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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ive wanted to try taking anal sex but just scared of it hurting or damaging me had one guy try but he was big and just managed to get maybe a inch in but then it was a burning stinging feeling so i asked him to stop anyone else felt this how can i move forward as really want to experience losing my cherry. help advise please |
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First thing, ye can't just shove it in and expect it to work, that'll cause damage to the muscles.
I would start small, using fingers or a small toy then work up from that. It isn't an overnight thing. Make sure to use plenty of lube as well.  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"First thing, ye can't just shove it in and expect it to work, that'll cause damage to the muscles.
I would start small, using fingers or a small toy then work up from that. It isn't an overnight thing. Make sure to use plenty of lube as well. "
Sage advice. Don't use numbing cream or relaxants either.
Warm up the sphincters and ease into it slowly.
You can't quicklystretch out your flesh or skin.
The stinging sensation goes after a while, if he's girthy.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A smaller winkle? Lol Lube as abobe and try toys to break yourself in maybe a little. "
thank you all for advise i will take all you have all comented on thank you so much
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When you think you've used enough lube, add more!
I love anal but I cant go straight into it! I have to warm up! Invest in a nice anal training set, use them alone each day and build up, and before you have anal sex, warm up by going up the sizes before doing the act itself!! It feels absolutely amazing when done right!! |
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As others have do things slowly with a trusted partner.
When I first started sleeping with men I was a bit like a boy in a sweetie shop letting anyone fuck me, but now I only do anal with guys I've taken the time to know and won't hurt me.
I also make sure I've worn my butt plug in the hours before a new encounter! |
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"As others have do things slowly with a trusted partner.
When I first started sleeping with men I was a bit like a boy in a sweetie shop letting anyone fuck me, but now I only do anal with guys I've taken the time to know and won't hurt me.
I also make sure I've worn my butt plug in the hours before a new encounter!"
Ps..enjoy it OP, it's one of the most fantastic sexual experiences |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When you think you've used enough lube, add more!
I love anal but I cant go straight into it! I have to warm up! Invest in a nice anal training set, use them alone each day and build up, and before you have anal sex, warm up by going up the sizes before doing the act itself!! It feels absolutely amazing when done right!! "
mmm anal set souns great would j get one from sex shop and thank thou for advise and also to everyones advises many thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you think you've used enough lube, add more!
I love anal but I cant go straight into it! I have to warm up! Invest in a nice anal training set, use them alone each day and build up, and before you have anal sex, warm up by going up the sizes before doing the act itself!! It feels absolutely amazing when done right!! mmm anal set souns great would j get one from sex shop and thank thou for advise and also to everyones advises many thanks"
Sex toy shop or I bought mine online. I got one set from ann summers and one from bondara. Love honey is a great online shop too |
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It takes time …. Relaxation is key for me
My gay mate who I reg with… I’m that relaxed with him now, we don’t need lube (a little spit) but he slides right in as relaxed and trust
It’s worth all the work - such an amazing feeling |
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