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By *usty OP Woman
over a year ago
inverclyde |
A general question really........... pay membership then the cost for entry when they are not working and claiming either job seekers allowance or other benefit. I think I would prefer to use the cost of entry for other essential items.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A general question really........... pay membership then the cost for entry when they are not working and claiming either job seekers allowance or other benefit. I think I would prefer to use the cost of entry for other essential items. "
So are you saying only those in employment should be allowed to go to clubs?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A general question really........... pay membership then the cost for entry when they are not working and claiming either job seekers allowance or other benefit. I think I would prefer to use the cost of entry for other essential items.
So are you saying only those in employment should be allowed to go to clubs? "
She said she would rather spend money on other essential items . She said nothing about people been unemployed allowed to go to clubs... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A general question really........... pay membership then the cost for entry when they are not working and claiming either job seekers allowance or other benefit. I think I would prefer to use the cost of entry for other essential items.
So are you saying only those in employment should be allowed to go to clubs?
She said she would rather spend money on other essential items . She said nothing about people been unemployed allowed to go to clubs..."
It was posted as a question so it seems the OP wanted responses..I just asked if that was her opinion? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A general question really........... pay membership then the cost for entry when they are not working and claiming either job seekers allowance or other benefit. I think I would prefer to use the cost of entry for other essential items.
So are you saying only those in employment should be allowed to go to clubs?
She said she would rather spend money on other essential items . She said nothing about people been unemployed allowed to go to clubs...
It was posted as a question so it seems the OP wanted responses..I just asked if that was her opinion?"
Exactly , she was asking a question . Not you presuming what her opinion was.... |
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By *usty OP Woman
over a year ago
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I am not working for now been laid off on a temp stoppage and i would rather put my money on the essentials like day to day living, pay bills, food etc than my sexual pleasure that was all. I am not saying they cant go just asked a question nothing more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am not working for now been laid off on a temp stoppage and i would rather put my money on the essentials like day to day living, pay bills, food etc than my sexual pleasure that was all. I am not saying they cant go just asked a question nothing more"
Sorry to hear you have been laid off and of course eating/bills are a priority over sex. Your opening post seemed ambiguous in it's intent hence my response. |
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"I am not working for now been laid off on a temp stoppage and i would rather put my money on the essentials like day to day living, pay bills, food etc than my sexual pleasure that was all. I am not saying they cant go just asked a question nothing more"
then dont go to the clubs, no one is makng you. Not been to any clubs in Scotland but the one i go to down here is free for single ladies to join and a fiver to get in... |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I am not working for now been laid off on a temp stoppage and i would rather put my money on the essentials like day to day living, pay bills, food etc than my sexual pleasure that was all. I am not saying they cant go just asked a question nothing more"
A night at a club for a single woman is usually cheaper than a night out round town. (Or the cinema, as I found out the other night!  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A general question really........... pay membership then the cost for entry when they are not working and claiming either job seekers allowance or other benefit. I think I would prefer to use the cost of entry for other essential items.
So are you saying only those in employment should be allowed to go to clubs?
She said she would rather spend money on other essential items . She said nothing about people been unemployed allowed to go to clubs...
It was posted as a question so it seems the OP wanted responses..I just asked if that was her opinion?
Exactly , she was asking a question . Not you presuming what her opinion was...."
I made no presumption..I asked a question as the purpose of the post was unclear. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"i never said that i was going to any clubs infact i have never been to a swingers club ever, it was just a question as to how some can afford to go when on benefit nothing more  "
Perhaps they save up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i never said that i was going to any clubs infact i have never been to a swingers club ever, it was just a question as to how some can afford to go when on benefit nothing more "
Most of the clubs I attend it's free on the nights I go for single ladies. I can always get a lift and someone always covers my drinks. Now I'm not on benefit but I'd still be able to go anyway.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i never said that i was going to any clubs infact i have never been to a swingers club ever, it was just a question as to how some can afford to go when on benefit nothing more "
If that is your question, it wasn't clear in the original post.
I'd say you should spend your money as best suits you, and leave others to do the same.
As already mentioned, clubs tend not to be that expensive for single women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i never said that i was going to any clubs infact i have never been to a swingers club ever, it was just a question as to how some can afford to go when on benefit nothing more
If that is your question, it wasn't clear in the original post.
I'd say you should spend your money as best suits you, and leave others to do the same.
As already mentioned, clubs tend not to be that expensive for single women."
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"what a nutty post"
I "think" I understand what the OP was trying to say.... can you justify spending money on membership and entry on a club when money is tight....
of course the answer is no.. but it brings up one of my bugbears which is I don't think clubs that make people pay both membership and entry on a first visit are in a sense helping themselves...
absolutely missing a trick..... |
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By *usty OP Woman
over a year ago
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thanks _abio for that having read about some clubs they ask for a membership fee then entry fee...... ok some clubs say fems are free membership and then a nominal charge for entry.............. a guy can pay £25 membership then entry of £35 not a cheap night out.........and when not working well i know what i would do with my money if was a guy .......day to day living |
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