"Is this a way of just excluding one part of a couple.. we have found this to be the case and both parties didn’t like it "
I don't see how it excludes one part of a couple.
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"It might not mean it, but in practice we have found that’s a way for others to just play with the female part, my Mrs hated it "
It may be used as an excuse for that in some cases, but it doesn't mean that it will always be that way and nobody should think about doing it. Maybe you were unfortunate. Ultimately, if it doesn't work for you, don't do it. It does work for some. |
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We agree that it’s anything goes but no penetrative sex. Touching, kissing and sensual enjoyment.
We did play with a couple once whereby she wouldn’t indulge but her partner could. Very frustrating |
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Soft swing as we understand it is two couples having sex in the same room but not swopping partners.
The degree on "interaction" can range from no physical contact at all to everything short of full sex.
Wanking, fingering, oral indulged in if all parties agree to it.
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For us soft swing means including everyone.
we have chosen soft swing as our preferred way to play and especially on first playdates because of the intensely sensuous hedonistic orgasms it produces.
Another reason we have chosen soft swing for first playdates is because of past experience with inexperienced couples where it was the Male's sole purpose just to fuck another female with his wife's or girl friend's approval and after he had had cum he had absolutely no interest in either their partner's, our pleasure or that of others at the house party, etc. |
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From what we have come across soft swing means different things for different people, some don't include oral in soft swing for example. When we joined this scene years ago we were very reserved and didn't do much at all and gradually added more and more to it. |
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met couples as a couple in clubs where you start to play and as her husband is just about to mount your wife they mention his wife doesnt do full sex lol it is a shitty tactic used by some couples and we have just stopped proceedings and it does ruin an evening because they couldnt be upfront, sneaky sad fucks.
Have also met couples where they say we're soft swap and had a great time, coz everyone knew where the goal posts were.
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that's what I akways understood it to mean.
and yes everything but full sex. Someone might sit out for alittle bit just to watch before getting back involved, but not left out.