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verbal humiliation and degradation

By *entleman kinkster OP Man over a year ago

london

who enjoys verbal humiliation and degradation as an element of their play. With the right person at the right time I find this a huge turn on when taking the lead during meets.

Love to hear some of your experiences?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have enjoyed being subject to a little degradation since an email early gf and a bi guy both criticized my package. Turned me on and hurt me at the same time. So hot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll will watch and see who pops up within my area.......

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By *lenderfoxMan over a year ago

Leeds

Had some experience of this with a sub playmate, it was pretty hot

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By *uckoldDesiresMan over a year ago

Dublin

I absolutely love it.

A huge turn on for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love it, need to find someone new

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm Submissive and find it such a turn on with the right partner... If a random person I didn't have a dynamic with tried it tho I would be horrified at there audacity tho

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"who enjoys verbal humiliation and degradation as an element of their play. With the right person at the right time I find this a huge turn on when taking the lead during meets.

Love to hear some of your experiences?"
. Yes love humiliating men

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

Yes, it’s one of my kinks during play. Being made to act in an overtly feminine manner and being degraded whilst doing it, yes please.

However it’s only with a trusted partner, it doesn’t happen with everyone and not all can do it either.

Been on the Fetish scene prior to this one, so it’s more common place with that play, than here.

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By *rincessFlirtWoman over a year ago

London/Leeds

Definitely something I find hot with the right person x

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By *ersey GirlCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *luttyLaylaWoman over a year ago

North West

I love it... in the right time and place

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By *ondonerMan over a year ago

London / Essex borders

In the right scenario, with the right people it's very hot!

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By *inkycreamCouple over a year ago

manchester

Best horny talk going

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

with the right guys yes deffo sadly theres not alot of ''right guys''

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

With my Dom yes, I love it, with anyone else it’s a massive no.

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

I do but with my partner only and even then he knows not to push it some days. Anyone else is going to have a ear full.

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By *urvySub87Woman over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

As long as its with someone I know and trust. If you just message me calling me a slut then you're getting blocked

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By *oapy999Man over a year ago

Southampton

I love it feel free to indulge me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love verbally degrading a lady as we play. The nastier I can be the harder my cock hers and the harder the fucking gets. Huge huge turn on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know my conservative Bengali wife loves it. Loved being filthy names and even worse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can give it but can't take - a fella found that out a long time ago lol

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By *Ci LutherMan over a year ago

Taunton

I’d happily switch.. met a girl in June 30 years old wanted daddy daughter humiliation role play sent her bonkers .. on the other hand I’d love to be with a women my age or older slap me about a big name calling

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By *iganpairCouple over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

Love humiliation as part of our cuck life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love a little humiliation

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By *asycouple777Couple over a year ago

bristol

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"who enjoys verbal humiliation and degradation as an element of their play. With the right person at the right time I find this a huge turn on when taking the lead during meets.

Love to hear some of your experiences?"

I love it every now and then to switch things up, hearing Athena firing lethal insults at me while she milks my cock is such a change from our normal loving supportive dynamic that she normally ends up saying "bloody hell! " at the amount I blow

and as an added little bonus the devilish little dimpled smile she gives me as she says "you filthy little c*nt! " for how turned on her degradation and meanness made me is just exquisite

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By *luttTV/TS over a year ago

Duns

Yes fucking please!

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By *arcuckMan over a year ago

Salford

Love it

Especially when being cucked

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By *uitednbooted2Man over a year ago

Berkshire

My experience is many women say they are into it but when they receive it they can’t really cope with it

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By *ams12345Man over a year ago

london

Love receiving and giving, it’s like the cherry on top of a good session lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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naughty little slut xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love to be verbally degraded and humiliated.

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

Mr loves it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"who enjoys verbal humiliation and degradation as an element of their play. With the right person at the right time I find this a huge turn on when taking the lead during meets.

