FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > a question for men who like to meet or want to meet cuckold couples
a question for men who like to meet or want to meet cuckold couples
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
so its often asked about what couples and cucks want from it but what do you guys who meet or want to meet cuckold couples want from it ....a chance for you bulls and other guys to say from your point of view ..... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
The main thing I enjoy is the sort of feeling of been alpha, most cuck couples i have been part of have involved the male not been there or been downstairs and using the females phone i have taken pics and videos of us and sent them him, the idea that he is looking at a video of me inside his wife is just a masive turn on. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I would love to meet couples in the role of the cuckold.
It's the being teased and denied while another is having fun in ways I would never do.
I often wonder when describing myself as a cuckold, am I a wannabe cuckold or a sub to a couple? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I would love to meet couples in the role of the cuckold.
It's the being teased and denied while another is having fun in ways I would never do.
I often wonder when describing myself as a cuckold, am I a wannabe cuckold or a sub to a couple?"
well to be honest the question was not really aimed at you being a cuck is a couples thing so i guess that just makes you a sub male ?? i know there are 100's of wannabe cucks but please this question is not for you its for those who want cuckold couples please dont derail the question ... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"so its often asked about what couples and cucks want from it but what do you guys who meet or want to meet cuckold couples want from it ....a chance for you bulls and other guys to say from your point of view ..... "
I don’t think there is really a difference between a cuck couple and anyone else to be honest
And I think anyone who calls themselves a bull is anything but….
Now the controversial stuff is out of the way, I think with all cases (not just cuckold) of understanding and being comfortable with the situation you are going into….. and like we have said in other threads there are varying degrees of what that means to people up and down the spectrum
For me any situation I go into means that I want to be turned on… and I want the other party or parties to be turned on….
It’s really as simple as that |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I would love to meet couples in the role of the cuckold.
It's the being teased and denied while another is having fun in ways I would never do.
I often wonder when describing myself as a cuckold, am I a wannabe cuckold or a sub to a couple?"
ive started another thread so sub guys and wannabe cucks can answer too from there point of view
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"
And I think anyone who calls themselves a bull is anything but….
"
i do so agree with this we never look for a bull but ive added it in as many couples do... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
The thrill is gaining the trust of the couple and the privilege of being allowed to have the wife alone, sometimes being watched by Mr and sometimes all together. More thrilling times come when they start to suggest scenarios that they want to involve you in, I think it's quite a special relationship that need a lot of trust and respect both ways, probably wouldn't work well as a one off last minute meet, maybe it would in a club scenario. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I guess you first have to find a genuine cuck couple, probably won't get too excited about what may happen until I find a likely couple."
thats a problem for cuck couples too there are 100s of us geniune couples but sadly very few men who understand that cuckold is not a porn film script and then one that is with in my preference as i wont go with anyone just because they want to meet a cuckold couple |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"The thrill is gaining the trust of the couple and the privilege of being allowed to have the wife alone, sometimes being watched by Mr and sometimes all together. More thrilling times come when they start to suggest scenarios that they want to involve you in, I think it's quite a special relationship that need a lot of trust and respect both ways, probably wouldn't work well as a one off last minute meet, maybe it would in a club scenario."
i find that some one off meets are good infact very good not only that one off leads to more if you click infact regulars have come from one off as find most who say they want regular really dont |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I've always found that the hotwiving / cuckold play tends to get much better the more the trust builds up. When both parts of the couple trust you, that's when things really get interesting. I've had a few wives stay with me overnight at mine & in hotels because they & their husbands feel safe with me. Take the time to build up the trust and you'll reap the rewards. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
As a bull to other couples. Part of it is the taboo of fucking someone you're not meant to, even if it's permissable.
There is something primal and dominant too about fucking another guys woman whether he is there or not.
Definitely feeds the ego a bit, especially when you get husbands messaging you saying you fucked their wife so well she smiled for days after.
And if your both tasted emptying your cum inside another man's wife is horny as fuck.
I've had my gf cuckold me a few times too.
I've always been turned on the idea of my partner fucking other guys and even cheating on me and telling me after. First gf cheated on me with another guy. Someone who knew told me and I read her diary to confirm it. The feeling of shock felt like I was hit in the gut, but made me so horny. So I've always wanted to do it in a relationship occasionally.
