Hi
Hiya
It’s great that you have photos of both of you. Lots of couples don’t. You both look good.
Here are some things that would go through my mind…
1) “she’s bicurious. Has she had any experience at all?” A complete newbie can be fun but, as you can imagine, newbies can be very hesitant. I’d like to know the level of experience.
2) “what does she want to explore?” Be honest about what your curiosity means.
Do you want to be on the receiving end of stroking, kissing, breast play, fingering, cunnilingus, arse play, toys, fisting, kink, being made to gush?
Now turn the tables. Which of those do you want to do to me? Stroking, kissing, breast play, fingering, cunnilingus, arse play, toys, fisting, kink, making me gush?
If there’s a big difference between what you want to receive and what you’re willing to do, it might put some women off. A visiting woman might be wondering “how will I get off during this encounter?”
3) “what’s the guy’s role?” Is he there? Is he watching? Is it a threesome? If the woman is inexperienced and hesitant and the guy is watching rather than participating, it might be that no one actually does anything to my body. I’d wonder who was planning on fucking me.
4) you both look very hot and toned. I’m more squishy (!) and I’d wonder whether you’d be attracted to me. Perhaps say something like “we love all body types from super-slim to super-curvy” or “we’re both really attracted to slim women” or “larger women are a huge turn on for both of us”.
5) Lose the faux-legal disclaimer from your profile. You are not going to bring an international claim for intellectual property infringements against an Australian university nor anyone else.
6) clubs might be a good way to have some brief, low-level encounters with women to gain experience. Personally, I’d quite enjoy pampering a brand-new bi-curious woman in a club for half an hour. But I’d be unlikely to set up a private meet that could be a brief one-way interaction.
I hope this advice is useful. It boils down to you making sure that what you’re looking for is fun for the woman joining you too.
All the very best. |
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