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By *anKate OP   Woman  over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Hey everyone.

I have been gearing myself to come to a club night tonight....and my partner (who's away) has just reminded me that I am still recovering from a coldsore outbreak.

IS it feasible for me to still go? And just not engage in kissing or oral? Will people recoil from me in disgust?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey everyone.

I have been gearing myself to come to a club night tonight....and my partner (who's away) has just reminded me that I am still recovering from a coldsore outbreak.

IS it feasible for me to still go? And just not engage in kissing or oral? Will people recoil from me in disgust?

"

How could they.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

I think it's feasible.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just depends on how visible it is. What stage is it. Almost gone. Just a redish black blob are still crusty,

Roles reversed would you be comfortable kissing you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You have more than one set of lips that could be kissed

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By *uddy laneMan  over a year ago

dudley

hsv 1 and hsv 2 are contagious and you should not be thinking about kissing other people and possibly infecting them.

Just a messanger do not shoot.

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By *uddy laneMan  over a year ago

dudley

And the reason I do not go to clubs anymore.

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By *n Search Of SunsetCouple  over a year ago

Search Of Sunset


"And the reason I do not go to clubs anymore."

What make it any different if it's a club or a private meet?

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By *andare63Man  over a year ago

oldham


"Hey everyone.

I have been gearing myself to come to a club night tonight....and my partner (who's away) has just reminded me that I am still recovering from a coldsore outbreak.

IS it feasible for me to still go? And just not engage in kissing or oral? Will people recoil from me in disgust?

"

With all due respect why would you even think of going if there's the slightest chance of infecting other people

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By *ickawitchCouple  over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"hsv 1 and hsv 2 are contagious and you should not be thinking about kissing other people and possibly infecting them.

Just a messanger do not shoot.

"

She isn’t thinking about kissing - if you read the opening comment she is saying can she still go to a club and NOT kiss or do oral

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By *anKate OP   Woman  over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Just depends on how visible it is. What stage is it. Almost gone. Just a redish black blob are still crusty,

Roles reversed would you be comfortable kissing you. "

Oh I wouldn't be comfortable kissing anyone, just wondering if it's feasible to go and not kiss!! I have patches over the coldsores which make them less contagious, and I am in final stages of it with all scabs gone - sexy !

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By *anKate OP   Woman  over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"hsv 1 and hsv 2 are contagious and you should not be thinking about kissing other people and possibly infecting them.

Just a messanger do not shoot.

She isn’t thinking about kissing - if you read the opening comment she is saying can she still go to a club and NOT kiss or do oral "

Exactly what I was about to put!

I have patches that cover it and make it less contagious, it's in final stages (no scabs etc just redness).

Just wondering if people would be completely repulsed by it, or if the idea of no kissing is too odd. I've not done a club before and I've been wanting to go for ages and first time I'm free is tonight and I've got a bloody coldsore! Doesn't make me feel all that sexy y'know!

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By *anKate OP   Woman  over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Hey everyone.

I have been gearing myself to come to a club night tonight....and my partner (who's away) has just reminded me that I am still recovering from a coldsore outbreak.

IS it feasible for me to still go? And just not engage in kissing or oral? Will people recoil from me in disgust?

With all due respect why would you even think of going if there's the slightest chance of infecting other people "

Is there a chance in infecting people if I don't kiss or do anything oral with them? I've managed my whole life without infecting anyone....

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By *uddy laneMan  over a year ago

dudley


"Hey everyone.

I have been gearing myself to come to a club night tonight....and my partner (who's away) has just reminded me that I am still recovering from a coldsore outbreak.

IS it feasible for me to still go? And just not engage in kissing or oral? Will people recoil from me in disgust?

With all due respect why would you even think of going if there's the slightest chance of infecting other people

Is there a chance in infecting people if I don't kiss or do anything oral with them? I've managed my whole life without infecting anyone.... "

Do you get cold sores regularly?

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By *ickawitchCouple  over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Do you get cold sores regularly?"

That’s really none of your business

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

I think it's feasible to go for socialising.

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By *arol321Woman  over a year ago

Poole

I’d find it hard to play without kissing so personally I’d steer clear until it’s completely gone. There will be other times I’m sure.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never had a cold sore before so I can’t help.. sorry!

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By *ookie46Woman  over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Go for the social side if nothing else

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By *iss LovelyWoman  over a year ago

Here and There

If it’s your first time in a club and having the cold sore affects your confidence then I’d give it a miss. Go when you feel your best and can play fully should you want to.

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By *anKate OP   Woman  over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Hey everyone.

I have been gearing myself to come to a club night tonight....and my partner (who's away) has just reminded me that I am still recovering from a coldsore outbreak.

IS it feasible for me to still go? And just not engage in kissing or oral? Will people recoil from me in disgust?

With all due respect why would you even think of going if there's the slightest chance of infecting other people

Is there a chance in infecting people if I don't kiss or do anything oral with them? I've managed my whole life without infecting anyone....

Do you get cold sores regularly?"

Why do you ask?

I get them about once a month, can go 2 months if I'm lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well Kate did you go and did it make any difference?

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By *anKate OP   Woman  over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Well Kate did you go and did it make any difference? "

I did go! And I had a great night dancing and building up my confidence and then I had a very lovely time playing with a couple.

We used the not kissing as part of the play.

Although I was gutted I didn't get to perform any oral!!

But leaves something to look forward to for next time :D

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Good for you .your a brave girl ,hope your partner appreciates you.

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By *akeitwet99Man  over a year ago

leeds

Definitely wouldn’t bother me

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