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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago
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I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.
I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known  |
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over a year ago
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"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.
I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known "
Love this side of BDSM. Especially if you find someone with lots of sexual chemistry thrown in - only been the one guy so far! My god how immense was it   |
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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago
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"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.
I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known
Love this side of BDSM. Especially if you find someone with lots of sexual chemistry thrown in - only been the one guy so far! My god how immense was it "
 . Can only agree with the chemistry and the effect when you get to the point of having it all. I met someone new this year and who ticked all the boxes and it has been a few perfect meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I adore this too. I love reactions, and chasing the next high for him
It's such a wonderfully sexy and erotic sight to see a man completely lost in pleasure which I've given him. The addition of a blindfold and some soft restraints is also hot.
It's amazing when you find someone who shares your passion for mutual sensuality, tease and pleasures.
When that chemistry is there its actually mind blowing.
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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago
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"I adore this too. I love reactions, and chasing the next high for him
It's such a wonderfully sexy and erotic sight to see a man completely lost in pleasure which I've given him. The addition of a blindfold and some soft restraints is also hot.
It's amazing when you find someone who shares your passion for mutual sensuality, tease and pleasures.
When that chemistry is there its actually mind blowing.
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Love the way you describe it and I can relate deeply. Do you like receiving as much as giving? |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
This is why we love collar and lead play. There’s nothing more erotic for us than another woman letting us fasten a collar around her neck, and seeing the pleasure it brings her to display her submissive intent so clearly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I adore this too. I love reactions, and chasing the next high for him
It's such a wonderfully sexy and erotic sight to see a man completely lost in pleasure which I've given him. The addition of a blindfold and some soft restraints is also hot.
It's amazing when you find someone who shares your passion for mutual sensuality, tease and pleasures.
When that chemistry is there its actually mind blowing.
Love the way you describe it and I can relate deeply. Do you like receiving as much as giving? "
With the right person I do, absolutely yes. I do much prefer to give though. |
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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago
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"This is why we love collar and lead play. There’s nothing more erotic for us than another woman letting us fasten a collar around her neck, and seeing the pleasure it brings her to display her submissive intent so clearly."
Collared female with eye contact listening to instructions - super sexy |
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By *stoppMan
over a year ago
Durham |
My experience of attempting to post bdsm images have been met with site mods quickly rejecting them, so think things will have to be limited to vanilla type bdsm on here, no more than that of 50 shades.. |
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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago
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"I adore this too. I love reactions, and chasing the next high for him
It's such a wonderfully sexy and erotic sight to see a man completely lost in pleasure which I've given him. The addition of a blindfold and some soft restraints is also hot.
It's amazing when you find someone who shares your passion for mutual sensuality, tease and pleasures.
When that chemistry is there its actually mind blowing.
Love the way you describe it and I can relate deeply. Do you like receiving as much as giving?
With the right person I do, absolutely yes. I do much prefer to give though. "
Likewise. It’s rare to find someone who genuinely switches to take control. But blissful when you find one you can trust and like what they are doing |
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"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.
I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known "
Orgasm control and denial is the biggest part of it for us. We’ve been playing more and more with breath play as well. |
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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago
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"My experience of attempting to post bdsm images have been met with site mods quickly rejecting them, so think things will have to be limited to vanilla type bdsm on here, no more than that of 50 shades.. "
True. But I haven’t found an issue if it was tastefully done. It depends on who approves I guess |
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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago
hotel or at yours |
"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.
I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known
Orgasm control and denial is the biggest part of it for us. We’ve been playing more and more with breath play as well. "
Breathe way in combination with orgasm play is intense. Restrictions just when she is about to cum..
On a different note, there is a lot of interest from the north and Scotland. |
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"My experience of attempting to post bdsm images have been met with site mods quickly rejecting them, so think things will have to be limited to vanilla type bdsm on here, no more than that of 50 shades.. "
Yep we can’t post a pic with a hand print ! Gets taken down after a few days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.
