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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !
Why do guys do that ?
Katie x |
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"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !
Why do guys do that ?
Katie x"
Have a great time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !
Why do guys do that ?
Katie x"
Next time ,invite male halves of cpls and see the difference  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a strange one that as a single guy, I've never understood. You manage to get thru the messages and whatever selection criteria the couple have (which is understandable) and then ghost them? So,do they get so turned on over it and have a wank and lose the excitement or do they bottle it? Is it all fantasy and they are actually stuck indoors watching MOTD with the Mrs? God only knows what goes thru their minds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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last time we tried to organise one, we invited loads expecting 10 to turn up, all were keen and sent messages till the last min, must have been about 29, we wanted 10, 1 turned up, hope it goes better for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !
Why do guys do that ?
Katie x"
Lose their bottle. Piss take tbh after people have organised a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not just gangbangs, it's a standing joke at most town / city organised parties. 50 - 100 single blokes ask for details at most 5 turn up.
You need to be  on this site to find genuine meets |
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"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !
Why do guys do that ?
Katie x"
I’d certainly show up to gangbang you! |
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Do you meet them first for socials? I think if they show reliability for socials, you have a slightly higher attendance success at gangbangs. If I wanted 4, I'd have 10 potentials, with about 8 invites.
Agreed confirmation message on the morning, or they lose the invite and offered to another. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had the same. 4 invited, 4 reserves, only one being there... I cancelled the hotel room at my own cost.
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I'd re-arrange if I were you...you'd have 2 this time, at least....?? |
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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
I think there are too many dreamers or guys that bottle it.
Last 1 I went to in Derby it was 4 invited and only I turned up. The couple were even chatting to the one guy by text he was saying he was in the bar of the hotel, and I went down with the hubby to look for him and he wasn’t there.
However I had a great night with them |
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"I had the same. 4 invited, 4 reserves, only one being there... I cancelled the hotel room at my own cost.
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This is why we don't pay for hotels anymore, our money is better spent going to clubs where there is always the chance of a good gang bang   |
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By *lhr1061Man
over a year ago
Warwickshire |
"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !
Why do guys do that ?
Katie x"
I have no idea why guys wouldn't turn up for a gang bang with you, I'd be there early  |
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"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !
Why do guys do that ?
Katie x"
Why not invite the same 6 guys that are fucking you in your photos, surely they have friends they could bring as well ?
Your in MK isn’t the Red Bull F1 team down the road, they have big pit crews
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !
Why do guys do that ?
Katie x"
Firstly, I do feel that some guys are fantasists.
Secondly, I feel there is a.lack of confidence in their own abilities, so bottle at last minute
Third, some just like the chase.
Four... How the fuck would anyone turn down a chance with you both
Hope next time, things go perfectly for you |
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Why dont they turn up? They get stage fright usually.
Most men like the idea of a group or gang fuck but when it becomes a reality a lot chicken out because the cannot cope with the competition. With being naked with other men. Being watched as they perform. Being found to be a liar after all the stories they told when chatting. Cock size comparisons etc etc.
Why agree and then backout? It's wank fodder until after by which time they are persuing another woman. If they have no group or GB veris don't ask them. |
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In our experience, Most guys are extremely turned on by the fantasy of a gang bang , but in reality they are scared of being watched, close contact with the other guys, not being able to preform, etc etc !!
That’s why we like to play with guys that are experienced in group sex & are comfortable with each other’s presence, x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In our experience, Most guys are extremely turned on by the fantasy of a gang bang , but in reality they are scared of being watched, close contact with the other guys, not being able to preform, etc etc !!
That’s why we like to play with guys that are experienced in group sex & are comfortable with each other’s presence, x "
In some of my gb I held for my old fb I saw just that some guys couldn't get it up and would leave or just watch n wank |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (M) was once the only guy that turned up to a gangbang. I felt so bad for the woman - she had booked a hotel room, got dressed up, etc.
When I set up Slut's first gangbang I basically three-stage interviewed the guys  but also set our expectations really low. Luckily they all turned up and we had a great time.
Though, Covid-willing, we prefer clubs nowadays. |
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"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !
Why do guys do that ?
Katie x"
Crazy , I would pay for an invite just to turn up and watch !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I (M) was once the only guy that turned up to a gangbang. I felt so bad for the woman - she had booked a hotel room, got dressed up, etc.
When I set up Slut's first gangbang I basically three-stage interviewed the guys but also set our expectations really low. Luckily they all turned up and we had a great time.
Though, Covid-willing, we prefer clubs nowadays."
After id done a few successful gb I'd invite the guys that turned up and got full involved to any others I did after |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having ran these sort of events in the past - we found it best if you kept GB's etc just to those who you'd previously met and build up from there - it worked for me and my ex FB on here some time back
J xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Coz many guys are just fantasists and like the idea of stuff like that but don’t have the balls for it "
Not all of us. But the non shows are the ones that get us all a bad name. I still think fab should do a poss or neg section like e bay. Show everyone the people that let them down. |
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This is a problem for which rudness should be held to account.
When you meey, there is the potential to do verifications.
