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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For you guys that are turned on by being with a married woman (either with a couple or on her own) what is it about them being married that does it for you?
Was just reading the post about women keeping wedding rings on and having a morning ponder.
Mandy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love married woman cant get enough. I think it's because they belong to someone else but they are using me. I enjoy it more if the husband doesn't know. Bad ennit |
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It's that taboo feeling of having a married woman, I find it hot that she wants sex from someone other than her husband I love the idea of being the guy to have her.
I might be biased as well since I'm into the cuckold lifestyle but I also like showing off to the hub that I have his wife. Not with every couple mind you but it is something I enjoy if the husband and wife like pics and videos. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love married woman cant get enough. I think it's because they belong to someone else but they are using me. I enjoy it more if the husband doesn't know. Bad ennit"
No judgement here, just curious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love married woman cant get enough. I think it's because they belong to someone else but they are using me. I enjoy it more if the husband doesn't know. Bad ennit
No judgement here, just curious"
Everyone has kinks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure about meeting a married woman without her husband knowing. But I love being involved with couples, being invited to join in with people who are intimate is such a turn on for me. A man sharing his wife really excites me Havent played with a married woman alone with her husbands consent yet, but would love to try that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If she’s out looking for meets on her own, usually it’s because she unsatisfied in my experience. Feeling like you’re filling that need for someone is hot, but there’s sometimes an element of guilt! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always been a huge turn on for me whether when I've met another man's wife in the past or even in cam in the present day and the wedding ring just adds to the thrill. Don't ask me why - maybe I need to lay on the couch haha, but I think the fact they're somebody else's but sharing initmate moments with you is the main thing that gets the good hormones flowing. That includes you if you wish OP lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good question OP! Guess it’s that added taboo, something extra you shouldn’t do in ‘normal’ life, breaks the rules a little more? I’m a married woman so don’t have the answer lol"
In your case, it would be that backside!  |
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For me it was a few things
- it’s something I shouldn’t be doing.
- the risk.
- the spontaneous nature of it, like I’d often receive a text after not hearing from her for weeks asking if I was free because he’d gone for a few pints.
- I also loved the thought of her arriving home, playing the perfect life but still feeling where I’ve been or full of my cum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love married ladies they know what they want, usually something they are not getting at home, they just want to escape for a few hours etc then back to reality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love married ladies they know what they want, usually something they are not getting at home, they just want to escape for a few hours etc then back to reality "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good to hear different views on it.
As a married woman I'm happy of your appreciation for us  "
I am always appreciative of a married woman, I don't mind meeting on their own or with hubby present and joining in, I love both scenarios equally... |
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I think it's more of a privilege to be with a married woman or see pics of one naked.You are allowed into the personal world that they share with their spouse. I particularly like the idea of wives who are shy and I'm the first to be with them since they've been married. Same with wife pics, very hot ...  |
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It’s ridiculously intimate, flattering and erotic. The fact a married woman has chosen to do this with you is incredible, and the longer it goes on the more you learn about what she truly likes, is missing, and therefore (hopefully) able to fulfil her needs more than your own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For you guys that are turned on by being with a married woman (either with a couple or on her own) what is it about them being married that does it for you?
Was just reading the post about women keeping wedding rings on and having a morning ponder.
Mandy x"
Yes I love it. If the Mr knows or not. Such a turn on. Just saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good question OP! Guess it’s that added taboo, something extra you shouldn’t do in ‘normal’ life, breaks the rules a little more? I’m a married woman so don’t have the answer lol"
I agree with you here, it's about that word 'normal' isn't it |
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"Trying to decide if I like being forbidden fruit or not..?
You look a peach. Xx
(Corny, i know).
Peaches and cream?
Even whipped if you like. "
I don’t want to take this any further off topic, but mmmm  |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Trying to decide if I like being forbidden fruit or not..?
You look a peach. Xx
(Corny, i know).
Peaches and cream?
Even whipped if you like.
I don’t want to take this any further off topic, but mmmm "
It could always be continued in a PM.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For you guys that are turned on by being with a married woman (either with a couple or on her own) what is it about them being married that does it for you?
Was just reading the post about women keeping wedding rings on and having a morning ponder.
Mandy x"
It's about the excitement of doing it with a woman who's not as easily "available". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I prefer when hubby is present, knowing he loves her that much that making her happy and seeing her happy is paramount for him. Whether he joins or not is irrelevant to me, just getting the privilege of being with someone who is that loved and important to another person is special. You don't get that with singles. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s ridiculously intimate, flattering and erotic. The fact a married woman has chosen to do this with you is incredible, and the longer it goes on the more you learn about what she truly likes, is missing, and therefore (hopefully) able to fulfil her needs more than your own."
Sounds perfect. Love this xx |
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For me, it’s closely tied up with the whole hotwife dynamic. I think there are two different dynamics that make it especially hot. If a married woman confidently pursues sex with other men, then it’s the eroticism of her openly choosing to satisfy her own desires. That honest, powerful horniness, stripped of any relationship stuff, where she just wants to get her hands on a male body or even simply to be fucked by a stranger, is incredibly sexy.
