. If we go by dictionary, some dictionaries define a cuckold as someone whose wife is unfaithful to him. If we go by that definition, even relationships which you would accept cannot be called cuckold relationships because they are being honest and that cannot be called unfaithful. But when a husband says he is cuckold in a swingers forum, we know what it means. As long as we all understand what the word conveys, why do we bother? Words are just meant to convey information. | |||
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"As per the title really. Are there many cucks out there? " I was a cuck until it all fell apart | |||
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" Just because certain couples started a vanilla relationship and then changed it into a cuckold relationship, it doesn't mean the whole world should follow similar dynamics. so ok tell me how you can be in a cuckold relationship if the bond of a vanilla relationship is not there ?? its the bond of the relationship that allows the cuckolding to happen the cuck is a devoted husband/oertner is you dont have that then how the hell can you be cuck ?? thats how cuckold couples get all the feelings and mental side of the cuckold relationship .. A couple finding each other through fab, both like the idea of being in a cuckold relationship. They meet each other regularly, go to swinger clubs where the guy plays as her partner and watches her being satisfied by other men. They do go on vanilla dates on the side. But they satisfy their cuckolding urges by doing this meanwhile before getting into a serious relationship. This is a perfectly fine way to start. If we go by dictionary, some dictionaries define a cuckold as someone whose wife is unfaithful to him. If we go by that definition, even relationships which you would accept cannot be called cuckold relationships because they are being honest and that cannot be called unfaithful. But when a husband says he is cuckold in a swingers forum, we know what it means. As long as we all understand what the word conveys, why do we bother? Words are just meant to convey information." vanilla date on the side ? oh boy i really do give in ... as for the definition in the dictionary the no mention that he the cuck does not know so thats a major flaw . trace back in history the meaning cuckold is ... wait for it .... another man to seed his wife .... dont miss the important but his wife weather he knows or not ... look at the end of the day you think your a cuck most will not see you as that but if you want to think your a cuck then go knock your self out ...if it works for you then all the best .. | |||
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"As per the title really. Are there many cucks out there? I was a cuck until it all fell apart " there we go someone who knows .... he was a cuck until it fell apart .... sorry it fell apart hope you find it elsewhere | |||
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"Never intended the cuck life style. Our plan was for me to experiment my possible bi side. Having met a few men for some BJ fun we found ourselves drawn to one in particular who whilst happy to be sucked doesn't even touch my cock. At our last meet having taken him into my mouth straight from my wifes soaking fanny he pumped away till ready to come asking Danni where he should come. She replied in his mouth and I was left tasting my first full mouth full. Where it goes from here I don't know but can't wait for the next meet. " . Wow wow you’re a lucky lucky guy to have a gorgeous sexy wife to treat you like this | |||
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"Never intended the cuck life style. Our plan was for me to experiment my possible bi side. Having met a few men for some BJ fun we found ourselves drawn to one in particular who whilst happy to be sucked doesn't even touch my cock. At our last meet having taken him into my mouth straight from my wifes soaking fanny he pumped away till ready to come asking Danni where he should come. She replied in his mouth and I was left tasting my first full mouth full. Where it goes from here I don't know but can't wait for the next meet. " sounds like your on the right track if your enjoying it | |||
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"Wow! May I suggest some of you go and have a good listen to the Venus cuckold podcast and the keysandanklets podcast before further commenting as some really do need to understand the actual meaning of the cuckold term. Jeebz!!" very good sites but not sure your allowed to name them on the forum hence ive not done so | |||
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" A couple finding each other through fab, both like the idea of being in a cuckold relationship. They meet each other regularly, go to swinger clubs where the guy plays as her partner and watches her being satisfied by other men. They do go on vanilla dates on the side. But they satisfy their cuckolding urges by doing this meanwhile before getting into a serious relationship. This is a perfectly fine way to start. you know before couples become cuckold that they have sex dont you ?? you know thats the whole point that you cant please her as much as others can ? ? so how is you watching someone being fucked that you really dont know cuckold ? you sound like its a fuck buddy thing to see how things work out ? wheres the love the comitment the trust the we are a couple but i fuck others because he cant or is useless ??? that does not come from the start of a relationship ? thats built that cannot be brought off a shelf.. have we hit 175 yet lol" Still some way to go for 175 You are defining cuckolding the way you see it. You say there must be love. But the dictionary definition is not even that. If we go by dictionary definition, the husband of a woman who cheats is a cuckold. These definitions are arbitrary in the end. There isn't a reason to tell people "you should stop calling yourself cuck because that's not how I define it". If someone calls a potato a tomato, it's a problem as that will genuinely confuse people. But within swingers/kinksters when a single guy profile says he is a cuck, we can easily say what he is trying to tell. | |||