Love to hear some of your experiences?. Yes love humiliating men"
would love it done to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My experience is many women say they are into it but when they receive it they can’t really cope with it "

I find there is a significant difference for me at least between sexually degrading language and personally degrading language. Sexual might be slut etc. Personal might relate to body size or intelligence. I can't cope with personal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

naughty little slut xx "

Thank you

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By *andKBCouple over a year ago

Plymouth

I like verbal degradation and humiliation very much. K

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By *ogging-funMan over a year ago

stone

I love it, I love having me and my tiny cock verbally abused, but it has got to be mutual and just a bit of roleplay fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah I don’t mind it tbh when with the right person. Hubby also likes a bit of sph when I’ve been with someone more endowed than him… got to know the limits though

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By *uitednbooted2Man over a year ago

Berkshire

"My experience is many women say they are into it but when they receive it they can’t really cope with it

Agree with that. My view is you have to establish all this before hand with good communication

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"who enjoys verbal humiliation and degradation as an element of their play. With the right person at the right time I find this a huge turn on when taking the lead during meets.

Love to hear some of your experiences?"

My sexy black girlfriend is a true femdom. We both dress up and also bring in other sub guys. I experience sensations I never knew I had. Rocks my world every time.

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By *ogerroger69Man over a year ago

West Yorks

Loving this post

PM to here my verbal abuse and cuckolding experiences

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By *asycouple1971Couple over a year ago

midlands

We like it to a certain point.

I like telling my wife what to do to the other mans cock and she obeys.

We dont like the other guy giving her orders...just I am allowed to do it.

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By *ogerroger69Man over a year ago

West Yorks

I don’t mind either but all her lovers have been utterly polite and respectful

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By *moothdickMan over a year ago

stoke

Love doing it, just got find the right partner

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By *oirinMarkusCouple over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

Love a bit of degradation in the bedroom... It's very sexy when a man knows he can push it x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely love it but only in the moment

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By *ogerroger69Man over a year ago

West Yorks

Only in the moment

Agreed

Maybe next morning during reclaim sex?

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By *ustamanMan over a year ago

weymouth

No just no, either way.

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

I like strong women but I lead in the bedroom. However, and this is a bit embarrassing, I don't talk much. It just feels a little false when I try.

I also don't think a lady is a whore, shut or bitch just because I am fucking her and she is liking it.

Yes, Mr Square is living on Vanilla Street.

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By *ogerroger69Man over a year ago

West Yorks

Would you like the lady to be verbal?

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By *hatsthisMan over a year ago

Newcastle

Never thought years ago it would appeal to me but as i discover my more submissive side I love thought of my inferiority and short comings being mocked

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"who enjoys verbal humiliation and degradation as an element of their play. With the right person at the right time I find this a huge turn on when taking the lead during meets.

Love to hear some of your experiences?"

I often get messages from people looking for this kind of play. However it's not something I do. As a Domme I am quite sadistic as I enjoy giving pain, especially when it leaves marks. If I'm verbally abusing someone I cannot see what they are taking to heart or the damage I'm doing so I tend not to do it.

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By *ogerroger69Man over a year ago

West Yorks

Bit if they ASKED for it?

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By *hatsthisMan over a year ago

Newcastle

"I can give it but can't take - a fella found that out a long time ago lol

Lucky fella or maybe not lol

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By *ogerroger69Man over a year ago

West Yorks

Bit if they ASKED for it?

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By *-4pleasureCouple over a year ago

Belfast

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"who enjoys verbal humiliation and degradation as an element of their play. With the right person at the right time I find this a huge turn on when taking the lead during meets.

Love to hear some of your experiences?

and as an added little bonus the devilish little dimpled smile she gives me as she says "you filthy little c*nt! " for how turned on her degradation and meanness made me is just exquisite

I got a massive hard on reading this!

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By *hatsthisMan over a year ago

Newcastle

"who enjoys verbal humiliation and degradation as an element of their play. With the right person at the right time I find this a huge turn on when taking the lead during meets.

Love to hear some of your experiences?

Just wonderful x

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

"Would you like the lady to be verbal?"

I don't mind the lady doing whatever she wants. As long as it isn't obviously fake or a performance for others.

She can scream the place down if she has to...infact, that is my ultimate objective.

