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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Me personally I think 56 is the worst age to be on here. The number of profiles who upper age limit is 55 is huge. I’m prepared to chat to anyone above my upper age limit. We don’t change that much in 12 months surely |
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People have preferences but otherwise according to your logic of 55 vs 56 where do they stop?
Don’t worry about it and find people who are in to your age or who aren’t worried over age and it’s more about the people
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From seeing a few of these threads I think the worst age to be is the age of the bloke who starts it.
If you feel bad now, wait until you see one started by a bloke who’s 40.
Don’t let it hold you back, don’t use it as an excuse to falsify your age and just crack on  |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
Well as a couple in our 30s we are having less luck than a single guy we know in his 50s haha.
I guess it just depends on the person. Age is just a number.
However, men in their 20s its not normally the age its usually the terrible profile dick pic hello messages!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me personally I think 56 is the worst age to be on here. The number of profiles who upper age limit is 55 is huge. I’m prepared to chat to anyone above my upper age limit. We don’t change that much in 12 months surely "
If you're prepared to chat to any age why do you have an age limit? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think there's a best or worst age, as there are singles and couples on here of every age all over the country. I feel it's much more about how you pitch yourself and who to. |
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"I don't think there's a best or worst age, as there are singles and couples on here of every age all over the country. I feel it's much more about how you pitch yourself and who to."
Totally agree it all up to you whatever age
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On fab just being male is hard enough atm. In the real world I've met with men aged 16 to in their 80s. Depends on the connection, personality and whether or not they got that vibe. |
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I think that any bloke that moans about their age, or just how hard it is to get meets on here, should search for single guys profiles that are their age, find the ones who are successful, then compare their own profile to that of the successful ones.
Be absolutely honest with themselves, and the reasons should become quite apparent.
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By *ethot69Couple
over a year ago
Merseyside |
Going to be an unpopular answer this, but 18-21. We started on a different site just turning 19 and it didn't matter what you said or did, people simply didn't believe you were real or mature enough.
Which, to be fair, is 99% of the time completely true, but if you're the 1% it's the absolute worst! |
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I don't know but would say... those under 21 and over 70 are least likely to be successful.
The largest demographic appears to be 40s followed by 50s and 30s.
56 is definitely not the worst age to be in here. |
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I'm not so sure it's about age. I think it's more about people's profiles. When my wife and I had our couples profile, it was so well written with great, artistic, yet sexy photos (all done by her), so we received messages from all ages.
Now I'm on a single profile, I don't receive any mail because I haven't really (yes,I'm lazy) put any effort into my profile.
I genuinely think that people look more at good profiles than age.
I may be wrong. |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"I'm not so sure it's about age. I think it's more about people's profiles. When my wife and I had our couples profile, it was so well written with great, artistic, yet sexy photos (all done by her), so we received messages from all ages.
Now I'm on a single profile, I don't receive any mail because I haven't really (yes,I'm lazy) put any effort into my profile.
I genuinely think that people look more at good profiles than age.
I may be wrong. "
Nope you're right
And hi wanna meet messages get you nowhere. But guys don't see it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Over 80 
Keep your head up please, it's too early to slow down 
Judging by your profile, super sence of humour and optimism "
Agree, hope you find yourself a nice lady sir |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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After 55 if your male , female as long still has a pulse.
So many threads on age limits, simple truth is after 50 it is a rapid decline. So many say age is just a number but it isn't for many but they are too embarrassed to admit they are actually agest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Under 30*
*as a man.
Dunno why I'm even on here still  "
I know plenty of ladies over 40 looking for guys in your age group.
Trouble is they're in the North West  |
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"From seeing a few of these threads I think the worst age to be is the age of the bloke who starts it.
If you feel bad now, wait until you see one started by a bloke who’s 40.
Don’t let it hold you back, don’t use it as an excuse to falsify your age and just crack on "
Oh no. I was just about to start my thread before I came along this one! 
