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By *ingerCub22 OP   Man  over a year ago

Takoma Park

I’m pretty new to learning about the swinging lifestyle and I’ve been pondering on what is the difference between swinging and looking for casual hookups, especially on dating apps like Tinder and amongst college students. Could it be a taboo with the term swinging? Or is being a “swinger” more of a sexual identity/conscious lifestyle choice much like being celibate is?

I still don’t have a concrete answer. What do you think?

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham

There are various definitions of swinging from wife swapping to being sexually promiscuous.

From my time on here I have learned that swinging is more about a lifestyle with strong social connections. Rather than just random sex partners.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Swinging means different things to different people and can encompass as lot of sexual behaviours including casual sex.

I guess it started with couples who had a prior friendship swapping partners, but then evolved to parties, orgies, clubs, dogging, hooking up with others couples, etc. That then evolved even further to other dynamics like threesomes between couples and singles, hotwifing, stag & vixen, cuckold, D/s, etc. All this merged with kink and fetishism to include almost any type of sex you can think of with any combination of people.

I guess one key difference between swinging and casual sex is that swinging should include a social aspect like socials, friendship, parties, ploy relationships and secondary partners, etc. Where casual is more meeting a stranger, fuck, cum, go.

But the two are not mutually exclusive by any means, there are many couples, singles, and groups that are core members of the community that want or need an extra cock or pussy on a one time only basis sometimes. Many singles attend the clubs and have FWB arrangements with couples, but still fuck other singles. Many couples swing with couple but don't mind 20 single strangers gangbanging them at a club.

To directly answer your question, no, casual sex is not taboo here. People's interest in it will vary widely but it's an important part of Fab. Thousands on here just hook up, some do other things too.

Hope this helps xx

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