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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If its just a big black cock like from the shop then nah they're boring but if you mean having sex with a black guy who has a great personality, is attractive and has a bigger penis then yeah. Plenty of pleasure to be had there  |
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"It seems more and more that I have the wrong coloured one "
I don’t think you have the wrong coloured one. Don’t let the unhealthy obsession of black men’s penises in mainstream society make you think you are not adequate.
You are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd like to think I bring more to the table than just my genitals."
As do i given that im paralysed from the chest down  there is a lot to be said for a versatile tongue, tactile fingers, lots of kissing and a healthy imagination  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd like to think I bring more to the table than just my genitals."
Or your skin colour I would imagine too. FFS OP can’t you find a more intelligent topic than this to post |
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"It seems more and more that I have the wrong coloured one
I don’t think you have the wrong coloured one. Don’t let the unhealthy obsession of black men’s penises in mainstream society make you think you are not adequate.
You are."
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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You guys speak amongst yourselves. Only a black husband here who finds it fascinating amongst fabbers and in general with the obsession within other races minds, especially the men when it comes to the black man penis.......as you were.....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies is it true that you ladies get more satisfaction from a BBC (big black cock...not the radio!!) ??"
Not all black gentleman have a BIG BLACK COCK. or watch BBC.
Im waiting for that 12 in BBC to walk on its own. Wow wouldnt that be something . Awful term |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems more and more that I have the wrong coloured one "
What a strange thing to say. Do you think big black cocks come with magic powers and do things differently than a white one. Honestly I have to disappoint you. They are human beings who are not always objectified by their equipment. Most of us ladies who enjoy black gentlemen prefer one with a brain and personality |
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I dont know if it a consequence of the pressure to live up to the sex you see in BBC porn, but I find black guys fuck a lot harder. The sex is therefore a lot more animalistic and raw, which is what I want. I want that hard sex, as if I want loving sex I can get that from my husband.
As much as we don't like to admit it there is still a taboo about white middle class women fucking black guys, whether or not that is right or wrong I'm afraid. Breaking taboos is a large part of what I suspect most people get a kick out of from swinging... |
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"I dont know if it a consequence of the pressure to live up to the sex you see in BBC porn, but I find black guys fuck a lot harder. The sex is therefore a lot more animalistic and raw, which is what I want. I want that hard sex, as if I want loving sex I can get that from my husband.
As much as we don't like to admit it there is still a taboo about white middle class women fucking black guys, whether or not that is right or wrong I'm afraid. Breaking taboos is a large part of what I suspect most people get a kick out of from swinging..."
You are right about it being a taboo. But im afraid white guys think it imasculates them because we prefer black. It doesn't. If I saw a white guy I fancied id have no hesitation messaging but for me im a fit woman in her 60 s I do not want to meet overweight men who cant fuck. Black or white. I find younger black guys really dnt judge you on your age and that's great by me. I would never call them BBC I find it offensive. |
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In 2021 how on earth is a white woman sleeping with a black man still seen as “taboo”? This narrative is quite frankly ridiculous especially when you see how many interracial relationships there are these days….
As for the stereotype that we (as black men) do nothing but pound away hard and fast during sex is quite frankly not true. Again, black men being seen as a monolith with statements like that. I for one, pride myself on my sensual nature within the bedroom…. Some of you really do need some educating man… Sheesh! |
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"In 2021 how on earth is a white woman sleeping with a black man still seen as “taboo”? This narrative is quite frankly ridiculous especially when you see how many interracial relationships there are these days….
As for the stereotype that we (as black men) do nothing but pound away hard and fast during sex is quite frankly not true. Again, black men being seen as a monolith with statements like that. I for one, pride myself on my sensual nature within the bedroom…. Some of you really do need some educating man… Sheesh! "
This is spot on, in my previous experience it was never taboo, I think people that see it as taboo need to question their views IMO. My ex adored sleeping with black men because she was sexually attracted to black men, as a cuck I was more than happy to watch and perform my duties irrespective of the persons skin colour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just want a big cock to play with, I only have Johns pathetic little dick "
And caged too  I must admit I feel for him, I hated being in chastity which made it much more fun for her lol |
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"In 2021 how on earth is a white woman sleeping with a black man still seen as “taboo”? This narrative is quite frankly ridiculous especially when you see how many interracial relationships there are these days….
As for the stereotype that we (as black men) do nothing but pound away hard and fast during sex is quite frankly not true. Again, black men being seen as a monolith with statements like that. I for one, pride myself on my sensual nature within the bedroom…. Some of you really do need some educating man… Sheesh! "
What I am saying is an unhappy truth in my opinion. It is still considered taboo because there is a huge undercurrent of racism in society. And I also think there is a lot of pressure on black guys to fuck white wives hard due to the porn industry stereotype.
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"In 2021 how on earth is a white woman sleeping with a black man still seen as “taboo”? This narrative is quite frankly ridiculous especially when you see how many interracial relationships there are these days….
As for the stereotype that we (as black men) do nothing but pound away hard and fast during sex is quite frankly not true. Again, black men being seen as a monolith with statements like that. I for one, pride myself on my sensual nature within the bedroom…. Some of you really do need some educating man… Sheesh!
