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By *r_BigHead OP Man
over a year ago
The Naughty Step (aka Northampton) |
I keep my Vanilla life and my life on the scene very separate. But, as a result I often find that I don't have people to chat to about swinging related subjects (as well as everything else). Which is one of the reasons I enjoy random chats in clubs so much (usually in a hottub lol).
I wondered if others felt the same? And if anyone wanted to exchange some swinging related banter, share experiences (good and bad) and just chat in general?
Sorry if I've waffled on (Mmm.. waffles)  |
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"I keep my Vanilla life and my life on the scene very separate. But, as a result I often find that I don't have people to chat to about swinging related subjects (as well as everything else). Which is one of the reasons I enjoy random chats in clubs so much (usually in a hottub lol).
I wondered if others felt the same? And if anyone wanted to exchange some swinging related banter, share experiences (good and bad) and just chat in general?
Sorry if I've waffled on (Mmm.. waffles) "
Chatting in the two mahoosive hot tubs at Chams is our favourite place...funnily enough we're there tomorrow..lol |
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By *r_BigHead OP Man
over a year ago
The Naughty Step (aka Northampton) |
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Chatting in the two mahoosive hot tubs at Chams is our favourite place...funnily enough we're there tomorrow..lol"
I love the cave theme in those hot tubs, it's very well done. I've had some great random chats there before. |
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Chatting in the two mahoosive hot tubs at Chams is our favourite place...funnily enough we're there tomorrow..lol
I love the cave theme in those hot tubs, it's very well done. I've had some great random chats there before."
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Chatting in the two mahoosive hot tubs at Chams is our favourite place...funnily enough we're there tomorrow..lol
I love the cave theme in those hot tubs, it's very well done. I've had some great random chats there before."
Cave theme? I've not ventured there yet, but that sounds intriguing. |
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over a year ago
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Personally swinging is part of my life and who I am and what I enjoy. All my friends (who aren’t involved) know what I do. We talk about it like they talk about their relationships. For me we’re not doing anything wrong so why is it a secret? |
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By *r_BigHead OP Man
over a year ago
The Naughty Step (aka Northampton) |
"Personally swinging is part of my life and who I am and what I enjoy. All my friends (who aren’t involved) know what I do. We talk about it like they talk about their relationships. For me we’re not doing anything wrong so why is it a secret? "
For me it's like keeping my work life and home life separate. Maybe we're stumbling across a deeper seeded issue where I compartmentalise my life (but I think we'd need a shrink for that one lol) |
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"Personally swinging is part of my life and who I am and what I enjoy. All my friends (who aren’t involved) know what I do. We talk about it like they talk about their relationships. For me we’re not doing anything wrong so why is it a secret? "
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"Personally swinging is part of my life and who I am and what I enjoy. All my friends (who aren’t involved) know what I do. We talk about it like they talk about their relationships. For me we’re not doing anything wrong so why is it a secret?
For me it's like keeping my work life and home life separate. Maybe we're stumbling across a deeper seeded issue where I compartmentalise my life (but I think we'd need a shrink for that one lol)"
Go see a shrink then? Compartmentalizations or being in “the closet” aren’t exactly healthy. |
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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago
West Midlands and West London |
OP, my partner and I keep it quiet as we don't want family and friends and work to know. We are a romantic couple so people would be far too nosey or shocked and I don't care to explain to every single person! I have a few select friends who know and I'm good with that. Love talking about it to others who enjoy NSA though! If you ever want to chat, drop me a PM x |
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