For me I like my gf to be with bigger than me. I'm not small, I'm 7 inches. She cums from just penetration with dicks and the bigger they are the more she comes.
I get turned on seeing my gf get pleasure even if I'm not doing it. Seeing her cum even more on a much bigger dick is horny as hell, and turns me on that they are much bigger than me and make her cum even harder than I do and more times.
I love the excitement and build up when I'm not there. Not knowing what she's doing. Waiting desperately to get the messages, pictures, videos and voice notes (her voice is sexy af, especially when describing things she's done with her black lover).
I've put a few of them on porn sites with her permission. I always get turned on knowing other men really want to fuck my woman. She has a exhibitionist side. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"The thrill is gaining the trust of the couple and the privilege of being allowed to have the wife alone, sometimes being watched by Mr and sometimes all together. More thrilling times come when they start to suggest scenarios that they want to involve you in, I think it's quite a special relationship that need a lot of trust and respect both ways, probably wouldn't work well as a one off last minute meet, maybe it would in a club scenario.
i find that some one off meets are good infact very good not only that one off leads to more if you click infact regulars have come from one off as find most who say they want regular really dont"
Exactly this!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rhugesMan
over a year ago
Cardiff |
I love the feeling of power over the cuck . I've played with a cuck couple in the past were I humiliated the the cuck Infront of his wife and I had him fluff me before fucking her in front of him |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Just the fact she’s a wife is a bit of a buzz . Taboo stuff I suppose "
This. Fun finding out the dynamic of the couples too.
Some want to see their wives / partners fucked while you insult the males insignificant cock, others want it more of a FWB scenario with respect all round (no abuse) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Hi
I have always been friends with my long term playmates including the cuckold ones
But once in the bedroom I am totally focused on the wife’s pleasure and in my mind I want her to enjoy herself as much as possible so that her husband can see that himself. This directly arouses him and hopefully he orgasms without touching himself or her. I see it as being in a porn film but the people enjoying it are in the room or nearby. I tend to last longer too as I am prioritising someone else’s pleasure.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
With cuckold meets there is always such a wide variety of acceptable play that I like to plan with the lady what she wants to do in front of her partner, how he is to be treated and so on.
For me the best part is seeing the looks of pleasure and exitement on their faces as they experience new things together. We also often have a laugh. These meets are always so good to be part of.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Personally I love the thrill of taking another mans wife. My ultimate favourite is where both cuck and wife are very submissive and give me cartblanche to just take control.... love it"
This |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I guess you first have to find a genuine cuck couple, probably won't get too excited about what may happen until I find a likely couple.
thats a problem for cuck couples too there are 100s of us geniune couples but sadly very few men who understand that cuckold is not a porn film script and then one that is with in my preference as i wont go with anyone just because they want to meet a cuckold couple"
This! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
For me it's the excitement of that "forbidden fruit" it's the dominance that is the turn on.
Being invited into any dynamic with a couple is a huge turn on and an honour but the added dimension of dominance over one or both of the couple is such a high.
I have to disagree about the "anyone saying they're a bull isn't" comment it's all about the individual in question. That statement is no different to saying "any one who calls themselves Stag/cuck/Dominant/Vixen/submissive isn't" there are good and bad on both sides of the sub/Dom spectrum.
The role of good Bull is no different to that of a good Dom/Domme it's starts with respect and communication, understanding that each dynamic is different and operating within peoples limits.
Having another man wife/partner lusting after you, desiring you and giving herself to you fully whilst her cuckold husband/partner watches is the biggest thrill going (for me at least)
Flynn xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"so its often asked about what couples and cucks want from it but what do you guys who meet or want to meet cuckold couples want from it ....a chance for you bulls and other guys to say from your point of view ..... "
I think all to do with trust. I accidentally stumbled into a cuckhold relationship with an older couple that lasted three years until I moved away. We all thought it would be a one off meet. But as we started talking on the second meet it was clear we all wanted to continue. They asked for honest responses and set the rules.
