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"Any one else feel incredibly insulted when a message pops into your inbox offering payment for services? Or is it just me?" That’s awful! This isn’t an escort website. I’d report it | |||
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"Any one else feel incredibly insulted when a message pops into your inbox offering payment for services? Or is it just me? That’s awful! This isn’t an escort website. I’d report it " Yes I have done previously but it continues to happen | |||
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"Oh yes. I really insulted by it. Or worse is when someone strat talking to you. You think thing are going well then ask if want to subscribe to there onlyfan. And when you say no. They block or just stop talking too you " Yup had that too or even another dating site | |||
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"Any one else feel incredibly insulted when a message pops into your inbox offering payment for services? Or is it just me?" Honestly if someone wants to pay me for sex (male), I would be flattered. Most males struggle to give it away for free so getting an offer of payment must be a huge ego boost. If anything it is more insulting to the person offering the money as they are admitting that without the financial insentive they would not be able to attract you on sex appeal alone. In the end we all have a price, I'm sure at the right price we would all take an offer. If they put a million quid on the table would you be insulted or go I'll take being set for life for one night with someone I don't like. I'm not suggesting you take the money but don't be insulted, they clearly desire you enough to insult themselves. | |||
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"Oh yes. I really insulted by it. Or worse is when someone strat talking to you. You think thing are going well then ask if want to subscribe to there onlyfan. And when you say no. They block or just stop talking too you " Oh how annoying. I haven't experienced the only fans side of it yet. Hopefully doesn't happen | |||
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"I make fun of them saying oh yes its says 2nd paragraph on my profile 3rd line says I'm a prostitute lol. Very strange answers to that haha. Stupid people" Haha maybe I need to do this! | |||
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"Any one else feel incredibly insulted when a message pops into your inbox offering payment for services? Or is it just me? That’s awful! This isn’t an escort website. I’d report it Yes I have done previously but it continues to happen" I report alot of people who have done. But they seem to be removed form the site. Sometime I just think they just don't care. As long as the preson is a paid member they just let them keep doing their business | |||
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"Any one else feel incredibly insulted when a message pops into your inbox offering payment for services? Or is it just me? Honestly if someone wants to pay me for sex (male), I would be flattered. Most males struggle to give it away for free so getting an offer of payment must be a huge ego boost. If anything it is more insulting to the person offering the money as they are admitting that without the financial insentive they would not be able to attract you on sex appeal alone. In the end we all have a price, I'm sure at the right price we would all take an offer. If they put a million quid on the table would you be insulted or go I'll take being set for life for one night with someone I don't like. I'm not suggesting you take the money but don't be insulted, they clearly desire you enough to insult themselves. " I can definitely see your point of view. Maybe I need to think like that too. | |||
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"Any one else feel incredibly insulted when a message pops into your inbox offering payment for services? Or is it just me?" Yes. I'm not a prostitute. I'm here to have mutual fun with people I'm attracted too and have cliqued with not for money with desperados. Sorry if that sounds harsh but that's how it looks xx | |||
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"Any one else feel incredibly insulted when a message pops into your inbox offering payment for services? Or is it just me? That’s awful! This isn’t an escort website. I’d report it Yes I have done previously but it continues to happen I report alot of people who have done. But they seem to be removed form the site. Sometime I just think they just don't care. As long as the preson is a paid member they just let them keep doing their business " Hopefully they do take it seriously | |||
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"just shows how desperate some are." Yes you're right | |||
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"Any one else feel incredibly insulted when a message pops into your inbox offering payment for services? Or is it just me? Honestly if someone wants to pay me for sex (male), I would be flattered. Most males struggle to give it away for free so getting an offer of payment must be a huge ego boost. If anything it is more insulting to the person offering the money as they are admitting that without the financial insentive they would not be able to attract you on sex appeal alone. In the end we all have a price, I'm sure at the right price we would all take an offer. If they put a million quid on the table would you be insulted or go I'll take being set for life for one night with someone I don't like. I'm not suggesting you take the money but don't be insulted, they clearly desire you enough to insult themselves. " This is exactly my point of view. If someone was willing to pay for what I have to offer, I be so proud and would probably have the message printed out and framed. I too wouldn't take the money, I give my lurve for fee; it's my gift to the world. | |||
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"Any one else feel incredibly insulted when a message pops into your inbox offering payment for services? Or is it just me? Honestly if someone wants to pay me for sex (male), I would be flattered. Most males struggle to give it away for free so getting an offer of payment must be a huge ego boost. If anything it is more insulting to the person offering the money as they are admitting that without the financial insentive they would not be able to attract you on sex appeal alone. In the end we all have a price, I'm sure at the right price we would all take an offer. If they put a million quid on the table would you be insulted or go I'll take being set for life for one night with someone I don't like. I'm not suggesting you take the money but don't be insulted, they clearly desire you enough to insult themselves. This is exactly my point of view. If someone was willing to pay for what I have to offer, I be so proud and would probably have the message printed out and framed. I too wouldn't take the money, I give my lurve for fee; it's my gift to the world." Hahaha yes, me too. I love doing what I do and would find it too forced if there was payment involved. I do it for the pleasure it gives me to make others happy | |||
