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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, What's peeps opinions on extreme graphic sexually explicit detailed sometimes essay type 1ST DM, with a Cock-Shot or Dick-Pic  attached???
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Cock-Shot = Attractive Penis
Dick-Pic = F`Ugly Penis
I personally find them too creepy, freaky & just too perv weird when no connection rapport chemistry or convo has been formed... & Most of the time I haven't even a clue what the sender looks like...I do receive quite alot & IMO ye just come across as Sickos
  
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As they are always cut and paste there's no thought gone into them and I guess it's the online equivalent of a flasher...gets his kicks by trying to shock but it's unlikely that anyone on here is easily shocked. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As they are always cut and paste there's no thought gone into them and I guess it's the online equivalent of a flasher...gets his kicks by trying to shock but it's unlikely that anyone on here is easily shocked."
Yup...you said it..."The online equivalent of a flasher" I've often referred to the unsolicited Dick-Pic senders or Cock-Shot senders as Flashers, that's exactly what they are & there's many of them here...ha
 
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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"As they are always cut and paste there's no thought gone into them and I guess it's the online equivalent of a flasher...gets his kicks by trying to shock but it's unlikely that anyone on here is easily shocked."
Absolutely agree with this. Those types of messages are usually instantly blocked, or at the very least put on unread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As they are always cut and paste there's no thought gone into them and I guess it's the online equivalent of a flasher...gets his kicks by trying to shock but it's unlikely that anyone on here is easily shocked."
Yeah this. It's creepy and pervy, like flashing someone in a park. 
I understand why they do it though - the site is full of sex pics and sex reviews and sex menus. |
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I have provided to some quite long and explicit messages but not on a first message and only when initiated by the other person, eg being asked what I would like to do with them. Without having had some prior correspondence how would I know what turns them on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On this site, we do not mind as it's very easy to delete, skim through delte and delte, put poster on ignore. It's good in a way that they out themselves like that.
The others i ignore are those that just send a few words or pushy and pretend to have control. |
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We had one a while ago that was so obviously a copy paste from a previous message because they'd accidentally copied the time stamp you get at the bottom.  Not only that but they'd also sent the exact same essay to us 3 years previously |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, it’s weird.
On the positive front, it does mean you know immediately you don’t need to entertain their messages any further, so consider it a time saver!  "
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"I like it. Maybe not the very first message though "
The point is that explicit messages can be fun, and may also be welcomed - but assuming they will be from the outset and sending someone filth as a first message if they haven’t explicitly requested it in their profile is weird, inconsiderate and just plain rude. |
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"Hi, What's peeps opinions on extreme graphic sexually explicit detailed sometimes essay type 1ST DM, with a Cock-Shot or Dick-Pic attached???
Note -
Cock-Shot = Attractive Penis
Dick-Pic = F`Ugly Penis
I personally find them too creepy, freaky & just too perv weird when no connection rapport chemistry or convo has been formed... & Most of the time I haven't even a clue what the sender looks like...I do receive quite alot & IMO ye just come across as Sickos
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How are you judging an attractive penis to an ugly one …. ?
I think mines the most handsome   |
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By *adetMan
over a year ago
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"I like it. Maybe not the very first message though
The point is that explicit messages can be fun, and may also be welcomed - but assuming they will be from the outset and sending someone filth as a first message if they haven’t explicitly requested it in their profile is weird, inconsiderate and just plain rude. "
It doesn't particularly bother me. It does bother you. Viva la difference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to get a little bit of a warm up introduction first. However, if its a nice enough intro and they are good at writing I'm happy enough for them to get very expressive quickly. But if it just a couple of lines going I'm going to do xyz then its boring. But not as boring as the endless hi how are you one liners that go nowhere. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"I like it. Maybe not the very first message though
The point is that explicit messages can be fun, and may also be welcomed - but assuming they will be from the outset and sending someone filth as a first message if they haven’t explicitly requested it in their profile is weird, inconsiderate and just plain rude.
It doesn't particularly bother me. It does bother you. Viva la difference "
Do you mean it doesn’t bother you to be sending them to people who haven’t invited them, or to be receiving them from people who haven’t spoken to you before? |
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By *adetMan
over a year ago
South of Ipswich |
"I like it. Maybe not the very first message though
The point is that explicit messages can be fun, and may also be welcomed - but assuming they will be from the outset and sending someone filth as a first message if they haven’t explicitly requested it in their profile is weird, inconsiderate and just plain rude.