What I am saying is an unhappy truth in my opinion. It is still considered taboo because there is a huge undercurrent of racism in society. And I also think there is a lot of pressure on black guys to fuck white wives hard due to the porn industry stereotype.
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“in my opinion” being the operative words here. Yes I believe there’s a huge undercurrent of racism some of which I have experienced myself albeit it being covert in most cases. I think your view of black men is extremely outdated and rather ignorant if I’m honest. The fact that your view of black men in the sexual sense is based solely on porn is just absurd. I don’t feel any pressure whatsoever to fuck a woman a certain way just because I’ve seen so in a porn movie. Think it’s just best to leave the conversation here as I’m clearly not getting anywhere and you seem to be quite stuck in your outdated views. There’s plenty of black men on here who’ll pander to your fetishising ways but I definitely am NOT one of them. |
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"In 2021 how on earth is a white woman sleeping with a black man still seen as “taboo”? This narrative is quite frankly ridiculous especially when you see how many interracial relationships there are these days….
As for the stereotype that we (as black men) do nothing but pound away hard and fast during sex is quite frankly not true. Again, black men being seen as a monolith with statements like that. I for one, pride myself on my sensual nature within the bedroom…. Some of you really do need some educating man… Sheesh!
What I am saying is an unhappy truth in my opinion. It is still considered taboo because there is a huge undercurrent of racism in society. And I also think there is a lot of pressure on black guys to fuck white wives hard due to the porn industry stereotype.
“in my opinion” being the operative words here. Yes I believe there’s a huge undercurrent of racism some of which I have experienced myself albeit it being covert in most cases. I think your view of black men is extremely outdated and rather ignorant if I’m honest. The fact that your view of black men in the sexual sense is based solely on porn is just absurd. I don’t feel any pressure whatsoever to fuck a woman a certain way just because I’ve seen so in a porn movie. Think it’s just best to leave the conversation here as I’m clearly not getting anywhere and you seem to be quite stuck in your outdated views. There’s plenty of black men on here who’ll pander to your fetishising ways but I definitely am NOT one of them. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What I am saying is an unhappy truth in my opinion. It is still considered taboo because there is a huge undercurrent of racism in society. And I also think there is a lot of pressure on black guys to fuck white wives hard due to the porn industry stereotype.
“in my opinion” being the operative words here. Yes I believe there’s a huge undercurrent of racism some of which I have experienced myself albeit it being covert in most cases. I think your view of black men is extremely outdated and rather ignorant if I’m honest. The fact that your view of black men in the sexual sense is based solely on porn is just absurd. I don’t feel any pressure whatsoever to fuck a woman a certain way just because I’ve seen so in a porn movie. Think it’s just best to leave the conversation here as I’m clearly not getting anywhere and you seem to be quite stuck in your outdated views. There’s plenty of black men on here who’ll pander to your fetishising ways but I definitely am NOT one of them. "
It’s sad that in this day and age people have to experience racism. Would be interesting for you to private message me if you want too? |
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hmmm....at the end of the day, this is all about nature taking it's course. Certain races have physical qualities which others, in general, do not have; i.e black people have more muscle fibres and less subcutaneous fat compared to white people, smoother oilier skin etc. Some white people find black people highly physically attractive for a whole load of these reasons, not just one aspect, i.e. cock or pussy. Personally, I love black women for many of these reasons; I like athletic bodies and I like the skin contrast for example, I'm sure it's the same for many white women, no one thing, but many.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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People are free to have their own preferences. The bad part comes when it becomes a fetish and people fetishize people based on their race.
Like the gentleman said further up... It's the part where people dehumanise someone based on stereotypes, that's the problem. I will admit ..there's plenty of those types on this site unfortunately. |
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"In 2021 how on earth is a white woman sleeping with a black man still seen as “taboo”? This narrative is quite frankly ridiculous especially when you see how many interracial relationships there are these days….
As for the stereotype that we (as black men) do nothing but pound away hard and fast during sex is quite frankly not true. Again, black men being seen as a monolith with statements like that. I for one, pride myself on my sensual nature within the bedroom…. Some of you really do need some educating man… Sheesh! "
I think some of us are very well educated . I am a,very physical person. I love to be kissed. Stroked. Caressed. Made to feel like a woman and not a piece of meet. I find that most of the black guys I have had the pleasure of meeting have been tactile and very sensual. Yes sex is a big part but the key factor is not that. Im not interested what size a man is. Hence no cock pics. They adore the older woman and I get great respect from them. On the other hand I get many slurs. Disgusting comments from white guys because of my preference. I am proud to say MY PREFERENCE IS BLACK that will never change. |
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"In 2021 how on earth is a white woman sleeping with a black man still seen as “taboo”? This narrative is quite frankly ridiculous especially when you see how many interracial relationships there are these days….
As for the stereotype that we (as black men) do nothing but pound away hard and fast during sex is quite frankly not true. Again, black men being seen as a monolith with statements like that. I for one, pride myself on my sensual nature within the bedroom…. Some of you really do need some educating man… Sheesh!
