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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I recently met up with a lovely couple.
Had a fun evening and everything seemed fine. However 24 hours later the husband left our group chat and the wife then informed me that what they thought was a MMF fantasy was actually a reason for the husband to leave his wife.
She reassured me that it wasn’t my fault, however I’ve been feeling so bad and guilty about it  |
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I would tend to agree with symona1. They must have spoken about it and raised the possible issues of jealousy, motive and feelings etc
It's good to see you're human and showing remorse for them but also not for you to feel guilty over.
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By *lipy123TV/TS
over a year ago
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"I can’t help but feeling guilty for it.
God damn it
Had a really fun time and they were even up for meeting regularly. Clearly wasn’t meant to be x"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would tend to agree with symona1. They must have spoken about it and raised the possible issues of jealousy, motive and feelings etc
It's good to see you're human and showing remorse for them but also not for you to feel guilty over.
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Thankyou  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there are plenty of couple that split having tried swinging we seen loads over the years ...swinging will never fix a relationship thats in trouble in the first place .... but also op dont alkways belive what you are being told there are lots of couples who like to play silly games too |
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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago
Northwich |
You're a single bloke on FAB, so guilty for everything from climate change to covid and everything in-between so this is nothing to worry about. Get her to give you a vari before he gets a chance to delete their profile  |
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Don't waste your energy feeling guilty about something you can't possibly have known was going to happen, it's pointless.
A strong marriage would survive a fantasy gone wrong, I'm willing to bet there were far greater issues than having a threesome.
I don't mean this harshly but you really won't have been important enough to break their marriage up. |
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