It doesn't particularly bother me. It does bother you. Viva la difference
Do you mean it doesn’t bother you to be sending them to people who haven’t invited them, or to be receiving them from people who haven’t spoken to you before?"
It doesnt bother me receiving them |
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"As they are always cut and paste there's no thought gone into them and I guess it's the online equivalent of a flasher...gets his kicks by trying to shock but it's unlikely that anyone on here is easily shocked."
Exactly this. Sad, desperate and disgusting. Not disimilar from the sort of guys who start a conversation politely then suddenly say something disgusting totally out of the blue and start talking dirty.
They go straight on our block list. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I like it. Maybe not the very first message though
The point is that explicit messages can be fun, and may also be welcomed - but assuming they will be from the outset and sending someone filth as a first message if they haven’t explicitly requested it in their profile is weird, inconsiderate and just plain rude.
It doesn't particularly bother me. It does bother you. Viva la difference
Do you mean it doesn’t bother you to be sending them to people who haven’t invited them, or to be receiving them from people who haven’t spoken to you before?
It doesnt bother me receiving them"
Well that’s a different thing to assuming they will be welcome and sending them as a first message, isn’t it? If you are happy to receive them, enjoy! |
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By *adetMan
over a year ago
South of Ipswich |
"I like it. Maybe not the very first message though
The point is that explicit messages can be fun, and may also be welcomed - but assuming they will be from the outset and sending someone filth as a first message if they haven’t explicitly requested it in their profile is weird, inconsiderate and just plain rude.
It doesn't particularly bother me. It does bother you. Viva la difference
Do you mean it doesn’t bother you to be sending them to people who haven’t invited them, or to be receiving them from people who haven’t spoken to you before?
It doesnt bother me receiving them
Well that’s a different thing to assuming they will be welcome and sending them as a first message, isn’t it? If you are happy to receive them, enjoy! "
Thank you I will |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi, What's peeps opinions on extreme graphic sexually explicit detailed sometimes essay type 1ST DM, with a Cock-Shot or Dick-Pic attached???
Note -
Cock-Shot = Attractive Penis
Dick-Pic = F`Ugly Penis
I personally find them too creepy, freaky & just too perv weird when no connection rapport chemistry or convo has been formed... & Most of the time I haven't even a clue what the sender looks like...I do receive quite alot & IMO ye just come across as Sickos
How are you judging an attractive penis to an ugly one …. ?
I think mines the most handsome "
^^^^^^^ How do I know an attractive penis from an ugly one...by appearance obsviously... & some unsolicited Dick-Pics I receive are clearly STI infected & not to mention coated in smegma & other yellowy/green fluid... Fk now I've just put myself off my food for the day & I feel suddenly ill . (Soz if I've made others feel ill too if you stumble across this comment)
Unfortunately having a photographic memory has it's disadvantages at times ...I always zoom in & check these
Dick-Pics out obsv  |
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"Hi, What's peeps opinions on extreme graphic sexually explicit detailed sometimes essay type 1ST DM, with a Cock-Shot or Dick-Pic attached???
Note -
Cock-Shot = Attractive Penis
Dick-Pic = F`Ugly Penis
I personally find them too creepy, freaky & just too perv weird when no connection rapport chemistry or convo has been formed... & Most of the time I haven't even a clue what the sender looks like...I do receive quite alot & IMO ye just come across as Sickos
How are you judging an attractive penis to an ugly one …. ?
I think mines the most handsome
^^^^^^^ How do I know an attractive penis from an ugly one...by appearance obsviously... & some unsolicited Dick-Pics I receive are clearly STI infected & not to mention coated in smegma & other yellowy/green fluid... Fk now I've just put myself off my food for the day & I feel suddenly ill . (Soz if I've made others feel ill too if you stumble across this comment)
Unfortunately having a photographic memory has it's disadvantages at times ...I always zoom in & check these
Dick-Pics out obsv "
Oh my well mine looks like an absolute dream compared to what you’ve been receiving if I do say so myself |
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I love a dick pic/ cock shot… but those first messages in massive detail about what they wanna do to you just make me cringe lol.
They’ve usually no idea what I like and they all pretty much say the same thing lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like it. Maybe not the very first message though
The point is that explicit messages can be fun, and may also be welcomed - but assuming they will be from the outset and sending someone filth as a first message if they haven’t explicitly requested it in their profile is weird, inconsiderate and just plain rude.
