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"So it did previously affect you?
I wouldn't feel comfortable slating anyone's body"
Yes, it used to affect me a lot when I was younger as I got teased about it at school and it definitely held me back when it came to relationships with women (or lack of as I was too anxious about it to get into a relationship) but as I’ve got older I care less what people think of me and just accept the way I am. I was having sex with men for years before I had sex with a woman because I felt more comfortable with men seeing me naked than women.
Thanks for being kind and not slating my body, even though by saying that you’re implying that if you were going to comment on my body/dick you’d only be able to slate it haha, I appreciate you choosing to say nothing rather than say something negative though. |
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"So it did previously affect you?
I wouldn't feel comfortable slating anyone's body
Yes, it used to affect me a lot when I was younger as I got teased about it at school and it definitely held me back when it came to relationships with women (or lack of as I was too anxious about it to get into a relationship) but as I’ve got older I care less what people think of me and just accept the way I am. I was having sex with men for years before I had sex with a woman because I felt more comfortable with men seeing me naked than women.
Thanks for being kind and not slating my body, even though by saying that you’re implying that if you were going to comment on my body/dick you’d only be able to slate it haha, I appreciate you choosing to say nothing rather than say something negative though. "
Yes..I can see how being teased would have such negative impact. I think as we get older we do care less about what other's think, and rightly so!
You mentioned shame and to me that is slating someone.
There is so much more to appreciate about a man than their cock x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So it did previously affect you?
I wouldn't feel comfortable slating anyone's body
Yes, it used to affect me a lot when I was younger as I got teased about it at school and it definitely held me back when it came to relationships with women (or lack of as I was too anxious about it to get into a relationship) but as I’ve got older I care less what people think of me and just accept the way I am. I was having sex with men for years before I had sex with a woman because I felt more comfortable with men seeing me naked than women.
Thanks for being kind and not slating my body, even though by saying that you’re implying that if you were going to comment on my body/dick you’d only be able to slate it haha, I appreciate you choosing to say nothing rather than say something negative though.
Yes..I can see how being teased would have such negative impact. I think as we get older we do care less about what other's think, and rightly so!
You mentioned shame and to me that is slating someone.
There is so much more to appreciate about a man than their cock x"
It wasn’t particularly cruel teasing, I think my mates just thought it was a bit of a laugh but it definitely affected me but I’m sure that if they hadn’t done it I’d still have been anxious about it as I’d still have known it was small so I’d have had all the same worries and insecurities.
I’m glad you think that but women have said that to me before and in the end it has become an issue for them but I know it really doesn’t matter to some women so I have no reason to doubt that it doesn’t matter to you. It really used to annoy me because I am a nice person and I like to think I’m good company (I have plenty of friends anyway so I’m doing something right haha) but all I could think about was that I have a tiny cock so no one will ever want to be with me. |
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