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over a year ago
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"No. I'm looking for experienced guys who get the lifestyle. Really not looking to nurse a virgin through this. "
Let’s speak Hypothetical if you did sleep with a virgin just imagine the possibility of molding him into what you want .. |
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"No. I'm looking for experienced guys who get the lifestyle. Really not looking to nurse a virgin through this.
Let’s speak Hypothetical if you did sleep with a virgin just imagine the possibility of molding him into what you want .."
I have slept with a virgin. The sex was shit and he got clingy afterwards. |
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"No. I'm looking for experienced guys who get the lifestyle. Really not looking to nurse a virgin through this.
Let’s speak Hypothetical if you did sleep with a virgin just imagine the possibility of molding him into what you want .."
Nope. It's really not for me. I find people generally hard work and guys that get how hubby and I work are hard enough to find without bringing a virgin into the equation. Profile even says I'm lazy so you really can't question that!! |
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"I kind of expected most would say no, but did expect that some would say yes.
Regardless if he's a virgin or not it's still nice knowing someone would like to fuck me"
I agree |
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"No. I'm looking for experienced guys who get the lifestyle. Really not looking to nurse a virgin through this.
Let’s speak Hypothetical if you did sleep with a virgin just imagine the possibility of molding him into what you want ..
I have slept with a virgin. The sex was shit and he got clingy afterwards."
Did you know he was a virgin beforehand and how come it was shit? |
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"No. I'm looking for experienced guys who get the lifestyle. Really not looking to nurse a virgin through this.
Let’s speak Hypothetical if you did sleep with a virgin just imagine the possibility of molding him into what you want ..
I have slept with a virgin. The sex was shit and he got clingy afterwards.
Did you know he was a virgin beforehand and how come it was shit?"
I wish at the time I had a someone who would have shown me what I was doing, someone more experienced and a bit older |
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"No. I'm looking for experienced guys who get the lifestyle. Really not looking to nurse a virgin through this.
Let’s speak Hypothetical if you did sleep with a virgin just imagine the possibility of molding him into what you want ..
I have slept with a virgin. The sex was shit and he got clingy afterwards.
Did you know he was a virgin beforehand and how come it was shit?"
No I didn't know.
He came very fast and was just generally fumbly and not very confident, didn't seem to know what he was doing.
I was young at the time and lacked the confidence to guide him, so that didn't help either. |
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"I kind of expected most would say no, but did expect that some would say yes.
Regardless if he's a virgin or not it's still nice knowing someone would like to fuck me"
A swingers site generally probably isn't the best place to ask the question. We're all looking for something different. And I would guess mostly not a virgin. |
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What if the lad you know had never done anything what so ever with a lady, what would you let him do or do to him so he can experience it for the first time?
This would be interesting to see what ladies would do to help him. |
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"What if the lad you know had never done anything what so ever with a lady, what would you let him do or do to him so he can experience it for the first time?
This would be interesting to see what ladies would do to help him."
I think most ladies would say no |
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"No. I'm looking for experienced guys who get the lifestyle. Really not looking to nurse a virgin through this.
Let’s speak Hypothetical if you did sleep with a virgin just imagine the possibility of molding him into what you want ..
I have slept with a virgin. The sex was shit and he got clingy afterwards." to be fair it was his first time how was you on you’re first attempt ? |
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"No. I'm looking for experienced guys who get the lifestyle. Really not looking to nurse a virgin through this.
Let’s speak Hypothetical if you did sleep with a virgin just imagine the possibility of molding him into what you want ..
I have slept with a virgin. The sex was shit and he got clingy afterwards.
Did you know he was a virgin beforehand and how come it was shit?
No I didn't know.
He came very fast and was just generally fumbly and not very confident, didn't seem to know what he was doing.
I was young at the time and lacked the confidence to guide him, so that didn't help either."
He was probably over excited as it was his first time, can't really blame him for cumming quickly x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. I'm looking for experienced guys who get the lifestyle. Really not looking to nurse a virgin through this.
Let’s speak Hypothetical if you did sleep with a virgin just imagine the possibility of molding him into what you want ..
I have slept with a virgin. The sex was shit and he got clingy afterwards.to be fair it was his first time how was you on you’re first attempt ? "
My first encounter was non-consensual so... Not really comparable.
But I guess that's my point. I wouldn't expect a virgin to be particularly good in bed, for obvious reasons. But I have had more than my fair share of rubbish sex, so nowadays I am only interested in confident lovers who have had experience and know what they are doing. |
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"I kind of expected most would say no, but did expect that some would say yes.
