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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I do wonder about people in senior positions at companies and how/if they attend clubs. It might be so scandalous to be recognised by the team members in the midst of playing at a club. Especially if they know you but you have no clue who they were .
Popped into my head as I am getting a promotion and worried about being seen in a club  |
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By *mizhereMan
over a year ago
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Used to meet a guy for sexually and once as inwas parking I saw a senior manager at my company leave his house with a kiss
I said I knew him and he said we all like what we like
I never got it on with the manager but had he offered l would have |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m finance director for a well know multinational brand
Haven’t come across anyone I know yet, but wouldn’t have thought it would be a problem if I did
Just means we would have something in common and I’m sure they would want to keep it as private as we do.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It shouldn't make any difference what position you are in a company but sadly some will use it to their advantage"
That's what I fear there arenthose who broadcast they are on the scene but I prefer to keep that side of my life out of work |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"It shouldn't make any difference what position you are in a company but sadly some will use it to their advantage
That's what I fear there arenthose who broadcast they are on the scene but I prefer to keep that side of my life out of work "
Don't talk about work then.. or if you do have a roll that is interesting but unassuming financially?
I understand your hesitancy in more public settings. If that's a worry then play outside your area. Come to think of it, as I have steered away from clubs, most professionals I've met have been at distance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do wonder about people in senior positions at companies and how/if they attend clubs. It might be so scandalous to be recognised by the team members in the midst of playing at a club. Especially if they know you but you have no clue who they were .
Popped into my head as I am getting a promotion and worried about being seen in a club "
That's why clubs have rules:
- no cameras or phones
- what happens inside, stays inside
Also, people have three types of lives: public, private, secret. The last two are nobody's business unless you are invited and allowed to share them. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"I do wonder about people in senior positions at companies and how/if they attend clubs. It might be so scandalous to be recognised by the team members in the midst of playing at a club. Especially if they know you but you have no clue who they were .
Popped into my head as I am getting a promotion and worried about being seen in a club
That's why clubs have rules:
- no cameras or phones
- what happens inside, stays inside
Also, people have three types of lives: public, private, secret. The last two are nobody's business unless you are invited and allowed to share them."
Easier said than done. An old boss of mine had an affair with a woman maybe 3 times his younger, somehow it got out (I think because she wanted a promotion), neither of them kept their jobs.
If someone wants to be a dick they will be, how you sit with disclosing who you are the higher up the chain you are is up to you but shouldn't stop you from having the fun you want or that everybody else has. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's why clubs have rules:
- no cameras or phones
- what happens inside, stays inside
Also, people have three types of lives: public, private, secret. The last two are nobody's business unless you are invited and allowed to share them.
Easier said than done. An old boss of mine had an affair with a woman maybe 3 times his younger, somehow it got out (I think because she wanted a promotion), neither of them kept their jobs.
If someone wants to be a dick they will be, how you sit with disclosing who you are the higher up the chain you are is up to you but shouldn't stop you from having the fun you want or that everybody else has."
Rule number 1: don't screw the crew |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
From my experiences, circumspection is key when one is involved in swinging; everyone talks, so minimisation of risk is vital.
Ireland is a very small place where everyone knows everyone else's business, to a greater or lesser extent.
Myself and my former met another couple fairly regularly, and when we got to trust each other, this led over several months to regular BB DVP, an intense experience for all of us.
Our arrangement never leaked out into the public domain; our foursomes, some of which were recorded, are kept under lock and key-securely.
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