OP
Enjoy your life don’t let it get you down  |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
Yes I am sure one falls outside of most age range filters after 55 but there are still many people who don't use that age as a filter OP. There is still plenty of people interested in those over 55 . |
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"Me personally I think 56 is the worst age to be on here. The number of profiles who upper age limit is 55 is huge. I’m prepared to chat to anyone above my upper age limit. We don’t change that much in 12 months surely "
I can only speak for myself but at 57 I'm doing ok. I'm currently having fairly regular fun with 2 couples and a woman who's married but her husband is happy for her to play with me.
Maybe I'm just lucky but I think if you're prepared to put in the effort of writing a half decent profile and then be patient there's a fair chance you'll get interest from women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Under 30*
*as a man.
Dunno why I'm even on here still
You don't want to meet swingers but you're on a swinging site  "
Many on here aren't swingers and are looking for private fun.
We're ruining the website for the 'real' swingers  |
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We just find it very odd that someone over 35 would want to play with someone 18 we can't get our heads around it at all especially 40 50 60 yr olds etc wanting young people to play with but at the end of the day, it's all about personal preference |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"Under 30*
*as a man.
Dunno why I'm even on here still
You don't want to meet swingers but you're on a swinging site
Many on here aren't swingers and are looking for private fun.
We're ruining the website for the 'real' swingers "
I was merely pointing out why you might not be having any luck.
Sadly fab seems to have become an extension of tinder!!
People can look for what they wish. |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"We just find it very odd that someone over 35 would want to play with someone 18 we can't get our heads around it at all especially 40 50 60 yr olds etc wanting young people to play with but at the end of the day, it's all about personal preference "
Im 32 and my bottom end is 25. And even thats a bit young really so I know what you mean |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Under 30*
*as a man.
Dunno why I'm even on here still
You don't want to meet swingers but you're on a swinging site
Many on here aren't swingers and are looking for private fun.
We're ruining the website for the 'real' swingers
I was merely pointing out why you might not be having any luck.
Sadly fab seems to have become an extension of tinder!!
People can look for what they wish. "
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
"Over 80
Keep your head up please, it's too early to slow down
Judging by your profile, super sence of humour and optimism "
Thank you for your kind words, I really am trying my best to stay positive during these difficult times. |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"Age isn't the issue.
Being an average single straight guy is a bigger issue than ago.
Nobody wants a normal average straight single guy these days. They either have to be bi or A list porn stars "
Honestly if you could see our inbox!! Its not that we don't go for average males at all. But we like conversation. We literally had a message hey im single and ready to fuck! Like honestly!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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take a glass half full approach as a 50 something guy who is comfortable in his own skin. knows what he wants snd has the experience to offer his wisdom and some deviant roleplay to like minded folk. those naysayers don’t realise what they are missing!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Age isn't the issue.
Being an average single straight guy is a bigger issue than ago.
Nobody wants a normal average straight single guy these days. They either have to be bi or A list porn stars "
none of us are normal. we all have something to offer |
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I never concern myself with what I can't offer and that includes youth or experience.
I'm only concerned with those I am actually compatible with and age has never ever been an issue.
I'm also 56 but I never dwell on that fact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of profiles have a upper age limit of 60, everyone on fabs is entitled to decide what they are looking for and who, there’s no point in us old folks getting upset or snotty over it, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes you do and there’s a lot of people knocking 10 years off, personally I don’t see the point, when I turn up with my walking frame people catch on , I can still run a mile in a week lol |
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You can only be your age and just appeal to those who like you. You don't need to meet the whole site, so everyone respecting others' preferences helps us all
Focus on the possible, not the unnecessary |
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43.
A lot of profiles go up the 42.
Just to let you know ladies, I'll be turning 43 by the end of the year so I'm giving you plenty of notice to up your max age limit to 43 by then.
Thank you in advance.
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Me personally I think 56 is the worst age to be on here. The number of profiles who upper age limit is 55 is huge. I’m prepared to chat to anyone above my upper age limit. We don’t change that much in 12 months surely "
You'll be glad to hear that regardless of age their is someone out there for not just everyone but also someone who may want to explore  |
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And looking bloody good. It is a difficult one because people of any age who look after themselves can look great, but also those that don’t look after themselves can be any age, it is all subjective, but we tend to keep our upper age limit fairly low based on general fitness of the plus 50’s, which I know is a little harsh, but as a couple we can be picky when it comes to single males. |
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
Cardiff |
"43.
