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Swinging Clubs aside, where do you meet your 'third'?
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I think we all know that swinging clubs are a great place to meet people in the lifestyle.
But when you're actively looking for a 'third person' to join you as a couple (etc), where else to you like to 'fish'?
(I say the term 'fish' very loosely!)
Certain types of bars, areas (or even apps which we know we all use) are all welcome answers, as are any others.
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"My honest advice would be to stop looking and focus on meeting people, getting to know them as friends and see what happens.
Good luck on your journey! "
I'm not looking for this personally. I've always preferred the natural approach, as much as it is not a path to knowing others would be into it.
Just canvassing to see what other people's perspectives have been. |
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We don't. In 23 years we've never dreamt once of approaching anyone randomly to join us.
Our 3rd would only be a lady and clubs, social events and Fab are the only place we look.
Lets be honest here, Fab company excluded, the vast majority of women probably wont and don't want to be chatted up by a random couple in a bar or supermarket or whatever.
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"A bunch of places. Regular social media, POF, real life… through friends… knowing people we fancied and saying “want a threesome?”"
You keep it simple! If you're open around others too, must make it easier.
Haven't used POF in a fair few years. Still going strong? |
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"A bunch of places. Regular social media, POF, real life… through friends… knowing people we fancied and saying “want a threesome?”
You keep it simple! If you're open around others too, must make it easier.
Haven't used POF in a fair few years. Still going strong? "
Not sure as POF wasn’t one we’ve used in a while now. But yes, everyone we know knows what we do and it’s been… useful  Esecially when you know a few 20-something girls who are all enjoying life hah. |
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By *ewfie02Couple
over a year ago
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"We've never been to a club and Fab has managed to be all we've ever needed to find our third wheel."
You should try going to a swingers club. They are a great night out. Mostly like a pub atmosphere where you can dress as sexily as you want and flirt and tease without any problems! Obviously you can do a whole lot more if you want to in the playrooms but it's not essential. |
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Outside of clubs, parties and fab, we’ve played with some people who are friends, and also just met some in bars and clubs etc.
We like to socialise and talk to people anyway, and are pretty good at reading the signs and would be happy chatting to people anyway, but it’s easy to drop a bit of innocent sexual talk in and then we’d usually just ask if they’d be interested.
Can’t say it’s ever offended, we aren’t pushy and don’t have any expectations, just make the offer. Sometimes they laugh and say we thought you guys seemed adventurous but not for us, and other times we make a new friend.
We just see it as how the world probably worked before fab and tinder etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met a unicorn female at work and enjoyed some fun with her xx
As fun as it was be careful what you wish for it became a little complicated because of the closeness between us all xx |
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A longtime ago there was a website called LookItsMe
We met a unicorn on there, it lasted for a few years until she wanted a relationship and kids. That meant we had to separate from the fun, she explained it all to her now hubby he’s banned the three of us from ever meeting up |
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"I think we all know that swinging clubs are a great place to meet people in the lifestyle.
But when you're actively looking for a 'third person' to join you as a couple (etc), where else to you like to 'fish'?
(I say the term 'fish' very loosely!)
Certain types of bars, areas (or even apps which we know we all use) are all welcome answers, as are any others.
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Private parties maybe?. |
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