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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The wife and I were just having a chat and wondered how many couples are there where only the wife plays with the husband not getting involved physically.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had this with a couple where the hubby would sit in the chair in the hotel room and just watch fully clothed . He would even leave and go down to the bar sometimes and just return every now and then . He even let me take her to a club alone while he was at work which was great . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Us! Not in a cuck sense, more that the mr doesn’t want to be with another woman (weirdo) and is happy to leave that to me. He’ll still play but just with me "
This is what we were discussing actually. Not in a cuck sense, not in a 'sometimes she plays alone' but that only she plays and he doesn't unless it's MFM |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Us! Not in a cuck sense, more that the mr doesn’t want to be with another woman (weirdo) and is happy to leave that to me. He’ll still play but just with me "
We're a bit like that too, Mr will happily watch me play with a couple but very rare he'll play with anyone but me. Great photos OP |
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My wife has met another lady on her own without my involvement and I've met a lady where the husband didnt play and weve mat a lady together where the husband wasnt involved. Weve also met a few at parties where the husband was at home not involved.
It does bring up some questions when it comes to swinging though (especially on fab). People accept the whole "wife playing alone with consent" thing, no questions asked but if it's the husband, the assumption on fab seems to be the guys cheating.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wife is the only one meeting here but never alone for her protection and safety plus someone has to film and fluff!!!!
Had my time so now it’s all about her and her enjoyment.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wife is the only one meeting here but never alone for her protection and safety plus someone has to film and fluff!!!!
Had my time so now it’s all about her and her enjoyment.
Tony"
This is us too more or less...
I (Jane) wouldn't feel comfortable meeting alone |
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"My wife has met another lady on her own without my involvement and I've met a lady where the husband didnt play and weve mat a lady together where the husband wasnt involved. Weve also met a few at parties where the husband was at home not involved.
It does bring up some questions when it comes to swinging though (especially on fab). People accept the whole "wife playing alone with consent" thing, no questions asked but if it's the husband, the assumption on fab seems to be the guys cheating.
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Yep your last sentence is pretty familiar, we both play together and seperatly but much much more the lady just plays only. Works for us as its hard with childcare etc and convenience and hubby gets all the info when she is home  but would be nice to have hubby play alone too.
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By *yronMan
over a year ago
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I used to regularly play with a couple who were into BDSM: part of that was him being tied up and watching his wife play with me or another woman. Both were very happy with the arrangement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I play on my own, he's very rarely involved. I have a free pass to shag around xx
Is it laminated?"
Haha, it really needs to be! Although nearly all finished inside xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's something we've discussed if we decide to take the plunge to include a third.
I have no interest in being a cuck or humiliated, whether it's another male or female my focus and enjoyment is on her pleasure and being the centre of attention, hopefully that makes sense to some. |
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We are that dynamic too , sometimes I’ll go off on my own , or he’ll drop me off pick me up later scenario , we always social together when seeking playmates etc .
Although there has been an odd occasion it’s turned into a threesome where I’ve enticed biker to join in but he’s literally been hands on me
He certainly not a jealous type ,he takes his pleasure in sharing me and seeing or hearing stories of me getting my pleasure with or without him present x it’s amazing but hard to fine right playmates that understand that’s our thing
Anyways enough rambling lol
The hunt continues …….. |
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"It's something we've discussed if we decide to take the plunge to include a third.
I have no interest in being a cuck or humiliated, whether it's another male or female my focus and enjoyment is on her pleasure and being the centre of attention, hopefully that makes sense to some."
That makes sense to me. |
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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago
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We have found this is the only way we can get any play. We live in a pretty remote, rural area and getting meets with other couples means at least 90 minutes travel each way. Single men, however, are always plentiful and willing to travel to us. It seems churlish to deny her some entertainment just because couples are few and far between. She's not complaining! |
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This is us too.
L enjoys being free of the “rules” for an evening every now and then, I enjoy seeing the twinkle in her eye as she gets ready, the odd text during, then seeing her glowing afterwards as she tells me about her date.
It’s great!!!
