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Women who are REALLY bi!
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After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X |
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over a year ago
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Yes they do. Madge definitely looks at the ladies like she does men. |
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Yes we exist..I'm genuinely fully bi.
The amount of women I have come across who 'pretend' to be bi just to please their man, or for whatever reason, is unreal.
It can be really disappointing and can be so blatantly obvious when playing. |
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I'm fully bi I rather pusy than cock even in out I look for women and if we chat I end up kissing her some times they step back and say no but other times it's a yes please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am bi... I just don't find as many women attractive enough, once talking to them, as I do men... Although I usually prefer the ladies in couples on here, over their hubbies  |
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"Yes we exist..I'm genuinely fully bi.
The amount of women I have come across who 'pretend' to be bi just to please their man, or for whatever reason, is unreal.
It can be really disappointing and can be so blatantly obvious when playing."
Yes!!! This is so true!!! |
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We deffo do exist. I ( the Mrs) am also Bi and we have struggled to find another couple here that also has a bi female! Drop us a pm you like x |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
I'm definitely by had girlfriends and boyfriends.
Only have sex with women on here.. maybe one day I'll meet a man that floats my boat! |
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If the attractions mutual bi fem play is magic and not to please the other half  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I discovered that I was bi through playing as I had always looked but not touched.
Now I have it's become a part of our sex life xx |
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X"
I’m totally bi! I’ve had lesbian relationships |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do believe some woman on here are bi ,however what I have found ( being on site before ) that the issue is most woman who are bi are in a relationship/ married and are looking for another female to join . Point of this is a woman is more reluctant to join a couple rather than a man joining a couple . Other point I have found is that woman say they are bi yet only say it for partners sake . I'm not getting at any person on here at all it's just I personally wouldn't join a couple without my husband . Moving onto the biggest concern/issue whatever you like to call it that it's proving your a female and bi and wanting a bi female , there's plenty of us out there lol . With speaking to other ladies in the past I personally have a issue trying to prove I am bi ( previous partner was female who I lived with for 2 years in Leeds) and that my husband wants no involvement AT ALL. It's a tricky situation on both sides . Hope I've explained and made sense xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a bit like when guys say they're bi and its really just to get their hands on the lady.
Some ladies are bi but would rather receive than give.
Personally i like meeting couples and getting my hands on both Lady and Gent. No unequal pleasure distribution. |
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YES! These women do exist but they are hard to find agreed, most are just playing at it or putting on a show and it’s a horrible feeling for genuinely bi ladies as we can tell it’s obvious and of course I’m not talking about newbies we’ve all been there with the first time nerves.
I’ve actually received messages saying happy to receive oral from a woman but just so you know I won’t to give 
Some of the best experiences I’ve had with women are in the on swinging world as I genuinely felt they were attracted to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"YES! These women do exist but they are hard to find agreed, most are just playing at it or putting on a show and it’s a horrible feeling for genuinely bi ladies as we can tell it’s obvious and of course I’m not talking about newbies we’ve all been there with the first time nerves.
I’ve actually received messages saying happy to receive oral from a woman but just so you know I won’t to give
Some of the best experiences I’ve had with women are in the on swinging world as I genuinely felt they were attracted to me. "
Well said! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haha!
Great thread
My ex used to complain about the same thing.
She is fully bi, and was always telling me that most women who say they are bi are actually bi-selfish.
She was right |
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I'm not bi but am interested in straight/cuckqueen couples. The amount of them who just do not understand that I don't want to play with the woman half is unreal, quite clear that the "bar-sexual" trend has infiltrated the swinging scene.
It's obviously now just expected that women should be "putting omna show" for the men, which is wrong on so many levels and really offensive to genuinely bi women who deserve to be treated better than some show pony. |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
Over here!!
Im genuinely bi. But do across a lot who are play acting at it or pillow princesses |
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Are not* in the swinging world that was meant to say! Tiring day lol can’t type properly x |
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By *hloetTV/TS
over a year ago
Nottingham |
I'm surprised by this post, always thought of women being more likely to be bi than men. |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X"
Yes we do, I only play with women I'm attracted to xx |
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"I'm surprised by this post, always thought of women being more likely to be bi than men."
I think it’s more “fashionable” for women to be seen as being bi wether they are genuine or not is a tricky one.  |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
When we meet a bi lady we are regular with I pay her more attention than I do C haha. |
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X
Yes we do, I only play with women I'm attracted to xx"
Preach it girl  |
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By *hloetTV/TS
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"I'm surprised by this post, always thought of women being more likely to be bi than men.
I think it’s more “fashionable” for women to be seen as being bi wether they are genuine or not is a tricky one. "
Interesting point x |
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Yes. Wife is "really bi" here. It's not uncommon for her to disappear on her own for hours or an evening with another lady.
Spent more than a few hours just chatting to the male half of a couple whilst my wife seduces his missus upstairs or staying at home whilst she has a "girlie" night as she calls it.
That all said, yeah, we know what you mean op. We only want to meet actual bi fem couples or bi ladies. The whole "putting on a show for my partner" thing just dosent do it for us. |
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When I meet couples I’m always there for the woman, if I don’t find the woman sexy as hell then it’s never going to work for me.
I’m not sure if I’d describe myself as bi though. Hete exible maybe? I think that’s why my preference is meeting couples. |
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A fully Bi Lady gets wet when playing with another Lady |
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"A fully Bi Lady gets wet when playing with another Lady "
absolutely! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quote Aladdin and magic lamp,
‘3 wishes can be granted
And manifestation of any material desire is yours
Except love (you have to manifest this yourself)’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im fully bi and have had relationships with women as well as men, I often spot women out and about before the hubby does! and then we can have a little perv together hehe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes! Definitely exist x  |
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X"
I think I’m the opposite - I’m bi-ish but much prefer women! |
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Genuinely bi here too , sadly we have also met ladies who have talked the talk, but have definitely not been bi during our meet, and they were single ladies not part of a couple! Maybe they were disappointed in my body who knows, but I was definitely left feeling frustrated. Miss pc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes - some of us are out there! |
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I wouldn't say I'm fully bi as I have to be in the mood to play with another girl. I certainly enjoy myself when I do though, I especially love FFM. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, there are a few of us, as others have said on here. |
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Wife is full bi.
She loves kissing and playing with girls.
She can play 1 on 1 with another girl without me.