The other dynamic, for me, is the one where the husband offers his wife to strangers (full consent, of course!). In clubs she might be tied to a bench, put in a swing, even collared and blindfolded, and he vets the guys and controls the situation. I’ve been part of a few scenes like this, and - whether she’s being worshipped or ‘used’ - the hotness here is definitely to do with seeing another man’s wife turned into a purely sexual being. Especially if she’s teased and edged properly throughout!
Just one guy’s view…
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"For me, it’s closely tied up with the whole hotwife dynamic. I think there are two different dynamics that make it especially hot. If a married woman confidently pursues sex with other men, then it’s the eroticism of her openly choosing to satisfy her own desires. That honest, powerful horniness, stripped of any relationship stuff, where she just wants to get her hands on a male body or even simply to be fucked by a stranger, is incredibly sexy.
The other dynamic, for me, is the one where the husband offers his wife to strangers (full consent, of course!). In clubs she might be tied to a bench, put in a swing, even collared and blindfolded, and he vets the guys and controls the situation. I’ve been part of a few scenes like this, and - whether she’s being worshipped or ‘used’ - the hotness here is definitely to do with seeing another man’s wife turned into a purely sexual being. Especially if she’s teased and edged properly throughout!
Just one guy’s view…
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Who wouldn’t enjoy such scenarios! x |
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I think its k owing they belong to another and enjoy choosing another man to fulfil a need or desire. Often they are more relaxed and willing to try new things or fantasies, or I love when they enjoy giving their partner a show to remember |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I probably shouldn't say this, but......
No guy wanting to join a couple shouldn't think he can please her better than her partner.  "
I agree with this, there's been a few posts saying that there's something lacking and for us that's absolutely not the case it enhances an already very good sex life and the only thing he can't give me alone is two cocks |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"I probably shouldn't say this, but......
No guy wanting to join a couple shouldn't think he can please her better than her partner.
I agree with this, there's been a few posts saying that there's something lacking and for us that's absolutely not the case it enhances an already very good sex life and the only thing he can't give me alone is two cocks "
Just say when and I'll there. |
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As a married man of a certain age I like to meet married women of a certain age. I find it keeps things simple as we are both of the same mindset...to have fun. I have been seeing a married woman on and off for 30 years, we are both still married to the same partners who have no idea. I have seen other married women over that time and never had any drama. Works for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love married woman cant get enough. I think it's because they belong to someone else but they are using me. I enjoy it more if the husband doesn't know. Bad ennit"
It's as much fun when the husband is fully aware, cuck or horrify, whatever the dynamic |
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"For you guys that are turned on by being with a married woman (either with a couple or on her own) what is it about them being married that does it for you?
Was just reading the post about women keeping wedding rings on and having a morning ponder.
Mandy x"
The taste of a forbidden fruit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definately the taboo factor I think and knowing your pleasuring another man's wife whether he's watching , joining or not even present its the thrill of knowing she's fulfilled then going back to normal life |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's very hard to find a single guy that understands the dynamic between a husband and wife - a lot of these posts from single men highlight why it's so difficult. "
They are out there though, we've met some amazing guys x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The couples relationship is the most important thing.. Anyone lucky enough to be invited should add to that.. Not take away.. Agree all boundaries and have fun x |
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As a single guy, meeting a couple I have always taken the view that I am a guest in their sex lives and afford them the respect that’s due as a result of that … it’s just that societally it’s viewed as wrong that turns me on |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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"It's very hard to find a single guy that understands the dynamic between a husband and wife - a lot of these posts from single men highlight why it's so difficult.
They are out there though, we've met some amazing guys x"
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By *LiamMan
over a year ago
Midlands |
"It's very hard to find a single guy that understands the dynamic between a husband and wife - a lot of these posts from single men highlight why it's so difficult. "
so what is it you want exactly?
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"It's very hard to find a single guy that understands the dynamic between a husband and wife - a lot of these posts from single men highlight why it's so difficult. "
But we're not all Neanderthals |
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The fantasy of doing what you’re not meant to and being able to please someone else’s wife who can’t then join in. Putting limits and control and being the one they fantasise or are getting the pleasure from ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For you guys that are turned on by being with a married woman (either with a couple or on her own) what is it about them being married that does it for you?
Was just reading the post about women keeping wedding rings on and having a morning ponder.
Mandy x"
I dont mind if the husband knows or not(dont shout at me) its the fact they shouldnt be doing it that turns me on i think . Seeing the wedding rings knowing she is taken but giving herself to me is a turn on .
Dont get me wrong its just as hot if the husband is watching but her meeting me while he knows and isnt there really does it for me . Cant explain it . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It feels like you are with a lady who loves her sex and is liberated.