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By *etasubTV/TS over a year ago

West of Newcastle

Love to receive verbal humiliation and degradation from men, women and couples

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can give it but can't take - a fella found that out a long time ago lol

Lucky fella or maybe not lol"

...it did cross over to punishment

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By *ieandteaseMan over a year ago

Wiltshire

"Bit if they ASKED for it?"

Well if they asked for it let them have it all I say

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My experience is many women say they are into it but when they receive it they can’t really cope with it

Agree with that. My view is you have to establish all this before hand with good communication "

Absolutely but I've found that a lot of guys don't see a difference and clarify. I didn't realise until earlier this year what was upsetting me. And I do talk a great deal beforehand.

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"My experience is many women say they are into it but when they receive it they can’t really cope with it

Agree with that. My view is you have to establish all this before hand with good communication

Absolutely but I've found that a lot of guys don't see a difference and clarify. I didn't realise until earlier this year what was upsetting me. And I do talk a great deal beforehand. "

Yes, and this is why verbal degradation / humiliation is only really good for all when all the people involved have the emotional intelligence to understand that the recipient wants to be made to feel bad, because it makes them feel good...and how to correctly use language to take them to that place.

People who enjoy humiliation want to be made to feel ‘shame’ this way because it is dark, delicious and ultimately empowering, not because it is upsetting or demeaning.

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By *ogerroger69Man over a year ago

West Yorks

It’s a total abdication of power and self worth that is in itself priceless

Mind play at its best x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fine this a big turn on, love it when a guy degrades me x

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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS over a year ago

the street of failed artists Liverpool

Oh yes please i absolutely love being told how much of a slut and whore I am

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By *arry monk40Man over a year ago

Telford

This is so much fun I do this over phone so many hubby's enjoy it

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By *ischievous_mickMan over a year ago

north west

I love being a pathetic sub being humiliated and degraded

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My experience is many women say they are into it but when they receive it they can’t really cope with it

Agree with that. My view is you have to establish all this before hand with good communication

Absolutely but I've found that a lot of guys don't see a difference and clarify. I didn't realise until earlier this year what was upsetting me. And I do talk a great deal beforehand.

People who enjoy humiliation want to be made to feel ‘shame’ this way because it is dark, delicious and ultimately empowering, not because it is upsetting or demeaning. "

I only enjoy verbal degradation but I completely agree with emotional intelligence being key.

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By *hatsthisMan over a year ago

Newcastle

"I can give it but can't take - a fella found that out a long time ago lol

Lucky fella or maybe not lol

...it did cross over to punishment"

Then i say again lucky guy lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love it when fit girls do it to me when I say not tonight on the door .

Before the idiots start up its them get verbal with me so I wind them up and it gets juicier..

I've had ladies verbally aggressive,stick fingers up at me and the best ones have tried hitting me or spitting on me..guys would pay a fortune for that shit hahahaha

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By *entleman kinkster OP Man over a year ago

london

"Love it when fit girls do it to me when I say not tonight on the door .

Before the idiots start up its them get verbal with me so I wind them up and it gets juicier..

I've had ladies verbally aggressive,stick fingers up at me and the best ones have tried hitting me or spitting on me..guys would pay a fortune for that shit hahahaha "

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Absolutely - but I need to really trust the person doing it. I need to feel safe with them to fully let go - but when I do have that connection, it's both exciting and wonderfully freeing.

If someone I hadn't agreed it with just did it casually they'd get a sharp mouthful back at them and an immediate end to the playdate!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In a previous relationship i enjoyed being made to wear chastity at first and this evolved in to being verbally humiliated which was only really explored towards the end with a regular bull. This would involve degradation about my cock and inability to satisfy her, cock comparisons and clean up play.

I found that I missed it which is why I returned and have now found a mistress that helps me explore it, and she gets her cake and eats it. We’ve evolved it further to include CBT which use to be a big no no for me. We have strict rules and she decides when I can cum and has put me on a sex ban for the rest of 2021. It’s actually been really good fun since we stepped it up last week.

