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over a year ago
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A single guy wanting fun with a married/attached female, that's what it's all about for me.
The sex is secondary to having a woman who is spoken for and who just wants more than she's getting, or different to what she has. |
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By *aves14 OP Man
over a year ago
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"A single guy wanting fun with a married/attached female, that's what it's all about for me.
The sex is secondary to having a woman who is spoken for and who just wants more than she's getting, or different to what she has."
There is something erotic about playing with a married lady... With or without consent.. |
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"all married women on Fab are "here with hubby's permission" and all married men are playing behind their partner's back...........FACT  "
Just because you add fact don’t make it true… allow me to introduce my married old self  |
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By *aves14 OP Man
over a year ago
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"all married women on Fab are "here with hubby's permission" and all married men are playing behind their partner's back...........FACT
Just because you add fact don’t make it true… allow me to introduce my married old self "
I guess each to their own... I never judge anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had noticed the attached ladies don't get as much abuse as an attached guy... I guess it's just the way it goes. "
This is mainly due to the attitude of some men who simply aren’t arsed. |
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By *aves14 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I had noticed the attached ladies don't get as much abuse as an attached guy... I guess it's just the way it goes.
This is mainly due to the attitude of some men who simply aren’t arsed. "
Yes some guys just think its an easy way to get sex. They don't understand the dynamics of swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had noticed the attached ladies don't get as much abuse as an attached guy... I guess it's just the way it goes.
This is mainly due to the attitude of some men who simply aren’t arsed.
Yes some guys just think its an easy way to get sex. They don't understand the dynamics of swinging. "
Not just that but the fact the woman is married/attached seems to be a even better for them.
This is where the difference in attitudes magnify.
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By *aves14 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I had noticed the attached ladies don't get as much abuse as an attached guy... I guess it's just the way it goes.
This is mainly due to the attitude of some men who simply aren’t arsed.
Yes some guys just think its an easy way to get sex. They don't understand the dynamics of swinging.
Not just that but the fact the woman is married/attached seems to be a even better for them.
This is where the difference in attitudes magnify.
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Do you think that they imagine a married woman is easier to have sex with? Oh and hello Sunderland near my childhood home town. |
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By *aves14 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I try not to judge, we all have baggage/reasons/kinks etc. What's more important to me is (for want of a better term) chemistry."
It should be more about chemistry... If you don't connect with someone what's the point? Married or not, be it male or female. |
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"I had noticed the attached ladies don't get as much abuse as an attached guy... I guess it's just the way it goes.
This is mainly due to the attitude of some men who simply aren’t arsed.
Yes some guys just think its an easy way to get sex. They don't understand the dynamics of swinging.
Not just that but the fact the woman is married/attached seems to be a even better for them.
This is where the difference in attitudes magnify.
Do you think that they imagine a married woman is easier to have sex with? Oh and hello Sunderland near my childhood home town. "
No, I think it’s the thought that the married woman is cheating on her husband with them. |
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By *aves14 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I had noticed the attached ladies don't get as much abuse as an attached guy... I guess it's just the way it goes.
This is mainly due to the attitude of some men who simply aren’t arsed.
Yes some guys just think its an easy way to get sex. They don't understand the dynamics of swinging.
Not just that but the fact the woman is married/attached seems to be a even better for them.
This is where the difference in attitudes magnify.
Do you think that they imagine a married woman is easier to have sex with? Oh and hello Sunderland near my childhood home town.
No, I think it’s the thought that the married woman is cheating on her husband with them. "
I see.. More of a trophy.. Having sex with another guys wife without him knowing. |
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"I had noticed the attached ladies don't get as much abuse as an attached guy... I guess it's just the way it goes.
This is mainly due to the attitude of some men who simply aren’t arsed.
Yes some guys just think its an easy way to get sex. They don't understand the dynamics of swinging.
Not just that but the fact the woman is married/attached seems to be a even better for them.
This is where the difference in attitudes magnify.
Do you think that they imagine a married woman is easier to have sex with? Oh and hello Sunderland near my childhood home town.
No, I think it’s the thought that the married woman is cheating on her husband with them.