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"Wow! May I suggest some of you go and have a good listen to the Venus cuckold podcast and the keysandanklets podcast before further commenting as some really do need to understand the actual meaning of the cuckold term. Jeebz!! very good sites but not sure your allowed to name them on the forum hence ive not done so " Err, I haven't given any website links which is fine as per the rules, Google is fine to search them, also available on Spotify, again not a website. As you were. | |||
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" A couple finding each other through fab, both like the idea of being in a cuckold relationship. They meet each other regularly, go to swinger clubs where the guy plays as her partner and watches her being satisfied by other men. They do go on vanilla dates on the side. But they satisfy their cuckolding urges by doing this meanwhile before getting into a serious relationship. This is a perfectly fine way to start. you know before couples become cuckold that they have sex dont you ?? you know thats the whole point that you cant please her as much as others can ? ? so how is you watching someone being fucked that you really dont know cuckold ? you sound like its a fuck buddy thing to see how things work out ? wheres the love the comitment the trust the we are a couple but i fuck others because he cant or is useless ??? that does not come from the start of a relationship ? thats built that cannot be brought off a shelf.. have we hit 175 yet lol Still some way to go for 175 You are defining cuckolding the way you see it. You say there must be love. But the dictionary definition is not even that. If we go by dictionary definition, the husband of a woman who cheats is a cuckold. These definitions are arbitrary in the end. There isn't a reason to tell people "you should stop calling yourself cuck because that's not how I define it". If someone calls a potato a tomato, it's a problem as that will genuinely confuse people. But within swingers/kinksters when a single guy profile says he is a cuck, we can easily say what he is trying to tell." your still saying a single guy can be a cuck .... explain how a single guy can be a cuck that all we need to know ...but its ok if they call themselves cuck because we all know thay aint ??? thats still not right ... the basic stripped down question is ... can a single guy be a cuck | |||
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"Wow! May I suggest some of you go and have a good listen to the Venus cuckold podcast and the keysandanklets podcast before further commenting as some really do need to understand the actual meaning of the cuckold term. Jeebz!! very good sites but not sure your allowed to name them on the forum hence ive not done so Err, I haven't given any website links which is fine as per the rules, Google is fine to search them, also available on Spotify, again not a website. As you were. " whoa .....lol ok | |||
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" A couple finding each other through fab, both like the idea of being in a cuckold relationship. They meet each other regularly, go to swinger clubs where the guy plays as her partner and watches her being satisfied by other men. They do go on vanilla dates on the side. But they satisfy their cuckolding urges by doing this meanwhile before getting into a serious relationship. This is a perfectly fine way to start. you know before couples become cuckold that they have sex dont you ?? you know thats the whole point that you cant please her as much as others can ? ? so how is you watching someone being fucked that you really dont know cuckold ? you sound like its a fuck buddy thing to see how things work out ? wheres the love the comitment the trust the we are a couple but i fuck others because he cant or is useless ??? that does not come from the start of a relationship ? thats built that cannot be brought off a shelf.. have we hit 175 yet lol Still some way to go for 175 You are defining cuckolding the way you see it. You say there must be love. But the dictionary definition is not even that. If we go by dictionary definition, the husband of a woman who cheats is a cuckold. These definitions are arbitrary in the end. There isn't a reason to tell people "you should stop calling yourself cuck because that's not how I define it". If someone calls a potato a tomato, it's a problem as that will genuinely confuse people. But within swingers/kinksters when a single guy profile says he is a cuck, we can easily say what he is trying to tell. your still saying a single guy can be a cuck .... explain how a single guy can be a cuck that all we need to know ...but its ok if they call themselves cuck because we all know thay aint ??? thats still not right ... the basic stripped down question is ... can a single guy be a cuck " Can a single person be into bdsm? If there is no one to flog you can you still be a submissive? I think there is a difference between liking and having a sexual preferance and being active in that kink. So you could be a single guy with cuckish tenancies who enjoys the scenario. I could see also that a single guy could be a cuck for random meets. I think the difficulty would be around boundaries, there are so many variables in cuckolding that how would you know where a cucks limits are. They can still be humiliated but clearly that angst side of cuckolding would not work with a single guy. So I think yes a single guy can be cucked but there are limits to how that play works. | |||
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" A couple finding each other through fab, both like the idea of being in a cuckold relationship. They meet each other regularly, go to swinger clubs where the guy plays as her partner and watches her being satisfied by other men. They do go on vanilla dates on the side. But they satisfy their cuckolding urges by doing this meanwhile before getting into a serious relationship. This is a perfectly fine way to start. you know before couples become cuckold that they have sex dont you ?? you know thats the whole point that you cant please her as much as others can ? ? so how is you watching someone being fucked that you really dont know cuckold ? you sound like its a fuck buddy thing to see how things work out ? wheres the love the comitment the trust the we are a couple but i fuck others because he cant or is useless ??? that does not come from the start of a relationship ? thats built that cannot be brought off a shelf.. have we hit 175 yet lol Still some way to go for 175 You are defining cuckolding the way you see it. You say there must be love. But the dictionary definition is not even that. If we go by dictionary definition, the husband of a woman who cheats is a cuckold. These definitions are arbitrary in the end. There isn't a reason to tell people "you should stop calling yourself cuck because that's not how I define it". If someone calls a potato a tomato, it's a problem as that will genuinely confuse people. But within swingers/kinksters when a single guy profile says he is a cuck, we can easily say what he is trying to tell. your still saying a single guy can be a cuck .... explain how a single guy can be a cuck that all we need to know ...but its ok if they call themselves cuck because we all know thay aint ??? thats still not right ... the basic stripped down question is ... can a single guy be a cuck Can a single person be into bdsm? If there is no one to flog you can you still be a submissive? I think there is a difference between liking and having a sexual preferance and being active in that kink. So you could be a single guy with cuckish tenancies who enjoys the scenario. I could see also that a single guy could be a cuck for random meets. I think the difficulty would be around boundaries, there are so many variables in cuckolding that how would you know where a cucks limits are. They can still be humiliated but clearly that angst side of cuckolding would not work with a single guy. So I think yes a single guy can be cucked but there are limits to how that play works. " sorry but anyone can be into bdsm as anyone can be involed selet a play mate and off you go the same with most things but to be a cuck you need to be in a relationship with someone.. and no one is saying they cant have cuckish feelings this is just a simple question can you be a cuck as a single ? you can be a swinger and be single because you can play with who you want same with bdsm or being sub but being a cuck means your in a relationship in the first place to be cuckolded you get cuckolded by the person you love and desire if you dont have that desire for your wife /partner the how do you cuck someone ???? a cuck in random meets ??? how ?? thats totally the opposite if the cuck has no real feeling for the so called partner how is that cuckolding ? 95% of cuckolding is mentally between the cuckold couple ...so sorry no a single guy cant be a cuck ...yes he can be a wannabe by all means but he'll never be a cuck until he meets that woman in realife to settle with and gets to know that feeling .... | |||
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"I've had many messages from guys offering to be my cuck because I have it listed as an interest. So I would say there are certainly some out there that claim to be. *Shrugs* I've no interest as I already have one, so never taken them up on their offer. I bet it is hard for them to find someone who is up for it tho! I find it really difficult to find someone who will give me a chance being a first timer on here. I know and understand people want to see verts and that, but surely they were all first timers when they joined on here! The trouble with this is being in a cuckold relationship takes time to develop and grow. You can't instantly become someone's cuck. It just doesn't work on such a superficial level. " Exactly this. Finding a guy who would like to be a cuck will be easy, finding a guy you want a cuckold relationship with that works well, now that's the tricky bit. | |||
