Im not going to get into a debate about what is and isn’t sexist but what about gay saunas or the other things out there for men only.
I’m talking about one night for bi or lesbian women who don’t want to play girl on girl at a normal swingers night as they don’t want it to be a show. Women who just want to feel safe to explore with out a man having wank 2 foot from them. Not a big ask really |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Im not going to get into a debate about what is and isn’t sexist but what about gay saunas or the other things out there for men only.
I’m talking about one night for bi or lesbian women who don’t want to play girl on girl at a normal swingers night as they don’t want it to be a show. Women who just want to feel safe to explore with out a man having wank 2 foot from them. Not a big ask really "
I’m pretty sure gyms run women only classes and have times when only women are allowed in the swimming pool as there must be a lot of women who feel uncomfortable doing exercise with men there. I don’t see any difference between that and what you’re planning.
If there’s a market for it and it enables people to do something they want to do without feeling anxious then I can’t see why anyone would question it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Im not going to get into a debate about what is and isn’t sexist but what about gay saunas or the other things out there for men only.
I’m talking about one night for bi or lesbian women who don’t want to play girl on girl at a normal swingers night as they don’t want it to be a show. Women who just want to feel safe to explore with out a man having wank 2 foot from them. Not a big ask really "
Love your reply! I second it, by saying Fab guys, no females aloud. Along with Tv/ cd nights in clubs. Being pansexual, I play with gurls. But are not aloud to enter on these nights.
I've been lucky to have lots of female only action in clubs. But it breaks the play when men join, only to be told back off! Girls only.
Swindon too far for me, but good luck for your party. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *inx xoWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
I think a girls night is a fantastic idea, I would love to explore myself with other women, as I have never done that before, but would be totally put off having men wanking standing close by, this is very inhibiting. I want to feel able to relax and fully enjoy the experience. Swindon is a little too far for me but love the idea! I wish you well with organising it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Hope this event works out OP. Its a great idea. Good luck!
(Men are great, i adore them, i really do, but as others have said an event for only ladies to be able to explore and relax would be great. There are lots of men only clubs or sites. Its kinda crap people have to justify putting on a ladies only event  ) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Club near to me used to have ladies only downstairs nights, so couples could attend and the hubbies had to stay upstairs. Great for those ladies that didn't want to attend on their own but then went off with single ladies and ladies of couples...
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Looking at helping to set up a lady’s only night at our local club, if your interested give us a message and we can give you a update when it’s organised.
Molly xx"
What a great idea, shame your so far away x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Hope this event works out OP. Its a great idea. Good luck!
(Men are great, i adore them, i really do, but as others have said an event for only ladies to be able to explore and relax would be great. There are lots of men only clubs or sites. Its kinda crap people have to justify putting on a ladies only event ) "
Couldn't agree more!
L is welcome to play alone with ladies, privately or in a club. I don't have to be there unless it's agreed. And I never sit there and wank, really ruins the atmosphere to be honest.
She's said if I ever wanted equality, that would be fine with her. It's not going to happen but we both like to think relationships should be about everyone getting something out of it
A |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Would it be appropriate for women who just want to meet other like-minded women, and who don’t necessarily want to play but do want to socialise? Or just a ‘play without presence of men’ scenario? I quite like the idea but afraid I would feel too much pressure to ‘explore’ x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Would it be appropriate for women who just want to meet other like-minded women, and who don’t necessarily want to play but do want to socialise? Or just a ‘play without presence of men’ scenario? I quite like the idea but afraid I would feel too much pressure to ‘explore’ x"
The idea is to do or not do what you want, it’s social with play if you want it. The last thing we want is for anyone to feel pressure, there will be hopefully a local sextoy shop there as well with the option to buy and have a look at toys that are just for women sold by women. Hope that helps.
Molly
xX |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"What night of the week? I identify as a woman on Tuesdays, Thursdays and every second weekend.  "
Good try but it’s for women who are living as women 24-7 so I’m afraid you won’t meet the criteria this time.
Molly
xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Great idea. I like to swing with my husband, part of the appeal for me is we do it together, however as a single woman would have loved this, as when I was working out my sexuality always had difficulty knowing how to talk to other women and worrying if they were straight and likely to be offended. This kind of event would have been a lot more comfortable trying to find my feet so to speak without being wanked at
Good luck x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
x
