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By *ust fun9 OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Swansea |
What are the better meets? A slow build up and a pre arranged meet, maybe days or weeks. Or a bit more spontaneous when you are feeling really horny?
Obviously have to be compatable either way first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to text, call, cam, chat first. Connection makes a meet a lot better generally. I am usually very choosy about who I meet with great results.
Spontaneous is much more risky, both to safety and quality of sex. That said, I have had a couple of meets which we're basically an address on a text and a photo, followed by me turning up and him just slipping it straight in with barely a hello. One was a great meet, the other wasn't xx |
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I quite like the variety in terms of people and arrangements. For example, just after lockdown had ended I saw a message on here from a lady stating she'd had a no show.
A couple of messages between us and an hour later she was straddling me on her settee.
Whereas in 15 minutes I'll be off out as I have a prearranged meet with a couple a short drive from me.
I've been very lucky so far in that I've yet to have a disappointing session with anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to chat to someone a bit and arrange something! I cant really meet on a whim due to my home situation! But I also love chatting to someone to build the anticipation and get each other totally wound up before even getting your hands on each other! |
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I've had one spontaneous meet with someone I'd never spoken to until the night before.
She was staying in an hotel I was driving passed so it wasn't out of my way.
Neither of us knew what the other looked like until she opened the door.
Half an hour later I had to leave when her friends in the next room rang to arrange breakfast.
It was all about her pleasure and I remained fully dressed throughout.
She claimed she had never done anything like that before but sent me a thank you message later that day and then blocked me.
It was an experience but not one I'd be interested in repeating which is why I don't meet without a social first and getting to know people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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both ... there is something very hot about a quikly arranged meet just as is going out on the town and getting frisky but i also like a good session and thats were the longer planning comes in but im talking about over a week not mounths there is a case for too much chat too |
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Chatting and maybe voice / video calls is a great way of building the anticipation and testing if there is a connection prior to arranging a meeting. The prelims may last a few days or a few weeks / months. A social meet is always a must, preferably with a hotel nearby, just in case. |
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Bit of chatting on here juat to.get an idea of who.they are and what they're looking for then straight to a social meet if we feel it can work.
No point drawing it out. You're either going to meet people, get one with them.then fool around or you're not. Honestly preffer the old fashioned way of doing it face to face.
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"Spontaneous by a country mile ..
Meeting when both are horny..
Arranged meets are too clinical.. I don’t know if I’m going to be at my horniest a week on Thursday  "
I really hate arranging meets full stop. Hence I just go to clubs x |
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"What are the better meets? A slow build up and a pre arranged meet, maybe days or weeks. Or a bit more spontaneous when you are feeling really horny?
Obviously have to be compatable either way first. "
For me personally its a mixture of both. Planned meets can lose the spark if not chatting on a regular basis.
Spontaneous can go either way i've been lucky to expirence good and bad ones wouldn't rule out any. |
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By *ust fun9 OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Swansea |
"both ... there is something very hot about a quikly arranged meet just as is going out on the town and getting frisky but i also like a good session and thats were the longer planning comes in but im talking about over a week not mounths there is a case for too much chat too"
Similar to me. It's about the mood and what you desire I suppose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love to see if we have the same interests sexually good to know where you stand and what turns each other on
Biggest problem the ones I find are miles awayyyyyyyy
Blindfolds just if your curious
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
Wish we could do spontaneous....but Char needs time before a meet to rest and also after, so we have to plan carefully. Means we generally have at least a week between arranging a meet and it actually happening and we think that might be one of the reasons that over half of our meets don't turn up. |
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Unfortunately here and now meets are just not possible for us due to “normal” life commitments. We usually plan a week or so ahead when we know we have a free evening coming up.
Agree with the comment “don’t know I’m going to be horny a week next Thursday”, but the other side of the argument is that it gives us time to tease each other for days about what is going to happen which works well for us. Then, on the day, the real nerves kick in and the hard foreplay takes place while getting read to go out. |
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