This is spot on, in my previous experience it was never taboo, I think people that see it as taboo need to question their views IMO. My ex adored sleeping with black men because she was sexually attracted to black men, as a cuck I was more than happy to watch and perform my duties irrespective of the persons skin colour. "
Im afraid the only people who see it as taboo are the jealous white guys i and many other women turn down . I say jealous because the disgusting messages that come back when I say please read my profile is dreadful. Its not necessary. Move on plenty on here who dnt prefer black gentlemen |
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"In 2021 how on earth is a white woman sleeping with a black man still seen as “taboo”? This narrative is quite frankly ridiculous especially when you see how many interracial relationships there are these days….
As for the stereotype that we (as black men) do nothing but pound away hard and fast during sex is quite frankly not true. Again, black men being seen as a monolith with statements like that. I for one, pride myself on my sensual nature within the bedroom…. Some of you really do need some educating man… Sheesh!
I think some of us are very well educated . I am a,very physical person. I love to be kissed. Stroked. Caressed. Made to feel like a woman and not a piece of meet. I find that most of the black guys I have had the pleasure of meeting have been tactile and very sensual. Yes sex is a big part but the key factor is not that. Im not interested what size a man is. Hence no cock pics. They adore the older woman and I get great respect from them. On the other hand I get many slurs. Disgusting comments from white guys because of my preference. I am proud to say MY PREFERENCE IS BLACK that will never change."
Ignore them. You like what you like.
They would have sex with you if you was into them.
Aslong as you're respectful to the culture you will always be welcomed and appreciated.
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Never understood the white mans obsession with black dick. Even if not sexually, there always is a comment to be made or innuendo. I'm only half black and still get these comments from time to time.
Wish people had Less complexes over race and just go out and enjoy themselves. Spread the love and enjoy life init. Minimise the hate.
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"In 2021 how on earth is a white woman sleeping with a black man still seen as “taboo”? This narrative is quite frankly ridiculous especially when you see how many interracial relationships there are these days….
As for the stereotype that we (as black men) do nothing but pound away hard and fast during sex is quite frankly not true. Again, black men being seen as a monolith with statements like that. I for one, pride myself on my sensual nature within the bedroom…. Some of you really do need some educating man… Sheesh!
I think some of us are very well educated . I am a,very physical person. I love to be kissed. Stroked. Caressed. Made to feel like a woman and not a piece of meet. I find that most of the black guys I have had the pleasure of meeting have been tactile and very sensual. Yes sex is a big part but the key factor is not that. Im not interested what size a man is. Hence no cock pics. They adore the older woman and I get great respect from them. On the other hand I get many slurs. Disgusting comments from white guys because of my preference. I am proud to say MY PREFERENCE IS BLACK that will never change.
Ignore them. You like what you like.
They would have sex with you if you was into them.
Aslong as you're respectful to the culture you will always be welcomed and appreciated.
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Never understood the white mans obsession with black dick. Even if not sexually, there always is a comment to be made or innuendo. I'm only half black and still get these comments from time to time.
Wish people had Less complexes over race and just go out and enjoy themselves. Spread the love and enjoy life init. Minimise the hate.
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Absolutely correct. I got similar stereotyping for having olive skin complex  . We are just one race human-beings!! |
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The stereotyping in this thread is embarrassing. All black men are not the same (notice I said black men and not bbc, because I’m not so disrespectful to reduce a man to only his penis), nor are all white men. Or any people in general. It’s not just black men that have large penises either.
Fetishising black men, or anyone, is unpleasant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread is fucking vile.
So much closet racism."
Is that racism towards white. Black. Mixed race. Chinese. I think its all very clear dnt think there is any racism in it just your interpretation. Preference is not racism. BBC is offensive but not racism. There are worse threads I assure you. Or come look in my in box sometime. Now thats pure racism . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread is fucking vile.
So much closet racism.
Is that racism towards white. Black. Mixed race. Chinese. I think its all very clear dnt think there is any racism in it just your interpretation. Preference is not racism. BBC is offensive but not racism. There are worse threads I assure you. Or come look in my in box sometime. Now thats pure racism ."
Racism is racism. Doesnt matter who it is towards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread is fucking vile.
So much closet racism.
Is that racism towards white. Black. Mixed race. Chinese. I think its all very clear dnt think there is any racism in it just your interpretation. Preference is not racism. BBC is offensive but not racism. There are worse threads I assure you. Or come look in my in box sometime. Now thats pure racism .
Racism is racism. Doesnt matter who it is towards."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread is fucking vile.
So much closet racism.
Is that racism towards white. Black. Mixed race. Chinese. I think its all very clear dnt think there is any racism in it just your interpretation. Preference is not racism. BBC is offensive but not racism. There are worse threads I assure you. Or come look in my in box sometime. Now thats pure racism .
Racism is racism. Doesnt matter who it is towards."
You cant say that unless you identify what you are talking about. So do you call wanting black guys and not wanting white guys racism. Just curious |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread is fucking vile.
So much closet racism.
Is that racism towards white. Black. Mixed race. Chinese. I think its all very clear dnt think there is any racism in it just your interpretation. Preference is not racism. BBC is offensive but not racism. There are worse threads I assure you. Or come look in my in box sometime. Now thats pure racism .
Racism is racism. Doesnt matter who it is towards.
