"Why would anyone need "permission" to play? The whole idea that I am somehow allowed to deny my spouse's free will seems totally wrong."
But have you not both come to an agreement that allows you to play separately? Therefore giving each other permission, otherwise it would just be cheating. |
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"Why would anyone need "permission" to play? The whole idea that I am somehow allowed to deny my spouse's free will seems totally wrong.
But have you not both come to an agreement that allows you to play separately? Therefore giving each other permission, otherwise it would just be cheating."
As swingers we don't need to give permission, we are free to do as we please. This is the essence of the swinging lifestyle. |
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"Why would anyone need "permission" to play? The whole idea that I am somehow allowed to deny my spouse's free will seems totally wrong.
But have you not both come to an agreement that allows you to play separately? Therefore giving each other permission, otherwise it would just be cheating."
For me, discussion and agreement around swinging isn't the same as "permission".
I have a single profile for meeting other ladies, but have ni interest in meeting couples or men alone. Cal currently has no interest in meeting alone.
In the event that we do meet alone, permission wouldn't come into it, but we would let each other know where we are and who we're with.
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I’ve noticed this, I sometimes play alone if we can’t both get to the clubs but it’s never even second looked..but there seems to be stigma about the male side. Maybe it is just that girls are more sought after so they let their morals slide.. although even though I play alone i would only play with a male half if I knew through their partner that it was ok. Some here do go behind their partners back and im not into that. So I can see where the worry is but should be for males and females |
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While I play more than my partner, when she and I agreed to an open relationship it was mutual permission to play within agreed boundaries and rules. We stick to those rules because it’s a trust issue. I can and have turned people down for trying to push me to break those rules. |
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