Happy to hear ideas to pass on to her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love it when fit girls do it to me when I say not tonight on the door .

Before the idiots start up its them get verbal with me so I wind them up and it gets juicier..

I've had ladies verbally aggressive,stick fingers up at me and the best ones have tried hitting me or spitting on me..guys would pay a fortune for that shit hahahaha

I worked with a guy who was a bit taller than me maybe 6'5" and hit the gym hard , one night in the door this bird goes up to him and grabs his throat and squeezes it and starts telling him shit ..I'm like wtf going on here but she stops and says nice to see you so and so and walks straight in .. I'm like fucking great that was so I've had a few like that ..even walk past sticking two fingers up at me and people are thinking what's going on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, with the right person, or persons I really like this type of play. I guess it goes hand in hand with being a sub.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love it with a submissive partner

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By *amsubMan over a year ago

hyde

Love to be on the receiving end of it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Currently on the lookout for a bull so taking messages from prospective dominant alpha males

"In a previous relationship i enjoyed being made to wear chastity at first and this evolved in to being verbally humiliated which was only really explored towards the end with a regular bull. This would involve degradation about my cock and inability to satisfy her, cock comparisons and clean up play.

Happy to hear ideas to pass on to her

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By *lay4RealCouple over a year ago

London

Happy to hear ideas to pass on to her

Pardon my ignorance, but what is "CBT" in this context?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cock and ball torture

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By *anther200Man over a year ago

Please, please yes

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By *igan26Couple over a year ago

wigan

Weird one but its something we both love happening to me u der the right circumstances! Mr gives me all the love I need so its a nice change!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pardon my ignorance, but what is "CBT" in this context? "

It’s not for everyone

lol I only suggested it and she loved the idea so now it’s a regular thing. Nothing too testing just DIY at home stuff really.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's definitely become a bigger part of our play these days

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes love it, and as a micro penis owner, humiliation naturally comes more easy from female side hah x

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By *essyphilMan over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

I quite enjoy both sides of it... although I do cum a lot harder when I'm being degraded... slapping and spitting especially.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love to be degraded. It makes me feel so special. Nothing turns me on more than being a good little slut. I love it when Mr Em tells me how much of a good girl I am for doing as I am told.

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By *lutandhubbyCouple over a year ago

west midlands

i love verbal humiliation and degradation in the right situation. i love it when hubby calls me his dirty whore, slut ect.

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By *asycouple1971Couple over a year ago

midlands

I like telling the wife to suck the other mans cock and balls.

Also like telling her to use his cock like a lipstick and look in the mirror as if shes applying lipstick with his cock.

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By *inyppMan over a year ago

watertown

Big fan here also. It took awhile to convince my wife how much I love the humiliation - and now she loves doing it - especially while I’m watching her with one of her male friends ( they love it too!!). As a cuckold I have not had actual intercourse with my wife going on 3 years now. My only real “sex” with her now is watching - cleaning up - and being degraded and humiliated. I could not be happier!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely a lucky fella then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Male here. It’s something I’m yet to experience, but it’s something that I’d love to experience.

My partner feels that she couldn’t do it to me. It’s a shame really as I’d love to experience it.

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By *entleman kinkster OP Man over a year ago

london

"I love to be degraded. It makes me feel so special. Nothing turns me on more than being a good little slut. I love it when Mr Em tells me how much of a good girl I am for doing as I am told.

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post of the thread, sensual, sexy and _lutty play all in one

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By *heif6999Man over a year ago

malton

Love to be humiliated and have my hair shaved off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like certain parts of it no slapping the face tho

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman over a year ago

Guildford

"My experience is many women say they are into it but when they receive it they can’t really cope with it

Agree with that. My view is you have to establish all this before hand with good communication "

Couldn't agree more it's so subjective and personal to the individual. Good communication makes it so much more pleasurable for all parties involved.

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman over a year ago

Guildford

"Male here. It’s something I’m yet to experience, but it’s something that I’d love to experience.

My partner feels that she couldn’t do it to me. It’s a shame really as I’d love to experience it."