She loves watching lesbian films. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not really attracted to women but in the moment enjoy playing with them.Does that make me bi?Not really sure. |
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X"
Oh yes.
Very very bi here. Have had relationships with women just as much as men. I'd say I'm 50/50, but lean more to females than men slightly. |
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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago
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I’m totally bi and have been in a long term relationship with both. I’ve been contacted by couples on here where it’s obviously been the man who is more interested. And lots of single guys are just looking for a performance and I’m just not interested in that. |
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X"
Lol my Mrs is definitely VERY bi and isn't interested in meeting couples where the woman is straight. We too have met some claiming they're bi though, a few clearly 'encouraged' by the male half for his entertainment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I,m properly bi xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep xx |
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C was very much straight and didn’t have any bi tendencies.
But a couple of rabbit holes visited, curiosity got the better of her and now it’s very different.
I’ve never seen her more excited and keen than playing with women. She really doesn’t hold back at all
C even went away for a weekend with a girlfriend, when I couldn’t make it. I would say she’s very bi now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes we exist..I'm genuinely fully bi.
The amount of women I have come across who 'pretend' to be bi just to please their man, or for whatever reason, is unreal.
It can be really disappointing and can be so blatantly obvious when playing."
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Yes, we exist!
Female half of cpl here is an experienced bifem with many cpl meets over the last 15 years or so.
Good luck in your search x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X"
I too found this... like they are going through the motions to look sexy for their fella...wasn't sexy for either myself or my husband... completely different experience when with an equally bi lady...  |
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Oh we exist alright but the attraction is no different than if looking at a guy.
If it isn't there, it isn't there. |
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Yes we exist Having read some of the comments on here, does it not make me really bi if I’ve never been in a relationship with a woman? The fact that I find more women my age attractive than I do guys, surely that says enough? Once at a meet with my fella, the lady was definitely pretending to be bi to please her hubby, and I felt quite sick when she pushed my face away after a minute of me going down on her  I felt mortified and we learned how to chat to couples to suss out if the Mrs wasn’t genuine. |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"Oh we exist alright but the attraction is no different than if looking at a guy.
If it isn't there, it isn't there."
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I say I’m bi-curious but only because I’m still fairly new to playing with ladies but I know I definitely enjoy it. In fact I don’t think Mr gets all that tuned on by seeing me with another woman, if anything it’s more for me. I’d love to have the chance to meet with a woman on my own and it just to be a one on one experience.
Kx |
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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago
portsmouth |
"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X"
Yes we do but totally understand where you are coming from. |
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We certainly do!
We were in polyamorous relationship with a woman for 4 years. |
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By *enitentsCouple
over a year ago
trowbridge |
Yes but lots are pressured into it by their partners fantasies usual give away iswhen he answers for her |
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"Yes but lots are pressured into it by their partners fantasies usual give away iswhen he answers for her "
We've found this on a couple of occasions, so we forreal directly to the lady, reassure her, then just walk away and leave him frustrated. |
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X"
Totally agree its always so dissapointing when play starts and you realise the other woman is not actually Bi. I can usually tell from the first kiss. We don't play if there are limitations like receiving but not returning.
But people still lie about it.
Since covid I've forgotten what it's like to play with another fully Bi woman lol
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Bi lady here. Playing with women is so sensual x |
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Definitely do exist it’s the reason we initially got into this so I (mrs fun) could have the chance to play with women. Things have progressed since then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X
Totally agree its always so dissapointing when play starts and you realise the other woman is not actually Bi. I can usually tell from the first kiss. We don't play if there are limitations like receiving but not returning.
But people still lie about it.
Since covid I've forgotten what it's like to play with another fully Bi woman lol
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Awesome shoes btw x
I hear you, our last escapade turned out to be a pillow princess and that’s so frustrating. It put me off trying a new play partner for a long time x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m bi, say hi lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most definitely Bi Miss here.
I’m helping organise a female only social as well with an option to venture to a club afterwards in Wales for all bi/bi curious ladies.
Nothing worse than meeting fem half of couple and when they aren’t really into it. got nothing wrong with full swap if the women is actually straight but please don’t pretend to make your Mr happy |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"A fully Bi Lady gets wet when playing with another Lady "
That must be proof I'm fully bi - I even get wet thinking about playing with another lady. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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REALLY bi here
Smoke x |
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I actually find women more attractive than men generally. I do have a very specific type of man which Mr falls into, but as a rule I look at and want to play with other women. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
Does this only happen with couples meets? The women we have met through Fab have all been genuinely bisexual...either that, or they were putting on a most convincing act. |
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I consider myself more gay than bi. I prefer one to one with a woman . But that wont stop me meeting couples sometimes i like a lot of both. Lol.
I do prefer to give than receive 51/49 percent |
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"A fully Bi Lady gets wet when playing with another Lady
That must be proof I'm fully bi - I even get wet thinking about playing with another lady. "
Are here |
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Definitely embrace the bi side of our life's |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
If L isn’t bi we need to take down some of our verifications. |
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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago
louth, Ireland |
Definitely bi here, very sexually and mentally attracted to other women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have "straight" on my profile to avoid this kind of confusion. I happily play with and enjoy females but I would never have a serious 1-2-1 relationship with a female. |
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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago
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"I have "straight" on my profile to avoid this kind of confusion. I happily play with and enjoy females but I would never have a serious 1-2-1 relationship with a female. "
Do you really need to do a 1-2-1 with another female to be bi or bi curious?
Not disagreeing with you, its just a question we have asked before and got so many different answers |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"I have "straight" on my profile to avoid this kind of confusion. I happily play with and enjoy females but I would never have a serious 1-2-1 relationship with a female.
Do you really need to do a 1-2-1 with another female to be bi or bi curious?
Not disagreeing with you, its just a question we have asked before and got so many different answers "
To us, curious no, however a Native American saying comes to mind.
“You can think about hunting buffalo. You can talk about hunting buffalo, you can even dream about hunting buffalo, yet until you have been hunting buffalo, you know nothing”.
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"I have "straight" on my profile to avoid this kind of confusion. I happily play with and enjoy females but I would never have a serious 1-2-1 relationship with a female.
Do you really need to do a 1-2-1 with another female to be bi or bi curious?
Not disagreeing with you, its just a question we have asked before and got so many different answers
To us, curious no, however a Native American saying comes to mind.
