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Instant turn offs?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh and if someone asks what I'm in to? then I tend to finish up the conversation as I don't think anyone has a specific tick list to answer that question do they?"
Yeah I understand that. Its too open ended a question which makes it hard to answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys who say they are amazing at oral , all guys think this ! Ive only met one who is and I married him !! That wasnt the only reason !
Guys that say they are heavy cummers.
Guys that ask "do you squirt "on a first message .
And more of the same .
I could go on all day !! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Guys who say they are amazing at oral , all guys think this ! Ive only met one who is and I married him !! That wasnt the only reason !
Guys that say they are heavy cummers.
Guys that ask "do you squirt "on a first message .
And more of the same .
I could go on all day !! "
Haha that all makes sense. I like to thing I'm fairly good at oral but I guess it depends if people were being honest with me . And stuff like that does seem odd, i reckon single women get the brunt of the weird messages on here |
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"no blacks no asians whites only not racist just not our thing"
it's one thing to have preferences in what you're attracted, it's another thing to be putting stuff like "whites only, not racist honest!!!" on your profile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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""no blacks no asians whites only not racist just not our thing"
it's one thing to have preferences in what you're attracted, it's another thing to be putting stuff like "whites only, not racist honest!!!" on your profile"
Its definitely an odd one |
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"Guys that ask "do you squirt "on a first message."
It would take one hell of an opening message to make that happen, and from the majority of messages we’ve received from single guys, impossible! Mind you, our profile states more than once that we are not looking for single guys, so if they can’t read then a talent for writing is probably too much to hope for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One liner messages asking free now? Wot u up 2?….. expecting an instant answer…… and dicks who think they have the right to everything….. then there’s the pics of a str*ngled dick bulging in all directions xx |
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""no blacks no asians whites only not racist just not our thing"
it's one thing to have preferences in what you're attracted, it's another thing to be putting stuff like "whites only, not racist honest!!!" on your profile"
Yasssss. This so much lol. Like it’s so gauche. Just say what race/ethnicity you’re into. |
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Theres a few forbus.
- Poor 1 liner message in txt spk
- Addressing Bunny only
- Assuming they're doing us a favour meeting us
- Crass username
- So need to upload my balls type status
We'll not go on lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The privacy and Sydney university blurbs...
Oh yeah especially if only thing on the profile 
So many think it's enough to make them stand out lol"
Exactly along with their 30 cock pics from same angle lol |
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"The privacy and Sydney university blurbs...
Oh yeah especially if only thing on the profile
So many think it's enough to make them stand out lol
Exactly along with their 30 cock pics from same angle lol"
I Dislike cock n fanny shots on a message but when the profile pics show its taken on the loo etc |
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Our favorite is when we get asked if we’re in a certain location or saying you close by do you want to meet as we must appear near by , we’re not looking for single guys but seeing as we’re in Cornwall or within 5 miles we will make an exception  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh, also statuses of those who beg for membership codes
And silhouettes with no pics, not photo verified, but have three or 4 verifications from ‘meets’
And those who just say ‘ask’… you’re just baiting for messages to feel popular |
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""no blacks no asians whites only not racist just not our thing"
it's one thing to have preferences in what you're attracted, it's another thing to be putting stuff like "whites only, not racist honest!!!" on your profile"
I (male) don't mind this on a profile. At least it saves us time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Instant turn off for me is when they say thry are in to safe sex only but then all of their pictures are of them having sex with no condom on with different women. X"
Can't lie this one made me laugh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Poorly painted skirting boards, 1970s carpets, MFI furniture sofas bought in the DFS sale, avocado bathroom suites with pine bath panels and horrendous teeth. |
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So it looks like this thread has turned in to slagging single men (again ) so, in the interest of parity here are a few that put me off.
Single women/couples - I don't want to see spunk dribbling out your fanny. Or arse. Or your face covered in it.