It's common it does make some partners uncomfortable. Keep the open and honest discussions going you may find something within those conversations she may be comfortable with.

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By *stbury DavenportMan over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes, I very much enjoy this sort of play.

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By *ustLooking123499Man over a year ago

Ipswich

I enjoy this very much, but I do worry about others who say they enjoy it but just use it as an excuse to be an abusive a-hole. After care with stuff like this is SUPER important, as is being able to read people during and pacing your interventions accordingly. It takes a lot of trust, both ways, in my view.

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"I enjoy this very much, but I do worry about others who say they enjoy it but just use it as an excuse to be an abusive a-hole. After care with stuff like this is SUPER important, as is being able to read people during and pacing your interventions accordingly. It takes a lot of trust, both ways, in my view. "

Yes, but unfortunately people who don’t understand this never will understand this. All we can do is be our best selves when playing this way, and look after those who enjoy being played with this way as best we can.

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By *odgerMooreMan over a year ago

Carlisle

Would this include asking a woman if you could

Borrow her moustache wax?? Asking for a friend

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By *ohnnyGentMan over a year ago

london

I’ve been getting into over the past few months as it was completely out of my comfort zone. Im usually a “nice guy” or “vanilla” when it comes to chat but I’m blow away by how many women find this a turn on and tbh I enjoy the depravity of what it brings out sexually. Still learning here.

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By *ustLooking123499Man over a year ago

Ipswich

Agreed - and try to warn others, I guess.

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By *ubmissively_innocentWoman over a year ago

bristol

Definitely something I’m into!

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS over a year ago

Bodmin

Agreed - and try to warn others, I guess. "

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS over a year ago

Bodmin

I really enjoy the scenario! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Enjoy it if I'm dressed and being submissive to a hot daddy type

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A lot of people that enjoy receiving it like myself on this post but not many responses from alpha men and their take on this within the cuckolding scene

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By *eelQueen13Woman over a year ago

yorkshire

Love it , but be creative haha

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"Love it , but be creative haha

Possession of a filthy and creative mind is mandatory for this kind of play.

It’s not for everyone.

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By *ieandteaseMan over a year ago

Wiltshire

"Love it when fit girls do it to me when I say not tonight on the door .

Before the idiots start up its them get verbal with me so I wind them up and it gets juicier..

I've had ladies verbally aggressive,stick fingers up at me and the best ones have tried hitting me or spitting on me..guys would pay a fortune for that shit hahahaha

That's often more fun to watch than the bullshit inside the clubs. Ha ha yeah it is funny when they turn on the doorman because that always changes his mind.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you're reading this message and you think it's for you, then you're a filthy slut who needs your arse spanking purple.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a wannabe cuckold, I love being humiliated verbally by a woman making comments on how I cannot satisfy her and she always prefers other stronger men over me.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"who enjoys verbal humiliation and degradation as an element of their play. With the right person at the right time I find this a huge turn on when taking the lead during meets.

Love to hear some of your experiences?"

No.

Instant turn off.

Along with face slaps, spitting or suffocation.

Guess we all have our thing, but it's defo not mine.

Full respect for me, or forget it.

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By *ebbie69Couple over a year ago

milton keynes

Done in the right situation it can be very good but not to insult others. I have been in cuckold situations so used to degrading my cuck but only within limits. I'm now looking at a change and to be very sub to dom couples. It seems so wrong having others talk to me and treat me in this way but so right at the same time

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"It seems so wrong having others talk to me and treat me in this way but so right at the same time"

And that’s why it’s only acceptable play for people who enjoy it. If it’s welcomed by and pleasurable for the recipient, humiliating and degrading language is an enriching part of respectful, considerate and satisfying play.

If it’s not welcomed by and pleasurable for the recipient, it’s simply abuse.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would love to experience Miss B humiliating me and another woman.

Also like to experience the cuck interest as she humiliated me and satisfies another guy in front of me telling me how much better he is.

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By *ebbie69Couple over a year ago

milton keynes

"It seems so wrong having others talk to me and treat me in this way but so right at the same time

If it’s not welcomed by and pleasurable for the recipient, it’s simply abuse."