I meet couples and give the lady a massage with fragrant oils, candles and dreamy music. The husband normally watches but very few join in and are happy to see their wives on cloud nine with a broad grin of sensual satisfaction. |
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As the wife of a man who enjoys seeing me with others i can assure you that the reason we do this has nothing to do with anything lacking from my husband. My wedding ring never comes off. Its sexy as hell  |
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By *r SxxMan
over a year ago
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That's a good question, hmmm , and I can't quite put my finger on it!
Maybe it's because when with a married lady, she/and her husband have "chosen"you to play with her? Maybe it's because Married ladies tend to be more forward on a meet because you're there for a special reason, a special treat?
Sleeping with a married lady, even when allowed is still naughty/taboo/risky?
I don't know tbh.
For whatever reason though, it's great! |
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"Initially it was all about the forbidden fruit of playing with another man's wife, but the reality is; married women playing away are the most genuine, reliable, and discreet people to play with "
This in my opinion also goes for some married men. X |
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Hi Mandy,
For me it’s similar to borrowing your mates high end Ferrari. It’s a thrill firstly because he trusts you to borrow it.. you can take that baby and drive it how it’s supposed to be driven. I’d obviously get a feel for how he/she wants me to drive and then have as much fun as possible within those parameters... |
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"For you guys that are turned on by being with a married woman (either with a couple or on her own) what is it about them being married that does it for you?
Was just reading the post about women keeping wedding rings on and having a morning ponder.
Mandy x"
. I don’t need agree I love seeing my wife and watching her when I’m out showing off gorgeous body knowing full well it’s turning me on I am privileged to have such a beautiful lady by my side |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a single guy, meeting a couple I have always taken the view that I am a guest in their sex lives and afford them the respect that’s due as a result of that … it’s just that societally it’s viewed as wrong that turns me on "
This - I ve been invited into there sexual fantasies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Massive turn on .. whether they are playing away with permission or not .. can't deny it.
Best sex I've had was with a married woman. Easier to talk to, more chatty and less hangups than single girls on average I find. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Having spoke to a fair few men about this, I'd say for a large number of single guys, it's all about massaging their ego "I'm giving her what her husband cannot".
That's perfect fine of course if everybody leaves with a smile on their face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having spoke to a fair few men about this, I'd say for a large number of single guys, it's all about massaging their ego "I'm giving her what her husband cannot".
That's perfect fine of course if everybody leaves with a smile on their face."
Not at all . My ego got nothing to do with it for me.. Married women are very much more fun in my experience and filthier with it. Got nothing to do with the hubby directly.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having spoke to a fair few men about this, I'd say for a large number of single guys, it's all about massaging their ego "I'm giving her what her husband cannot".
That's perfect fine of course if everybody leaves with a smile on their face.
Not at all . My ego got nothing to do with it for me.. Married women are very much more fun in my experience and filthier with it. Got nothing to do with the hubby directly.."
Maybe you're the exception then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I need to add to this after being in the pub tonight. 2 married girls flirting beyond belief looking for a party, I’m not a housebreaker addict much as I want to have some action because of the lack of it I’ve had I can’t do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We love to meet married usually when hubby knows or watches but sometimes when he doesn't know . I think it's because they belong to someone else and just adds to the excitement and are just using us for sex....
Knowing that hubby it going to reclaim her after we have shared her is a thrill  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have to admit I love the thought of going with a married woman especially when the husband doesn’t know and sending her home full of my cum.
It’s the whole naughtiness of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it as simple as LOVE and FUN for eithe man or woman situation ..to be involved with a couple or know a couple so strong and deep in love is extra special too |
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I love the excitement that being with a married woman brings. Knowing she’s willing to take a ‘risk’ because she actually wants me as much as I want her is a huge turn on. The ‘taboo’ side of it plays directly into the situation, making it my biggest fantasy.
My profile pic is with a married woman (hubby too the pic) and I think this shows how much we were both enjoying ourselves lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We do find most couples like to keep photos of our meets .
The vast majority of our pics are the hubby taking pics as we like the coue to have the pics and they send us the ones that they are happy to share. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The wife being at least perceived as forbidden fruit makes it so much more naughty.
I love the fact that it's not just about the dynamic between the husband and wife, it's doing something that society thinks is taboo so what their view of how wrong it is comes into it.
A married woman isn't owned by her husband. It's possible for her to be a great wife, mother, soulmate but she is able to separate love and sex. Nothing wrong with a married woman loving cock and variety. Being a wife shouldn't have to mean missing out on cock, if she has the right husband
It's not all about the wife. I get how the husband might enjoy his wife being pleasured by another man, or pleasuring another man or simply being used. Your wife being a great wife by day but a cock loving slut by night can be a huge turn on. Yes not all wives who swing are cock sluts, or wannabe porn stars, some want to be made love to, chatted up, flirted with. Every one is different.
Couples are all different, as are individuals, and relationships. That's what makes finding people to swing with so hard! We all want sex or saucy fun but in different ways, with different people, for different reasons.
Personally it all starts for me with trying to get what the wife or couple want from meeting. If they are open, honest and we want the same things then it can be great fun and sexually satisfying. |
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plus they don't want to have a relationship with you once you've had a nice time 
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