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"its a lot easier than finding a decent Bull who also understands what a cuckold relationship is " ah ha totally agree thats a hrad one indeed ... | |||
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"Enjoyed reading this thread. Never started out wanting a cuck relationship but that's where we seem to be. For the duration of our meets I'm there to do what ever they ask sexually. I will not wear female attire, neither will I wear a cage but if Danni says I'm his to do what he wants then I except her instruction without question. " . Lucky lucky guy indeed… thank you x | |||
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"But the one thing I thought would be a given was that you would have to be in a meaningful relationship before becoming a cuck is ever a possibility." Exactly this. I (Bry) can't see how it's possible to be a cuckold outside of a relationship. Without the relationship then surely it's just a sub/sissy/sl@ve/humiliation thing. | |||
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"But the one thing I thought would be a given was that you would have to be in a meaningful relationship before becoming a cuck is ever a possibility. Exactly this. I (Bry) can't see how it's possible to be a cuckold outside of a relationship. Without the relationship then surely it's just a sub/sissy/sl@ve/humiliation thing." . But then that is all about labelling. Do those who desire humiliation and denial (and some level of seeing a woman with another man) as part of a sexual kink need an alternative label or can they fit into the cuckolding category? Do they need to be called cuckalds? So essentially all the same elements as a cuckold apart from the long term relationship. If that is the case where do you draw the line from cuckald to cuckold? 3rd date 3 months 3 years Or is marriage the only thing that can flip someone who follows the same practises from one category to the next? | |||
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"But the one thing I thought would be a given was that you would have to be in a meaningful relationship before becoming a cuck is ever a possibility. Exactly this. I (Bry) can't see how it's possible to be a cuckold outside of a relationship. Without the relationship then surely it's just a sub/sissy/sl@ve/humiliation thing.. But then that is all about labelling. Do those who desire humiliation and denial (and some level of seeing a woman with another man) as part of a sexual kink need an alternative label or can they fit into the cuckolding category? Do they need to be called cuckalds? So essentially all the same elements as a cuckold apart from the long term relationship. If that is the case where do you draw the line from cuckald to cuckold? 3rd date 3 months 3 years Or is marriage the only thing that can flip someone who follows the same practises from one category to the next? " I think there has to be a depth of feeling and respect between those concerned and a commitment to a relationship before I'd class it as cuckolding. I get what you say about labels. As long as both parties understand what each want then it doesn't matter what it's called but if we all agreed what it meant then the OP might find her search easier | |||
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"I love cuckold couples, they are the best xx" Absolutely! If the bull knows the lifestyle it makes it 100% better for everyone. | |||
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"But the one thing I thought would be a given was that you would have to be in a meaningful relationship before becoming a cuck is ever a possibility. Exactly this. I (Bry) can't see how it's possible to be a cuckold outside of a relationship. Without the relationship then surely it's just a sub/sissy/sl@ve/humiliation thing.. But then that is all about labelling. Do those who desire humiliation and denial (and some level of seeing a woman with another man) as part of a sexual kink need an alternative label or can they fit into the cuckolding category? Do they need to be called cuckalds? So essentially all the same elements as a cuckold apart from the long term relationship. If that is the case where do you draw the line from cuckald to cuckold? 3rd date 3 months 3 years Or is marriage the only thing that can flip someone who follows the same practises from one category to the next? " you can pretend all you want nobody can stop that as that is life nobody not saying that and you can have desires yo be or try nobody not saying that either but dont break something to make it fit or lie the very basic's of cuckold is there in plain sight to see it is what it is people in longterm loving relationships .... if people dont get that then whats the point lets go ahead and mix all the labels of life up ... you cannot be a cuck if your not in a long term relationship its just that plain and simple ...how can you have all those feeling if you dont have your wife/partner .... heres the deal most of these guys who think they want to be cuck do so because they like the kinks ...wearing fem undies .... eating creampie .... voyger ....sissy .... many many more they are all kinks not one of them make you a cuck what makes you a cuck is the person you love ie wife/partner thats 100% where the term cuckold comes in to it a partner that likes to cheat (old term) or as we put it today preferers sex with others but still wants there relationship ...take the relationship away you have nothing but a handful of kinks... theres no ''singles'' in cuckold they can want and they can be looking they can get into the kinks they like to do and would want if in a relationship but untill such a time they will be just sub guys... where do we draw the line well thats easy ... being married or in a long term relationship where the couple are deeply in love cause it cant work with out that element it just impossible without the feelings being cuckold is alot more than sexual...... | |||