So true

Thank you

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By *ogging-funMan over a year ago

stone

If any women or couples want to verbally abuse my tiny cock I'm up for it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems so wrong having others talk to me and treat me in this way but so right at the same time

If it’s not welcomed by and pleasurable for the recipient, it’s simply abuse."

Exactly right. I will only allow one person to do it, and I love it with him, but because I consent to it, and he does it to give me pleasure, not because he means it.

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By *ylonlickMan over a year ago

Liverpool

This is a massive turn on for me.

Would love to meet a female who would like to do it to me and have some fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She loves it, turns her on so much

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By *ovingit100Man over a year ago

essex

Luv it

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By *oirinMarkusCouple over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

Very much so x

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By *ubmissive Couple4funCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh

Definitely love it whilst being cuckolded

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By *ouplecu2015Couple over a year ago

Reading

Yes it's very hot when cucked

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love it

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By *uitednbooted2Man over a year ago

Berkshire

In my experience a lot of women talk a good game on this but very few can take it

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So hot when you are cucking

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By *adyJayneWoman over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"My experience is many women say they are into it but when they receive it they can’t really cope with it "

Generally I've only found that when people assume degredation and humiliation is a cookie cutter one size fits all situation (and it's a major kink of mine as a giver or receiver)

I very rarely partake in it during one off meets, it's such a nuanced and personal thing. One person's humiliation, is another turn off or someone's else 'eh, what are you going on about'.

It takes time and understanding to know what presses the right buttons for someone, what provides that delicious combination of stomach churning humiliation with extreme sexual arousal.

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By *uitednbooted2Man over a year ago

Berkshire

"My experience is many women say they are into it but when they receive it they can’t really cope with it

Generally I've only found that when people assume degredation and humiliation is a cookie cutter one size fits all situation (and it's a major kink of mine as a giver or receiver)

I very rarely partake in it during one off meets, it's such a nuanced and personal thing. One person's humiliation, is another turn off or someone's else 'eh, what are you going on about'.

It takes time and understanding to know what presses the right buttons for someone, what provides that delicious combination of stomach churning humiliation with extreme sexual arousal."

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope (Mrs) not into humiliation, namecalling etc..Mr PD likes it when the mood takes him.

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By *xford_geekCouple over a year ago

Cotswolds

I love it. I like to think the man fucking me doesn't think I'm hot, just easy and on offer.

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By *uzy050TV/TS over a year ago

Bolton

Ohh Yes Please , Suzy being very Sub find it a huge Turn on XX

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love to be humiliated verbally. That's one area where I have no limits. The filthier the words are, the better it is.

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS over a year ago

Midlands

I love this, nothing better than kneeling in front of a pretty lady, my cock locked in chastity and her laughing at me and telling me im never going to get to fuck her x

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"My experience is many women say they are into it but when they receive it they can’t really cope with it

Generally I've only found that when people assume degredation and humiliation is a cookie cutter one size fits all situation (and it's a major kink of mine as a giver or receiver)

I very rarely partake in it during one off meets, it's such a nuanced and personal thing. One person's humiliation, is another turn off or someone's else 'eh, what are you going on about'.

It takes time and understanding to know what presses the right buttons for someone, what provides that delicious combination of stomach churning humiliation with extreme sexual arousal."

A good summation.

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By *arry monk40Man over a year ago

Telford

I have a filthy mouth for my subs

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By *asterandGenieCouple over a year ago

Norfolk

Yes we enjoy this as part of our play very much but I know what she likes and doesn’t harder in a one off situation

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By *asycouple777Couple over a year ago

bristol

Love to be verbally humiliated

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By *exywoman77Couple over a year ago

Barnsley

She loves being talked to dirty when being fucked

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By *rangesmartieWoman over a year ago

Devon

Yes this absolutely! It's a really important distinction, but get the nuances right and it is so good!

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By *Sweet94Couple over a year ago

dunfermline

We both enjoy humiliation and degradation but only from each other as another person saying the wrong things isn’t good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I loooove receiving but I enjoy giving to certain people too.

