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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering how people have ended up having spontaneous threesomes with friends which haven’t been organised on here. We have a few friends who know we swing and we wouldn’t be against playing with but wouldn’t want to ruin friendships etc. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only you can judge the friendship you have with them and whether sexual involvement would ruin it or not."
I get that and agree. Just wondering how things came about with other people. Whether it was a d*unken thing or semi planned. Don’t know how it would ever come about with our friends and it probably wouldn’t. Just interested in other peoples stories. X |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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"Just wondering how people have ended up having spontaneous threesomes with friends which haven’t been organised on here. We have a few friends who know we swing and we wouldn’t be against playing with but wouldn’t want to ruin friendships etc."
I would say it depends upon what you're looking for. If it's just sex I would say avoid friends, if you're looking for a longer term or more emotionally involved relationship, then I would say it's a great place to start - I speak from experience 
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Our personal advice is don’t mix business and pleasure lol
The reward doesn’t outweigh the risk for us. We have involved vanilla friends with our swinging antics once. whilst it wasn’t a total disaster it wasn’t a good experience and showed us just how wrong things could go.
We like to keep our real life and friendships separate from our swinging life and friends. Bit like oil and water the 2 don’t mix well and can open up a whole load of issues. Just our personal approach and I’m sure good things could come if it but not for us  |
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Many years ago with first wife involved good male friend, big mistake he did
Understand swing he got it into his head first it most be payback for me misbehaving or that it most be beecause we had poor sex life. He started to text my ex when ever he new i was working etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many times - with a few different friends - it's one reason we got into swinging"
Been there and done it all good but had a couple of friends who went there and it completely changed the dynamics of their relationship after. |
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