do men & women have a preference of who they are massaged by in general?
Also do you always assume its going to be a sexual massage? 
i offer free genuine non sensual massages via private message sometimes - as some are local or see something on their update. some times i get blocked for offering as im the wrong gender or message deleted by couples.
but on the other hand i get lots of males messaging wanting happy ends etc 
but never females message
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Like you I enjoy massage of itself, and massage per se is not sexual. I do shiatsu as well, and that is clothed, so I have a kind of scale, in which I offer shiatsu (clothed) deep tissue/aromatherapy in which the recipient is unclothed, sensual massage or naturist massage in which we are both unclothed, and what others might call tantric massage (although the term is a misnomer) which is basically g spot palpitation, and so more intimate. In this way there is no ambiguity and people, male or female, simply tell me what they want. |
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My old masseuse was male and that was in a spa so he was clothed and very professional.
Had a meet on an old profile from a guy who said he did massages and he ended up naked doing the massage as that was very nice aswell, especially feeling his cock against my skin |
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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago
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I always get asked for an 'oily massage' and find most people believe this is what to expect in a massage but more often they think of the sexual association with it. Have to disappoint some by telling them I don't use oil but a cream/lotion n they often feel they will not receive the same benefits which couldn't be further from the truth.
Massage isn't always about slapping on the oil n performing a few strokes as often oil can hinder providing a good treatment if yr using other techniques.
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"Prefer a guy to massage me I wouldn't expect anything sexual unless it was agreed prior, both parties should be in agreement at any stage if it was leading to a sexual encounter"
thats the thing people just expect what they want without agreement.
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"Like you I enjoy massage of itself, and massage per se is not sexual. I do shiatsu as well, and that is clothed, so I have a kind of scale, in which I offer shiatsu (clothed) deep tissue/aromatherapy in which the recipient is unclothed, sensual massage or naturist massage in which we are both unclothed, and what others might call tantric massage (although the term is a misnomer) which is basically g spot palpitation, and so more intimate. In this way there is no ambiguity and people, male or female, simply tell me what they want. "
i do a few types also, but even clients booking online, expect that they will be pleasured from it :/ i dont know why people get the wrong ideas |
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"Used to take over the massage room in the old Kestrels with the Mrs for the afternoon doing massages for whoever wanted. Only rule was I wasn't massaging cock or ego "
i dont massage cock. only my own  |
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"We don't really mind who messages us as long as they've read our profile and have public pictures pictures."
thats good to know, but if you was going to a massage, knowing fir example it was to unwind/destress, would yous be expecting for it to be sexual by the end of it? |
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"My old masseuse was male and that was in a spa so he was clothed and very professional.
Had a meet on an old profile from a guy who said he did massages and he ended up naked doing the massage as that was very nice aswell, especially feeling his cock against my skin "
haha i bet. but with the spa one younwent to, was you/didnyou expect it to be sexual in anyway knowing it was professional?
on here there are lota say they do “massage” but obvs they not they right kind |
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"I'm not a huge fan of massages to be honest but when I do have one it's in a health spa type situation with a professional masseuse/masseur. "
i get that there so many benefits in massage too you should enjoy them , i like to keep mine professional for the type  |
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"I always get asked for an 'oily massage' and find most people believe this is what to expect in a massage but more often they think of the sexual association with it. Have to disappoint some by telling them I don't use oil but a cream/lotion n they often feel they will not receive the same benefits which couldn't be further from the truth.
Massage isn't always about slapping on the oil n performing a few strokes as often oil can hinder providing a good treatment if yr using other techniques.
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so do you offer dodgy types |
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By *1bttmMan
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"I always get asked for an 'oily massage' and find most people believe this is what to expect in a massage but more often they think of the sexual association with it. Have to disappoint some by telling them I don't use oil but a cream/lotion n they often feel they will not receive the same benefits which couldn't be further from the truth.
Massage isn't always about slapping on the oil n performing a few strokes as often oil can hinder providing a good treatment if yr using other techniques.
so do you offer dodgy types "
Like I said I don't offer "oily massages"   |
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"I always get asked for an 'oily massage' and find most people believe this is what to expect in a massage but more often they think of the sexual association with it. Have to disappoint some by telling them I don't use oil but a cream/lotion n they often feel they will not receive the same benefits which couldn't be further from the truth.