You need to know what does it for them though

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By *tagmeupMan over a year ago

Wirral

This is something id like to try

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely love it

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By *essyphilMan over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"Absolutely love it"

Love dishing it out, or being on the receiving end?

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By *ubbykittenWoman over a year ago

Kent

"who enjoys verbal humiliation and degradation as an element of their play. With the right person at the right time I find this a huge turn on when taking the lead during meets.

Love to hear some of your experiences?"

Yes I love it but then I am VERY submissive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love that play with subs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, however its very hard to find dom guys who know what there doing x

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By *ungmanc420Man over a year ago

Manchester

"I'll will watch and see who pops up within my area.......

Hello goddess please can you message me

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By *ubcup2Couple over a year ago

London

I enjoy it a lot.

Sadly most guys we have come across really don't understand what "no limits" means on verbal abuse and humiliation.

Tend to get called the same old words like slut.

When we encourage more personal abuse it rarely hits the spot.

Maybe our extreme is more extreme than the average guy.

When it's right, it's a great turn on

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple over a year ago

Cheshire

Verbal humiliation and degradation?

If that floats your boat then I’d suggest you get married and have kids

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By *ast_jjMan over a year ago

Dublin and London

I really enjoy with the right people. People I have gotten to know and trust, then it can be such great fun, coming up with new ideas and things they will enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love verbal humiliation. Its one my favourite things, and makes me feel so submissive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

as hes my cuck its all he gets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"as hes my cuck its all he gets

Lucky cuck

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By *addyDaneMan over a year ago

leeds

I know many that love it and crave it haha my subs absolutely love it when it’s carried out on the correct way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Used to love being verbally humiliated whilst having sex with my late wife, started off telling me I wasn’t big enough to satisfy her, that my cock was tiny etc.

then we moved into a cuck lifestyle where she had a couple of lovers who both enjoyed humiliating me whilst they played with my wife and I watched on. Next stage was being sissified for their amusement and finally being made to wear a cock cage whilst being verbally humiliated by my wife and her lovers.

Still get off on it now x

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By *entleman kinkster OP Man over a year ago

london

"Verbal humiliation and degradation?

If that floats your boat then I’d suggest you get married and have kids

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By *eterinpantiesukMan over a year ago

southam

"Used to love being verbally humiliated whilst having sex with my late wife, started off telling me I wasn’t big enough to satisfy her, that my cock was tiny etc.

Still get off on it now x"

What a great adventure

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By *nfiablepeakMan over a year ago

Around and about

Absolutely, if any ladies would like to practice being a potty mouth with me then I'm all for humiliation, never knew it would turn me on so much X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Talk dirty to me.

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By *iM4kinkMan over a year ago

San Antonio

MMMmmmm...i luv filthy, degrading talk when i'm getting fucked.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"who enjoys verbal humiliation and degradation as an element of their play. With the right person at the right time I find this a huge turn on when taking the lead during meets.

Love to hear some of your experiences?"
would love a couple to strip me and humiliate me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I enjoy giving a little verbal degradation if my partner is into it yes. Enjoy some race play aspects too if they're inclined.

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By *adyJayneWoman over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"I enjoy it a lot.

Sadly most guys we have come across really don't understand what "no limits" means on verbal abuse and humiliation.

Tend to get called the same old words like slut.

When we encourage more personal abuse it rarely hits the spot.

Maybe our extreme is more extreme than the average guy.

When it's right, it's a great turn on"

Maybe rather than saying "no limits" (which, even with verbal humiliation I'd argue isn't probably true, everyone has limits even if you've not found them yet)

Maybe work on how to verbalise what you personally find humiliating, it's such a huge and very personal area that with nothing to go on, it's no surprise that people fall back onto common words and topics.

I know I struggle to verbalise it well in a negotiation situation, after all the while point of humiliation is the desire/disgust battle... which is why I initially started writing short erotic stories, as a way for me to get across what makes my stomach churn but my pussy clench.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can be a fan of done right

Generic terms don't do a lot but also thin line between what's degradation and what's bullying

Takes lot of trust

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