It doesn't particularly bother me. It does bother you. Viva la difference
Do you mean it doesn’t bother you to be sending them to people who haven’t invited them, or to be receiving them from people who haven’t spoken to you before?
It doesnt bother me receiving them
Well that’s a different thing to assuming they will be welcome and sending them as a first message, isn’t it? If you are happy to receive them, enjoy! "
He's happy to receive them yes...said Dick-Pics /Cock-Shots . He did say though not in a 1ST MSG.
I don't mind the Cock-Shots once a connection or a rapport has been formed. I just defo don't want it virtually unsolicitedly shoved in my face especially the Dick-Pics . As I said earlier...It's the online equivalent of FLASHING.
Sometimes I have to ask to see it, & yes especially after chemistry has been formed...I do like to see all the `goods`. Buuuttttttt initially its body & leg pics I want to see & possibly a face pic...that's so important to see if there's an attraction but I completely understand why some feel uncomfortable sending face photos...discretion etc... But I obvs need to a face photo before a meet... Buuuttttttt by that time alot of trust & rapport will have been formed...
So to the FLASHERS & there's lots of ye...Ye may want to join www.flashersannoymous.ie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually attach a face pic and a nude body shot to my messages but it’s not like a super close up of my cock whilst hard. I have those pictures and if they want to see it, they can either ask or go look for themselves. I think that’s fair, no? I would like to know if it isn’t so I can change my style of introducing |
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"I usually attach a face pic and a nude body shot to my messages but it’s not like a super close up of my cock whilst hard. I have those pictures and if they want to see it, they can either ask or go look for themselves. I think that’s fair, no? I would like to know if it isn’t so I can change my style of introducing "
You did ask...so I will answer your question...I would avoid sending a full frontal nude body shot in a 1st DM, I'm assuming your cock is visible also yea. It's still an unsolicited explicit photo. Wait till you get the good vibes etc..
Or more importantly just ask the recipient first |
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I share a lot of the kinky stories I write on here in forums and also in messages; some are very graphic and some are very kinky, but they are only shared in messages in private with people who have asked for them, or i have chatted to and have enjoyed the ones in forums.
I would never send one uninvited to anyone.
why spend ages writing something that is going to get deleted and you blocked, in addition to the fact that is is tacky to say the least and insulting as well.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I usually attach a face pic and a nude body shot to my messages but it’s not like a super close up of my cock whilst hard. I have those pictures and if they want to see it, they can either ask or go look for themselves. I think that’s fair, no? I would like to know if it isn’t so I can change my style of introducing
You did ask...so I will answer your question...I would avoid sending a full frontal nude body shot in a 1st DM, I'm assuming your cock is visible also yea. It's still an unsolicited explicit photo. Wait till you get the good vibes etc..
Or more importantly just ask the recipient first "
I just have to add I just viewed your public photos & they are very tasteful I must say...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I share a lot of the kinky stories I write on here in forums and also in messages; some are very graphic and some are very kinky, but they are only shared in messages in private with people who have asked for them, or i have chatted to and have enjoyed the ones in forums.
I would never send one uninvited to anyone.
why spend ages writing something that is going to get deleted and you blocked, in addition to the fact that is is tacky to say the least and insulting as well.
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^^^^^^^ Now I'm gonna go looking for your Kinky Story threads... It's
totally different when they're not shoved in our faces without consent & as you said those who do send them in a 1ST DM "it is tacky to say the least and insulting as well." Yes I agree also & sometimes it's actually like being sexually verbally assaulted as some of the 1ST DM I receive are quite disturbing & hard-core...Mainly stating what they want to do to me in extreme sexual graphic detail
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They're either trying to stand out from the crowd by showing how "kinky and depraved" they are or they're getting off on the shock factor. Either way I find them predictable and boring. So they are promptly deleted and blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I usually attach a face pic and a nude body shot to my messages but it’s not like a super close up of my cock whilst hard. I have those pictures and if they want to see it, they can either ask or go look for themselves. I think that’s fair, no? I would like to know if it isn’t so I can change my style of introducing
You did ask...so I will answer your question...I would avoid sending a full frontal nude body shot in a 1st DM, I'm assuming your cock is visible also yea. It's still an unsolicited explicit photo. Wait till you get the good vibes etc..
Or more importantly just ask the recipient first
I just have to add I just viewed your public photos & they are very tasteful I must say...