“You can think about hunting buffalo. You can talk about hunting buffalo, you can even dream about hunting buffalo, yet until you have been hunting buffalo, you know nothing”.
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It hunting buffalo the new term for being bi? Can't keep up with this modern day lingo.
But seriously yes there are bi women out there, but even bi women will have different preferences and likes.
Not all homosexuals are into the same sexual activities or roles, similarly neither are heterosexuals, so bisexual ladies are also likely to enjoy somethings and not others.
Its not a given that just because you are both bi that you will click and enjoy the same things. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I have "straight" on my profile to avoid this kind of confusion. I happily play with and enjoy females but I would never have a serious 1-2-1 relationship with a female. "
We would read ‘straight’ as not wanting to play with or enjoy females. |
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X"
Yep, we exist
My issue is with the bi selfish women, who are happy for you to go down on them but not happy to reciprocate.
Also the couples where the man expects a show. I'm not a performing monkey, and it quickly ruins my mood. |
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By *arlly83Couple
over a year ago
wilmslow |
Yep we do exist . When we play with couples on here i generally look for couples where i am attracted to the female more than the male…. He is just an added bonus hee hee xx |
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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago
Biggleswade |
Mrs T is definitely bi (as our latest pic shows)! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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They definitely do exist (me!) but it can be difficult to find other bisexual women on here, I can imagine that away from clubs (and similar) it must also be difficult for couples.
I don't mind meeting women who are bi-curious, heck, even the odd pillow princess but I hate if I'm told something and it's obvious during that the person isn't remotely bisexual but doing it because she feels she should (happened once, not via here). |
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I’m definitely 100% bisexual, and single |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Yep we do exist . When we play with couples on here i generally look for couples where i am attracted to the female more than the male…. He is just an added bonus hee hee xx"
You mean a bi-product.
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
Passed Beyond Reach |
"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X"
Welcome to the real world of FAB bi fems - outside of our relationship OH has no interest in having sex with guys, only women - we gave up long time ago.
Like a lot on here BI is just a fantasy they will say they are up for FF will bail, or certainly just doing it to fulfil their partners fantasy.
Truth is very few so called bi fems actually want full on FF. Number of threads started about women only bi meets, how many actually happen.
Being genuinely Bi is just a lot of talk for a lot. Those that say they are Bi but "still need cock" they are not genuine BI because they are simply trying to convince themselves, their partners and others that it is not anymore than just a little bit of fun.
- If you are genuinely BI you enjoy both, but need neither -
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly I am struggling to find a bi fem too. I have played with couples in the past (as a single fem) and loved it. Admittedly I don't have a huge amount of experience with girls but not for the want of trying! |
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Bi wife wants some girl on girl fun |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"Bi wife wants some girl on girl fun"
Said recently most of OH girl girl fun has been outside of FAB and happened pubs, camping, shows and exhibitions - FAB for us is entirely the wrong place if you read all the threads on the subject you'd agree - best place is clubs (Bi Nights) or even LGBT community |
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X
Welcome to the real world of FAB bi fems - outside of our relationship OH has no interest in having sex with guys, only women - we gave up long time ago.
Like a lot on here BI is just a fantasy they will say they are up for FF will bail, or certainly just doing it to fulfil their partners fantasy.
Truth is very few so called bi fems actually want full on FF. Number of threads started about women only bi meets, how many actually happen.
Being genuinely Bi is just a lot of talk for a lot. Those that say they are Bi but "still need cock" they are not genuine BI because they are simply trying to convince themselves, their partners and others that it is not anymore than just a little bit of fun.
- If you are genuinely BI you enjoy both, but need neither -
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I’m afraid I disagree with your closed view with regards “still need cock” - I definitely still need that and enjoy being right in the mix, nothing better than riding a cock while playing with a beautiful lady at the same time Being bi is different for every single person and I expect Fab to be a welcoming place where people can explore as they choose  The key, as with everything in life, is communication about what each party is looking for. |
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I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X"
Mrs being bi is what brought us back to swinging, gave her a way of meeting women who were comfortable with her also being married and allowed her to satisfy her needs. As such she is driven more by how attractive the woman in the couple is, less bothered by the guy's looks. She also seeks out single bi women.
Sometimes it results in her going on solo dates, sometimes 3 or 4 somes with me depending on what the other woman is seeking.
Our experience is couples with bi females are bi and out to please the other woman not to show off for their men. I think this is probably just a function of who we pick and luck!
Sometimes feels like every woman has a certain amount of bi experience and desires, but that must be selective bias as we are meeting them through this site sometimes I forget that in the 'real world' most people are straight and sexually monogamous. |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X
Mrs being bi is what brought us back to swinging, gave her a way of meeting women who were comfortable with her also being married and allowed her to satisfy her needs. As such she is driven more by how attractive the woman in the couple is, less bothered by the guy's looks. She also seeks out single bi women.
Sometimes it results in her going on solo dates, sometimes 3 or 4 somes with me depending on what the other woman is seeking.
Our experience is couples with bi females are bi and out to please the other woman not to show off for their men. I think this is probably just a function of who we pick and luck!
Sometimes feels like every woman has a certain amount of bi experience and desires, but that must be selective bias as we are meeting them through this site sometimes I forget that in the 'real world' most people are straight and sexually monogamous. "
As this is what brought us back to swinging but as the OP it is almost impossible to find because with majority couples with bi females, there is an innate need for the guy to be part of the action - so if you are only interested in FF does the woman have to take it so she can enjoy FF, how do you proceed? Solo women who claim to be bi say (in soo many threads) need to have the guy of the couple involved? What if the guy does't want to be involved and respects this side of partners sexuality - why does it have to be a requirement if the female is truly Bi.
Not trying to question any actions just simply highlight how difficult it is on site like this just to find pure 1 on 1 FF - as per the OP.
I still hold to the "Still Need Cock" is a flag that a female is not truly BI - nothing about being closed minded just from experience - "Yes Bi women still enjoy cock else they wouldn't be Bi simples - why make a song and dance about - why do they feel the need to state the fact in caps or big red letters - hence my point - just get on an have as much cock as you want. |
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As this is what brought us back to swinging but as the OP it is almost impossible to find because with majority couples with bi females, there is an innate need for the guy to be part of the action - so if you are only interested in FF does the woman have to take it so she can enjoy FF, how do you proceed? Solo women who claim to be bi say (in soo many threads) need to have the guy of the couple involved? What if the guy does't want to be involved and respects this side of partners sexuality - why does it have to be a requirement if the female is truly Bi.