I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known "
I love this but it’s been a long time since I’ve had the the trust and connection with someone to enjoy this. I’m always hopeful of enjoying this again. |
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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago
hotel or at yours |
"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.
I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known
I love this but it’s been a long time since I’ve had the the trust and connection with someone to enjoy this. I’m always hopeful of enjoying this again. "
I tend to start with social and sensual play. This side needs a lot of trust built as you say. I find a massage and sensual session helps build that sense of intimacy and connection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is very much how I like to focus this aspect of my play, ultimately I'm a giver, and want to give the person I'm playing with the most fabulous time, and this doesn't even have to include penetrative sex..
A lot of ladies don't seem to understand that bit that's fine, it's just because they haven't experienced yet,
Bit also it's not a walk in service, it does require talking, understanding and prep work prior, on my side and theirs and many folk don't seem to get that either... Which is sad
Yes I could just play with you from 'cold' but it'll be a poor experience, and that's not what I want to give... |
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By *ensualkink OP Man
over a year ago
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"I have always said that bdsm is sex for clever people. The sensations and the variations are absolutely incredible."
Sex for thinking people - I like the sound of it. But it is 90% not sex where bits go in and out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.
I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known "
I am dominant and very much a fan of this side of BDSM. A practicing devotee, if you like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love sensual BDSM play, denial and ropeworks. Especially when used together mmm A woman tied up, blindfolded and teased. When it clicks with right person it's great, the total trust between sub and Dom. Told the orgasm when allowed is total different feeling and the payback is great
Rope work just looks so good if the time is taken. It's something I love to do more of and get better at. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I adore this too. I love reactions, and chasing the next high for him
It's such a wonderfully sexy and erotic sight to see a man completely lost in pleasure which I've given him. The addition of a blindfold and some soft restraints is also hot.
It's amazing when you find someone who shares your passion for mutual sensuality, tease and pleasures.
When that chemistry is there its actually mind blowing.
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Chemistry is definitely important x |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
Like others, I am a reaction junkie and like to see how bottoms react to different stimuli.
If I was to categorise play, I would distinguish between sensual play and sadistic play,and not erotic and sadistic as I find both sensual and sadistic types of play each to be erotic. I don't see them as an either or choice. I see the position in two ways. I see it as a spectrum that overlaps or a box of mixed sweets, where you can mainly choose one type of flavour or mix it up a bit.
This also feeds into having to take into account that some types of pain can be sensual, and also that individuals process pain differently.
Another key matter is the skill and ability of the Top, to guage reactions and deliver. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know a lady who is brilliant at this. I don't think I've experience everything she wants from me yet but I can't wait to be on the receiving end of it  |
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"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.
I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known "
We're certainly here; although, 'here' is not where the community you seek is generally found. Google is your friend... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a kinky playroom in our home equipped with a swing and shackles and chains on the wall. We are looking forward to chaining my tranny cuck up to watch Vixen in action on the swing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The joy we have found is switching control together. Learning how to submit makes dominating all the more pleasurable "
Totally agree with this. I think being submissive has helped me as a dominant when the chance arises |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is very much how I like to focus this aspect of my play, ultimately I'm a giver, and want to give the person I'm playing with the most fabulous time, and this doesn't even have to include penetrative sex..
A lot of ladies don't seem to understand that bit that's fine, it's just because they haven't experienced yet,
Bit also it's not a walk in service, it does require talking, understanding and prep work prior, on my side and theirs and many folk don't seem to get that either... Which is sad
Yes I could just play with you from 'cold' but it'll be a poor experience, and that's not what I want to give..."
So many guys on here are only interested in a f**k and go - no pleasure for me in that at all.
Sensual bdsm is exactly what I enjoy and crave. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.
I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known "
here I am, looking for a sensual Dom to come and get me! |
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"I enjoy sensual and erotic side of BDSM. Sensory deprivation, orgasms control and denial, blindfolds, bondage and the like. I find it very fulfilling to make a woman get to a zen mode.
I am not a dominant by any measure - I just like this side. Will be nice to have a community of people who are into this. Make yourself known "
I’m a Domme and I live all aspects of BDSM  |
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