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Hi all how you doing? Matt here..
I was just wondering on peoples thoughts and opinions, maybe i am in the minority here.. apologies for waffeling, bare with me
Click a girls profile. She looks amazing. Look at her Verifications. Look at the guys shes met to see her 'type'.. And then when you click a guy and see HIS verifications.. and his Verifications is just beautiful female after beautiful female after beautiful female etc all from your Local Area, all potential females that you yourself might 'want to contact' or 'have contacted' and yet heres this guy meeting them all.
Does anybody get jealous,envious ANNOYED that you only want to meet 1 nice female, yet heres this guy and hes meeting every female, lets say, hes being greedy even! Can we get these greedy hunks banned please? haha!
anyway just wondered if you guys experience this, women too do youuuuuu?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I reckon people should be limited to 2 meets a year. More chance for people like me to get some fun then. 
I don't look at veri's, or I try not to. For the same reasons you say. I think it's hard to not compare yourself to others.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't trawl through other peoples verifications because frankly I'm not that interested in what fun others have had. The most I would read are the first two veris, but I wouldn't go into those peoples veris to see who they've met.
If guys are getting lots of meets, even if they don't appear to be the sex god adonis type, then you have to assume that they have a certain something, a quality about that that is appealing.
Only you yourself can be responsible for your own meets. Do you have a sparkling personality, good wit, enjoy easy rapport with women. Men who do are very successful on here regardless of looks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say I get jealous, I'm more intrigued, especially if I think the guy they've met is just a regular, average looking guy. I'm more inclined to look at their profile to see what's in it that maybe mine is missing. Also it just reinforces that women aren't as shallow as some would think and it's not all about looks for them.
They may have just perfected the art of messaging. Or maybe I just think too much into these things lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I lack the competitive nature, or the compulsion to center on one individual/cpl...I find jealousy on a swinging site pathetic...or those who feel superior becuase they 'got there first' |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"I reckon people should be limited to 2 meets a year. More chance for people like me to get some fun then.
I don't look at veri's, or I try not to. For the same reasons you say. I think it's hard to not compare yourself to others.
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haha so modest |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"I see you point but the only real time I got envious was when a dude on here said he had Lego set 10179 ...  "
Has Polo thrown a curve ball in here and that is your naughty word for the week? |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"I see you point but the only real time I got envious was when a dude on here said he had Lego set 10179 ...
Has Polo thrown a curve ball in here and that is your naughty word for the week?"
I've seen you mention it that many times Brighty, I just had to google it...OMFG - people pay that for Lego?????  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see you point but the only real time I got envious was when a dude on here said he had Lego set 10179 ...
Has Polo thrown a curve ball in here and that is your naughty word for the week?
I've seen you mention it that many times Brighty, I just had to google it...OMFG - people pay that for Lego????? "
yep there do so now it's out of are price range but I will not give up and will find one I hope
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find feeling bad about myself or jealous of others on here is useful (to me). It's not something I normally feel and when I do, it's a sign something else is going on which is screwing up my mood. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i sometimes look at veri sand quite honestly im put of by the kind of paople some of my potential playmates have met ,so it can work the other way ..."
Why would it put you off? I'm just curious!
If you've never met them personally are you just basing that on their profiles?
I can normally tell when someone i've met is 'on their travels' or has a meet post up - as I get a sudden flurry of viewers on my 'who's looked' list. I guess back tracing on veri's is widespread!!! |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I dont jealous over meets. On my free weekends I can often meet different people on both nights....who they meet and if they are prettier or slimner than me doesnt bother me.
I actually dont have a type.....The only type I have if those not looking like the ex! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A good looking apple could have a rotten core.
Just because a person looks good on the outside, does not mean he/she is a nice person.
I'd like to believe I have unique selling points that make others want to meet me, and not because I am similar to peeps they have met.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i sometimes look at veri sand quite honestly im put of by the kind of paople some of my potential playmates have met ,so it can work the other way ...
Why would it put you off? I'm just curious!
If you've never met them personally are you just basing that on their profiles?
I can normally tell when someone i've met is 'on their travels' or has a meet post up - as I get a sudden flurry of viewers on my 'who's looked' list. I guess back tracing on veri's is widespread!!! "
Generally I'll have look purely because I'm nosey, but there is no jealousy or competition...plus a verifier of a potential meet of mine may be verified by guys I may like to meet in the future but haven't spotted elsewhere!
There is one local woman however that would put me off meeting a guy because she brings drama when they fall out (usually because she can't get her way) and I can't be arsed keep hearing about it, and don't want to get dragged into it again! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a female on here who is pure filth, and not in a good way, and every time I'm contacted by someone who really catches my eye she's always got there before me and that puts me right off them |
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"There is a female on here who is pure filth, and not in a good way, and every time I'm contacted by someone who really catches my eye she's always got there before me and that puts me right off them "
Why does it put you off them? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"There is a female on here who is pure filth, and not in a good way, and every time I'm contacted by someone who really catches my eye she's always got there before me and that puts me right off them
Erm, she isn't anywhere near edinburgh is she?  "
Nah, I was only there for one night.
Only joking. It's unlikely that I am the 'filth' being spoken about here, but past posts about women with lots of veris makes me suspect there are people on here who have the same opinion of me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is a female on here who is pure filth, and not in a good way, and every time I'm contacted by someone who really catches my eye she's always got there before me and that puts me right off them
Erm, she isn't anywhere near edinburgh is she?
Nah, I was only there for one night.
Only joking. It's unlikely that I am the 'filth' being spoken about here, but past posts about women with lots of veris makes me suspect there are people on here who have the same opinion of me. "
Lol, i wouldn't worry about it! It just proves your enjoying yourself! (which is what this site is for in the first place), lol |
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"There is a female on here who is pure filth, and not in a good way, and every time I'm contacted by someone who really catches my eye she's always got there before me and that puts me right off them
Why does it put you off them? "
Because she is just dirty and doesn't care who she bb's with and to be perfectly honest I dont want to meet anyone who has met her! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is a female on here who is pure filth, and not in a good way, and every time I'm contacted by someone who really catches my eye she's always got there before me and that puts me right off them
Erm, she isn't anywhere near edinburgh is she?
Nah, I was only there for one night.
Only joking. It's unlikely that I am the 'filth' being spoken about here, but past posts about women with lots of veris makes me suspect there are people on here who have the same opinion of me. "
I also have a few veri's I've collected over the years but funnily enough it's only ever thrown back in my face by people I say no thankyou too lol  |
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