I see.. More of a trophy.. Having sex with another guys wife without him knowing. "
Yeh you see this type of attitude a lot. |
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Can guarantee my wife never cheated on me , even now when we are swinging, we always make sure if either of us do play solo , if short notice meet (hit of a party etc) arranged meet in advance , we mainly play together,but still get excitement from random acts of fun , be it full swing or her giving a stripper a bj, If you can’t trust each other it’s not worth being in a marriage , we do see so many couples pairing up just to get into clubs , not saying we don’t play with married people , be it husband or wife , but we don’t ask questions at club ,and what goes on in club stays in club , me husband prefer playing with a wife when husband present as I know how horny it is watching my wife with another guy |
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By *aves14 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I had noticed the attached ladies don't get as much abuse as an attached guy... I guess it's just the way it goes.
This is mainly due to the attitude of some men who simply aren’t arsed.
Yes some guys just think its an easy way to get sex. They don't understand the dynamics of swinging.
Not just that but the fact the woman is married/attached seems to be a even better for them.
This is where the difference in attitudes magnify.
Do you think that they imagine a married woman is easier to have sex with? Oh and hello Sunderland near my childhood home town.
No, I think it’s the thought that the married woman is cheating on her husband with them.
I see.. More of a trophy.. Having sex with another guys wife without him knowing.
Yeh you see this type of attitude a lot. "
I'm not sure it's the right attitude. There should be respect involved. |
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Don't mind as long as their partner knows and is OK with it, if not they are just as bad as the guys.
We've said many times, if they have no respect for their own partner then they are hardly going to have any respect for some randomers they hope to meet on here. |
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By *aves14 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Can guarantee my wife never cheated on me , even now when we are swinging, we always make sure if either of us do play solo , if short notice meet (hit of a party etc) arranged meet in advance , we mainly play together,but still get excitement from random acts of fun , be it full swing or her giving a stripper a bj, If you can’t trust each other it’s not worth being in a marriage , we do see so many couples pairing up just to get into clubs , not saying we don’t play with married people , be it husband or wife , but we don’t ask questions at club ,and what goes on in club stays in club , me husband prefer playing with a wife when husband present as I know how horny it is watching my wife with another guy "
I see, I guess it's different for everyone and if you guys have set rules and trust each other that's the best way to be. |
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"Don't mind as long as their partner knows and is OK with it, if not they are just as bad as the guys.
We've said many times, if they have no respect for their own partner then they are hardly going to have any respect for some randomers they hope to meet on here."
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By *aves14 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Don't mind as long as their partner knows and is OK with it, if not they are just as bad as the guys.
We've said many times, if they have no respect for their own partner then they are hardly going to have any respect for some randomers they hope to meet on here."
The respect should be there regardless of if someone is married or not. Even if it's just a one off meet, we all have our own reasons for being here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had noticed the attached ladies don't get as much abuse as an attached guy... I guess it's just the way it goes.
This is mainly due to the attitude of some men who simply aren’t arsed.
Yes some guys just think its an easy way to get sex. They don't understand the dynamics of swinging.
Not just that but the fact the woman is married/attached seems to be a even better for them.
This is where the difference in attitudes magnify.
Do you think that they imagine a married woman is easier to have sex with? Oh and hello Sunderland near my childhood home town.
No, I think it’s the thought that the married woman is cheating on her husband with them.
I see.. More of a trophy.. Having sex with another guys wife without him knowing.
Yeh you see this type of attitude a lot.
I'm not sure it's the right attitude. There should be respect involved. "
Respect is a given in any situation |
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By *aves14 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I had noticed the attached ladies don't get as much abuse as an attached guy... I guess it's just the way it goes.
This is mainly due to the attitude of some men who simply aren’t arsed.
Yes some guys just think its an easy way to get sex. They don't understand the dynamics of swinging.
Not just that but the fact the woman is married/attached seems to be a even better for them.
This is where the difference in attitudes magnify.
Do you think that they imagine a married woman is easier to have sex with? Oh and hello Sunderland near my childhood home town.
No, I think it’s the thought that the married woman is cheating on her husband with them.
I see.. More of a trophy.. Having sex with another guys wife without him knowing.
Yeh you see this type of attitude a lot.
I'm not sure it's the right attitude. There should be respect involved.
Respect is a given in any situation "
It always should be... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've often wondered this too. From my experience some guys I've met like that fact I'm married, others don't care. But I don't that ratio, or know if it put anyone off as obviously they didn't meet me. Xx |
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By *aves14 OP Man
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"I've often wondered this too. From my experience some guys I've met like that fact I'm married, others don't care. But I don't that ratio, or know if it put anyone off as obviously they didn't meet me. Xx"
I guess everyone is different. Some will find it exciting, others will find it wrong. It seems like most of the guys aren't worried about whether you are married or single. |
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oh and I’ love to come over their hand with wedding ring on 