Regardless if he's a virgin or not it's still nice knowing someone would like to fuck me
A swingers site generally probably isn't the best place to ask the question. We're all looking for something different. And I would guess mostly not a virgin. "
Yes maybe your right but there's also ladies on here that just want fucks so I thought some would say yes lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. I'm looking for experienced guys who get the lifestyle. Really not looking to nurse a virgin through this.
Let’s speak Hypothetical if you did sleep with a virgin just imagine the possibility of molding him into what you want ..
I have slept with a virgin. The sex was shit and he got clingy afterwards.
Did you know he was a virgin beforehand and how come it was shit?
No I didn't know.
He came very fast and was just generally fumbly and not very confident, didn't seem to know what he was doing.
I was young at the time and lacked the confidence to guide him, so that didn't help either.
He was probably over excited as it was his first time, can't really blame him for cumming quickly x"
I never said I blamed him. I wouldn't expect a virgin to be good in bed.
But from my perspective, it was shit because I got nothing out of it. Why would I want sex that I am not going to enjoy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had sex with a virgin. When I was a virgin. That worked great as neither of us realised how shit we were and we learnt together. "
I had the first worst experience |
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"Would you let a guy you know have sex with you just so he can lose his virginity if he asked you?
Op is this something you would do?"
Yes I would as I know he wants me so id let him be his first experience to do things x |
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"Would you let a guy you know have sex with you just so he can lose his virginity if he asked you?
Op is this something you would do?
Yes I would as I know he wants me so id let him be his first experience to do things x"
I wish someone like yourself at my time had taken me and shown me what was what? |
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"I had sex with a virgin. When I was a virgin. That worked great as neither of us realised how shit we were and we learnt together.
I had the first worst experience "
Sorry to hear. But I'm quite old fashioned and think virginity is a special thing... not something to lose on swingers site. Just my view obviously |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I completely agree, but you still make your first experience as special as you want, but as we all know it turns into an epic fail, if someone is there to help and guid then I’m all
For it |
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"Would you let a guy you know have sex with you just so he can lose his virginity if he asked you?
Op is this something you would do?
Yes I would as I know he wants me so id let him be his first experience to do things x
I wish someone like yourself at my time had taken me and shown me what was what? "
I do feel sorry for some guys,some have never even seen or touched any lady bits |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Virginity is a social construct anyway. Why should just the first time someone has sex be a big deal, and be put on this pedestal where it's something life changing? Every time someone has sex it should mean something, not just the first time, and the idea that any part of another person's body is enough to change your social standing and how people view you is toxic and unneccesary in 2021. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would you let a guy you know have sex with you just so he can lose his virginity if he asked you?
Op is this something you would do?
Yes I would as I know he wants me so id let him be his first experience to do things x
I wish someone like yourself at my time had taken me and shown me what was what?
I do feel sorry for some guys,some have never even seen or touched any lady bits "
I think you have got to ask how your going to do it, safe or bb, as he will cum in seconds |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you let a guy you know have sex with you just so he can lose his virginity if he asked you?
Op is this something you would do?
Yes I would as I know he wants me so id let him be his first experience to do things x
I wish someone like yourself at my time had taken me and shown me what was what?
I do feel sorry for some guys,some have never even seen or touched any lady bits "
That's kind of what sex workers are for though... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you let a guy you know have sex with you just so he can lose his virginity if he asked you?
Op is this something you would do?
Yes I would as I know he wants me so id let him be his first experience to do things x
I wish someone like yourself at my time had taken me and shown me what was what?
I do feel sorry for some guys,some have never even seen or touched any lady bits
That's kind of what sex workers are for though..."
If the op knows this guy then why can’t they help him out a sex worker will make him feel so small |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would you let a guy you know have sex with you just so he can lose his virginity if he asked you?
Op is this something you would do?
Yes I would as I know he wants me so id let him be his first experience to do things x
I wish someone like yourself at my time had taken me and shown me what was what?
I do feel sorry for some guys,some have never even seen or touched any lady bits
That's kind of what sex workers are for though...
If the op knows this guy then why can’t they help him out a sex worker will make him feel so small "
Why should women be expected to have sex just to help someone out? |
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My first sons dad was a virgin when we met, he was 20 & I was 17, he didn't tell me till afterwards though.
I did take a friends virginity when he was 22 & I was 20, we were great platonic friends & chatted about his first time & ended up in bed one night. Think there's a lot of pressure for the first |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would you let a guy you know have sex with you just so he can lose his virginity if he asked you?
Op is this something you would do?
Yes I would as I know he wants me so id let him be his first experience to do things x
I wish someone like yourself at my time had taken me and shown me what was what?
