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over a year ago
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Is it us or do people not meet on here anymore, used to be, you put up a meet today and you would have loads of people message, now its only fakes and dreamers, or are we being to picky? |
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"People do meet but it takes a lot of churning and scavenging through loads of time wasters and fakes.
Just be patient .  "
I can only agree with this comment - you have to do a lot of work to find the real ( and very sexy) people that are there - but in my experience they are great when you meet |
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"Is it us or do people not meet on here anymore, used to be, you put up a meet today and you would have loads of people message, now its only fakes and dreamers, or are we being to picky?"
Well it maybe was for couples and women lol  |
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over a year ago
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"Just go to a club its easier"
its on our want to do list, problem is we dont have any nearbye, so takes alot of planning, childcare etc and also alot of expense before we even get there |
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"Is it us or do people not meet on here anymore, used to be, you put up a meet today and you would have loads of people message, now its only fakes and dreamers, or are we being to picky?"
My understanding is there are a few good social groups in Hampshire they are probably to easiest way to meet genuine swingers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it us or do people not meet on here anymore, used to be, you put up a meet today and you would have loads of people message, now its only fakes and dreamers, or are we being to picky?
My understanding is there are a few good social groups in Hampshire they are probably to easiest way to meet genuine swingers"
Oh 100 percent, I was just responding to the question about meets |
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over a year ago
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"Blimey... What am I doing wrong... Every time I respond to a meet I am told I will be added to a list as a maybe lol "
probably because ou arent what we are looking for |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it us or do people not meet on here anymore, used to be, you put up a meet today and you would have loads of people message, now its only fakes and dreamers, or are we being to picky?
My understanding is there are a few good social groups in Hampshire they are probably to easiest way to meet genuine swingers"
weve been to a few, very clicky and not people we would ever play with |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Blimey... What am I doing wrong... Every time I respond to a meet I am told I will be added to a list as a maybe lol
probably because ou arent what we are looking for"
Oh I meant in general sorry x |
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"Blimey... What am I doing wrong... Every time I respond to a meet I am told I will be added to a list as a maybe lol
probably because ou arent what we are looking for
Oh I meant in general sorry x"
did get your point, and it stands, dont be sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just go to a club its easier"
Clubs are great for socials but like Fab we can't filter people there . You will only go on appearance but can't filter if bi, smoker, drug user, barebacker , married etc |
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"Just go to a club its easier
Clubs are great for socials but like Fab we can't filter people there . You will only go on appearance but can't filter if bi, smoker, drug user, barebacker , married etc "
That is something we struggle with a bit too.
Fortunately we don't tend to struggle with the meets on here. We've only been messed about by no showers a couple of times and one of those was someone we met before but that just means he won't get a third chance. |
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Definitely a lot of fantasists. But our interests are certainly a more acquired taste  so we don't really mind.
Our approach is to plan for a great night that another person/couple could fit into - that way it's not a disappointment if they cancel/ghost/etc. |
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"We've only been messed about by no showers a couple of times and one of those was someone we met before but that just means he won't get a third chance."
If someone showed up without having a shower we'd probably close the door on them  |
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"Is it us or do people not meet on here anymore, used to be, you put up a meet today and you would have loads of people message, now its only fakes and dreamers, or are we being to picky?"
It could just be that your needs and the needs of others meeting do not match.
A little while back I had a single profile when the wife wanted me to meet solo.
As I was looking for more one off type meets as did not really have the time to invest in a long back and forth chat, I did respond to a few meet today requests.
I did not get any replies but I assume that is because they had better offers and I did not meet their desires.
So yes people do use the meet today function but there still needs to be that chemistry in both directions even for a quicky. |
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"Is it us or do people not meet on here anymore, used to be, you put up a meet today and you would have loads of people message, now its only fakes and dreamers, or are we being to picky?"
If hadn't woke with a sty on my eye and a cold I'd have taken you up on your Friday night offer...Only hour away - well saying that drove to New Alresford couple weekends ago and took me 2.5hrs thanks to bank holiday traffic, worth it for the night I had though. |
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