Massage isn't always about slapping on the oil n performing a few strokes as often oil can hinder providing a good treatment if yr using other techniques.
so do you offer dodgy types
Like I said I don't offer "oily massages" "
hehehe, well i know where to send all the pests who want extras  |
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Had my first massage in Bath last year, it was the worst experience Iv had, was a full massage with hot wax which was nice but it’s wasn’t very relaxing, the next day I was covered in bruises. Will stick to hubby’s massages. Would pick a man over women though |
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"Had my first massage in Bath last year, it was the worst experience Iv had, was a full massage with hot wax which was nice but it’s wasn’t very relaxing, the next day I was covered in bruises. Will stick to hubby’s massages. Would pick a man over women though "
i cant comment on the “hot wax” its not something ive done, but doesnt sound good 
for what reason would you pick a guy tho? |
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"Had my first massage in Bath last year, it was the worst experience Iv had, was a full massage with hot wax which was nice but it’s wasn’t very relaxing, the next day I was covered in bruises. Will stick to hubby’s massages. Would pick a man over women though
i cant comment on the “hot wax” its not something ive done, but doesnt sound good
for what reason would you pick a guy tho? "
The hot wax was lovely, it was the women that was massaging me. She was so rough.
Just bigger and firmer hands. Like the idea of a sensual massage too |
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By *1bttmMan
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"I always get asked for an 'oily massage' and find most people believe this is what to expect in a massage but more often they think of the sexual association with it. Have to disappoint some by telling them I don't use oil but a cream/lotion n they often feel they will not receive the same benefits which couldn't be further from the truth.
Massage isn't always about slapping on the oil n performing a few strokes as often oil can hinder providing a good treatment if yr using other techniques.
so do you offer dodgy types
Like I said I don't offer "oily massages"
hehehe, well i know where to send all the pests who want extras "
Kind offer but my massage is remedial and not sensual so they would be extremely disappointed by yr recommendation. |
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"I always get asked for an 'oily massage' and find most people believe this is what to expect in a massage but more often they think of the sexual association with it. Have to disappoint some by telling them I don't use oil but a cream/lotion n they often feel they will not receive the same benefits which couldn't be further from the truth.
Massage isn't always about slapping on the oil n performing a few strokes as often oil can hinder providing a good treatment if yr using other techniques.
so do you offer dodgy types
Like I said I don't offer "oily massages"
hehehe, well i know where to send all the pests who want extras
Kind offer but my massage is remedial and not sensual so they would be extremely disappointed by yr recommendation. "
exactly. they can be disappointed by 2 of us then |
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"Had my first massage in Bath last year, it was the worst experience Iv had, was a full massage with hot wax which was nice but it’s wasn’t very relaxing, the next day I was covered in bruises. Will stick to hubby’s massages. Would pick a man over women though
i cant comment on the “hot wax” its not something ive done, but doesnt sound good
for what reason would you pick a guy tho?
The hot wax was lovely, it was the women that was massaging me. She was so rough.
Just bigger and firmer hands. Like the idea of a sensual massage too"
ive not gone down the hot wax hot stone road, prefer more natural hands on. defo should have had some type of relax there tho thats the whole point.
so youd discuss the sensual massage before hand, or would you expect it to just happen
this is what id like to find out, as lots seem to just expect thats what massages are for. |
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"Had my first massage in Bath last year, it was the worst experience Iv had, was a full massage with hot wax which was nice but it’s wasn’t very relaxing, the next day I was covered in bruises. Will stick to hubby’s massages. Would pick a man over women though
i cant comment on the “hot wax” its not something ive done, but doesnt sound good
for what reason would you pick a guy tho?
The hot wax was lovely, it was the women that was massaging me. She was so rough.
Just bigger and firmer hands. Like the idea of a sensual massage too
ive not gone down the hot wax hot stone road, prefer more natural hands on. defo should have had some type of relax there tho thats the whole point.
so youd discuss the sensual massage before hand, or would you expect it to just happen
this is what id like to find out, as lots seem to just expect thats what massages are for. "
Like the idea of both but would need to be attracted to the person |
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"Had my first massage in Bath last year, it was the worst experience Iv had, was a full massage with hot wax which was nice but it’s wasn’t very relaxing, the next day I was covered in bruises. Will stick to hubby’s massages. Would pick a man over women though
i cant comment on the “hot wax” its not something ive done, but doesnt sound good
for what reason would you pick a guy tho?
The hot wax was lovely, it was the women that was massaging me. She was so rough.
Just bigger and firmer hands. Like the idea of a sensual massage too
ive not gone down the hot wax hot stone road, prefer more natural hands on. defo should have had some type of relax there tho thats the whole point.
so youd discuss the sensual massage before hand, or would you expect it to just happen
this is what id like to find out, as lots seem to just expect thats what massages are for.
Like the idea of both but would need to be attracted to the person "
love your honest opinion on this, its really good to know  |
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