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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think it's about time admin has a section in the forum called 'Timewasters'. This would name and shame those that say they're going to meet and then either they come up with some lame excuse why they can't make it. Or they just don't have the courtesy at all to even call/message and say they won't be turning up!
I know there are some people that genuinely can't make a pre-arranged meet for some reason or another. Them, I do understand. But there are some that blatantly do it for no apparent reason but to be a**holes!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But!
You arranged to meet me last week after swapping messages for weeks - and then stood me up!!!
See the flaw?
It's frustrating!! But name and shame never works!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But!
You arranged to meet me last week after swapping messages for weeks - and then stood me up!!!
See the flaw?
It's frustrating!! But name and shame never works!! "
Thing is I would never arrange to meet a bi-male  |
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"But!
You arranged to meet me last week after swapping messages for weeks - and then stood me up!!!
See the flaw?
It's frustrating!! But name and shame never works!!
Thing is I would never arrange to meet a bi-male "
What about the meet you arranged with me 2 weeks ago ...... And never showed and never got in contact again????
Obviously you didnt lol....but can you see now how it would never work...
People could and likely would do it just because they don't like someone, or someone knocked them back etc etc...
Best to just report via their profile or the mails arranging the meet and let admin deal with it |
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"But!
You arranged to meet me last week after swapping messages for weeks - and then stood me up!!!
See the flaw?
It's frustrating!! But name and shame never works!!
Thing is I would never arrange to meet a bi-male "
Hmmm...things become clearer...
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"But!
You arranged to meet me last week after swapping messages for weeks - and then stood me up!!!
See the flaw?
It's frustrating!! But name and shame never works!!
Thing is I would never arrange to meet a bi-male "
You only meet the straight ones then?
It's called irony honey. Obi was just pointing out why naming and shaming in a public arena like a forum doesn't work. It all gets reduced to he said she said. I could name and shame Obi (admittedly I'd rather dole out some punishment in person - I've got all sorts of chores for you Obi  ) but the only ones who can prove we had a meet arranged would be the two of us.
So it's he said she said... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How many timewasting threads in one day do we need?! 
If someone changes their mind/cancels they are NOT timewasters in my view...people CAN change their mind!  "
Never said that a person can't change his/her mind. But it would be common courtesy to be honest and give the other person(s) in question the heads-up that is the decision they have taken instead of keeping them waiting without even saying that they won't be turning up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But!
You arranged to meet me last week after swapping messages for weeks - and then stood me up!!!
See the flaw?
It's frustrating!! But name and shame never works!!
Thing is I would never arrange to meet a bi-male
What about the meet you arranged with me 2 weeks ago ...... And never showed and never got in contact again????
Obviously you didnt lol....but can you see now how it would never work...
People could and likely would do it just because they don't like someone, or someone knocked them back etc etc...
Best to just report via their profile or the mails arranging the meet and let admin deal with it "
Sorry!
My sodding sat nav stops working as soon as I reach hadrians wall!!
Next time............. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But!
You arranged to meet me last week after swapping messages for weeks - and then stood me up!!!
See the flaw?
It's frustrating!! But name and shame never works!!
Thing is I would never arrange to meet a bi-male
You only meet the straight ones then?
It's called irony honey. Obi was just pointing out why naming and shaming in a public arena like a forum doesn't work. It all gets reduced to he said she said. I could name and shame Obi (admittedly I'd rather dole out some punishment in person - I've got all sorts of chores for you Obi ) but the only ones who can prove we had a meet arranged would be the two of us.
So it's he said she said..."
You could name and shame me - I don't mind!
It was me! I did it! (or should that be I didn't do it?) I'll confess! To what - I'm not sure - but open to suggestions!!!
Oh - and just because I iron naked - doesn't mean I'll lower myself to cleaning an oven!!!!!
A little light dusting maybe!!!! |
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"But!
You arranged to meet me last week after swapping messages for weeks - and then stood me up!!!
See the flaw?
It's frustrating!! But name and shame never works!!
Thing is I would never arrange to meet a bi-male
What about the meet you arranged with me 2 weeks ago ...... And never showed and never got in contact again????
Obviously you didnt lol....but can you see now how it would never work...
People could and likely would do it just because they don't like someone, or someone knocked them back etc etc...
Best to just report via their profile or the mails arranging the meet and let admin deal with it
Sorry!
My sodding sat nav stops working as soon as I reach hadrians wall!!
Next time............."
lol... I meant the OP... But oops.. I must've been a no show at our meet where you were a no show 
Should we report each other or just name and shame each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But!
You arranged to meet me last week after swapping messages for weeks - and then stood me up!!!
See the flaw?
It's frustrating!! But name and shame never works!!
Thing is I would never arrange to meet a bi-male
What about the meet you arranged with me 2 weeks ago ...... And never showed and never got in contact again????
Obviously you didnt lol....but can you see now how it would never work...
People could and likely would do it just because they don't like someone, or someone knocked them back etc etc...
Best to just report via their profile or the mails arranging the meet and let admin deal with it
Sorry!
My sodding sat nav stops working as soon as I reach hadrians wall!!
Next time.............
lol... I meant the OP... But oops.. I must've been a no show at our meet where you were a no show
Should we report each other or just name and shame each other "
I hereby name you Desiree!!!
Is that shameful enough? Or would Esmerelda be more shameful? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hereby name you Desiree!!!
Is that shameful enough? Or would Esmerelda be more shameful?
Either is fine Englebert.....
I've been called worse "
Well next time I don't meet you I think I'll call you Ethel!
But since you'll not show up either - I doubt anyone will notice!
What a waste of bloody time! |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I think it's about time admin has a section in the forum called 'Timewasters'. This would name and shame those that say they're going to meet and then either they come up with some lame excuse why they can't make it. Or they just don't have the courtesy at all to even call/message and say they won't be turning up!
I know there are some people that genuinely can't make a pre-arranged meet for some reason or another. Them, I do understand. But there are some that blatantly do it for no apparent reason but to be a**holes!! "
I totally disagree, as others have said its your word against theirs..... |
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