A chilled fun meeting with respect and obviously a connection… oh and it’s got to be a fem or cpl, not Harry who says his gf has the flu and lost a leg in a washing machine accident, so just so happens can’t make the meet  |
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"A good relaxed meet with a connection with plenty laughs thrown in too.Never forget the social side of swinging 
Exactly. If all single guys had this attitude fab would be a better place  "
If everyone thought the same way then they'd be no problems in the world. Don't be bashing singles guys when couples and women can be just as bad if not worse |
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"A good relaxed meet with a connection with plenty laughs thrown in too.Never forget the social side of swinging
Exactly. If all single guys had this attitude fab would be a better place "
We are rare or harder to find either way social side is always important to me  |
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By *j2000Man
over a year ago
mayo |
A chance to be honest, alot of women write off Single Men with out ever giving a chance, great guy's are single for lots of reasons, separation, divorce plus others.
Would just like a chance and a open mind
Sorry rant over lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A chilled fun meeting with respect and obviously a connection… oh and it’s got to be a fem or cpl, not Harry who says his gf has the flu and lost a leg in a washing machine accident, so just so happens can’t make the meet "
Definitely, hear that all too often! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A chance to be honest, alot of women write off Single Men with out ever giving a chance, great guy's are single for lots of reasons, separation, divorce plus others.
Would just like a chance and a open mind
Sorry rant over lol
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I agree it’s hard for single men but I take folk as I find them |
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Conversation, chemistry, connection , cake & a little bit of flirting if the chemistry is right - Relaxed , no pressure or expectations and to go with the flow. Hopefully enjoying each others company - Making new friendships . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would initially love to meet socially first to make a connection and relax in a no pressure situation. I know it may sound corny but I really want to explore and enjoy intellectually as well as physically. Whilst nsa appeals I do want to be able to enjoy the meeting not just on a sexual level. What's the point in a quick stage when you can get so much more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d like a first meet to be the woman I’ve seen the photos of, a relaxed chilled social first and moving onto fun if the chemistry is there with plans for future meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Something long term, not a one off or one night stand. Would be nice to build a friendship and trust but also be able to go out for a social once in a while |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
"Ok single men, what is the one thing you would like from a meet? "
A connection as in mentally and physically, good conversation, not all sex talk, no pressure either way and a relaxed atmosphere, without all that the magic will not happen. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
To meet for a drink and a chat to get to know each other, then if all are agreed head to the room for relaxed fun where there are plenty of laughs and everyone is enjoying it.
All 3 of us leaving wanting more.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A good relaxed meet with a connection with plenty laughs thrown in too.Never forget the social side of swinging
Exactly. If all single guys had this attitude fab would be a better place "
I tried that yesterday and got blown out; they were ‘just looking to fuck’. That’s fine, it was their preference, so I’ve no issue directly.
It’s just a kick in the soft bits when you ‘play the Fab game’ and not just focus on sex like you’re generally told to, but then you lose out because you weren’t just after sex. 
It’s hard enough with bias against single blokes/attached men playing alone and the sheer ratio to single women/couples, without second guessing whether you’re doing the right thing. |
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