A lot of profiles go up the 42.
Just to let you know ladies, I'll be turning 43 by the end of the year so I'm giving you plenty of notice to up your max age limit to 43 by then.
Thank you in advance.
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Is it because 42 is the answer to the ultimate question of life, the universe, and everything? |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"43.
A lot of profiles go up the 42.
Just to let you know ladies, I'll be turning 43 by the end of the year so I'm giving you plenty of notice to up your max age limit to 43 by then.
Thank you in advance.
Is it because 42 is the answer to the ultimate question of life, the universe, and everything?"
Yup |
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"43.
A lot of profiles go up the 42.
Just to let you know ladies, I'll be turning 43 by the end of the year so I'm giving you plenty of notice to up your max age limit to 43 by then.
Thank you in advance.
Is it because 42 is the answer to the ultimate question of life, the universe, and everything?"
How did I not know this? |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"43.
A lot of profiles go up the 42.
Just to let you know ladies, I'll be turning 43 by the end of the year so I'm giving you plenty of notice to up your max age limit to 43 by then.
Thank you in advance.
Is it because 42 is the answer to the ultimate question of life, the universe, and everything?
How did I not know this? "
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/42_(number) |
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Well I'm 48 and find a lot of ladies upper age limit is usually 45...even 47 which is so frustrating. If we even had a one shot message just to say hi and try and make something happen but the argument is there is an age limit for a reason....personally I set my upper age limit at 60 because I have known some amazing ladies in that age bracket but maybe there is a 61 Yr old woman who is utterly amazing,I'm inadvertently blocking....pah life can be tough.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess it seems frustrating when you can’t contact people who are just outside your age and stipulate younger
Just one of those things - I’ve learnt to accept it and find those sexy people who enjoy a wider age range |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The older you get, the less chance you have of getting Fab meets.
I presume that's why there are a few untruths about ages on profiles.
When it states somebody is 'early forties' it can often mean the 1940's!  . |
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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago
plymouth/chesterfield |
On a personal sigh it's 60, seeing I just tipped over it and now 61, the one thing I have noticed is that as people get a year older they don't up their age range accordingly, unless of course you have it set at 18-99 |
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"On a personal sigh it's 60, seeing I just tipped over it and now 61, the one thing I have noticed is that as people get a year older they don't up their age range accordingly, unless of course you have it set at 18-99 "
My lower age filter is determined by my kids ages. It will always be 10 years above my eldest and she is about to turn 30. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me personally I think 56 is the worst age to be on here. The number of profiles who upper age limit is 55 is huge. I’m prepared to chat to anyone above my upper age limit. We don’t change that much in 12 months surely "
50…. I hate it xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"18. Makes me deeply suspicious.
How so?"
I reckon, as alot of people who are that age could possibly be fake profiles or not willing to meet, however that puts a bad name on people similar age wise who are wanting to meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"18. Makes me deeply suspicious.
How so?
I reckon, as alot of people who are that age could possibly be fake profiles or not willing to meet, however that puts a bad name on people similar age wise who are wanting to meet"
I guess so! No one likes a time waster! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"18. Makes me deeply suspicious.
How so?
I reckon, as alot of people who are that age could possibly be fake profiles or not willing to meet, however that puts a bad name on people similar age wise who are wanting to meet
I guess so! No one likes a time waster! "
Definitely a shame, especially when you’re only just outside someone’s range! |
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"On a personal sigh it's 60, seeing I just tipped over it and now 61, the one thing I have noticed is that as people get a year older they don't up their age range accordingly, unless of course you have it set at 18-99
My lower age filter is determined by my kids ages. It will always be 10 years above my eldest and she is about to turn 30. "
Exactly the same with mine...10 older than my son but 10 younger than my dad
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People worry to much.
I've met some lovely 50+ women who know a thing or two and are great company.
Don't put to much pressure on yourself to always be meeting people.
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
The bell curve median is 35 to 40. Over four decades old and one's desirability steadily declines; under 40 and one's potential has not yet been realised.