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"just ignore it,,, its just another of the sad little eunuch's on here who dont have any balls so like to upset genuine users on here,,," Usually just report and block them | |||
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"I don't feel insulted I just don't think it's the place. I hear people banging on about women asking for money but I get plenty of offers of cash for meets too. I've nothing against sex work but I'm not into it. I like my meets to be stress relief not work. " Yes same. I mean, I could definitely use the money lol but I do it for the joy it brings. Money would just complicate everything | |||
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"I feel insulted when it happens that they clearly think I can be bought. " Me too | |||
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"It come down to a level of objectification. The individual doesn't see you as a person but as object that can be easily bought. " Yes I agree. It's not on | |||
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"Tbf, I'd appreciate any offers. Would be nice to be noticed once in a while "I'm noticing you now  | |||
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On a serious note, there will always be those that try as there are those who accept. I take no notice of it. | |||
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"Get them all the time..." Sorry I'll stop offering you money from now on hehe  | |||
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"I'm insulted by how cheap they go. I mean come on, half a chocolate bar?
On a serious note, there will always be those that try as there are those who accept. I take no notice of it."That's expensive, I only got offered a measly chewing gum stick haha. I need to stop getting offended but it makes me feel cheap | |||
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"Get them all the time... Sorry I'll stop offering you money from now on hehe "Get it at least once a day offering me money , doesnt insult me im flattered lol x DONT ACCEPT THOUGH X | |||
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"Get them all the time... Sorry I'll stop offering you money from now on hehe
Get it at least once a day offering me money , doesnt insult me im flattered lol x
DONT ACCEPT THOUGH X"It's never ending | |||
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"I think this differs between men and women, most women will be insulted, some will think on it and may decide to act on it. Most men would be flattered knowing how often they like to chase a woman so if it’s being offered with payment I think they would be more men saying yes than women" You're probably right about that | |||
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"They'd be expecting a refund after me.... "Haha same here! | |||
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"I get this DAILY! " Not that it should be an excuse, but it's probably because you're sensational. I almost blurted at my desk looking at your profile!! | |||
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"I get this DAILY! " I can understand why, you're gorgeous | |||
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"Thankyou "You're very welcome! | |||
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"Yes it's very gross" Agreed | |||
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He should have known im priceless  | |||
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"Not had it on here that I remember but did elsewhere.....he could stretch to £30!! Tight bastard
He should have known im priceless "Exactly. You're worth so much more! | |||
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"Not had it on here that I remember but did elsewhere.....he could stretch to £30!! Tight bastard
He should have known im priceless "For everything else, there's Mastercard Soph  | |||
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"Not had it on here that I remember but did elsewhere.....he could stretch to £30!! Tight bastard
He should have known im priceless
Exactly. You're worth so much more!"You say £31 and I'll hunt you down and pinch your purse | |||
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"Not had it on here that I remember but did elsewhere.....he could stretch to £30!! Tight bastard
He should have known im priceless
For everything else, there's Mastercard Soph "I've got one of those! I can even use it to get us some drinks  | |||
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"Mrs PD has been offered money to meet, holidays and the best was a 'job' in Dubai for 3 months...likely would have ended up in a box somewhere. Insulted, revolted, reported and blocked. PDx" Oh wow!! That's shocking!! | |||
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"Not had it on here that I remember but did elsewhere.....he could stretch to £30!! Tight bastard
He should have known im priceless
Exactly. You're worth so much more!
You say £31 and I'll hunt you down and pinch your purse "Hahaha xx | |||
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"I don’t find it insulting, it’s says everything about them, and nothing about me. Just ignore and delete." Good idea | |||
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"We've had offers to buy Mrs worn knickers "That I can get on board with hahaha | |||
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"Not had it on here that I remember but did elsewhere.....he could stretch to £30!! Tight bastard
He should have known im priceless
For everything else, there's Mastercard Soph
I've got one of those! I can even use it to get us some drinks "Your round then gorgeous! | |||
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"Any one else feel incredibly insulted when a message pops into your inbox offering payment for services? Or is it just me?" Totally fecks us off, and when you point out your offended they will say its just part of a fantasy they have. | |||
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"Not had it on here that I remember but did elsewhere.....he could stretch to £30!! Tight bastard
He should have known im priceless
For everything else, there's Mastercard Soph
I've got one of those! I can even use it to get us some drinks
Your round then gorgeous!"Cocktails! Sex on the beach maybe | |||
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hahahahah.