Exactly "
Exactly what? |
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"It seems more and more that I have the wrong coloured one
What a strange thing to say. Do you think big black cocks come with magic powers and do things differently than a white one. Honestly I have to disappoint you. They are human beings who are not always objectified by their equipment. Most of us ladies who enjoy black gentlemen prefer one with a brain and personality "
Bravo! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread is fucking vile.
So much closet racism.
Is that racism towards white. Black. Mixed race. Chinese. I think its all very clear dnt think there is any racism in it just your interpretation. Preference is not racism. BBC is offensive but not racism. There are worse threads I assure you. Or come look in my in box sometime. Now thats pure racism .
Racism is racism. Doesnt matter who it is towards.
Exactly
Exactly what?"
I don't think anybody cares that you prefer black men....i'm sure you're safe . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread is fucking vile.
So much closet racism.
Is that racism towards white. Black. Mixed race. Chinese. I think its all very clear dnt think there is any racism in it just your interpretation. Preference is not racism. BBC is offensive but not racism. There are worse threads I assure you. Or come look in my in box sometime. Now thats pure racism .
Racism is racism. Doesnt matter who it is towards.
Exactly
Exactly what?
I don't think anybody cares that you prefer black men....i'm sure you're safe . "
And what exactly does that mean. Sounds a bit tetchy there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems more and more that I have the wrong coloured one
What a strange thing to say. Do you think big black cocks come with magic powers and do things differently than a white one. Honestly I have to disappoint you. They are human beings who are not always objectified by their equipment. Most of us ladies who enjoy black gentlemen prefer one with a brain and personality
Bravo! "
Xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread is fucking vile.
So much closet racism.
Is that racism towards white. Black. Mixed race. Chinese. I think its all very clear dnt think there is any racism in it just your interpretation. Preference is not racism. BBC is offensive but not racism. There are worse threads I assure you. Or come look in my in box sometime. Now thats pure racism .
Racism is racism. Doesnt matter who it is towards.
Exactly
Exactly what?
I don't think anybody cares that you prefer black men....i'm sure you're safe . "
Hahaha I thought that might be the case. Very immature |
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"The stereotyping in this thread is embarrassing. All black men are not the same (notice I said black men and not bbc, because I’m not so disrespectful to reduce a man to only his penis), nor are all white men. Or any people in general. It’s not just black men that have large penises either.
Fetishising black men, or anyone, is unpleasant. "
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"It’s a personal choice!!
Katie has experienced BBC
And loved it!!
She has also experienced BWC!!
And loved it !!!"
You can say black man or white man you know…. Neither are horrid terms, not everyday acronyms to describe human beings *face palm* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s a personal choice!!
Katie has experienced BBC
And loved it!!
She has also experienced BWC!!
And loved it !!!"
And he we have it yet again. Why can you not say she likes meeting with black guys instead of saying BBC or any derogatory term. Not necessary. Stop labelling people. They are human beings not labels |
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"I dont know if it a consequence of the pressure to live up to the sex you see in BBC porn, but I find black guys fuck a lot harder. The sex is therefore a lot more animalistic and raw, which is what I want. I want that hard sex, as if I want loving sex I can get that from my husband.
As much as we don't like to admit it there is still a taboo about white middle class women fucking black guys, whether or not that is right or wrong I'm afraid. Breaking taboos is a large part of what I suspect most people get a kick out of from swinging..."
Thats true.. I find with women from races and backgrounds, a black guy is a big no no from their socio economic class, religion and etc.
In some cases being found out to be with a black man will get them beat, whacked or flwn away, in My experience ex gf got besten up by her brothers when they found out as it brought shame to the family but they were whore slaying every week (Pakistani family) |
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"In 2021 how on earth is a white woman sleeping with a black man still seen as “taboo”? This narrative is quite frankly ridiculous especially when you see how many interracial relationships there are these days….
As for the stereotype that we (as black men) do nothing but pound away hard and fast during sex is quite frankly not true. Again, black men being seen as a monolith with statements like that. I for one, pride myself on my sensual nature within the bedroom…. Some of you really do need some educating man… Sheesh! "
The same in reverse look at the dagger eyes many black xhxiks old and young hell even the mixed race black girls give you when they see a well to do black guy with a white women especially if she's a pale skinned blonde woman.
One of my mates, she called me just to cuz me out for associating with a coloniser and I should be giving all my love to the sista.. Then the whole the Nigs ain't shit and why you disrecpting us black women dating white. Women.
I just laughed. Not spoken to her in a while. I prefer white and Asian |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's just a word.. Who cares.
At the end of the day we here to fuck and bust a nut then leave.
Let's just fuck and make a mess. "
Nice. Bet you are a gem to meet. Yes sorry forgot we just have to fuck anybody and everybody. Grow up young sir |
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I don't know why a lot of people get so hung up on the term BBC, Its not directed at black Men but at black Men who have big cocks that's why a lot of black Men have it in there usernames, Most people know not all black Men have big cocks,
As for older Women, white middle class Women etc If they're from a rural town or had a up bringing were they haven't come into contact with many black Men, Slept with any etc I can see were that "taboo" side of it comes from |
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"I don't know why a lot of people get so hung up on the term BBC, Its not directed at black Men but at black Men who have big cocks that's why a lot of black Men have it in there usernames, Most people know not all black Men have big cocks,
As for older Women, white middle class Women etc If they're from a rural town or had a up bringing were they haven't come into contact with many black Men, Slept with any etc I can see were that "taboo" side of it comes from"
Omg . Yes we have been locked away for many years not a black man in sight. First time we set eyes on one we jumped their bones and never looked back hahaha |
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By *arkmanMan
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"Ladies is it true that you ladies get more satisfaction from a BBC (big black cock...not the radio!!) ??
