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over a year ago
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Safe sex is a limit for me.
Everything else,/ well, I had a friend who used to say, ‘try everything twice, except inc**t and country dancing’. That seems a fair rule! |
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over a year ago
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Mine have pretty much stayed constant. No PPP, usually no anal, no car meets.
I have broken the car meets rule once though, and I've become far more confident with other women/bi play. I'm fine with unprotected sex, but no creampies anymore unfortunately. Xx |
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C was as vanilla as vanilla could get when she joined. She was debating joining the WI 
Since then she’s taken herself down rabbit holes and pushed her boundaries in so many ways. She’s now bi and finding her level on the BDSM spectrum.
We got together and have continued to push boundaries in terms of our play sessions and toys bought. Toys we winced at 6 month ago have been bought and enjoyed.
C does not recognise the person she was sexually a couple of years ago…and we are always extending our sexual map. It’s led to exciting times 
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"Boundaries are always meant to be PUSHED.
Right?"
Only if it’s consensual. I have hard limits and soft limits, the soft limits can be pushed if agreed, anyone that pushed a boundary without checking with me, would be out of the door. |
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"Boundaries are always meant to be PUSHED.
Right?
Only if it’s consensual. I have hard limits and soft limits, the soft limits can be pushed if agreed, anyone that pushed a boundary without checking with me, would be out of the door."
Same. |
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"Boundaries are always meant to be PUSHED.
Right?
I don't agree.
There's no value or virtue in pushing a boundary just for the sake of it. Some are in place for very good reasons"
Exactly, it’s so important to respect that. |
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Boundaries don't need to be pushed, but they do need to be checked every now and again, or at least some of them do.
We develop & change and get experience, and I certainly don't want to get stuck in a rut.
I'm not 'into' ws, but during a play session a while ago, S was sitting on my face and hinted that she needed a wee. I made eye contact and nodded and the next thing I know, I'm being pulled up the stairs by the hair, shoved on my back in the bath and she's hosing my cock & chest down... It was totally hot, but not something I want every time with her (and never anyone else). Unless the moment seems right at the time...
Or when I was fucking her and asked her to make me clean her up afterwards. Same caveats.
Boundaries are limits. Breaking them without consent is a hard no. Exploring them with someone you trust is hot AF, provided its safe, sane & consensual. |
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We set certain boundaries but found them very inhibiting.In the moment certain things can become desirable so lots of discussions we now leave it up to each other to decide how far to go. |
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It never ceases to amaze how many couples will not indulge in kissing others. She can suck cock, and get drenched in cum all she likes, and he can lick pussy that's been filled time after time, but kissing is something that is so personal to them that it's out of bounds to everyone else. For that reason I've always let the woman make the first move over kissing, when playing with a couple. |
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You’ve kinda answered your own question…. kissing for many couples is a sign of love so choose to keep it for themselves, all the rest is just seen as sex which I guess for many is more acceptable. |
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So I take it that you don't kiss others that you play with either, which is fair enough, and underlines my reasoning for letting the lady make the first move when kissing comes into play, because I certainly wouldn't want to spoil the fun by over stepping the mark and kissing the lady, even though I've had tongues thrust down my throat at events as simple as socials |
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"I'm talking to my Mrs and we thinking bout having a mfm or mainly me watching. I said my boundaries would be safe sex and anal kissing is a must from me"
Shouldn't her boundaries take precedence? |
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