Not trying to question any actions just simply highlight how difficult it is on site like this just to find pure 1 on 1 FF - as per the OP.
I still hold to the "Still Need Cock" is a flag that a female is not truly BI - nothing about being closed minded just from experience - "Yes Bi women still enjoy cock else they wouldn't be Bi simples - why make a song and dance about - why do they feel the need to state the fact in caps or big red letters - hence my point - just get on an have as much cock as you want."
Not sure what point you are making, but as you quoted us I thought I should try a reply!
An ideal couples meet would be everybody bi so the guys can do stuff while the girls are busy. We haven't really found that yet. What tends to happen is the girls play with each other at the same time as the guys play with them... Or the guys just let them get on with it!! But there isn't any directing or pandering to the men (it's not a show)
Mrs has been able to find 1 on 1 FF... She just looks for hot single women who are bi or gay, of which there are quite a few. Not saying it's easy, but it's totally possible.. in fact it's easier if it doesn't involve me!!
I think you are confusing being bi and being gay... A bi woman is always going to want cock, otherwise she would be gay.. how much cock she wants is a personal preference, doesn't make her more or less bi, or dishonest in what she writes on a profile.
I think a lot of profiles are very specific over who does what with whom, usually to the detriment of the male in a couple... Which is fine, at least they know what they want... But as the male I wouldn't be particularly interested in meeting a couple that wants to exclude me as it's not much fun... Although I might take one for the team if the Mrs really liked the look of the other woman!! |
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I am bisexual, have had meets with other ladies as well as couples. At present, however, couples are not what I'm looking for. They can be too much hard work, with all the rules and hoops that they're trying to get you to jump through, and there is always the problem with all 3 being attracted to one another. What is more, apart from finding women in couples who were just "pillow princesses", men tend to ruin the moment for me. As I'd be, for example, concentrating of pleasuring the woman when, all of a sudden, the guy would either want me to suck him or would be trying to fuck me. I am happy with being fucked by the guy (safe sex only) but most just could not have chosen the worst moment.
Therefore, at present, I prefer 1:1 meets with a lady. |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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As this is what brought us back to swinging but as the OP it is almost impossible to find because with majority couples with bi females, there is an innate need for the guy to be part of the action - so if you are only interested in FF does the woman have to take it so she can enjoy FF, how do you proceed? Solo women who claim to be bi say (in soo many threads) need to have the guy of the couple involved? What if the guy does't want to be involved and respects this side of partners sexuality - why does it have to be a requirement if the female is truly Bi.
Not trying to question any actions just simply highlight how difficult it is on site like this just to find pure 1 on 1 FF - as per the OP.
I still hold to the "Still Need Cock" is a flag that a female is not truly BI - nothing about being closed minded just from experience - "Yes Bi women still enjoy cock else they wouldn't be Bi simples - why make a song and dance about - why do they feel the need to state the fact in caps or big red letters - hence my point - just get on an have as much cock as you want.
Not sure what point you are making, but as you quoted us I thought I should try a reply!
An ideal couples meet would be everybody bi so the guys can do stuff while the girls are busy. We haven't really found that yet. What tends to happen is the girls play with each other at the same time as the guys play with them... Or the guys just let them get on with it!! But there isn't any directing or pandering to the men (it's not a show)
Mrs has been able to find 1 on 1 FF... She just looks for hot single women who are bi or gay, of which there are quite a few. Not saying it's easy, but it's totally possible.. in fact it's easier if it doesn't involve me!!
I think you are confusing being bi and being gay... A bi woman is always going to want cock, otherwise she would be gay.. how much cock she wants is a personal preference, doesn't make her more or less bi, or dishonest in what she writes on a profile.
I think a lot of profiles are very specific over who does what with whom, usually to the detriment of the male in a couple... Which is fine, at least they know what they want... But as the male I wouldn't be particularly interested in meeting a couple that wants to exclude me as it's not much fun... Although I might take one for the team if the Mrs really liked the look of the other woman!! "
Definitely not confusing BI and gay in any shape of form - I was simply making a point, generally from our experiences
If your a BI woman by definition, they enjoy sex with both sexes else the wouldn't be BI and just get on with it
But someone who needs to swing from the rafters, waving flags and shouting "Still need cock" is not necessary at one with her bisexuality and trying to convince herself and others she might dabble a bit and not seriously or genuinely BI.
"The woman doth protest too much, me thinks" comes to mind.
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By *arlly83Couple
over a year ago
wilmslow |
"Yep we do exist . When we play with couples on here i generally look for couples where i am attracted to the female more than the male…. He is just an added bonus hee hee xx
You mean a bi-product.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yep fully bi but it pisses a few off as im very fussy too ...i no longer look on fab as most are bi play and thats good for them but i want to ''feel'' the chemistry too so i leave it for clubs and not just swinging clubs
hubs is fully bi too again he has a type and wont play outsdide that box ie bi play.
and when we say we are bi we mean we've always been right back too teens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As this is what brought us back to swinging but as the OP it is almost impossible to find because with majority couples with bi females, there is an innate need for the guy to be part of the action - so if you are only interested in FF does the woman have to take it so she can enjoy FF, how do you proceed? Solo women who claim to be bi say (in soo many threads) need to have the guy of the couple involved? What if the guy does't want to be involved and respects this side of partners sexuality - why does it have to be a requirement if the female is truly Bi.
Not trying to question any actions just simply highlight how difficult it is on site like this just to find pure 1 on 1 FF - as per the OP.
I still hold to the "Still Need Cock" is a flag that a female is not truly BI - nothing about being closed minded just from experience - "Yes Bi women still enjoy cock else they wouldn't be Bi simples - why make a song and dance about - why do they feel the need to state the fact in caps or big red letters - hence my point - just get on an have as much cock as you want.
Not sure what point you are making, but as you quoted us I thought I should try a reply!
An ideal couples meet would be everybody bi so the guys can do stuff while the girls are busy. We haven't really found that yet. What tends to happen is the girls play with each other at the same time as the guys play with them... Or the guys just let them get on with it!! But there isn't any directing or pandering to the men (it's not a show)
Mrs has been able to find 1 on 1 FF... She just looks for hot single women who are bi or gay, of which there are quite a few. Not saying it's easy, but it's totally possible.. in fact it's easier if it doesn't involve me!!
