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What happens when it just gets boring ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Simple question - since we got married a month ago the whole swinging scent seems to have become boring !
Ok it could be because we feel different now we are married ?
But it was an integral part of us as a couple for 18 months before so why do we not get the buzz now ?
It's a very odd feeling for us boh , any thoughts ?  |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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Congratulations on your nuptials!! Maybe in the run up to the wedding you had all sorts of organising to do, swinging was a bit of a release for you both, and now you're settling down into a new dynamic (I don't know if you lived together or not prior to the wedding, but that's a big change as well)...If I were you, I'd probably hide my profile for a while, concentrate and enjoy the changes in your lives and see how you feel in a few weeks or months...All the best to both of you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol - thanks for the input guys !
We lived together for eighteen months before we got married and have a five year old from her previous relationship .
Swinging is a way we got to get quality time together and enjoy our thing - just doesn't sem to have the buzz at the moment - and things for us are great in the vanilla world - we just miss the feeling we had when we looked toward to swinging !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i take breaks from this.
it is (in my view) important to not get deeply into swinging as it can take up a lot of your time and life.
so when i like to meet interesting people i return but for me it does get boring at times and i go to refresh for a few months.
works for me anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it can get a bit same old after a while
im always looking for new places to go and new things to try to stop it becoming samey and boring
some times taking a step back for a while helps |
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