Couples - Don't just show pics of the female, other couples need to see the body type the man has. The important job so can't show him excuse is bullshit. I'd hope his employer doesn't know what he looks like naked and you can blur/ pixelate any tattoos.
Females in general - Don't just have close-up tit and arse shots up. I know it's probably because you think you're fat but let me be the judge of that. I may like your proportions.
I'll stop now.
Frank |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad grammar, long list of "don't even message me if xxxxxxx", the "no/only black/white" and then the height requirement thing.
So basically negative lists and racism "
Just as an aside it’s incorrect grammar? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Instant turn off for me is when they say thry are in to safe sex only but then all of their pictures are of them having sex with no condom on with different women. X
Can't lie this one made me laugh "
Here safe sex means we haven't exchanged phone numbers |
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By *ulkuriMan
over a year ago
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"Bad grammar, long list of "don't even message me if xxxxxxx", the "no/only black/white" and then the height requirement thing.
So basically negative lists and racism
Just as an aside it’s incorrect grammar?"
Oh, I don't need to worry about that, as I'm one walking "instant turn off"  |
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"Instant turn off for me is when they say thry are in to safe sex only but then all of their pictures are of them having sex with no condom on with different women. X
Can't lie this one made me laugh
Here safe sex means we haven't exchanged phone numbers"
Haha or if you use your heels with the dildo on  |
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"Bad grammar and photos of guys keeping their socks on!
Or dirty background as in ashtrays, dirty pots, and laundry scattered about. It's not hard to tidy up before getting your cock/vagina out. "
Oh yeah  and this... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A massive first message telling me what he thinks he is going to try to do to me.. Turns my stomach... Especially when they haven't even said hello, have clearly not read my profile nor shown me anything close to a face picture... Deleted unread... Seriously if I read it I'd puke  |
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420 friendly isn’t going to impress us.
Rubbish messages which show they’ve not even glanced at our profile.
Photos taken in rooms that are filthy.
Single man profiles showing photos of them with numerous women especially when they’re bareback shots. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In addition to the turn-offs already mentioned, I would like to add when people seem desperate by posting daily updates about their availability. Puts me off. "
Posting phone numbers or even kik and snapchat, publicly too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In addition to the turn-offs already mentioned, I would like to add when people seem desperate by posting daily updates about their availability. Puts me off. "
Quite agree but would say I am available for weddings funerals and the odd bar mitzvah! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"apply within"...eh no.
420 friendly...still no.
48 dick pics... 48 too many..no.
VWE or Heavy Cummer....if that's all you have to offer....no again.
Makes us feel we are very fussy  , but too many people think this is instashag! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men in ladies underwear.
Men with 20 almost identical dick pics, I’d prefer no pic than that.
People who have the “Sydney University” disclaimer in their profile. (Hate to break it to you, that disclaimer ain’t worth shit) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People asking for photos despite the fact we have several displayed, when they have none on their profile.
Or if a face pic is important to you say so in your profile not after 45 minutes of chatting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh one more from me, Facebook/Twitter/Insta/OF accounts! What’s the point in posting them? (The social media stuff) Yeah let’s tell all your mates who you’re fucking three nights a week, eh? |
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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago
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"The privacy and Sydney university blurbs...
Oh yeah especially if only thing on the profile
So many think it's enough to make them stand out lol
Exactly along with their 30 cock pics from same angle lol"
Definitely, how are you supposed to gauge what someone looks like, his personality, dress, sense of humour and so on from nothing but numerous dick pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The privacy and Sydney university blurbs...
Oh yeah especially if only thing on the profile
So many think it's enough to make them stand out lol
Exactly along with their 30 cock pics from same angle lol
Definitely, how are you supposed to gauge what someone looks like, his personality, dress, sense of humour and so on from nothing but numerous dick pics."
Maybe their personality is just that, a dick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Action shots on a single guys profile (I always wonder if they have permission to use the pics)
Anything dr*g related
All cock shots and nothing else..."