Finding the right person for this is difficult though. We did have a friend pre-Covid but unfortunately that’s fizzled out with the looks of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It seems quite a common approach
The wife is very sexual and naughty but hubby is not sexually minded - but for a combination of safety and togetherness they both attend the meet but only the lady plays
Sometimes it can also be due to medical reasons abs hubby is interested but can’t perform
I find it can be great fun as the wife often is very relaxed knowing that she is appreciated by me and has approval of hubby |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although my hubby accompanies me to the meeting, he doesn't get involved.
Be it a man or a couple.
If the 1st meeting goes well the second and subsequent meetings I go alone.
I am allowed to play
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had my first meet with a new Hot Wife last week. Nice hotel, lots of fun and all the photos and videos were sent to her hubby at work as requested. "
I like doing that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had my first meet with a new Hot Wife last week. Nice hotel, lots of fun and all the photos and videos were sent to her hubby at work as requested. "
Wow that’s an impressive tool you have there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although my hubby accompanies me to the meeting, he doesn't get involved.
Be it a man or a couple.
If the 1st meeting goes well the second and subsequent meetings I go alone.
I am allowed to play
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"That's us too... physically anyway ....
As a hotwife couple, he's always involved (even if he doesn't know about it yet ) but gets off on the videos and stories afterwards"
Agree, the men love to see their wives have fun and are sexualy wanted by others |
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"That's us too... physically anyway ....
As a hotwife couple, he's always involved (even if he doesn't know about it yet ) but gets off on the videos and stories afterwards"
As long as everyone knows and is happy what more could you ask for ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to meet a couple regularly, where the wife and I would adjourn to the bedroom and play. Her husband would come in at some point and just watch while fully clothed, and then leave again while his wife and I continued playing. |
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"The wife and I were just having a chat and wondered how many couples are there where only the wife plays with the husband not getting involved physically.
Please let us know "
That'd be us. Mrs F plays but Mr F mainly enjoys just watching the fun and games (with the occasional exception). |
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"That's us too... physically anyway ....
As a hotwife couple, he's always involved (even if he doesn't know about it yet ) but gets off on the videos and stories afterwards"
Just posted my video from last weeks hot wife encounter |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's us too... physically anyway ....
As a hotwife couple, he's always involved (even if he doesn't know about it yet ) but gets off on the videos and stories afterwards
Just posted my video from last weeks hot wife encounter "
Brilliant videos and pictures |
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"That's us too... physically anyway ....
As a hotwife couple, he's always involved (even if he doesn't know about it yet ) but gets off on the videos and stories afterwards
Just posted my video from last weeks hot wife encounter
Brilliant videos and pictures "
Why thank you xxx  |
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"Us! Not in a cuck sense, more that the mr doesn’t want to be with another woman (weirdo) and is happy to leave that to me. He’ll still play but just with me "
Exactly how we play. Just works for us. |
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By *rMrsRichCouple
over a year ago
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"The wife and I were just having a chat and wondered how many couples are there where only the wife plays with the husband not getting involved physically.
Please let us know "
Yes and Mrs shorter still owes me a coffee |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The wife and I were just having a chat and wondered how many couples are there where only the wife plays with the husband not getting involved physically.
Please let us know
Yes and Mrs shorter still owes me a coffee "
Tell her. I'll get shot for being the messenger |
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By *rMrsRichCouple
over a year ago
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"The wife and I were just having a chat and wondered how many couples are there where only the wife plays with the husband not getting involved physically.
Please let us know
Yes and Mrs shorter still owes me a coffee
Tell her. I'll get shot for being the messenger "
Woah I don’t wanna get shot  |
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That’s us too, wife likes to go off and enjoy her FB without any distraction from me being there. It’s not in a cuck sense more she enjoys her secret life, and I love having her back glowing and with mixed juices flowing hrs later |
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"The wife and I were just having a chat and wondered how many couples are there where only the wife plays with the husband not getting involved physically.
Please let us know "
Yep that’s us aswell |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When it’s multiple guys it’s usually Smoke playing and I’m monitoring to ensure she’s treated respectfully. With couples I will occasionally soft play with the other lady. Although I always appreciate sexy ladies and enjoy the times I do play, in my eyes I’ve got the perfect woman so it’s not a case of me thinking that I’m “missing out”. |
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We've done it before. I enjoy seeing Mrs pleasured by another guy or guys.