I do feel sorry for some guys,some have never even seen or touched any lady bits
That's kind of what sex workers are for though...
If the op knows this guy then why can’t they help him out a sex worker will make him feel so small "
Would you let a gay man fuck you up the arse because he wanted to lose his virginity? If not, why not?
Just genuinely curious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you let a guy you know have sex with you just so he can lose his virginity if he asked you?
Op is this something you would do?
Yes I would as I know he wants me so id let him be his first experience to do things x
I wish someone like yourself at my time had taken me and shown me what was what?
I do feel sorry for some guys,some have never even seen or touched any lady bits
That's kind of what sex workers are for though...
If the op knows this guy then why can’t they help him out a sex worker will make him feel so small
Would you let a gay man fuck you up the arse because he wanted to lose his virginity? If not, why not?
Just genuinely curious."
That’s a silly question |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would you let a guy you know have sex with you just so he can lose his virginity if he asked you?
Op is this something you would do?
Yes I would as I know he wants me so id let him be his first experience to do things x
I wish someone like yourself at my time had taken me and shown me what was what?
I do feel sorry for some guys,some have never even seen or touched any lady bits
That's kind of what sex workers are for though...
If the op knows this guy then why can’t they help him out a sex worker will make him feel so small
Would you let a gay man fuck you up the arse because he wanted to lose his virginity? If not, why not?
Just genuinely curious.
That’s a silly question "
I don't think it is.
You seem to feel that women should have sex that they probably won't enjoy and is unlikely to be good for them, just because... What? To be nice? As a favour?
Well, why shouldn't you guys do the same? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would you let a guy you know have sex with you just so he can lose his virginity if he asked you?
Op is this something you would do?
Yes I would as I know he wants me so id let him be his first experience to do things x
I wish someone like yourself at my time had taken me and shown me what was what?
I do feel sorry for some guys,some have never even seen or touched any lady bits
That's kind of what sex workers are for though...
If the op knows this guy then why can’t they help him out a sex worker will make him feel so small
Would you let a gay man fuck you up the arse because he wanted to lose his virginity? If not, why not?
Just genuinely curious.
That’s a silly question
I don't think it is.
You seem to feel that women should have sex that they probably won't enjoy and is unlikely to be good for them, just because... What? To be nice? As a favour?
Well, why shouldn't you guys do the same?"
This is getting out of hand, |
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"Would you let a guy you know have sex with you just so he can lose his virginity if he asked you?
Op is this something you would do?
Yes I would as I know he wants me so id let him be his first experience to do things x
I wish someone like yourself at my time had taken me and shown me what was what?
I do feel sorry for some guys,some have never even seen or touched any lady bits
That's kind of what sex workers are for though...
If the op knows this guy then why can’t they help him out a sex worker will make him feel so small
Would you let a gay man fuck you up the arse because he wanted to lose his virginity? If not, why not?
Just genuinely curious.
That’s a silly question
I don't think it is.
You seem to feel that women should have sex that they probably won't enjoy and is unlikely to be good for them, just because... What? To be nice? As a favour?
Well, why shouldn't you guys do the same?" but you’ve asked a straight man that question so obviously it’s a silly question |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would you let a guy you know have sex with you just so he can lose his virginity if he asked you?
Op is this something you would do?
Yes I would as I know he wants me so id let him be his first experience to do things x
I wish someone like yourself at my time had taken me and shown me what was what?
I do feel sorry for some guys,some have never even seen or touched any lady bits
That's kind of what sex workers are for though...
If the op knows this guy then why can’t they help him out a sex worker will make him feel so small
Would you let a gay man fuck you up the arse because he wanted to lose his virginity? If not, why not?
Just genuinely curious.
That’s a silly question
I don't think it is.
You seem to feel that women should have sex that they probably won't enjoy and is unlikely to be good for them, just because... What? To be nice? As a favour?
Well, why shouldn't you guys do the same? but you’ve asked a straight man that question so obviously it’s a silly question "
I just get really pissed off at the expectation that as a woman it's my job to act as a free sex worker and have shitty sex because some guy can't get laid.
I think men should stop complaining and all start fucking each other. Problem solved. |
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I've met a young virgin on here. Was a really sweet boy and had a great meet. Afterwards he became weird and blocked me on here. Then would make new profiles and bombard me with messages. This has been on and off for a year now.
The body might be ready but the mind has a fair bit of maturing. |
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"Would you let a guy you know have sex with you just so he can lose his virginity if he asked you?
Op is this something you would do?
Yes I would as I know he wants me so id let him be his first experience to do things x
I wish someone like yourself at my time had taken me and shown me what was what?
I do feel sorry for some guys,some have never even seen or touched any lady bits
That's kind of what sex workers are for though...