Not all black gentleman have a BIG BLACK COCK. or watch BBC.
Im waiting for that 12 in BBC to walk on its own. Wow wouldnt that be something . Awful term"
Could not endorse this more if I tried, especially the last sentence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies is it true that you ladies get more satisfaction from a BBC (big black cock...not the radio!!) ??
Not all black gentleman have a BIG BLACK COCK. or watch BBC.
Im waiting for that 12 in BBC to walk on its own. Wow wouldnt that be something . Awful term
Could not endorse this more if I tried, especially the last sentence."
Absolutely hate it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The stereotyping in this thread is embarrassing. All black men are not the same (notice I said black men and not bbc, because I’m not so disrespectful to reduce a man to only his penis), nor are all white men. Or any people in general. It’s not just black men that have large penises either.
Fetishising black men, or anyone, is unpleasant. "
Exactly this well said! |
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"I don't know why a lot of people get so hung up on the term BBC, Its not directed at black Men but at black Men who have big cocks that's why a lot of black Men have it in there usernames, Most people know not all black Men have big cocks,
As for older Women, white middle class Women etc If they're from a rural town or had a up bringing were they haven't come into contact with many black Men, Slept with any etc I can see were that "taboo" side of it comes from
Omg . Yes we have been locked away for many years not a black man in sight. First time we set eyes on one we jumped their bones and never looked back hahaha"
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Must be worse stereo types out there than having a big cock...very upsetting!
Some people are ignorant and racist but most probably just like the fact most black guys have bigger cocks and the contrast between the two bodies. |
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I like to referred to a a nice guy. Not a BBC. I like for people to like me for personality and respect I have for them. I don't categorize couples and females when I chat or meet them. If we have a connection and get along then nothing else is needed
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"Must be worse stereo types out there than having a big cock...very upsetting!
Some people are ignorant and racist but most probably just like the fact most black guys have bigger cocks and the contrast between the two bodies. "
Do they have bigger cocks. Wow I never knew that. Or are you just assuming. Id go for the latter my friend. Just not true. They are the same as any other guy black or white. Some are large some are medium some are small. Not all huge ginormous. Just pretty normal guys |
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over a year ago
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"I dont know if it a consequence of the pressure to live up to the sex you see in BBC porn, but I find black guys fuck a lot harder. The sex is therefore a lot more animalistic and raw, which is what I want. I want that hard sex, as if I want loving sex I can get that from my husband.
As much as we don't like to admit it there is still a taboo about white middle class women fucking black guys, whether or not that is right or wrong I'm afraid. Breaking taboos is a large part of what I suspect most people get a kick out of from swinging...
You are right about it being a taboo. But im afraid white guys think it imasculates them because we prefer black. It doesn't. If I saw a white guy I fancied id have no hesitation messaging but for me im a fit woman in her 60 s I do not want to meet overweight men who cant fuck. Black or white. I find younger black guys really dnt judge you on your age and that's great by me. I would never call them BBC I find it offensive. "
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"Must be worse stereo types out there than having a big cock...very upsetting!
Some people are ignorant and racist but most probably just like the fact most black guys have bigger cocks and the contrast between the two bodies.
Do they have bigger cocks. Wow I never knew that. Or are you just assuming. Id go for the latter my friend. Just not true. They are the same as any other guy black or white. Some are large some are medium some are small. Not all huge ginormous. Just pretty normal guys "
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"Must be worse stereo types out there than having a big cock...very upsetting!
Some people are ignorant and racist but most probably just like the fact most black guys have bigger cocks and the contrast between the two bodies.
Do they have bigger cocks. Wow I never knew that. Or are you just assuming. Id go for the latter my friend. Just not true. They are the same as any other guy black or white. Some are large some are medium some are small. Not all huge ginormous. Just pretty normal guys
Well from experience but hey you know best "
Never said i knew best. Im saying they don't all have huge ones. And anyway why objectify a man by what he has. Would you do the same to a white guy. No you wouldn't because I never see a thread about BWC. Awful terms. TreT people like human beings not labels |
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This thread is...interesting
From what I see on here there's black men who enjoy being fetishised, black men who hate it and black men who are in-between. It's their body, their choice.
There was a fellow who was upset at white lady who mentioned it being a taboo for some people. It's reality not ignorance. There's black men, black women, Asian men, Asian women, white men and white women who foam at the mouth when they see the opposite sex of their race date interracially. All demographics are guilty of that. I have had horrible messages from black men for meeting white men but I know not all black men act like that. I've been told more than once there's white men who say they wouldn't date a white woman who's had sex with a black man. These are the things people say when other races are not around. It's disgusting but it's a reality.
There's a lot of anti blackness in the world so it's going to sadly be an issue for some people but those people have issues generally.
