It's because they're far away we reckon. We get quite a few messages saying (as if it's a foregone conclusion that we would meet them  ) that they wished they were nearer because they'd definitely meet us |
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"I dunno we live south west and it seems the scene is on its knees here.
Every profile we like the look of is usually 200miles away"
We were on holiday down south recently, all the "near you" profiles were desperate old men, but at home up north it's a mix of men, women and couples. Fortunately as a result we don't need to travel to meet as we have lovely people literally on our doorstep.
Bit of a shame really as my first ever swinging social was in Plymouth and an absolute blast... But I always remember profiles being thinner on the ground down in the South West even when we lived there 10 years ago.
I think your best solution is to relocate 200 miles away!!!  |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"I dunno we live south west and it seems the scene is on its knees here.
Every profile we like the look of is usually 200miles away
We were on holiday down south recently, all the "near you" profiles were desperate old men, but at home up north it's a mix of men, women and couples. Fortunately as a result we don't need to travel to meet as we have lovely people literally on our doorstep.
Bit of a shame really as my first ever swinging social was in Plymouth and an absolute blast... But I always remember profiles being thinner on the ground down in the South West even when we lived there 10 years ago.
I think your best solution is to relocate 200 miles away!!! "
I told C last night I want to move actually haha.
Its having a real effect on my confidence and self esteem at the moment.
But I think you're right.
However, then we'd have no childcare so still be unable to play |
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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago
plymouth/chesterfield |
Then there's always the age group factor, plus the NO SINGLE MEN(unless your a bi male), but then some put up a dogging meet? Do they check there age and material status prior or during banging over the car bonnet? |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"Then there's always the age group factor, plus the NO SINGLE MEN(unless your a bi male), but then some put up a dogging meet? Do they check there age and material status prior or during banging over the car bonnet?"
We actually do meet single men and trust me there aren't even any decent genuine ones of those round here. All fuck boys. |
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"Then there's always the age group factor, plus the NO SINGLE MEN(unless your a bi male), but then some put up a dogging meet? Do they check there age and material status prior or during banging over the car bonnet?
We actually do meet single men and trust me there aren't even any decent genuine ones of those round here. All fuck boys."
Sounds like you need a change  |
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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago
plymouth/chesterfield |
"Then there's always the age group factor, plus the NO SINGLE MEN(unless your a bi male), but then some put up a dogging meet? Do they check there age and material status prior or during banging over the car bonnet?
We actually do meet single men and trust me there aren't even any decent genuine ones of those round here. All fuck boys.
Sounds like you need a change "
Think I'll be having a couple of pints down the waterfront this weekend for a change |
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I told C last night I want to move actually haha.
Its having a real effect on my confidence and self esteem at the moment.
But I think you're right.
However, then we'd have no childcare so still be unable to play "
We rarely have childcare so rarely play, otherwise we would probably be out all the time! - we have the same problem as you of not playing much, just opposite reasons!
As a former West country dweller I can hartily recommend the north, much friendlier, more space, cheaper houses. Oh and more swingers and swinging clubs. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
We are always very suspicious of anybody who is prepared to travel 300 plus miles to meet us. Ok if you are in the area but to specifically travel so far would place far to much pressure on us we feel. |
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"We are always very suspicious of anybody who is prepared to travel 300 plus miles to meet us. Ok if you are in the area but to specifically travel so far would place far to much pressure on us we feel."
We had a guy offer to drive 200 miles just to lick the spunk out of the Mrs! He is either hopeful of something extra or really trying to earn petrol station loyalty points.
We didn't feel pressured, but did advise perhaps there was someone else in the small town of London that might be obliging. |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
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I told C last night I want to move actually haha.
Its having a real effect on my confidence and self esteem at the moment.
But I think you're right.
However, then we'd have no childcare so still be unable to play
We rarely have childcare so rarely play, otherwise we would probably be out all the time! - we have the same problem as you of not playing much, just opposite reasons!
As a former West country dweller I can hartily recommend the north, much friendlier, more space, cheaper houses. Oh and more swingers and swinging clubs."
Sadly I've just signed a 2 year training contract or id be on at C haha. We'll have to make do with going to clubs as and when |
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over a year ago
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somerset seems ok at the mo easy to find a meet if you look plenty of hot guys but it takes work and alot of blocking ...
as for keen well we are keen alway have been keen for meets but and big but only with those we desire and that 95% out the window |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"somerset seems ok at the mo easy to find a meet if you look plenty of hot guys but it takes work and alot of blocking ...
as for keen well we are keen alway have been keen for meets but and big but only with those we desire and that 95% out the window"
There is this element.
I think the fact c and I are a slight bigger couple and C has a beard puts people off |
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