From my perspective I wanted a regular session to please both of them when called upon. She wanted a younger male with stamina and he just wanted to watch and join in now and again watching his wife be satisified and wanking himself off. I think he gained alot more from watching. She just wanted pleasure and stamina with small talk before and after. It all worked really well as they set the rules from the first meet. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I’ve never done the cuckold thing per se, at least it wasn’t about dominating/humiliating the man, but when a couple invite you into their bedroom there is something very sexy about the dynamic, it’s hard to put your finger on, maybe it is just the feeling of bedding another mans wife, or the fact you’re not alone with the wife? Either way, it’s hot, it’s sexy and we don’t need to understand why to enjoy it right? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I love the feeling of knowing its another guys wife, the wife know what they want and need and hubby isn't stopping them
Very rarely the guy is there but they know although some guys enjoy seeing there wife pleasured with another guy |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Well I do have the desire of being in a dynamic relationship where there is 3 in that relationship;
The idea is strong emotion regarding the couple being open to sharing pleasure to another party and explore the pleasures and desires  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I've met a couple, was he cuck, no idea, as in reality it's just a label. We all spoke of the boundaries which technically weren't any lol but he became too full on with the texting, she sort of became quiet so I had to leave it.
It was going to be the perfect situation for me, sex on tap and full permission all round too.
What does it do for me ? It's the fantasy of fucking a married lady with hubbies blessing and encouragement, me and her meeting but he plans it all, we'd video call him while I'm balls deep in her, it's amazing |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I've met a couple, was he cuck, no idea, as in reality it's just a label. We all spoke of the boundaries which technically weren't any lol but he became too full on with the texting, she sort of became quiet so I had to leave it.
It was going to be the perfect situation for me, sex on tap and full permission all round too.
What does it do for me ? It's the fantasy of fucking a married lady with hubbies blessing and encouragement, me and her meeting but he plans it all, we'd video call him while I'm balls deep in her, it's amazing "
but its not all but a label is it its his lifestyle its a bit like being gay and then your told oh its only a label by a naked woman erm no im gay its no different some labels are there for a reason |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
i think for those of you who say its about going with someones wife are a bit of the point theres more than just a wife in a cuckold relationship ... i would not meet anyone who did not respect us as a couple first and formost ..... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"so its often asked about what couples and cucks want from it but what do you guys who meet or want to meet cuckold couples want from it ....a chance for you bulls and other guys to say from your point of view .....
I don’t think there is really a difference between a cuck couple and anyone else to be honest
And I think anyone who calls themselves a bull is anything but….
Now the controversial stuff is out of the way, I think with all cases (not just cuckold) of understanding and being comfortable with the situation you are going into….. and like we have said in other threads there are varying degrees of what that means to people up and down the spectrum
For me any situation I go into means that I want to be turned on… and I want the other party or parties to be turned on….
It’s really as simple as that "
Spot on, this is so true, there are very few proper full time Bulls/ couple relationships out there, and the bull description is mostly used incorectly!
Most couples with Cucks/submissive guys want someone to pleasure them both, and for the cuck to be either mental/verbal or physical restrained/ abused, some like to dress and clean up etc.
But most importantly for the wife to be left having had multiple orgasms and a really good fucking off of a guy who can stay hard and have an above average cock!
Occasionally this ends up with one on ones but mostly with the cuck being present, but not always joining in.
Its about giving pleasure to all parties once invited in to this and repeat meets with those into this. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"i think for those of you who say its about going with someones wife are a bit of the point theres more than just a wife in a cuckold relationship ... i would not meet anyone who did not respect us as a couple first and formost ....."
Agree its about meeting the needs of both in the relationship whatever that maybe, alot is mental too in the buildup to the meet! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Personally for me it’s the extra dynamic a cuck hubby brings, and dominance/ control over cuck and wife ( last cpl both very sub )
depending on the severity they take the cuckoldry too.
Again my last cpl were big into the verbal humiliation of cuck, getting him to put himself into chastity as wife and I got warmed up, as well as giving him clean up duties and was progressing towards making cuck full sissy..
and wife and I would go out on dates leaving cuck home in chastity, come home and he would watch and clean up. If I stayed over he would sleep on floor at the foot of bed.
And even started fucking his sister lol never got mrs and sister in threesome though.. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