From me sitting back on and watching/videoing to her going upstairs and entertaining alone while I stay downstairs.
As a lot above, not in a cuck sense, just enjoy a good show. I also find if we're videoing it I prefer to watch her with other guys than seeing myself in it.
That said I do enjoy joining in too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My wife has met another lady on her own without my involvement and I've met a lady where the husband didnt play and weve mat a lady together where the husband wasnt involved. Weve also met a few at parties where the husband was at home not involved.
It does bring up some questions when it comes to swinging though (especially on fab). People accept the whole "wife playing alone with consent" thing, no questions asked but if it's the husband, the assumption on fab seems to be the guys cheating.
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I have always played “solo” with hubby’s consent. When I find myself speaking to married men I always ask if they are being open with their wife and I’ve yet to hear one of them say yes. I don’t take it any further on that basis for a host of reasons. |
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"My wife has met another lady on her own without my involvement and I've met a lady where the husband didnt play and weve mat a lady together where the husband wasnt involved. Weve also met a few at parties where the husband was at home not involved.
It does bring up some questions when it comes to swinging though (especially on fab). People accept the whole "wife playing alone with consent" thing, no questions asked but if it's the husband, the assumption on fab seems to be the guys cheating.
I have always played “solo” with hubby’s consent. When I find myself speaking to married men I always ask if they are being open with their wife and I’ve yet to hear one of them say yes. I don’t take it any further on that basis for a host of reasons."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Us! Not in a cuck sense, more that the mr doesn’t want to be with another woman (weirdo) and is happy to leave that to me. He’ll still play but just with me
This is what we were discussing actually. Not in a cuck sense, not in a 'sometimes she plays alone' but that only she plays and he doesn't unless it's MFM"
That’s interesting |
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Hubby does not play but allows/encourages me to play alone. I have a couple of regular playmates and I love telling hubby about a meet afterwards. He gets very turned on and we always have great reclaim sex afterwards., |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It does bring up some questions when it comes to swinging though (especially on fab). People accept the whole "wife playing alone with consent" thing, no questions asked but if it's the husband, the assumption on fab seems to be the guys cheating."
Yes, isn’t that almost always the Fab way? If unfounded and uninformed judgement could be bottled, it’d be the best ever cure for insomnia given how f*****g tiresome it is.
But in other news…. ….my wife plays separately as she’s only into BDSM now and I’m not. She was into it long before we met, but at time we did she wasn’t in the headspace for it due to personal circumstances. A few years ago she found that mojo again so it was the sensible thing to do. |
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Mrs mostly play on her own, however I do enjoy the occasional treesome with her, we would love too meet another couple, but the we swing doesn’t seem to appeal for couples. Mrs also has her own account. |
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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago
Huddersfield |
I’m a watcher , I love to watch lads faces when she walks in the room and stands in front of them , teasing them to put their hands up her skirt , then on the settee next to them , it’s no messing about , knickers off and cocks up asap . Got through most of my mates and a few strangers that way . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It makes me ponder the question is the reason why the female half of the couple plays alone more often the case because it is easier for them to find playmates than their male counterparts? "
Perhaps. But I would like to suggest that a horny woman may have more stamina and appetite than her hubby. She can handle several rounds in a row where most guys can’t. That’s my positive spin on it. I just want to celebrate that a bit more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m so glad to hear I’m not the only male that enjoys this, my ex-wife went off a played alone the thrill for me was when she came back and told me all about it. To her voice tremble when she’d been a naughty was amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is exactly us!
My partner does not get involved in any form of naughtiness lol
He will go to clubs and socials with me so I'm not alone but will not be involved in anything sexual! |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"It makes me ponder the question is the reason why the female half of the couple plays alone more often the case because it is easier for them to find playmates than their male counterparts?
Perhaps. But I would like to suggest that a horny woman may have more stamina and appetite than her hubby. She can handle several rounds in a row where most guys can’t. That’s my positive spin on it. I just want to celebrate that a bit more "
Those kind of women are few and far between, for the most it's usually the guy doing all the work. It may just simply be that the Mr has a wife everyday and gets enjoyment knowing someone is as turned on as as them. Could also be they can see how other people have sex (I have had these comments). Threesomes though are designed to share, so it does take the stamina issue off one single guy.
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