I think you are confusing being bi and being gay... A bi woman is always going to want cock, otherwise she would be gay.. how much cock she wants is a personal preference, doesn't make her more or less bi, or dishonest in what she writes on a profile.
I think a lot of profiles are very specific over who does what with whom, usually to the detriment of the male in a couple... Which is fine, at least they know what they want... But as the male I wouldn't be particularly interested in meeting a couple that wants to exclude me as it's not much fun... Although I might take one for the team if the Mrs really liked the look of the other woman!!
Definitely not confusing BI and gay in any shape of form - I was simply making a point, generally from our experiences
If your a BI woman by definition, they enjoy sex with both sexes else the wouldn't be BI and just get on with it
But someone who needs to swing from the rafters, waving flags and shouting "Still need cock" is not necessary at one with her bisexuality and trying to convince herself and others she might dabble a bit and not seriously or genuinely BI.
"The woman doth protest too much, me thinks" comes to mind.
Everyone has their own opinion - that is mine"
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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As this is what brought us back to swinging but as the OP it is almost impossible to find because with majority couples with bi females, there is an innate need for the guy to be part of the action - so if you are only interested in FF does the woman have to take it so she can enjoy FF, how do you proceed? Solo women who claim to be bi say (in soo many threads) need to have the guy of the couple involved? What if the guy does't want to be involved and respects this side of partners sexuality - why does it have to be a requirement if the female is truly Bi.
Not trying to question any actions just simply highlight how difficult it is on site like this just to find pure 1 on 1 FF - as per the OP.
I still hold to the "Still Need Cock" is a flag that a female is not truly BI - nothing about being closed minded just from experience - "Yes Bi women still enjoy cock else they wouldn't be Bi simples - why make a song and dance about - why do they feel the need to state the fact in caps or big red letters - hence my point - just get on an have as much cock as you want.
Not sure what point you are making, but as you quoted us I thought I should try a reply!
An ideal couples meet would be everybody bi so the guys can do stuff while the girls are busy. We haven't really found that yet. What tends to happen is the girls play with each other at the same time as the guys play with them... Or the guys just let them get on with it!! But there isn't any directing or pandering to the men (it's not a show)
Mrs has been able to find 1 on 1 FF... She just looks for hot single women who are bi or gay, of which there are quite a few. Not saying it's easy, but it's totally possible.. in fact it's easier if it doesn't involve me!!
I think you are confusing being bi and being gay... A bi woman is always going to want cock, otherwise she would be gay.. how much cock she wants is a personal preference, doesn't make her more or less bi, or dishonest in what she writes on a profile.
I think a lot of profiles are very specific over who does what with whom, usually to the detriment of the male in a couple... Which is fine, at least they know what they want... But as the male I wouldn't be particularly interested in meeting a couple that wants to exclude me as it's not much fun... Although I might take one for the team if the Mrs really liked the look of the other woman!!
Definitely not confusing BI and gay in any shape of form - I was simply making a point, generally from our experiences
If your a BI woman by definition, they enjoy sex with both sexes else the wouldn't be BI and just get on with it
But someone who needs to swing from the rafters, waving flags and shouting "Still need cock" is not necessary at one with her bisexuality and trying to convince herself and others she might dabble a bit and not seriously or genuinely BI.
"The woman doth protest too much, me thinks" comes to mind.
Everyone has their own opinion - that is mine
soooo you cant be a bi woman and want the cock ??? oh shit maybe im not bi then ???? "
if you din't want both you wouldn't be BI would you !!!!!!!!!!! Why do you need to shout about needing cock isn't a given being BI |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are out here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As this is what brought us back to swinging but as the OP it is almost impossible to find because with majority couples with bi females, there is an innate need for the guy to be part of the action - so if you are only interested in FF does the woman have to take it so she can enjoy FF, how do you proceed? Solo women who claim to be bi say (in soo many threads) need to have the guy of the couple involved? What if the guy does't want to be involved and respects this side of partners sexuality - why does it have to be a requirement if the female is truly Bi.
Not trying to question any actions just simply highlight how difficult it is on site like this just to find pure 1 on 1 FF - as per the OP.
I still hold to the "Still Need Cock" is a flag that a female is not truly BI - nothing about being closed minded just from experience - "Yes Bi women still enjoy cock else they wouldn't be Bi simples - why make a song and dance about - why do they feel the need to state the fact in caps or big red letters - hence my point - just get on an have as much cock as you want.
Not sure what point you are making, but as you quoted us I thought I should try a reply!
An ideal couples meet would be everybody bi so the guys can do stuff while the girls are busy. We haven't really found that yet. What tends to happen is the girls play with each other at the same time as the guys play with them... Or the guys just let them get on with it!! But there isn't any directing or pandering to the men (it's not a show)
Mrs has been able to find 1 on 1 FF... She just looks for hot single women who are bi or gay, of which there are quite a few. Not saying it's easy, but it's totally possible.. in fact it's easier if it doesn't involve me!!
I think you are confusing being bi and being gay... A bi woman is always going to want cock, otherwise she would be gay.. how much cock she wants is a personal preference, doesn't make her more or less bi, or dishonest in what she writes on a profile.
I think a lot of profiles are very specific over who does what with whom, usually to the detriment of the male in a couple... Which is fine, at least they know what they want... But as the male I wouldn't be particularly interested in meeting a couple that wants to exclude me as it's not much fun... Although I might take one for the team if the Mrs really liked the look of the other woman!!
Definitely not confusing BI and gay in any shape of form - I was simply making a point, generally from our experiences
If your a BI woman by definition, they enjoy sex with both sexes else the wouldn't be BI and just get on with it
But someone who needs to swing from the rafters, waving flags and shouting "Still need cock" is not necessary at one with her bisexuality and trying to convince herself and others she might dabble a bit and not seriously or genuinely BI.
"The woman doth protest too much, me thinks" comes to mind.
Everyone has their own opinion - that is mine
soooo you cant be a bi woman and want the cock ??? oh shit maybe im not bi then ????
if you din't want both you wouldn't be BI would you !!!!!!!!!!! Why do you need to shout about needing cock isn't a given being BI "
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Cor blimey some people dont half jump to some ridiculous conclusions on here about what other people do or dont want.