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Thank you! You have some gorgeous photos too. Yeah I always shy away from a full closeup but you’ve got a point. Always attached the body as a “hey this is my body type, stocky and tattoos” kinda photo but might get a similar photo with boxers on thanks for the advice |
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I must admit never understand sending a pic of ur cock I would say mine is a decent looking looking one but seriously there not the most attractive surely a face pic is more of an obvious turn on x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I must admit never understand sending a pic of ur cock I would say mine is a decent looking looking one but seriously there not the most attractive surely a face pic is more of an obvious turn on x"
Some cocks are very Beautiful & Attractive  ...Some only though...
Not many...
Just don't send them unsolicitedly...wait till they're asked for or until a good connection/vibe has been formed I do Luuuuuvve a good Cock=Shot |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi, What's peeps opinions on extreme graphic sexually explicit detailed sometimes essay type 1ST DM, with a Cock-Shot or Dick-Pic attached???
Note -
Cock-Shot = Attractive Penis
Dick-Pic = F`Ugly Penis
I personally find them too creepy, freaky & just too perv weird when no connection rapport chemistry or convo has been formed... & Most of the time I haven't even a clue what the sender looks like...I do receive quite alot & IMO ye just come across as Sickos
I think it a bit presumptive of a guy to think any woman would want a dick/cock pic on a introductory message !! I don’t send unless asked , however I do send a tongue in cheek message regarding the dick pic overload to a woman’s inbox !!!
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I don't understand why anyone sends some ridiculous short message saying "Hi, how's you" or "how you doing" I mean you're online, you're obviously OK then add a dick pic, I don't get it, why send a dick pic to someone when you're trying to get their attention, the person you're trying to strike up conversation with might not want to see it, they've already fell at the first hurdle by putting a slang minimal text together coupled with something else they don't want ie: dick pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What I really don't understand (not directed at you OP) are women who complain about receiving cock pics yet have explcit public pics. Yes, it's your profile and you can post what you like and yes you can make certain demands of potential suitors too if you wish to. But you're silly to think men won't send dick pics if they see similarly explicit images on your profile. Good for the goose and all that.... |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"What I really don't understand (not directed at you OP) are women who complain about receiving cock pics yet have explcit public pics. Yes, it's your profile and you can post what you like and yes you can make certain demands of potential suitors too if you wish to. But you're silly to think men won't send dick pics if they see similarly explicit images on your profile. Good for the goose and all that...."
Why? What you show on your profile is on your profile, if people choose to look at it it’s up to them.
These images are not being sent privately to people unrequested, so they don’t imply an invitation to be sent similar photos privately and unrequested. |
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"What I really don't understand (not directed at you OP) are women who complain about receiving cock pics yet have explcit public pics. Yes, it's your profile and you can post what you like and yes you can make certain demands of potential suitors too if you wish to. But you're silly to think men won't send dick pics if they see similarly explicit images on your profile. Good for the goose and all that...."
Absolute nail on the head …
I don’t send cock pics, I don’t show cock pics on my profile..
But people that are showing very intimate pictures will attract intimate pictures..
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By (user no longer on site)
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Because they portray an image of the forumite that can be misinterpreted. I couldn't care less what people put on their profile btw. It's up to them. But every image and even every forum post will be interpreted by people in different ways. If you're going to be outraged by an unsolicited cock pic I'd suggest this isn't the best site to be on. (Again, that's an observation and not directed at you). |
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Cock-Shot = Attractive Penis
Dick-Pic = F`Ugly Penis
I personally find them too creepy... IMO ye just come across as Sickos"
May I please ask what are the female version of these terms/discriptions?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Cock-Shot = Attractive Penis
Dick-Pic = F`Ugly Penis
I personally find them too creepy... IMO ye just come across as Sickos
May I please ask what are the female version of these terms/discriptions?
Thanks."
I have no idea "what are the female version of these terms/discriptions?" Because for 1 reason I'm not aware of what names you give a certain part of the female anatomy.
These are just my personal codes...
Cock-Shot = Attractive Penis
Dick-Pic = F`Ugly Penis
Guess it's up to you to make up your own personal codes... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Also I've definitely come to the conclusion that the `men` who have close up very explicit profile photos are getting cheap sick thrills when sending mail...knowing that their dick is being viewed. I've said it to many that I don't chat to a dick (pic) & what do they do...they send msg after msg after msg
Think it's time my block button gets some use.
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