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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Being a single guy I don't really get many messages so I have to make the first move and contact those that I might want to meet with.
I was wondering whether it's the same for couples and single women when it comes to arranging meets?
I'm guessing you receive a lot of messages, so do you just sift through them and pick out the ones that you like or do you tend to ignore most messages and look yourself for potentials to meet.
Or is it bit of both? |
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I can only speak for me personally but i am passive on the site in that i dont look generally unless i happen to be reading the foums etc and something "catches my eye"
0therwise it is from people who contact me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes its almost exactly the same.
As a couple we get our time wasted by other couples just as much as by singles.
Other couples can act like real dickheads although to be fair Mrs Dickhead probably doesnt know Mr Dickhead is arranging things in joint names then disappearing or not turning up at all.
We had a couple contact us very recently -Nice and polite, full of compliments but when we mentioned we couldnt turn up at the drop of a hat they ( HE ) just blanked us. No further mails not even a thanks anyway lol. Funny thing is this particular Mr Dickhead has 'NO TIMEWATERS' Spatted all over his couple profile.
I think genuine messages shine out as you know immediately that the writer has taken the time too ensure both parties are compatible before messaging.
We do tend to ignore those who obviously havent researched what type of meets we're looking for or ignored our preferences. Anything beginning with 'HEY' goes sraight into room 101 as does no pic or text speak. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sift, but if I get along with folk in chat I'll tend to answer their messages before folk I haven't chatted to at all. I don't browse unless it's from seeing someone in chat or forums who I've liked for whatever reason   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like most posters I do a bit of both.
I appreciate that most ladies are swamped with messages and even couples, so I won't add to the heap by messaging unless I find something about them very appealing, be it looks, imagination or just plain old sex appeal.
Therefore I get a lot of meets merely by replying to the messages I receive. Its one hurdle out of the way as I know that those contacting me are already looking and find me attractive in some way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bit of both for us. We not looking for new playmates ATM as we got what we want but when we were I would through messages and also have a search myself. I'd say we met several both ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't get swamped with messages anymore. I used to and it did my head in so I tweaked my preferences/ who I'm looking for and now I get one message in a blue moon.
That works fine for me as I prefer to go looking. I am very specific in what I'm looking for, so not much point in most people mailing me. Much better if I find them.
So far it's going great. I highly recommend it! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
As gangbang groups tend not to go hunting, I have to look for them. Luckily they make it easy.
Out of all the guys I have met, I'd say it was 70% them messaging me, and 30% me messaging them. |
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I prefer to go looking for myself.... I know what I like and find it easier to find profiles which catch my eye and focus my attention on them.
If I had to rely on sifting through the dross which stacks up in my inbox some weeks........ I wouldn't have half the fun. |
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