I couldnt care less if I'm part of my wifes action with another woman or not anymore than she cares if shes part of the action with myself and another lady. Theres no innate need for me to ogle her and another lady. Do I like it and do i like joining in if invited? Yes, of course i do, what man wouldnt? It the fact remains, if she and the other lady dont want to feel like they are putting on a show or just want to be alone with each other, I'll happily leave them to it and weve found that with the male half of many other couples as well.
Ultimetly though maybe I'm wrong. Maybe we have been extremely lucky or maybe we have less hang ups than others? We tend to play at the level other parties play at and after 23 years of swinging, we are totally comfterbal with things others might not be and absoultely trust each other. We both happily play solo (under the right circumstances) and we get that's not what everyone does but it kinda sucks seeing the assumptions in this thread that a seems to always equal b when it comes to singles or couples when the reality is, everyone on here is different and what's something different out of the lifestyle. Just be honest on your profiles and what you're looking for and you'll find it. Works for us..
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If your a BI woman by definition, they enjoy sex with both sexes else the wouldn't be BI and just get on with it
But someone who needs to swing from the rafters, waving flags and shouting "Still need cock" is not necessary at one with her bisexuality and trying to convince herself and others she might dabble a bit and not seriously or genuinely BI.
"The woman doth protest too much, me thinks" comes to mind.
Everyone has their own opinion - that is mine"
Maybe it's just a blunt way of informing guys that she won't entirely forget their needs when chasing after their wife? Plenty of couples who will happily ignore one person in a meet, nice to know that person won't be me . (spoiler: it probably will be me, I always end up making Tea for everyone!!) |
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By *rMrs84Couple
over a year ago
Doncaster |
Define ‘really’ bi?
Sounds like gate keeping but maybe I’m missing the point? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cor blimey some people dont half jump to some ridiculous conclusions on here about what other people do or dont want.
I couldnt care less if I'm part of my wifes action with another woman or not anymore than she cares if shes part of the action with myself and another lady. Theres no innate need for me to ogle her and another lady. Do I like it and do i like joining in if invited? Yes, of course i do, what man wouldnt? It the fact remains, if she and the other lady dont want to feel like they are putting on a show or just want to be alone with each other, I'll happily leave them to it and weve found that with the male half of many other couples as well.
Ultimetly though maybe I'm wrong. Maybe we have been extremely lucky or maybe we have less hang ups than others? We tend to play at the level other parties play at and after 23 years of swinging, we are totally comfterbal with things others might not be and absoultely trust each other. We both happily play solo (under the right circumstances) and we get that's not what everyone does but it kinda sucks seeing the assumptions in this thread that a seems to always equal b when it comes to singles or couples when the reality is, everyone on here is different and what's something different out of the lifestyle. Just be honest on your profiles and what you're looking for and you'll find it. Works for us..
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we agree but rarely are most honest hence the confusion with some.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've played with a woman in a threesome to the point where the guy got pissed of that us ladies weren't giving him much attention and had a strop. I've played with a woman alone. And played with a woman briefly in a club.
But I also love men.
If that's not bi? What is?
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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If your a BI woman by definition, they enjoy sex with both sexes else the wouldn't be BI and just get on with it
But someone who needs to swing from the rafters, waving flags and shouting "Still need cock" is not necessary at one with her bisexuality and trying to convince herself and others she might dabble a bit and not seriously or genuinely BI.
"The woman doth protest too much, me thinks" comes to mind.
Everyone has their own opinion - that is mine
Maybe it's just a blunt way of informing guys that she won't entirely forget their needs when chasing after their wife? Plenty of couples who will happily ignore one person in a meet, nice to know that person won't be me . (spoiler: it probably will be me, I always end up making Tea for everyone!!)"
The women are always incredibly surprised and think it is miraculous when then they find their discarded clothes and undies neatly folded in nice piles and their drinks are always seem to be full. Even washed an ironed if they are enjoying each other for long enough |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
Passed Beyond Reach |
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As this is what brought us back to swinging but as the OP it is almost impossible to find because with majority couples with bi females, there is an innate need for the guy to be part of the action - so if you are only interested in FF does the woman have to take it so she can enjoy FF, how do you proceed? Solo women who claim to be bi say (in soo many threads) need to have the guy of the couple involved? What if the guy does't want to be involved and respects this side of partners sexuality - why does it have to be a requirement if the female is truly Bi.
Not trying to question any actions just simply highlight how difficult it is on site like this just to find pure 1 on 1 FF - as per the OP.
I still hold to the "Still Need Cock" is a flag that a female is not truly BI - nothing about being closed minded just from experience - "Yes Bi women still enjoy cock else they wouldn't be Bi simples - why make a song and dance about - why do they feel the need to state the fact in caps or big red letters - hence my point - just get on an have as much cock as you want.
Not sure what point you are making, but as you quoted us I thought I should try a reply!
An ideal couples meet would be everybody bi so the guys can do stuff while the girls are busy. We haven't really found that yet. What tends to happen is the girls play with each other at the same time as the guys play with them... Or the guys just let them get on with it!! But there isn't any directing or pandering to the men (it's not a show)
Mrs has been able to find 1 on 1 FF... She just looks for hot single women who are bi or gay, of which there are quite a few. Not saying it's easy, but it's totally possible.. in fact it's easier if it doesn't involve me!!
I think you are confusing being bi and being gay... A bi woman is always going to want cock, otherwise she would be gay.. how much cock she wants is a personal preference, doesn't make her more or less bi, or dishonest in what she writes on a profile.
I think a lot of profiles are very specific over who does what with whom, usually to the detriment of the male in a couple... Which is fine, at least they know what they want... But as the male I wouldn't be particularly interested in meeting a couple that wants to exclude me as it's not much fun... Although I might take one for the team if the Mrs really liked the look of the other woman!!
Definitely not confusing BI and gay in any shape of form - I was simply making a point, generally from our experiences
If your a BI woman by definition, they enjoy sex with both sexes else the wouldn't be BI and just get on with it
But someone who needs to swing from the rafters, waving flags and shouting "Still need cock" is not necessary at one with her bisexuality and trying to convince herself and others she might dabble a bit and not seriously or genuinely BI.
"The woman doth protest too much, me thinks" comes to mind.
