Planned meets can take a lot of time to find the right profile, people and place, which can kill the moment when searching through all replies. But, you've found what you're looking for at the end of it and you can take things from there.

Random meets, for example, in a club. You see the person, chat, decide there and then if they arw for you. Or, the other option, see the person or people you like, ask them for a play, get your kicks and move on.

It all depends on chance and circumstance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unplanned is exciting, but definitely get the practical need for planned. There’s a certain excitement to suddenly having to get ready to meet someone when 5 minutes ago you were doing the dishes!!

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By *ubandsubCouple over a year ago

Middlesbrough

We lean more to random for single guys, also fuck n goes no small talk etc just good naughty fun. Some times she dosnt know who as fucked her. Which adds to the naughtiness.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer spontaneous... I like the short term adrenaline

I think with planned in advance meets there is a tendency to over plan and it kills it for me personally.

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

Planned but at times random can be just as much enjoyable think we may all need this at times as a change of scenery

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By *udistcpl1Couple over a year ago

Wirral

We have done both and Both types can be a failure or they can be highly erotic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love meeting regulars so I guess for me it has to be planned

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By *ananas57Couple over a year ago

lake ariel

I’m a horrible planner, so it’s always random for me

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By *tue555Man over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

In the context of the thread, what is considered a random meet?

"Do you want to fuck now", "Yeah ok".

Or just something that happens for no apparent reason than it just happened. Is that actually a random meet? because "meet" implies some intent.

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple over a year ago

Halifax

Planned, too old for random, risk appetite lowers with age lol

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

"In the context of the thread, what is considered a random meet?

"Do you want to fuck now", "Yeah ok".

Or just something that happens for no apparent reason than it just happened. Is that actually a random meet? because "meet" implies some intent."

Whilst meet might imply some intent it doesn't inform whether their is only a social aspect or sexual which makes it random

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By *tue555Man over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"In the context of the thread, what is considered a random meet?

"Do you want to fuck now", "Yeah ok".

Or just something that happens for no apparent reason than it just happened. Is that actually a random meet? because "meet" implies some intent.

Whilst meet might imply some intent it doesn't inform whether their is only a social aspect or sexual which makes it random

Hence reason for the post, it was really a question to what is considered a random meet.

It is the context of the question a random encounter, aka and encounter that is completely out of the blue without any prior knowledge or expectation and completely unrelated to FAB or swinging in general.

Then yes they can be very exciting and very fulfilling, but does not detract from what a planned meeting may bring.

I posted a story of such an event in stories and fantasies. Have been one of a number but I would not consider these as random meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Random for a club/night out, definitely planned the rest of the time

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By *leasureman123Man over a year ago

Manchester

Both have their merits, and both can be a let down. Have to say best meets been planned with social beforehand to click and then repeat meets with same person or couple after as more relaxed and can go with the flow more as get on and understand each other.

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By *dventureSeeker23 OP Man over a year ago

Leicestershire

"In the context of the thread, what is considered a random meet?

"Do you want to fuck now", "Yeah ok".

Or just something that happens for no apparent reason than it just happened. Is that actually a random meet? because "meet" implies some intent."

I think every one has their own defination it was a open question to honest.

Random meaning not planned with someone you know or not.

I tried not to put too much detail on purpose to inspire thoughts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer planned meets, and I tend to love a weekend together after connecting. Impromptu can be fun when it’s with someone I’ve met previously…

But generally I like the planning of a weekend meet x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Planned for me, I enjoy chatting and getting to know someone before I decide to meet. Only once have I ever met someone on the same day as chatting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Planned is nice because then you have more time to prepare and look and smell your best but I used to do 'are you free i' m horny'meets with my old fuck buddy and they were amazing because we knew exactly what we both wanted from those random hook ups

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always planned ahead because of childcare

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends who we are trying to meet a Couple or single Man/Women.

With Couples we find they are quite reliable and we seem to be able to plan things in advance with them.

Saying that we find talking to a single Man at the start of a week. To try and arrange a meet for the weekend is usually a waste of time as they don't show up.

We find the best way to get a Single Man is to put up a status that we're looking for One on that Day and see who messages us.

Saying all that we're looking to make friends with Couples and are looking for a group we can belong to but with single Men they are just a sex toy/ didldo to us.

Oh and as for Single Women it's different again. It's very Softly Softly catch the monkey. lots of patience lots of effort for very little return.

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