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Yes - and bearing in mind the nature of the site - I’m guessing the proportion will be quite high?
When I was young the general rule among lads was that if a girl slept with you on a first date she was a slag - and therefore not worthy of a relationship.
I’m hoping modern young men aren’t such pricks! |
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"Yes - and bearing in mind the nature of the site - I’m guessing the proportion will be quite high?
When I was young the general rule among lads was that if a girl slept with you on a first date she was a slag - and therefore not worthy of a relationship.
I’m hoping modern young men aren’t such pricks! "
I fear that they are. |
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"Yes - and bearing in mind the nature of the site - I’m guessing the proportion will be quite high?
When I was young the general rule among lads was that if a girl slept with you on a first date she was a slag - and therefore not worthy of a relationship.
I’m hoping modern young men aren’t such pricks!
I fear that they are. "
Really? I hoped they’d progressed a little?  |
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"Yes - and bearing in mind the nature of the site - I’m guessing the proportion will be quite high?
When I was young the general rule among lads was that if a girl slept with you on a first date she was a slag - and therefore not worthy of a relationship.
I’m hoping modern young men aren’t such pricks! "
Think bad attitudes towards women are generally dying out along with many other deeply conservative ideas amongst younger people.
Based on the wide variety of people we've met anyway! |
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"Yes - and bearing in mind the nature of the site - I’m guessing the proportion will be quite high?
When I was young the general rule among lads was that if a girl slept with you on a first date she was a slag - and therefore not worthy of a relationship.
I’m hoping modern young men aren’t such pricks!
I fear that they are.
Really? I hoped they’d progressed a little? "
I can't speak with any real authority but from what our daughter says young men are just as territorial about women as they ever were. |
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Perhaps I'm in the minority... I've never been on a first date where I've not had sex...
I don't think that's such a bad thing? It's the modern age, phones exist, we talk to people loads and get to know people more often than not prior to going on a first date? |
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No we didn’t. Both wanted to, very heavy petting but held off until our 2nd date! It did feel more special when we did - we had fancied each other for years, so it was never going to be a one night thing  |
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over a year ago
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Absolutely not, we had a social, as I personally believe outside of clubs we all should, then we decided a play meet was what we both wanted and glorious it was  |
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"I'd never turn sex down on a first date, but it would never turn into a relationship, it would just be sex for me. "
Interested to know why that would be. Is it because you just don’t want a relationship or would you deem a woman who sleeps with you on the first date not worthy of being in a relationship with? |
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2nd date for us but only because neither of us had anywhere private to go at the end of the first.
And to be fair the 2nd date was 11 hours later and was just me travelling 20 miles her town to be dragged straight up to the bedroom for a 9 hour none stop session (oh to be that young again).
25 years later..still together.
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Most online dates end in sex ..
Few end in a relationship..
I’m probably from a different era ..
In the 80’s girls that easily put out weren’t keepers ..
Bloody stupid when you look back now..
you end up marrying the stuck up boring ones with little sexual interest .. so you grow apart .. |
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"Nope. However, we used to have sec regularly before we told anyone we were an item. We had both been hurt in our previous relationships so it was easier to have a secret for a few months  "
And I bet was more exciting |
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"Yep..
3 years
10 years
2 years
6 years
Pulling in a nightclub then keeping them for awhile after is my superpower! "
If a guy said that it would be so creepy  lol |
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By *enfold75Man
over a year ago
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Yes in the carpark at Windsor Castle.
The relationship lasted 18 month.
She told me that she never sleeps with anyone on a first date.
I later found out she lied and slept with most on her first date |
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"Yes - and bearing in mind the nature of the site - I’m guessing the proportion will be quite high?
When I was young the general rule among lads was that if a girl slept with you on a first date she was a slag - and therefore not worthy of a relationship.
I’m hoping modern young men aren’t such pricks! "
I so remember you who could possibly forget the most gorgeous sexy woman on Fab |
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By *inyppMan
over a year ago
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Does it count if my only one of us did lol?? I took my then girlfriend on our first date and when it ended she asked me to drop her at her ex boyfriends apartment - and to come back and pick her up the next day. I of course obeyed - and we repeated that many times our first year dating. We are married now 30 years and could not be happier !! |
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"Can’t remember ever going on a date and not having sex. I don’t date any more  "
I got a feeling you still have sex every chance you get from you knowing how very sexually gratifying you are to anybody & everybody that's lucky enough to be your liver |
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"Can’t remember ever going on a date and not having sex. I don’t date any more "
I got a feeling you still have sex every chance you get from you knowing how very sexually gratifying you are to anybody & everybody that's lucky enough to be your LOVER |
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21yrs and we are still going strong.. x 