Everyone has their own opinion - that is mine
soooo you cant be a bi woman and want the cock ??? oh shit maybe im not bi then ????
if you din't want both you wouldn't be BI would you !!!!!!!!!!! Why do you need to shout about needing cock isn't a given being BI
cause I LOVE COCK innit "
I'm really pleased you shouted it at me because I would have never known you enjoyed cock as well - being a BI woman - you learn something new here every day
Oh just in case stupid idiots like me don't understand what being a BI woman SHE LOVES COCK also - go figure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes fully bi hear last 2 times iv been to a club iv played with only women which I was fine with.I have found they the women who say they are bi but probably aren't really usually just want to kiss and maybe touch each others boobs but don't want anything to do with oral especially giving which I'm fine with but I don't really like the feeling of feeling like the woman isn't really in to it it feels fake and I'm not talking about newbies these are women who claim to be full bi. |
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"C was very much straight and didn’t have any bi tendencies.
But a couple of rabbit holes visited, curiosity got the better of her and now it’s very different.
I’ve never seen her more excited and keen than playing with women. She really doesn’t hold back at all
C even went away for a weekend with a girlfriend, when I couldn’t make it. I would say she’s very bi now.
K"
Lucky lady having a weekend away with a girlfriend. That must be so much fun, and it's something I would thoroughly enjoy.
Back to searching |
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Fully bi here, Im meeting a F for a FF meet with Mr Ps permission this is another "step" for us but a progressive one we are both more than willing and happy to take ... plus more fun for me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bi here, love playing with ladies in couples and ff play too is a fave for me.
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By *3xDECouple
over a year ago
nottingham |
Yes we exist. I find it irritating when other women claim to like women just to get on him. Just say if you want to fuck him and I will gladly sit and watch |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
Passed Beyond Reach |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
Passed Beyond Reach |
"Yes we exist. I find it irritating when other women claim to like women just to get on him. Just say if you want to fuck him and I will gladly sit and watch "
This ^^^^^^ I'm sure that are also many couples met "BI" guy when getting down to it, goes straight to foof, does not pass cock etc.
Hmmmmm forum rules can have fake "bi" guys but fake "bi" women never - which was the essence of the OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have "straight" on my profile to avoid this kind of confusion. I happily play with and enjoy females but I would never have a serious 1-2-1 relationship with a female.
Do you really need to do a 1-2-1 with another female to be bi or bi curious?
Not disagreeing with you, its just a question we have asked before and got so many different answers "
I've not had that "chemical attraction" that I get from men with a female. You know when you can smell them and it turns you on. Drives the animalistic part of me wild. With women it's more "you look nice, let's do this" |
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"Yes we exist. I find it irritating when other women claim to like women just to get on him. Just say if you want to fuck him and I will gladly sit and watch
This ^^^^^^ I'm sure that are also many couples met "BI" guy when getting down to it, goes straight to foof, does not pass cock etc.
Hmmmmm forum rules can have fake "bi" guys but fake "bi" women never - which was the essence of the OP"
Fab never fails to make me scratch my head.
We've had loads of threads complaining about bi guys pretending to be straight to get meets or that their is stigma attached to guys coming out as bi (which I'm not disputing).
But now we have this complaint saying that straight guys are pretending to be bi to get meets???
I feel like we've come full circle
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X"
This is something that actually happened to us a few years ago. My fella was at pub with some old friends & a female arrived that had been desperate to get with him the last time they'd all been socialising (before we were a couple). When he suggested to me that it might be fun to invite her to join us for a 3some I was up for the experience of sharing him with someone so eager. But as soon as she was introduced to me she was very obviously much more interested in me than him. We had heard that she had been in a female/female relationship in the past but was quite taken aback at how much more she got turned on by me than him, who we thought was the reason she joined us. I was initially out of my comfort zone but it was so fun that we all ended up getting something out of the experience. |
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By *LiamMan
over a year ago
Midlands |
I need two bi women to give me a joint blowjob  |
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"I need two bi women to give me a joint blowjob "
The most unexpected thing happened to me & my boyfriend once. You'll probably not even believe it because it was such a surprise to us as well. Basically we ended up having an impromptu meet at ours from a horny female with another female that she'd met that night at Abfabs or Hellfire and they joined us on their way home. Turned out that she was a fully transgender woman who had once been a man & she brought her new friend who was a black girl who was a lesbian & hadn't sucked a guy in a few years and they thoroughly enjoyed competing over his BJ to see who could do it best. Great fun for me to watch. |
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"I need two bi women to give me a joint blowjob "
Only 2?
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The wife before we met had a girlfriend and has lived with a girl in a fully bi relationship
So I'm guessing she's not fab bi , but fully bi ! |
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"Bi here, love playing with ladies in couples and ff play too is a fave for me.
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Fully bi here… some sexy ladies on this thread I’m also good to meet alone… |
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Married to 100% bi wife and is happy to play alone with another lady or group of ladies. |
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Pansexual fem here. Was very much giving as well as taking from a wonderfully bi lady this weds. Although the men in club were not respectful. Got right in our space and over took some of the play. We had to ask quite a few to back off and watch.
Don't get me wrong, I'm a greedy girl and need the single men. But you don't get to see much girl on girl action, especally in clubs. Just wished they'd of been respectful and backed off.
I've never found a lady to play at home alone. It's always in clubs, and yes, I can tell the ones only doing it for their fella. I won't go there, or take bi cherries. |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X"
Not read all the posts so this has probably been said...
I think there are shades of bi:
1. Swinging bi - enjoy sex with other women in a purely swinging context.
2. Sexually bi - enjoy sex 1-on-1 with women in vanilla context.
3. Identify as bi - enjoy having relationships with both women and men.
Mrs B is 1&2 but has no interest in 3. |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X
Not read all the posts so this has probably been said...
I think there are shades of bi:
1. Swinging bi - enjoy sex with other women in a purely swinging context.
2. Sexually bi - enjoy sex 1-on-1 with women in vanilla context.
3. Identify as bi - enjoy having relationships with both women and men.
Mrs B is 1&2 but has no interest in 3."
Just posted pretty much the same question - same thoughts going through our minds about these threads |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X
Not read all the posts so this has probably been said...
I think there are shades of bi:
1. Swinging bi - enjoy sex with other women in a purely swinging context.
2. Sexually bi - enjoy sex 1-on-1 with women in vanilla context.
3. Identify as bi - enjoy having relationships with both women and men.
Mrs B is 1&2 but has no interest in 3.