I'm not sure about the porn bit though sis haha
If people think black men are better lovers just leave them to have sex that they enjoy. There's plenty people who have a preference for all demographics be it your own race or other races.
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"In 2021 how on earth is a white woman sleeping with a black man still seen as “taboo”? This narrative is quite frankly ridiculous especially when you see how many interracial relationships there are these days….
As for the stereotype that we (as black men) do nothing but pound away hard and fast during sex is quite frankly not true. Again, black men being seen as a monolith with statements like that. I for one, pride myself on my sensual nature within the bedroom…. Some of you really do need some educating man… Sheesh! "
the fact is that we all have different tastes wants and needs. stereotyping is just wrong nomatter where it is directed. I for one have hang ups on my size but that is my demon and nothing to do with anyone race. |
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"It seems more and more that I have the wrong coloured one "
There is no wrong ..I've been told ..too big/small/black/old, even been told not black enough 
Just be happy to be you mate, embrace yourself ! |
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"I don’t mind the bbc term at all tbh I enjoy and benefit from it quite a lot on here lol. I’ll save all the politeness for the “normal” world
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Thankfully there's enough non black folk on fab to be offended on your behalf |
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"I don’t mind the bbc term at all tbh I enjoy and benefit from it quite a lot on here lol. I’ll save all the politeness for the “normal” world
Thankfully there's enough non black folk on fab to be offended on your behalf "
..and equally given the contributions to this thread (and others of a similar theme), there are many black men who are tired of the constant, monolithic classification of black males enshrined in the basic denominator..BBC. |
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"It seems more and more that I have the wrong coloured one
I don’t think you have the wrong coloured one. Don’t let the unhealthy obsession of black men’s penises in mainstream society make you think you are not adequate.
You are."
Great comment - it’s all about the all round package especially for women IMO |
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"It seems more and more that I have the wrong coloured one
I don’t think you have the wrong coloured one. Don’t let the unhealthy obsession of black men’s penises in mainstream society make you think you are not adequate.
You are.
Great comment - it’s all about the all round package especially for women IMO"
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"It's just a word.. Who cares.
At the end of the day we here to fuck and bust a nut then leave.
Let's just fuck and make a mess. "
Remember this the next time you complain about being stereotyped or objectified - it is the same continuum. Enjoy the benefits at one end, shut-up and put up with negatives on the other. |
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I've always thought of BBC or 'BMFC' as rather demeaning - surely guys of all hues have the chance to showcase their wit, sexiness ad general attractiveness (cock size included) regardless of skin colour. I've always felt sorry for people merely tagged as 'BBC' or BWC' ..... it would be like me saying I only wanted bit tits, long legs etc etc...... That said whatever turns people on I guess. |
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"I never had Bbc so can’t comment however white guys are big too x
They are, but black guys just do it better!! A lot better in fact. Like some deep primal instinct  "
Deep primal instinct? Wow you are equating them to animals now. Thats so wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What difference does the colour make ,its the person using it "
Not sure it makes any difference. Its the person that's more important not their COCK or size |
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"Colour makes no difference xx
It does to me, I like to see thick blue veins. You don't get that with darker skin tones. "
. Well u had my cock would u like it again nice to see you the other day x |
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"I never had Bbc so can’t comment however white guys are big too x
They are, but black guys just do it better!! A lot better in fact. Like some deep primal instinct
Deep primal instinct? Wow you are equating them to animals now. Thats so wrong"
At what point did i equate “them” to animals you twit?
I stated that black guys are naturally better lovers than white guys with big dicks….?
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I love to fuck black men.
I love to fuck every other colour, ethnicity and race too.
If I find you attractive it’s irrelevant. But lots of us do have a “type” of what your more attracted too.
I very often get “I’m not a bbc but…” in my inbox from white men though. Feel like it’s more their issue than mine! |
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Colour or the size within reason has anything to do with it. Who is attached to it and then knowing how to use it is everything thing to do with satisfaction |
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"It seems more and more that I have the wrong coloured one "
Not really.
I’m guessing that for every woman who states on her profile that she’s looking for BBC only - there’s another woman or couple who ask not to be contacted by black or Asian guys as whites only are ‘just their preference’.
Personally I find both statements equally distasteful. |
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"I've always thought of BBC or 'BMFC' as rather demeaning - surely guys of all hues have the chance to showcase their wit, sexiness ad general attractiveness (cock size included) regardless of skin colour. I've always felt sorry for people merely tagged as 'BBC' or BWC' ..... it would be like me saying I only wanted bit tits, long legs etc etc...... That said whatever turns people on I guess."
Pretty much my view, there's no issue having a racial, sexual, size etc preference, it's how it's expressed that's relevant.
The porn inspired (ie white male conceived)-'BBC' is reductionist, reducing black males to a 'thing', little more than a fetish.
Yes some black men have adopted the expression because they've realised it has an attraction to some, but many others find the term anachronistic and demeaning as just like anybody else they have a range of qualities other than being a 'cock'.
Imagine if some black males universally referred to white women as 'BWC', 'big, white cunts'! |
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"I never had Bbc so can’t comment however white guys are big too x
They are, but black guys just do it better!! A lot better in fact. Like some deep primal instinct
Deep primal instinct? Wow you are equating them to animals now. Thats so wrong
At what point did i equate “them” to animals you twit?