Why not do a verification that shows who was invited, who confirmed and who showed up.
Then people can see that there is a hostory of people who honour commitment and those who do not.
Organising a GB seems to be a painstaking task of advertising then selection, organising on the day, not to mention hotel costs etc.
If I say I will do something, then I will do my utmost to keep that promise.
I am mot proposing a name and shame or vitriolic, but simply those who do actually turn up are reflected as such and an invite to another event will be more likely.
Another idea is that men gather and set up an MMM+ profile for this particular activity and they self manage and agree protocol and actions if non attendance occurs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is a problem for which rudness should be held to account.
When you meey, there is the potential to do verifications.
Why not do a verification that shows who was invited, who confirmed and who showed up.
Then people can see that there is a hostory of people who honour commitment and those who do not.
Organising a GB seems to be a painstaking task of advertising then selection, organising on the day, not to mention hotel costs etc.
If I say I will do something, then I will do my utmost to keep that promise.
I am mot proposing a name and shame or vitriolic, but simply those who do actually turn up are reflected as such and an invite to another event will be more likely.
Another idea is that men gather and set up an MMM+ profile for this particular activity and they self manage and agree protocol and actions if non attendance occurs."
This is almost what i mean. Feedback ratting like e bay. That way the person will show up as a timewaster |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had the same. 4 invited, 4 reserves, only one being there... I cancelled the hotel room at my own cost.
Damn! I wouldn’t have missed that one  "
but would you tho |
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If you think a successful GB will be organised by putting a meet up and asking for “applications” it’s destined to fail. I have organised a few now(3-4 guys) and significant dialogue took place prior and as a result everyone showed.
I now have another profile on fab that I run called ‘two big guys’ ( actually 3 of us now  ). offering 2-3 guy experience. Next MFM is on Tuesday. |
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I think the guys who will turn up are those who have turned up to a gb before. If you are inviting guys who have never turned up to a gb before then I think it is likely that they will bottle it.
If you have an existing relationship (meet/social) with someone then I think they will be more likely to turn up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had three guys stand me up for a mini bang. Then arranged to meet another guy so I got some use out of the hotel room, he stood me up. This happened two more times so I was stood up 6 times in total. The guy who did show up send a photo of a dick that was not the dick he provided (totally cockfished) and lasted 4 minutes. You couldn't make this shit up lol |
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"I had three guys stand me up for a mini bang. Then arranged to meet another guy so I got some use out of the hotel room, he stood me up. This happened two more times so I was stood up 6 times in total. The guy who did show up send a photo of a dick that was not the dick he provided (totally cockfished) and lasted 4 minutes. You couldn't make this shit up lol"
Cockfished lol  |
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This always happens it seems, a couple of months back a couple organised a gangbang in Surrey, they’d invited 6 guys including myself, the girlfriend was sexy, but only I turned up, well the gangbang ended up being a mfm, fun was had by all, but disappointing if group fun is what we were expecting. |
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"I had three guys stand me up for a mini bang. Then arranged to meet another guy so I got some use out of the hotel room, he stood me up. This happened two more times so I was stood up 6 times in total. The guy who did show up send a photo of a dick that was not the dick he provided (totally cockfished) and lasted 4 minutes. You couldn't make this shit up lol
Cockfished lol "
It wasn’t a cockfish but a tiddler |
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"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !
Why do guys do that ?
Katie x"
Well, today's the day Katie and I hope all 4 guys turn up for you.
Please update us on what happens. I hope you have lots of fun xxx |
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I had one and all 8 turned up. It was organised by a friend and he knew all the men involved well. Think it is better to know and trust the men in advance rather than pick random men on here. Maybe women should start taking £50 from men beforehand and return it on the night when they turn up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !
Why do guys do that ?
Katie x"
A lot of them get their satisfaction from the excitement of being invited but lack the nerves to attend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Non shows drive me mad, if I say I'm going to turn up I do. There are so many people who talk but don't meet on here. It's a sex site, not the National Trust dating site! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People just bottle it. I went to one a few years ago where the lady wanted 8 guys and 3 turned up, which by the looks of it is pretty decent turn out.
I think most guys get horny thinking about it, have a wank and get post nut clarity and then that’s them staying in for the night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's the risk of covid. "
No. It's the fear of being naked with a bunch of other naked guys. Never been a problem for me, if there is a chance of fucking a willing woman I find attractive I do turn up. I'm a simple man, operated by one lever. |
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By *69meMan
over a year ago
Cambridgeshire |
"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !
Why do guys do that ?
Katie x"
Wow! Fab profile!
I would love to attend one of your meets - either as a participant or as an official cleanup guy if you need one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !
Why do guys do that ?
Katie x"
Ive organisers a few GB, best get a mobile number off the guys wanting to attend. That way you sort out the TW from the gen |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are holding a Gangbang at our hotel room on Saturday evening, 4 guys are attending but it’s going to be interesting to see if they all turn up. Last time 3 booked, only one arrived !
Why do guys do that ?
Katie x
Next time ,invite male halves of cpls and see the difference "
100% this |
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