Would you question an action shot on a single woman's profile? Men do seem to have a lot of assumptions made about them on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it looks like this thread has turned in to slagging single men (again ) so, in the interest of parity here are a few that put me off.
Single women/couples - I don't want to see spunk dribbling out your fanny. Or arse. Or your face covered in it.
Couples - Don't just show pics of the female, other couples need to see the body type the man has. The important job so can't show him excuse is bullshit. I'd hope his employer doesn't know what he looks like naked and you can blur/ pixelate any tattoos.
Females in general - Don't just have close-up tit and arse shots up. I know it's probably because you think you're fat but let me be the judge of that. I may like your proportions.
I'll stop now.
Frank "
Well said frank |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How's you?
What you into?
I want be balls deep in your ass...
Calling my pussy a cunt...
Yeah I m not tall but we re all the same laid down...
He can watch...
Read my veris...
My off putting list is endless to be honest
Wow a lot puts me off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So many of what people have said above.
I really hate it when a guy says he’ll make a woman squirt, if she’s never experienced it. You just know he has one move, and if it doesn’t work on you he’ll get pissed off and blame you.
Men who claim they’re really skilled and experienced, usually means if you ask them to do X instead of Y, you’ll be told that it worked on all their other partners and again, they’ll get huffy.
Photos where you see mostly a woman + their cock are a huge turn off. I’m not interested in women, why would I want to see a woman? I want to see what the man looks like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Self entitledness, anything rude or biggotted, bitchyneas, nothing but close up pics of genitals, sissy guys or Dom girls, no willingness to play bare, people wanting role play. Xx |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
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Agree with most of what people have already said although (as we have one) no problem with a fairly long profile (guess there is long and looooooong).
To add to the list:
1. Single female profiles that turn out to be couples profiles as she doesn’t actually meet without the other half (so have a couple profile).
2. Verification summary but no veris displayed so you can actually read them (strikes us as suspicious).
3. Year old(er) profiles with “fill in later”
4. And to repeat a biggie that others have said above - all photos are close ups! We do want to see the whole of you not just your genitals! |
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Facial hair.
One line messages.
When you post in a forum guys that feel the need to message you rather than posting on the forum.
Guys who say they are straight but their verifications are all from guys.
Rudeness
Couples but only the guy wants to meet
I could go on all day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you post in a forum guys that feel the need to message you rather than posting on the forum.
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Oh I hate this one!! I wish fab would remove it as an option. |
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"Action shots on a single guys profile (I always wonder if they have permission to use the pics)
Anything dr*g related
All cock shots and nothing else...
Would you question an action shot on a single woman's profile? Men do seem to have a lot of assumptions made about them on here"
Yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The utterly inpenetrable "war and peace" single female profiles containing 24 paragraphs of vein popping demands, dislikes and entitled arrogance followed by "now that's out of the way I am a really nice, chilled out girl honestly" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The utterly inpenetrable "war and peace" single female profiles containing 24 paragraphs of vein popping demands, dislikes and entitled arrogance followed by "now that's out of the way I am a really nice, chilled out girl honestly" "
Hahaha, brilliant ! |
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By *MCMan
over a year ago
London/EA |
Incapable to hold conversation
People who think because you’re a single male they can try get you to jump through hoops.. bore off.
Double standards
Dirty backgrounds in pictures - okay it’s not OF but come on.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The term BBC, or BWC, I don’t care what colour you are
Degrading comments like slut or whore
Pictures of arseholes
Being offered money
Men with status’s saying ‘I’m horny, who wants to suck my cock’ |
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"Im a repeater" = If you did a good enough job the first time I wouldn't need a repeat performance!
Heavy cummer = makes no difference, you'll be wearing a condom anyway.
We do have plenty more we could post... |
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Long ranty profiles listing all the things they're not looking for and don't want in a message.
Not forgetting poorly worded or spelled comments about wanting a man who can string a sentence together. Oh,the irony. |
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