As I am 65, I have to put in a lot of effort; the pandemic has curtailed my opportunities.
The amount of time I am prepared to invest will increase exponentially as Covid abates into 2022. |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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As earlier post all the "I meet older" posts are women not men, any age as long as they have a pulse no doubt.
Very few will meet older guys even though they say the will. Sorry guys after 55 your getting past FAB shag by date and on downward curve |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I found this when I hit 40. I know folk have their preferences yada yada, so it does filter out a lot of what you don’t want, but it’s amusing that one day you’re a potential and the day after your birthday, you can’t even chat to them. I don’t even look 40 and I’m 42 next month. Haha |
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"As earlier post all the "I meet older" posts are women not men, any age as long as they have a pulse no doubt.
Very few will meet older guys even though they say the will. Sorry guys after 55 your getting past FAB shag by date and on downward curve "
That may be your experience but as my fab journey didn't start until I turned 50 I haven't found any downward curve at all. It's exactly where I want it to be. |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"I'm 65 and guys still want me
Of course they do. You're in the same category as a female, men will fuck you whatever age you are. It's the single men who have the dilemma.
Frank"
Explain please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure to be honest. Can’t say I’ve consider age as a possible issue. See a lot of profiles with different age ranges, so definitely think things will improve for you. Just keep going and you’ll meet some amazing people if not already. In my instance I tend to think (for me anyway) It’s my shortfalls in looks and lack of game is why I struggle but ultimately it could be anything really. Sorry if that not very helpful but wish you all the best fabbing |
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"I'm 65 and guys still want me
Of course they do. You're in the same category as a female, men will fuck you whatever age you are. It's the single men who have the dilemma.
Frank
Explain please?"
Their age limit is set from 45 - 70 so with a 25 year spread they'll get plenty of messages from those that are excluded by others.
Single women & TV/TSs have no problem getting meets no matter what age they are and what age parameters they set, or, generally, how they look.
A single man has to work much much harder to get a meet and, generally, have a decent profile. The same does not apply for a single female or a TV/TS. Many single men aren't helped by the crap initial contact they make though.
Couples are more complicated but can still find a meet easier than a single man.
I will say I find it odd how someone can be 54 and have their upper age limit as 55. Even if they do perceive themselves to be good for their age.
Our age limit is set to 70 as the men Jane finds attractive at that age are few and very far between. I, on the other hand, find lots of women in their 70s sexually attractive. Maybe we should reconsider our upper age limit
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the fact I’m a 20 year old single male is the worse age to be on here for the simple fact I get no messages no fun because I’m to young for most people in my area. |
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"I think the fact I’m a 20 year old single male is the worse age to be on here for the simple fact I get no messages no fun because I’m to young for most people in my area. "
Take it from someone who feels still as old/ young as you are that on here it helps with how active… by that I mean like how observative and how often you reply or speak on cam rooms/ forums and such |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the fact I’m a 20 year old single male is the worse age to be on here for the simple fact I get no messages no fun because I’m to young for most people in my area.
Take it from someone who feels still as old/ young as you are that on here it helps with how active… by that I mean like how observative and how often you reply or speak on cam rooms/ forums and such "
I’d disagree. On previous profiles I’ve never even touched the chat rooms or the forums and have done just as well as I’m doing on this profile. And I only dip in and out of the forum now
I’d still just say that reading profiles, writing good introductions and not being upset by rejection is all you need.
That said, it wasn’t as much of a sausage fest when I first signed up many moons ago |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the fact I’m a 20 year old single male is the worse age to be on here for the simple fact I get no messages no fun because I’m to young for most people in my area.
Take it from someone who feels still as old/ young as you are that on here it helps with how active… by that I mean like how observative and how often you reply or speak on cam rooms/ forums and such
I’d disagree. On previous profiles I’ve never even touched the chat rooms or the forums and have done just as well as I’m doing on this profile. And I only dip in and out of the forum now
I’d still just say that reading profiles, writing good introductions and not being upset by rejection is all you need.
That said, it wasn’t as much of a sausage fest when I first signed up many moons ago"
Oh, not having every visible pic you have being of your groin works wonders too |
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