I stated that black guys are naturally better lovers than white guys with big dicks….?
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You stated they were Primal. Look up the definition of Primal. It means Primitive. It relates to an early stage in evolutionary development before the appearance of life on earth. Now what came before man. Look it up TWIT |
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One thing I get almost daily on here is messages from (mostly) white men saying "I have a BWC for you"... I'm not sure why they assume I'm 'black men only' because of the dick stereotype. I'm just very much attracted to black men, just like you might be attracted to blondes or slim girls.
Everyone has preferences and I can't help who/what I am attracted to! For me, it's nothing to do with their dick!
I also on a weekly basis get abuse for stating that I'm only interested in black men off of insecure (again, usually white) men that have a huge issue, even racist messages.
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"In 2021 how on earth is a white woman sleeping with a black man still seen as “taboo”? This narrative is quite frankly ridiculous especially when you see how many interracial relationships there are these days….
As for the stereotype that we (as black men) do nothing but pound away hard and fast during sex is quite frankly not true. Again, black men being seen as a monolith with statements like that. I for one, pride myself on my sensual nature within the bedroom…. Some of you really do need some educating man… Sheesh! "
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"I never had Bbc so can’t comment however white guys are big too x
They are, but black guys just do it better!! A lot better in fact. Like some deep primal instinct
Deep primal instinct? Wow you are equating them to animals now. Thats so wrong
At what point did i equate “them” to animals you twit?
I stated that black guys are naturally better lovers than white guys with big dicks….?
You stated they were Primal. Look up the definition of Primal. It means Primitive. It relates to an early stage in evolutionary development before the appearance of life on earth. Now what came before man. Look it up TWIT"
Wrong again. I stated that black men were better at fucking, due to some primal instinct.
Don’t be that Karen that takes one word completely out of context, then gets offended by it on someone else's behalf. Nobody thinks you’re cool for doing it.
What came before man? Depends who you ask, but for this scenario i’m going to pick the frigging dinosaurs, because sometimes it feels like my bit on the side is plowing me like an 8000kg T-Rex because he’s better at making me cum like an angry cave woman than my white husband.
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Personally I don’t make anything a fettish, I like sex simples. And to be honest the better sex I have had is with average sized cocks.
I think its a shame people think bigger cock means better sex. In my experience it’s so much further from the truth |
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"One thing I get almost daily on here is messages from (mostly) white men saying "I have a BWC for you"... I'm not sure why they assume I'm 'black men only' because of the dick stereotype. I'm just very much attracted to black men, just like you might be attracted to blondes or slim girls.
Everyone has preferences and I can't help who/what I am attracted to! For me, it's nothing to do with their dick!
I also on a weekly basis get abuse for stating that I'm only interested in black men off of insecure (again, usually white) men that have a huge issue, even racist messages.
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As a white male, who regularly watched his ex partner with black men, I saw the abuse other white guys gave us for only searching for black men. I never understood why they felt it necessary.
And in the end it just cemented her view, the hate was sad to see. |
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"I never had Bbc so can’t comment however white guys are big too x
They are, but black guys just do it better!! A lot better in fact. Like some deep primal instinct
Deep primal instinct? Wow you are equating them to animals now. Thats so wrong
At what point did i equate “them” to animals you twit?
I stated that black guys are naturally better lovers than white guys with big dicks….?
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Wow. Quite a sweeping statement. Completely not true of course. Just in your opinion. I personally think black women are better livers then white.Just my opinion. |
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"I never had Bbc so can’t comment however white guys are big too x
They are, but black guys just do it better!! A lot better in fact. Like some deep primal instinct
Deep primal instinct? Wow you are equating them to animals now. Thats so wrong
At what point did i equate “them” to animals you twit?
I stated that black guys are naturally better lovers than white guys with big dicks….?
You stated they were Primal. Look up the definition of Primal. It means Primitive. It relates to an early stage in evolutionary development before the appearance of life on earth. Now what came before man. Look it up TWIT
Wrong again. I stated that black men were better at fucking, due to some primal instinct.
Don’t be that Karen that takes one word completely out of context, then gets offended by it on someone else's behalf. Nobody thinks you’re cool for doing it.
What came before man? Depends who you ask, but for this scenario i’m going to pick the frigging dinosaurs, because sometimes it feels like my bit on the side is plowing me like an 8000kg T-Rex because he’s better at making me cum like an angry cave woman than my white husband.
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Name is Mags not Karen. Is yours? Hahahaha. Are Dinosaurs animals. Think they are so if he's fucking you like a dinosaur your equating him to an animal. Thats it . Im done hahaha. Bye karen |
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"I watched my wife with BBC last week,
I won't lie,I absolutely loved it,
And I know she did x
Was she equally as enthralled by the human being it was attached to?"
she certainly was,
It was quite good viewing x |
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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago
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This thread predictably fall into old racist tropes which still permeate society. The black man as a savage, animalistic sex tool, and in the 21st century being with a black man is "taboo"
I invite people to recalibrate and challenge their internal thoughts, prejudices and biasises and carefully consider the language you use. Black men are not monolithic and we do not like to be fetishized and reduced to a sexual abbreviation. |
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"I never had Bbc so can’t comment however white guys are big too x
They are, but black guys just do it better!! A lot better in fact. Like some deep primal instinct
Deep primal instinct? Wow you are equating them to animals now. Thats so wrong
At what point did i equate “them” to animals you twit?
