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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Curious to see if anyone enjoys softer meets, meets for fun but without going all the way?
Excuse the openness but sometimes I get the urge to just finger someone until they orgasm and that’s it, or eat them out. Make it all about them for a bit and that’s the meet. Maybe even softer, just some kissing and touching.
Everyone seems to be here for full blown meets which I understand is the norm but seeing who’s about that likes to take things slower, or just have a softer play initially |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Curious to see if anyone enjoys softer meets, meets for fun but without going all the way?
Excuse the openness but sometimes I get the urge to just finger someone until they orgasm and that’s it, or eat them out. Make it all about them for a bit and that’s the meet. Maybe even softer, just some kissing and touching.
Everyone seems to be here for full blown meets which I understand is the norm but seeing who’s about that likes to take things slower, or just have a softer play initially "
I totally agree. Love the exploration. |
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We are soft swing only combined with erotic photography. It is not very popular on here because as pointed out, most people want full sex. We have been doing it for about 20 years now and have done literally hundreds of sessions - mostly with men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We soft swing prefer to be together and be watched
If comfortable would invite for more
Becus we are so in love it’s hard to get the right people or person to do this with
But also we like the horny ness of others watching us
And want to give others pleasure too
Xxxxx |
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"I don't think full sex is necessary in all play meets but find too many just want to jump straight into in I like the build up of chatting and a social before things go further"
Agree with this the preface of expectation can sometimes be a turn off... Build up is definitely a bonus! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We soft swing prefer to be together and be watched
If comfortable would invite for more
Becus we are so in love it’s hard to get the right people or person to do this with
But also we like the horny ness of others watching us
And want to give others pleasure too
Xxxxx"
That’s something I would love to try! Being newer to meets as we’re now moving out of covid, I want to know where my boundaries and comfort levels are so would love to watch and then join if comfortable etc.
Everyone seems too experienced and know what they want! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't think full sex is necessary in all play meets but find too many just want to jump straight into in I like the build up of chatting and a social before things go further
Agree with this the preface of expectation can sometimes be a turn off... Build up is definitely a bonus!"
Build up and connection seem to make it seem much better!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We soft swing prefer to be together and be watched
If comfortable would invite for more
Becus we are so in love it’s hard to get the right people or person to do this with
But also we like the horny ness of others watching us
And want to give others pleasure too
Xxxxx
That’s something I would love to try! Being newer to meets as we’re now moving out of covid, I want to know where my boundaries and comfort levels are so would love to watch and then join if comfortable etc.
Everyone seems too experienced and know what they want! "
Shame you so far away from us ha
Xxxxx
Try start going the clubs then and just watch there’s loads of couples who love just being watched in there xxxx |
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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago
Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk |
"I don't think full sex is necessary in all play meets but find too many just want to jump straight into in I like the build up of chatting and a social before things go further
Agree with this the preface of expectation can sometimes be a turn off... Build up is definitely a bonus!"
Totally I like to get to know people and know that I feel comfortable with them,I think that the social side can be just as enjoyable and the build to a first kiss, I don't like the pressure of a "wham bam thank you mam" type meet I find things much more fun when you're relaxed rather than the pressure of having to perform |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Curious to see if anyone enjoys softer meets, meets for fun but without going all the way?
Excuse the openness but sometimes I get the urge to just finger someone until they orgasm and that’s it, or eat them out. Make it all about them for a bit and that’s the meet. Maybe even softer, just some kissing and touching.
Everyone seems to be here for full blown meets which I understand is the norm but seeing who’s about that likes to take things slower, or just have a softer play initially "
Yep. That would be fine with me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We met a couple for soft swing a few years ago and it was very enjoyable.We would definitely do it again with the right couple.
M and M "
What did it entail? I’m curious how softer meets play out |
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"We met a couple for soft swing a few years ago and it was very enjoyable.We would definitely do it again with the right couple.
M and M
What did it entail? I’m curious how softer meets play out "
Pretty much everything except penetration. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are sometimes occaions where it is right for a Softer first meet and nothing wrong in a bit of tactile connection , kissing/gentle grope etc - in its way that leads to you both/all deciding if you want more
The flip side is that if you have engaged in a mutual chat about prospects of meeting up for sex and done of your normal checking other out so to speak, then getting naked and have sex would feel right
Just an opinion
J xx  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Soft swing can be very erotic especially if you are both comfortable with no further action. I’d imagine if the lady wants a soft swing and the guys pushing for more it would kill the mood"
Like with anything, there will always be the select few that completely ruin it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We met a couple who were in their own catagory. They played as a couple but only the female did full penetrative sex. The male half of the couple did all but penetration. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s a great way to start. Meets can sometimes be daunting with a lack of chemistry. If you make your first meet with the person in question a soft swing scenario and see where it leads, I can promise you the next meet will feel 100 times better. |
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I don’t like to pre-empt anything in meets and just go with the flow.
There have been occasions I’ve happily enjoyed a meet without full sex on my behalf, focussing on others.
Particularly bi MMF, there can be so much going on. I used to meet a bi couple close to me regularly and it wasn’t unusual for me to not have penetrative sex but we always enjoyed.
Quite happy sharing him and having him cum over the two of us then, after we’ve cleaned up it’s my turn to to be treated by the two of them. Or I’d just lend a helping hand to them while they fucked.
On other occasions I’d be at it like a rabbit.
All depends on the mood. |
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We are a full swap couple but actually I quite like the idea of sometimes just doing soft swap. Would be nice to have social and play with no rush to get to sex. It’s all about different experiences and it would soon get boring for us if every meet went the same way.
Kx |
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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago
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"Sounds perfect to me but from what I've seen on here most ladies seem to be in a rush to get fucked "
In my experience it's the opposite few men will do a social without expecting it to go further there and then, I've been accused of being a time waster for wanting a no promise of play social |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds perfect to me but from what I've seen on here most ladies seem to be in a rush to get fucked
In my experience it's the opposite few men will do a social without expecting it to go further there and then, I've been accused of being a time waster for wanting a no promise of play social"
Hmm see I would like to do that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Soft swing takes the pressure off,i have met some couples who enjoy it better if they know they are not going to be pushed into anything they are not happy with .Anyway it can be so much more erotic with teasing and touching . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’re only soft swing, each to their own 
What do your meets entail?"
Everything but sex basically that’s purely with our own partners but I think everyone has their own version of soft swop. |
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It’s my preference for a first meet, but most of my messages come from guys who are going to ‘fuck my brains out’ 
I do enjoy some anal play, but that can come from fingers or tongue, as the only guys sticking anything else up there needs to have my trust and be experienced.
So soft play in which both of us are satisfied afterwards can lead on to more later.  |
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