Just posted pretty much the same question - same thoughts going through our minds about these threads "
Shorter is pretty much the same. Lobes the female form but don't think she would be in a full time live-in relationship with another woman.
It's sometimes a little strange to think of that as she is more likely to find females sexually attractive than she is males |
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X"
We definitely exist but I completely agree it's hard to find a truly bi woman, I love sex with women as much if not more than with men, Mrs xx |
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X
Not read all the posts so this has probably been said...
I think there are shades of bi:
1. Swinging bi - enjoy sex with other women in a purely swinging context.
2. Sexually bi - enjoy sex 1-on-1 with women in vanilla context.
3. Identify as bi - enjoy having relationships with both women and men.
Mrs B is 1&2 but has no interest in 3."
Pretty much |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X
Not read all the posts so this has probably been said...
I think there are shades of bi:
1. Swinging bi - enjoy sex with other women in a purely swinging context.
2. Sexually bi - enjoy sex 1-on-1 with women in vanilla context.
3. Identify as bi - enjoy having relationships with both women and men.
Mrs B is 1&2 but has no interest in 3."
Should have said there is of course another shade of bi...
4. spaghetti bi - straight until she gets wet |
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I’m definitely bi and love to play with other women solo
Must add that I have found that single woman who approach me to play quickly ask if a male can join in too….making me think that’s the intention all along  |
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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago
Bridgwater, Somerset |
"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X
Not read all the posts so this has probably been said...
I think there are shades of bi:
1. Swinging bi - enjoy sex with other women in a purely swinging context.
2. Sexually bi - enjoy sex 1-on-1 with women in vanilla context.
3. Identify as bi - enjoy having relationships with both women and men.
Mrs B is 1&2 but has no interest in 3.
Should have said there is of course another shade of bi...
4. spaghetti bi - straight until she gets wet "
Haha love that
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I am bi curious . I definitely fancy women and LOVE boobs. I hope to have my first experience soon. |
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Yes we are here and we struggle as much as you do. |
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X"
Katie you will know when you meet a truly bi lady, her face will be buried in you after a lot of kissing, and she will only cum up for air after your first set of orgasms…
The men love watching when this happens |
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I'm bi curious as I've not played with many females. The times I have played I have really enjoyed and both of us were very wet. If part of a much couple I prefer just to play/ be played with by the female.
Not many around the area on here.
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By *ickyquimCouple
over a year ago
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X"
Yes, we exist! ‘waves frantically’
The ‘partner pleasers’ as I call them are also called spaghetti girls in some circles.They only loosen up and play with pussy when they’re wet.
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X
Yes, we exist! ‘waves frantically’
The ‘partner pleasers’ as I call them are also called spaghetti girls in some circles.They only loosen up and play with pussy when they’re wet.
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I refer you to seven posts further up |
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over a year ago
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I'm absolutely and definitely bi! I spend more time looking at women than I do men. There is nothing I love more than playing with women! |
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over a year ago
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Nearly all bi females are in a couple ( dammit) and sexy ones are far away .
I am married BUT ONLY WANT FEMALE FOR MYSELF xx |
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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X"
I'm 100% bi and like a few others have come across women who do it more to please their guy than actually wanting to do it. What I am not so keen on is if meeting a couple just playing with the woman as the guy watches. I just feel a little awkward and prefer all to play together |
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over a year ago
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Bi here too xx |
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"After a few meets I have soon realised that many women say they are Bi, yet actually it’s more just a phrase thrown around and when it comes down to it… it’s clear they’re not bi!
I want the woman to find me as attractive as my male half! Do these women exist?! X"
Yep my Mrs mischief |
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I am very bi. I prefer females over the male half x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm bi. Have played with a good number of women and loved it. OP, wouldn't be able to keep my hands off you! Stunning curves in your pics, wow. Mrs x |
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over a year ago
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"Nearly all bi females are in a couple ( dammit) and sexy ones are far away .
I am married BUT ONLY WANT FEMALE FOR MYSELF xx"
Same here, Mr let's me go enjoy nights on my own with women. He loves the stories. Love spending the night with a woman. Mrs x |
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Fully bi but the opportunities are slim round my area...seems to always be a husband or boyfriend that wants to be invited / watching for safety reasons like I'm a mad woman lol...if I'm just looking for a woman to play with then I don't want a couple that time lol...I do find it better in clubs... |
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Mrs N is bi.
She says she is far more attracted to beautiful women and their “bits” than “willies” which although she likes (and needs) don’t really attract her haha.
I’ll concur, the female form is way better than the male. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very definitely bi here if not trending towards the lesbian end of the scale, sorry guys but women are just prettier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fully bi but the opportunities are slim round my area...seems to always be a husband or boyfriend that wants to be invited / watching for safety reasons like I'm a mad woman lol...if I'm just looking for a woman to play with then I don't want a couple that time lol...I do find it better in clubs..."
It's not just in your area. Just about every time without fail when Mrs chats to a single female, they will want a boyfriend or husband to 'just watch'. This information always comes to light after time has been wasted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely yes we exist .........
I gwt what your saying though x |
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"Fully bi but the opportunities are slim round my area...seems to always be a husband or boyfriend that wants to be invited / watching for safety reasons like I'm a mad woman lol...if I'm just looking for a woman to play with then I don't want a couple that time lol...I do find it better in clubs...
It's not just in your area. Just about every time without fail when Mrs chats to a single female, they will want a boyfriend or husband to 'just watch'. This information always comes to light after time has been wasted."
Drives me nuts...it's why I prefer clubs now... |
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"Yes we exist Having read some of the comments on here, does it not make me really bi if I’ve never been in a relationship with a woman? The fact that I find more women my age attractive than I do guys, surely that says enough? Once at a meet with my fella, the lady was definitely pretending to be bi to please her hubby, and I felt quite sick when she pushed my face away after a minute of me going down on her I felt mortified and we learned how to chat to couples to suss out if the Mrs wasn’t genuine."
That's horrible, I would die inside if that happened to me. A similar thing happened to a couple we know pretty well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me! In fact, apart from my husband very rarely interested in men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me! In fact, apart from my husband very rarely interested in men "
Exact same for me |
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over a year ago
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Fully bi female in this couple however your correct op a bi for the guy lady is no fun at all, it’s so obvious when there just going through the motions |
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the curves the feel of them 
everything 