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Where do You prefer to meet?
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By *oveAndBang OP Couple
over a year ago
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As much as We enjoy to host We prefer visit clubs. We can see real people, the way they like to express themselves. We love sexual activities in front of the others or use variety of rooms if we're in the mood. On top of that there's always chance for a party to just dance!
How about You guys? Where and why do You all like to meet people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been to clubs, dogging, social meets. Would like to host and invite select people back to our new house (moving this week to a bigger place to entertain). Things you do for this lifestyle hehe  |
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Somewhere for a drink and a chat usually. Outside of that, maybe at a party or social event? Failing that, ours or theirs under certain caveats.
Our nearest club is 55 miles away so not really an option for us to use them regularly (we dont drive) but if one opened up close to us, it would probably be there.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's a hard one to answer since most of the women in my area block every message with out reply...
You & me both.
They don't even acknowledge you're a human being..."
Stop hijacking someone else’s thread? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As much as We enjoy to host We prefer visit clubs. We can see real people, the way they like to express themselves. We love sexual activities in front of the others or use variety of rooms if we're in the mood. On top of that there's always chance for a party to just dance!
How about You guys? Where and why do You all like to meet people?"
We like meeting at our place - we have a great set up and it’s more comfortable than strange beds. (We do love a club now and then too though for the erotic atmosphere ) |
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"That's a hard one to answer since most of the women in my area block every message with out reply...
You & me both.
They don't even acknowledge you're a human being..."
Are you owed something? Did they ask you to message them? Should these ladies have to reply to each and every message they get from every person (which can be hundreds of messages for some). Shoukd they open themselves up to the abuse that some ladies get from saying no thanks to some guys on here?
Or should they only respond to the people they are interested in meeting? Site rules says no response is a simple "no thank you" so lets go with that shall we?
You're on the wrong site if you cant grow a thick skin about it. |
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"That's a hard one to answer since most of the women in my area block every message with out reply...
You & me both.
They don't even acknowledge you're a human being...
Stop hijacking someone else’s thread? "
I was actually trying to raise a little awareness of how demoralising and cruel it feels to be constantly on the end of.
Being on a swinging site, just because the ratio of men to women is highly in favour of women, should not automatically mean one has to feel crap about themselves.
I do however apologise to the op as you are correct this was not the right time or place for such a post. |
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Tricky one.
Clubs are amazing for meeting new people and although I've not had much chance to play in them yet, I did really enjoy others watching. I definitely want to try that again.
But then, I also love the intimacy and comfort of one on one in a hotel or house, and being able to just take your time and focus completely on each others needs.
And I also love the risk and the natural, animalistic feeling of sex outdoors.
Which is best? I really can't decide. When I start meeting again, I'll just have to keep mixing them up and getting the best of all of them. |
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As a single guy I'd go round women's house or meet in hotels. Never a fan of a strictly social meet, only ever been on one and that's because it was in the city centre.
As part of a couple neither of us like endless getting to know you messages and are not into the social only drinks and/or meals. We prefer to meet in a club and if we get on, great. If not, your time will not have been wasted as there are other couples there or we've got each other.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve always met women socially first or at in a public place. Reassurance for both of us that we are real and not crazy then back to mine. I’ve gone to theirs too but less often. Whichever she would be more comfortable with is what I’d do. I’ve yet to visit a club but I’d like to soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Knutsford services northbound side of the M6 specifically the disabled WC I find is a great place to meet.
It’s discreet has an alarm and if the meet doesn’t look like the photos then one can always console oneself with an Olympic breakfast from the little chef? |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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Unless it's with someone we know we always swing in clubs - there's never a chance of a no-show, we can see who we can play with before committing to play, and moresomes are easy. Never been disappointed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clubs for us. We’re in a long distance relationship so clubs allow us to get out and have a nice mix of social and play, and still have “us” time. We also find clubs more neutral - it’s common ground for all involved parties, if you don’t click with somebody there is generally a chance that you’ll all have the opportunity to find somebody else who you do click with. |
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