I stated that black guys are naturally better lovers than white guys with big dicks….?
You stated they were Primal. Look up the definition of Primal. It means Primitive. It relates to an early stage in evolutionary development before the appearance of life on earth. Now what came before man. Look it up TWIT
Wrong again. I stated that black men were better at fucking, due to some primal instinct.
Don’t be that Karen that takes one word completely out of context, then gets offended by it on someone else's behalf. Nobody thinks you’re cool for doing it.
What came before man? Depends who you ask, but for this scenario i’m going to pick the frigging dinosaurs, because sometimes it feels like my bit on the side is plowing me like an 8000kg T-Rex because he’s better at making me cum like an angry cave woman than my white husband.
Name is Mags not Karen. Is yours? Hahahaha. Are Dinosaurs animals. Think they are so if he's fucking you like a dinosaur your equating him to an animal. Thats it . Im done hahaha. Bye karen"
Lol. Brillient answer. Bye Karen |
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Why white guys are so obsessed with black dicks?
Sometimes it seems like some of you forget they are attached to actual human being.
It seems like you like to blame your sexual incompetence on colour of your skin. |
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over a year ago
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"Why white guys are so obsessed with black dicks?
Sometimes it seems like some of you forget they are attached to actual human being.
It seems like you like to blame your sexual incompetence on colour of your skin. "
It's easier to blame others |
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"Why white guys are so obsessed with black dicks?
Sometimes it seems like some of you forget they are attached to actual human being.
It seems like you like to blame your sexual incompetence on colour of your skin. "
And why are some Black guys so obsessed with self-objectifying and exploiting themselves and their nether regions by using the comically porn typified and racially stereotypical term “BBC”. |
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"I've always thought of BBC or 'BMFC' as rather demeaning - surely guys of all hues have the chance to showcase their wit, sexiness ad general attractiveness (cock size included) regardless of skin colour. I've always felt sorry for people merely tagged as 'BBC' or BWC' ..... it would be like me saying I only wanted bit tits, long legs etc etc...... That said whatever turns people on I guess.
Pretty much my view, there's no issue having a racial, sexual, size etc preference, it's how it's expressed that's relevant.
The porn inspired (ie white male conceived)-'BBC' is reductionist, reducing black males to a 'thing', little more than a fetish.
Yes some black men have adopted the expression because they've realised it has an attraction to some, but many others find the term anachronistic and demeaning as just like anybody else they have a range of qualities other than being a 'cock'.
Imagine if some black males universally referred to white women as 'BWC', 'big, white cunts'!"
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"Why white guys are so obsessed with black dicks?
Sometimes it seems like some of you forget they are attached to actual human being.
It seems like you like to blame your sexual incompetence on colour of your skin.
And why are some Black guys so obsessed with self-objectifying and exploiting themselves and their nether regions by using the comically porn typified and racially stereotypical term “BBC”."
Well said.
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The barrage of disrespectful, racist messages I receive here simply reminds me of how the world at large is outside the bedroom.
It is no coincidence that many on here that are not Black cling to the BBC mythos and think it is a compliment to reduce Black men merely to their appendages.
I am more than my phallus, and I do not adhere to this objectification/fetishization that is prevalent on here. If you cannot respect all the parts I bring to the bedroom (or wherever we choose to 'play', then keep scrolling until you find someone willing to reduce themselves to such levels.
Judging by the thread, there are PLENTY here willing to do so.
But, we are NOT a monolith. |
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"The barrage of disrespectful, racist messages I receive here simply reminds me of how the world at large is outside the bedroom.
It is no coincidence that many on here that are not Black cling to the BBC mythos and think it is a compliment to reduce Black men merely to their appendages.
I am more than my phallus, and I do not adhere to this objectification/fetishization that is prevalent on here. If you cannot respect all the parts I bring to the bedroom (or wherever we choose to 'play', then keep scrolling until you find someone willing to reduce themselves to such levels.
Judging by the thread, there are PLENTY here willing to do so.
But, we are NOT a monolith."
Sorry to hear that you have to endure such hate. As a white male I could never comprehend why other white men had to call my ex out for her preference in black men, not why they have to have so much hate for others on here. She still met white guys she just preferred black guys. They simply couldn’t respect the preferences we set as a couple.
The black men she met were indeed very hung, as where the white men, she was a size queen. The reason why she made a preference was because the black men we met became more regular and were a bit more respectful it felt and appeared to grasp our level of cuckolding much better. |
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"The barrage of disrespectful, racist messages I receive here simply reminds me of how the world at large is outside the bedroom.
It is no coincidence that many on here that are not Black cling to the BBC mythos and think it is a compliment to reduce Black men merely to their appendages.
I am more than my phallus, and I do not adhere to this objectification/fetishization that is prevalent on here. If you cannot respect all the parts I bring to the bedroom (or wherever we choose to 'play', then keep scrolling until you find someone willing to reduce themselves to such levels.
Judging by the thread, there are PLENTY here willing to do so.
But, we are NOT a monolith."
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