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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So i had a meet and while we where playing he started to spank my bum and did it really hard that it left a bruse on my bum, i am now upset about it as surly you should ask someone if there ok to do that to them? Its put me off meeting again now plus it really hurt  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So i had a meet and while we where playing he started to spank my bum and did it really hard that it left a bruse on my bum, i am now upset about it as surly you should ask someone if there ok to do that to them? Its put me off meeting again now plus it really hurt "
There is a big difference between playful spanking and leaving marks/bruises. The latter should always been agreed before |
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"So i had a meet and while we where playing he started to spank my bum and did it really hard that it left a bruse on my bum, i am now upset about it as surly you should ask someone if there ok to do that to them? Its put me off meeting again now plus it really hurt "
It’s actually assault if you didn’t consent to it. So it is prosecutable if you choose to take it further, by contacting the Police. |
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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago
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"So i had a meet and while we where playing he started to spank my bum and did it really hard that it left a bruse on my bum, i am now upset about it as surly you should ask someone if there ok to do that to them? Its put me off meeting again now plus it really hurt "
Sorry to hear that and agree their should be some indication first... I just hope it hasn't put you off... not all blokes are inconsiderate  |
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"So i had a meet and while we where playing he started to spank my bum and did it really hard that it left a bruse on my bum, i am now upset about it as surly you should ask someone if there ok to do that to them? Its put me off meeting again now plus it really hurt "
Like its already quoted its consent based, pref before the meet to discuss it.
a further few questions though
Did you ask him to stop ?
Did you stop the play ?
Did you ask him to leave ?
I know many ladies on here, Where they would stop and tell him to go if they wasnt happy with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So i had a meet and while we where playing he started to spank my bum and did it really hard that it left a bruse on my bum, i am now upset about it as surly you should ask someone if there ok to do that to them? Its put me off meeting again now plus it really hurt
It’s actually assault if you didn’t consent to it. So it is prosecutable if you choose to take it further, by contacting the Police. "
Oh sure
Yes officer I’m in this swingers site
I met a guy he spanked me but I’m now saying it was too hard
It’s assault would you arrest snd prosecute him please
Hmmmm sorry sir not enough to prosecute
What a silly statement |
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"So i had a meet and while we where playing he started to spank my bum and did it really hard that it left a bruse on my bum, i am now upset about it as surly you should ask someone if there ok to do that to them? Its put me off meeting again now plus it really hurt
It’s actually assault if you didn’t consent to it. So it is prosecutable if you choose to take it further, by contacting the Police.
Oh sure
Yes officer I’m in this swingers site
I met a guy he spanked me but I’m now saying it was too hard
It’s assault would you arrest snd prosecute him please
Hmmmm sorry sir not enough to prosecute
What a silly statement "
Dream on
You can be arrested and charged |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So i had a meet and while we where playing he started to spank my bum and did it really hard that it left a bruse on my bum, i am now upset about it as surly you should ask someone if there ok to do that to them? Its put me off meeting again now plus it really hurt "
Why did you not stop them after the first time. If you dnt give out messages its not ok then he would carry on. Sorry this happened but yoy need someone you trust and are happy to do it |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"So i had a meet and while we where playing he started to spank my bum and did it really hard that it left a bruse on my bum, i am now upset about it as surly you should ask someone if there ok to do that to them? Its put me off meeting again now plus it really hurt
It’s actually assault if you didn’t consent to it. So it is prosecutable if you choose to take it further, by contacting the Police.
Oh sure
Yes officer I’m in this swingers site
I met a guy he spanked me but I’m now saying it was too hard
It’s assault would you arrest snd prosecute him please
Hmmmm sorry sir not enough to prosecute
What a silly statement "
You part of the police? |
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"So i had a meet and while we where playing he started to spank my bum and did it really hard that it left a bruse on my bum, i am now upset about it as surly you should ask someone if there ok to do that to them? Its put me off meeting again now plus it really hurt
It’s actually assault if you didn’t consent to it. So it is prosecutable if you choose to take it further, by contacting the Police.
Oh sure
Yes officer I’m in this swingers site
I met a guy he spanked me but I’m now saying it was too hard
It’s assault would you arrest snd prosecute him please
Hmmmm sorry sir not enough to prosecute
What a silly statement "
Was spanked enough to leave a mark, not consented something you forgot to add.
It’s assault, same as someone hitting you in the street and can be investigated and prosecuted. |
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"So i had a meet and while we where playing he started to spank my bum and did it really hard that it left a bruse on my bum, i am now upset about it as surly you should ask someone if there ok to do that to them? Its put me off meeting again now plus it really hurt
It’s actually assault if you didn’t consent to it. So it is prosecutable if you choose to take it further, by contacting the Police.
Oh sure
Yes officer I’m in this swingers site
I met a guy he spanked me but I’m now saying it was too hard
It’s assault would you arrest snd prosecute him please
Hmmmm sorry sir not enough to prosecute
What a silly statement
You part of the police?"
I work with the Police, yes they do investigate assault. Even if it’s on a swingers site. |
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"So i had a meet and while we where playing he started to spank my bum and did it really hard that it left a bruse on my bum, i am now upset about it as surly you should ask someone if there ok to do that to them? Its put me off meeting again now plus it really hurt
It’s actually assault if you didn’t consent to it. So it is prosecutable if you choose to take it further, by contacting the Police.
Oh sure
Yes officer I’m in this swingers site
I met a guy he spanked me but I’m now saying it was too hard
It’s assault would you arrest snd prosecute him please
Hmmmm sorry sir not enough to prosecute
What a silly statement "
This kind of BS is why so much sexual violence/misconduct goes unreported. People convince themselves (or are told by others) that they won't be believed or taken seriously. Abusers use this sort of comment to gaslight victims "no-one will ever believe you".
To the OP, what you describe is neither normal nor acceptable and it is assault. It should definitely put you off meeting him again and for the sake of the safety of you and others, he should be reported. What might he try without consent in future? |
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