If the op knows this guy then why can’t they help him out a sex worker will make him feel so small
Would you let a gay man fuck you up the arse because he wanted to lose his virginity? If not, why not?
Just genuinely curious.
That’s a silly question
I don't think it is.
You seem to feel that women should have sex that they probably won't enjoy and is unlikely to be good for them, just because... What? To be nice? As a favour?
Well, why shouldn't you guys do the same? but you’ve asked a straight man that question so obviously it’s a silly question
I just get really pissed off at the expectation that as a woman it's my job to act as a free sex worker and have shitty sex because some guy can't get laid.
I think men should stop complaining and all start fucking each other. Problem solved." |
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"What if the lad you know had never done anything what so ever with a lady, what would you let him do or do to him so he can experience it for the first time?
This would be interesting to see what ladies would do to help him."
I’d peg him |
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"Would you let a guy you know have sex with you just so he can lose his virginity if he asked you?
Op is this something you would do?
Yes I would as I know he wants me so id let him be his first experience to do things x
I wish someone like yourself at my time had taken me and shown me what was what?
I do feel sorry for some guys,some have never even seen or touched any lady bits
That's kind of what sex workers are for though...
If the op knows this guy then why can’t they help him out a sex worker will make him feel so small
Would you let a gay man fuck you up the arse because he wanted to lose his virginity? If not, why not?
Just genuinely curious.
That’s a silly question
I don't think it is.
You seem to feel that women should have sex that they probably won't enjoy and is unlikely to be good for them, just because... What? To be nice? As a favour?
Well, why shouldn't you guys do the same? but you’ve asked a straight man that question so obviously it’s a silly question
I just get really pissed off at the expectation that as a woman it's my job to act as a free sex worker and have shitty sex because some guy can't get laid.
I think men should stop complaining and all start fucking each other. Problem solved. "
Yeah. When you have been sexually objectified by men since you were a literal child, I might care what you think. |
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"I kind of expected most would say no, but did expect that some would say yes.
Regardless if he's a virgin or not it's still nice knowing someone would like to fuck me"
Who wouldn't want to fuck you. You are a sexy looking lady. |
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"Would you let a guy you know have sex with you just so he can lose his virginity if he asked you?
Op is this something you would do?
Yes I would as I know he wants me so id let him be his first experience to do things x
I wish someone like yourself at my time had taken me and shown me what was what?
I do feel sorry for some guys,some have never even seen or touched any lady bits
That's kind of what sex workers are for though...
If the op knows this guy then why can’t they help him out a sex worker will make him feel so small
Would you let a gay man fuck you up the arse because he wanted to lose his virginity? If not, why not?
Just genuinely curious.
That’s a silly question
I don't think it is.
You seem to feel that women should have sex that they probably won't enjoy and is unlikely to be good for them, just because... What? To be nice? As a favour?
Well, why shouldn't you guys do the same? but you’ve asked a straight man that question so obviously it’s a silly question
I just get really pissed off at the expectation that as a woman it's my job to act as a free sex worker and have shitty sex because some guy can't get laid.
I think men should stop complaining and all start fucking each other. Problem solved.
Yeah. When you have been sexually objectified by men since you were a literal child, I might care what you think."
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Nope, absolutely no way. If a guy has reached the age range I go for without having sex it would raise a lot of questions.
I don't want to have to teach anyone - I want someone who knows what he wants, what he enjoys as well as how to please me. |
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"Would you let a guy you know have sex with you just so he can lose his virginity if he asked you?
Op is this something you would do?
Yes I would as I know he wants me so id let him be his first experience to do things x
I wish someone like yourself at my time had taken me and shown me what was what?
I do feel sorry for some guys,some have never even seen or touched any lady bits
That's kind of what sex workers are for though...
If the op knows this guy then why can’t they help him out a sex worker will make him feel so small "
No they wouldn't! |
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A guy I have been chatting to has only slept with one other girl in his life which is basically the same. He wanted to hook up but I knew it would only be a pity fuck and tbh I don't want to have to teach him what to do. I like a man that knows and has confidence rather than being hopeless and pathetic |
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"A guy I have been chatting to has only slept with one other girl in his life which is basically the same. He wanted to hook up but I knew it would only be a pity fuck and tbh I don't want to have to teach him what to do. I like a man that knows and has confidence rather than being hopeless and pathetic" wow hopeless and pathetic
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no .... im here for swinging fun with what little playtime i get ...
i dont do sympathy fucks or pity fucks full stop ...get enough messages daily ....oh please meet me please ... so desperate not for me i have to sexually fancy someone to play |
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