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over a year ago
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"I think I've lost my touch finding it so hard to meet amazing people here. Plus doesn't help Im a fatty bum lol"
You could always diet and exercise if you are not happy with your body
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"I think I've lost my touch finding it so hard to meet amazing people here. Plus doesn't help Im a fatty bum lol
You could always diet and exercise if you are not happy with your body
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Wow. Insensitive AND glib.
Suggesting diet and exercise to a fat person is rarely helpful. Do you honestly think we’ve never considered it? Nobody wants to be fat. It’s a, usually, lifelong tendency we fight on a daily basis. Imagine waking up every day vowing to change and ending every day feeling a failure. It's a destructive and depressing circle. Some people can transform their bodies, and I salute and admire them immensely. But it’s bloody hard, unless we’re in exactly the right place emotionally, mentally, physically, situationally, etc.
You know the worst thing about obesity? Being obese. My man here is owning his body shape in a lighthearted way. Good on him.
Being told to diet by people who call themselves young and sexy ain’t helpful, my friends. |
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"I think I've lost my touch finding it so hard to meet amazing people here. Plus doesn't help Im a fatty bum lol
You could always diet and exercise if you are not happy with your body
Wow. Insensitive AND glib.
Suggesting diet and exercise to a fat person is rarely helpful. Do you honestly think we’ve never considered it? Nobody wants to be fat. It’s a, usually, lifelong tendency we fight on a daily basis. Imagine waking up every day vowing to change and ending every day feeling a failure. It's a destructive and depressing circle. Some people can transform their bodies, and I salute and admire them immensely. But it’s bloody hard, unless we’re in exactly the right place emotionally, mentally, physically, situationally, etc.
You know the worst thing about obesity? Being obese. My man here is owning his body shape in a lighthearted way. Good on him.
Being told to diet by people who call themselves young and sexy ain’t helpful, my friends."
I’m with Cleo above
I’ve struggled with my weight since a botched operation (had to be done twice) when I was 14 and I ballooned from a fitt body with 26 inch waist to fat with 38 inch waist!
I was very active sport wise but still couldn’t get back to my before body.
I’ve yo-yo ed ever since the last time I lost just under 8 stone to be 14stone and still by a few women be call a FAT c#@t !!
I struggle with constantly feeling I’m not good enough etc to the point I’ve been single etc now since 2012!
So yeah shove just saying diet up your arse
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"I think I've lost my touch finding it so hard to meet amazing people here. Plus doesn't help Im a fatty bum lol
You could always diet and exercise if you are not happy with your body
Wow. Insensitive AND glib.
Suggesting diet and exercise to a fat person is rarely helpful. Do you honestly think we’ve never considered it? Nobody wants to be fat. It’s a, usually, lifelong tendency we fight on a daily basis. Imagine waking up every day vowing to change and ending every day feeling a failure. It's a destructive and depressing circle. Some people can transform their bodies, and I salute and admire them immensely. But it’s bloody hard, unless we’re in exactly the right place emotionally, mentally, physically, situationally, etc.
You know the worst thing about obesity? Being obese. My man here is owning his body shape in a lighthearted way. Good on him.
Being told to diet by people who call themselves young and sexy ain’t helpful, my friends."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I've lost my touch finding it so hard to meet amazing people here. Plus doesn't help Im a fatty bum lol
You could always diet and exercise if you are not happy with your body
Wow. Insensitive AND glib.
Suggesting diet and exercise to a fat person is rarely helpful. Do you honestly think we’ve never considered it? Nobody wants to be fat. It’s a, usually, lifelong tendency we fight on a daily basis. Imagine waking up every day vowing to change and ending every day feeling a failure. It's a destructive and depressing circle. Some people can transform their bodies, and I salute and admire them immensely. But it’s bloody hard, unless we’re in exactly the right place emotionally, mentally, physically, situationally, etc.
You know the worst thing about obesity? Being obese. My man here is owning his body shape in a lighthearted way. Good on him.
Being told to diet by people who call themselves young and sexy ain’t helpful, my friends."
I was suggesting that if he is not happy he can change
If he can not change then he will not be happy
Sounds like he wants to chance
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I've lost my touch finding it so hard to meet amazing people here. Plus doesn't help Im a fatty bum lol
You could always diet and exercise if you are not happy with your body
Wow. Insensitive AND glib.
Suggesting diet and exercise to a fat person is rarely helpful. Do you honestly think we’ve never considered it? Nobody wants to be fat. It’s a, usually, lifelong tendency we fight on a daily basis. Imagine waking up every day vowing to change and ending every day feeling a failure. It's a destructive and depressing circle. Some people can transform their bodies, and I salute and admire them immensely. But it’s bloody hard, unless we’re in exactly the right place emotionally, mentally, physically, situationally, etc.
You know the worst thing about obesity? Being obese. My man here is owning his body shape in a lighthearted way. Good on him.
Being told to diet by people who call themselves young and sexy ain’t helpful, my friends.
I’m with Cleo above
I’ve struggled with my weight since a botched operation (had to be done twice) when I was 14 and I ballooned from a fitt body with 26 inch waist to fat with 38 inch waist!
I was very active sport wise but still couldn’t get back to my before body.
I’ve yo-yo ed ever since the last time I lost just under 8 stone to be 14stone and still by a few women be call a FAT c#@t !!
I struggle with constantly feeling I’m not good enough etc to the point I’ve been single etc now since 2012!
So yeah shove just saying diet up your arse
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This was not meant to sound offensive but you had read it that way
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I've lost my touch finding it so hard to meet amazing people here. Plus doesn't help Im a fatty bum lol
You could always diet and exercise if you are not happy with your body
Wow. Insensitive AND glib.
Suggesting diet and exercise to a fat person is rarely helpful. Do you honestly think we’ve never considered it? Nobody wants to be fat. It’s a, usually, lifelong tendency we fight on a daily basis. Imagine waking up every day vowing to change and ending every day feeling a failure. It's a destructive and depressing circle. Some people can transform their bodies, and I salute and admire them immensely. But it’s bloody hard, unless we’re in exactly the right place emotionally, mentally, physically, situationally, etc.
You know the worst thing about obesity? Being obese. My man here is owning his body shape in a lighthearted way. Good on him.
Being told to diet by people who call themselves young and sexy ain’t helpful, my friends."
Sorry but we feel young and sexy so would you like us to change our name to please you ?
I don’t think so
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"I think I've lost my touch finding it so hard to meet amazing people here. Plus doesn't help Im a fatty bum lol
You could always diet and exercise if you are not happy with your body
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I've struggling with weight loss for a long time but I am still confident in my body regardless how I look |
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"I think I've lost my touch finding it so hard to meet amazing people here. Plus doesn't help Im a fatty bum lol
You could always diet and exercise if you are not happy with your body
Wow. Insensitive AND glib.
Suggesting diet and exercise to a fat person is rarely helpful. Do you honestly think we’ve never considered it? Nobody wants to be fat. It’s a, usually, lifelong tendency we fight on a daily basis. Imagine waking up every day vowing to change and ending every day feeling a failure. It's a destructive and depressing circle. Some people can transform their bodies, and I salute and admire them immensely. But it’s bloody hard, unless we’re in exactly the right place emotionally, mentally, physically, situationally, etc.
You know the worst thing about obesity? Being obese. My man here is owning his body shape in a lighthearted way. Good on him.
Being told to diet by people who call themselves young and sexy ain’t helpful, my friends."
Thank you for those words I didn't know how to articulate that answer but that hit the nail on the head about how I felt reading that comment!!
BTW DM me been ages since we have had a chat!! |
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