Have had some right random stuff. From holidays to pic and mix lol | |||
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"Any one else feel incredibly insulted when a message pops into your inbox offering payment for services? Or is it just me? Totally fecks us off, and when you point out your offended they will say its just part of a fantasy they have. " Yup! So annoying | |||
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"Depends on the offer hahah. When we first joined seemed to be a few every week. Think either the chancers try it on with the new girls here. Or we have lost our appeal cos nothing for ages hahahahah.
Have had some right random stuff. From holidays to pic and mix lol"Maybe id do it for pick n mix hahaha | |||
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"Depends on the offer hahah. When we first joined seemed to be a few every week. Think either the chancers try it on with the new girls here. Or we have lost our appeal cos nothing for ages hahahahah.
Have had some right random stuff. From holidays to pic and mix lol"Pic and mix!!! Love it
I've been offered holidays and money, one chap offered me 2.5k lol. If only he'd have said pic and mix | |||
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"Any one else feel incredibly insulted when a message pops into your inbox offering payment for services? Or is it just me? Honestly if someone wants to pay me for sex (male), I would be flattered. Most males struggle to give it away for free so getting an offer of payment must be a huge ego boost. If anything it is more insulting to the person offering the money as they are admitting that without the financial insentive they would not be able to attract you on sex appeal alone. In the end we all have a price, I'm sure at the right price we would all take an offer. If they put a million quid on the table would you be insulted or go I'll take being set for life for one night with someone I don't like. I'm not suggesting you take the money but don't be insulted, they clearly desire you enough to insult themselves. "  | |||
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"We've had offers to buy Mrs worn knickers "My ex used to sell them on eBay. Did so for a long time. Made an average of £800 to £1000 a month. Strong morals not to make REALLY easy money like that. | |||
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"Doesn’t offend me, but also doesn’t interest me; getting it more and more now though! I escorted for years and hardly had sex with any, some men just get off on physically paying for it. I just politely remind them that there’s more appropriate sites that and this is swinging "Good idea. | |||
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"We've had offers to buy Mrs worn knickers
My ex used to sell them on eBay. Did so for a long time. Made an average of £800 to £1000 a month. Strong morals not to make REALLY easy money like that. "That's a good amount of money!! | |||
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"£10 to cover a bottle of red and a bottle of white and it's buy one, get one free with us! " Haha that's cheap wine! | |||
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"We've had offers to buy Mrs worn knickers
My ex used to sell them on eBay. Did so for a long time. Made an average of £800 to £1000 a month. Strong morals not to make REALLY easy money like that. "As long as your not hurting or taking advantage of anyone morals are totally fine! Don’t see any issue with it morally. I know lots of men that get off on paying… just because they like it. No different to many other kinks x | |||
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"I’m a bit shocked by that I did say no to a couple of guys who then offered to pay me I declined obviously xx" It's shocking isn't it | |||
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"I've had that as well, I just say I'm a swinger not a hooker but thanks very much for ur offer but bye bye xx" Exactly | |||
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"Any one else feel incredibly insulted when a message pops into your inbox offering payment for services? Or is it just me? Honestly if someone wants to pay me for sex (male), I would be flattered. Most males struggle to give it away for free so getting an offer of payment must be a huge ego boost. If anything it is more insulting to the person offering the money as they are admitting that without the financial insentive they would not be able to attract you on sex appeal alone. In the end we all have a price, I'm sure at the right price we would all take an offer. If they put a million quid on the table would you be insulted or go I'll take being set for life for one night with someone I don't like. I'm not suggesting you take the money but don't be insulted, they clearly desire you enough to insult themselves. " For some it's a kink to pay it's part of what they think is fun  | |||
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"Any one else feel incredibly insulted when a message pops into your inbox offering payment for services? Or is it just me?" I have developed a sixth sense for spotting those scammers who promise to fuck me in Trafalgar Square at noon as soon as I pay for "verification". Nah, fuck you. | |||
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"Once got offered to be a paid off a guy who was gorgeous sexy as F''k jokingly i said you can have me for free lol He replied with no wanna pay you turns me on even more so think its a serious kink for some x" Oh really that's fair enough. Did you accept? | |||
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