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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi me and my husband are trying for our first baby, so swaping is an NO NO, but we both miss the scene already,
Has anybody had this problem?
Have they ever play while being pregnant?
How about no intercourse, playing? BJs etc.
I love the idea of men cuming on my breasts, but what are the risk?
id love to know what people think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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personally i think 9 months out of your swinging life is a small price to pay to make sure you and your unborn child is safe
Thats not to say i dont think women should swing when pregnant but i would never have |
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"Hi me and my husband are trying for our first baby, so swaping is an NO NO, but we both miss the scene already,
Has anybody had this problem?
Have they ever play while being pregnant?
How about no intercourse, playing? BJs etc.
I love the idea of men cuming on my breasts, but what are the risk?
No risk really just do soft swap. Your profile says safe sex any way, but everyone will understand if you're trying for a baby.
But blowjobs, etc no more risk of anything than when you played before.
Good luck and have fun!
id love to know what people think."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with naughty nympho's...9 months isn't much is it? If you're missing the scene how about going to clubs and enjoying the company & lifestyle but then just have the sex with your bloke with an audience? That way you stay safe, baby stays safe & you still get the buzz? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldnt and tbh i didnt think about it was too busy thinking about becoming a mum , when i hit my 6 months i became really horny the hubby was worn out but sex was just for him no one else xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the idea of men cuming on my breasts, but what are the risk?
Well from memory - and admittedly sex ed was never that great at school - I don't think there's much chance of you getting pregnant from taking a load on the norks!  |
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over a year ago
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Like so many guys, I find pregnant women, especially heavily pregnant women to be incredibly sexy and very much hope I'll have the chance to enjoy some great sex with such a lady, but ultimately as has already been said the safety of your unborn child is first and foremost. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldnt and tbh i didnt think about it was too busy thinking about becoming a mum , when i hit my 6 months i became really horny the hubby was worn out but sex was just for him no one else xx"
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I think i may have missed the point of this post, where does 9 months come into it;
I thought they were 'trying' for a baby as in trying to conceive rather than Sophie being pregnant already so it may take a lot longer than 9 months.
In fact i can understand the hesitation more if they are 'trying' rather than already pregnant.
There are lots of ways to have fun without penetrative sex from anyone but Jack, explain to the person / people you are meeting.
I am sure there will be no issues, or is this just me being open minded ?
As for cum on your tits... just make the his lady or even him lick it off (yeh okay i am evil)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Soft play , putting on a show and with protection even intercourse would be fine wouldn't it ?
Not sure why it is seen as wrong to play when pregnant as it's such a turn on and so many women are more horn than ever when pregnant .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Soft play , putting on a show and with protection even intercourse would be fine wouldn't it ?
Not sure why it is seen as wrong to play when pregnant as it's such a turn on and so many women are more horn than ever when pregnant .
X"
totally agree with the above..although as accidents can happen if trying for a baby unless you are wanting the risk I'd stick to soft play till actually pregnant.
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was advised by my doc not to have sex for the first 3 months of my pregnancy, so if you do get pregnant and are advised the same then definitely take it on board |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Me and my partner stuck to soft swop while we were trying to conceive n saved full penetration for ourselves only. As for sex during pregnancy, it's perfectly safe as long as you are not advised otherwise by a health professional, tho they do tend to advise positions where you control penetration such as the female on top for example. And believe me wen the second trimester hits n your hormones change believe me u will be uncontrollably horny, I hav days where it's doesnt matter how many times I hav it I never feel satisfied. Hope this helps n best of luck in trying to conceive xxx |
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with sex during pregnancy, unless advised not to by your doctor.
However, pesonally, there are certain things that I'd just want to share with my partner. Some couples don't kiss others - that's special just for them, trying for a baby and being pregnant was a very special time for my husband and I and for the life of me I coudn't imagine wanting to share my body with some horny stranger from a swingers site.
But we are all different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is absolutely nothing wrong with sex during pregnancy, unless advised not to by your doctor.
However, pesonally, there are certain things that I'd just want to share with my partner. Some couples don't kiss others - that's special just for them, trying for a baby and being pregnant was a very special time for my husband and I and for the life of me I coudn't imagine wanting to share my body with some horny stranger from a swingers site.
But we are all different."
Could make for interesting conception story I know you are not full swapping but baby could still be conceived at a meet.
There was a couple on here we chatted to for awhile that we're trying to conceive at the time and it put us right off. Nothing wrong with it just not something we would consider. |
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"Soft play , putting on a show and with protection even intercourse would be fine wouldn't it ?
Not sure why it is seen as wrong to play when pregnant as it's such a turn on and so many women are more horn than ever when pregnant .
X
totally agree with the above..although as accidents can happen if trying for a baby unless you are wanting the risk I'd stick to soft play till actually pregnant.
Cali"
Agreed with Cali. I wouldn't full swap whilst trying to get pregnant and then probably for the first couple of months after conception but after that I wouldn't have a problem, as long as I had control!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"personally i think 9 months out of your swinging life is a small price to pay to make sure you and your unborn child is safe
Thats not to say i dont think women should swing when pregnant but i would never have"
This is true, unfortunately what ever the you use, nothing will give you 100% protection.
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i wouldnt even swing if i was trying for a baby
if you got herpies you wouldnt even be able to give birth to your child you would have to have a section if it was close to your due date
think hard about your unborn babies life
take 9 months out you will have pleny of time to catch up
good luck x |
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Well I'm glad we didn't stop swinging whilst trying. Almost 3 and a half years later and here we still are, trying.
Do what's right for you, not what others think you should do. I personally always explain to potential meets our situation and give them a fully informed choice of what they want to do. |
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