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"As per the title really. Are there many cucks out there? " Does it count? If you’re not already emotionally attached, can they actually be your cuck? | |||
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"I’m definitely looking for a relationship where I’m a cuck bf" Me too | |||
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"As per the title really. Are there many cucks out there? " Surprised you haven’t found one yet | |||
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"As per the title really. Are there many cucks out there? " I know a couple but they're the other side of the country from you. | |||
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"I’ve been a cuck as part of a D/s relationship, my Mistress didn’t want to have sex with me because of my tiny cock but still needed to satisfy her desires so she would sleep with other men. Sometimes I’d be involved in a small way, sometimes I’d just be allowed to watch and sometimes it was just the two of them. I was in love with her so seeing her with another man was difficult for me but the most difficult thing was knowing I wasn’t able to satisfy her myself and if I could she wouldn’t sleep with other men. I totally understood why she did it and I just wanted her to be happy so although it was difficult I knew it was the best thing for our relationship to work. " That's a great comment m8. It's nice to see you knew the role you were to play and accepted it the way that you did. Well done you. I know exactly what you mean by saying all that. There's a lot of guys like yourself on here but not enough who can tell people on here your story. | |||
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"I’ve been a cuck as part of a D/s relationship, my Mistress didn’t want to have sex with me because of my tiny cock but still needed to satisfy her desires so she would sleep with other men. Sometimes I’d be involved in a small way, sometimes I’d just be allowed to watch and sometimes it was just the two of them. I was in love with her so seeing her with another man was difficult for me but the most difficult thing was knowing I wasn’t able to satisfy her myself and if I could she wouldn’t sleep with other men. I totally understood why she did it and I just wanted her to be happy so although it was difficult I knew it was the best thing for our relationship to work. That's a great comment m8. It's nice to see you knew the role you were to play and accepted it the way that you did. Well done you. I know exactly what you mean by saying all that. There's a lot of guys like yourself on here but not enough who can tell people on here your story. " Thanks Jack, I’m glad you liked my comments. I’m a naturally submissive person in all aspects of life so I’ve known for a long while what my role is and have accepted my place as someone who is inferior to most and I behave accordingly. I’ve also always known that my tiny penis will stop me being able to satisfy women as I’d like to and I will mostly be rejected because of it so I’m always glad and appreciative of anyone who can see past it and gives me a chance to prove myself in other ways. | |||
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"I’ve been a cuck as part of a D/s relationship, my Mistress didn’t want to have sex with me because of my tiny cock but still needed to satisfy her desires so she would sleep with other men. Sometimes I’d be involved in a small way, sometimes I’d just be allowed to watch and sometimes it was just the two of them. I was in love with her so seeing her with another man was difficult for me but the most difficult thing was knowing I wasn’t able to satisfy her myself and if I could she wouldn’t sleep with other men. I totally understood why she did it and I just wanted her to be happy so although it was difficult I knew it was the best thing for our relationship to work. That's a great comment m8. It's nice to see you knew the role you were to play and accepted it the way that you did. Well done you. I know exactly what you mean by saying all that. There's a lot of guys like yourself on here but not enough who can tell people on here your story. Thanks Jack, I’m glad you liked my comments. I’m a naturally submissive person in all aspects of life so I’ve known for a long while what my role is and have accepted my place as someone who is inferior to most and I behave accordingly. I’ve also always known that my tiny penis will stop me being able to satisfy women as I’d like to and I will mostly be rejected because of it so I’m always glad and appreciative of anyone who can see past it and gives me a chance to prove myself in other ways. " Im sure that you will get a chance to prove yourself in other ways m8.don't give up .brilliant story m8 | |||
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