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do you meet outside your preference / ideal persons
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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so do you meet outside your preference / ideal person / like / attraction ...
so yet again in convo with a guy (not fab but a club regular) i hear those words that make me think why ?? im hearing it more and more too ah its just a shag i would not be seen out with that person ??
if you would not be seen out with that person then why would you meet/shag i just dont get it ....theres no way id meet someone im not sexually attracted too.
so i guess the question is would you meet and play with someone that you would not walk down the street with ? |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
No, never. I'm extremely selective about who I meet and always meet for at least one social first to establish if there is a connection & attraction face to face.
I don't compromise on what I'm looking for & won't have sex with someone who I don't find both physically & mentally attractive.
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Never. We would never play with anyone we are not attracted to and have a connection with. We have had quite a few social meets that have not progressed to play which is why we usually only meet folk that are localish unless it's a club or we are in the area anyway |
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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago
SF, NY, London (in that order) |
Generally no, but we have played with people who we originally thought we wouldn’t but conversations flowed and a different attraction developed. Older/younger/different types, sometimes the humor or mind just worked |
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I watched a TV program years ago where they tried to explain why a person would go to a nightclub and go home with someone that as they described as below their standards....Alcohol involved...They put it down to smell saying that it was pure lust , the animal side to us...I've been with women that I wouldn't normally go with and they've been with me..Good old lust. |
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Depends whether you're using the real-world definition of "preference" or the Fab one.
Everywhere else, "preference" means "A greater liking for one alternative over another or others." On Fab, it's usually code for "absolute dealbreaker".
I will play with anyone I find attractive, regardless of the individual characteristics that compose that attractiveness.
I guess my answer to the question posed by the thread hinges on whether you consider "I find them attractive" to be a "preference". Hah. |
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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago
Near Wellingborough |
I've been told that I'm either a dirty little secret or that I'm not girlfriend material. It does make me wonder, why fuck me then?
I did ask one guy once. He said I'm a great shag but he couldn't be seen out with a fat bird who isn't that pretty. Each to their own I guess |
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"I've been told that I'm either a dirty little secret or that I'm not girlfriend material. It does make me wonder, why fuck me then?
I did ask one guy once. He said I'm a great shag but he couldn't be seen out with a fat bird who isn't that pretty. Each to their own I guess"
What charm school did he get expelled from?  |
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I have high standards on here and in real life,
I think it's frustrating for Jack, as we don't find couples where I'm attracted to the man often.
My view is that if I don't fancy someone and they're not a person I'd see in real life, then I'd rather not bother.
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Nope, if I wouldn’t meet them in the “real” world I wouldn’t meet off here/ clubs.
Like wise any men looking to be desperate or meeting any one i wouldn’t be interested.
I’ve turned down super hot guys because I know they wouldn’t pull me in a nightclub so don’t try meet me off here  haha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been told that I'm either a dirty little secret or that I'm not girlfriend material. It does make me wonder, why fuck me then?
I did ask one guy once. He said I'm a great shag but he couldn't be seen out with a fat bird who isn't that pretty. Each to their own I guess"
What the hell!!!! Arrogant tw@ts. No one has the right to treat another person like that. 
I think Polly_Chromatic has hit the nail on the head : If I ever get the feeling that someone wouldn't want to be seen in public with me, then I'm not going to be doing anything in private with them.
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I have my physical preferences in a woman but they’re hard, fast and set in stone. Don’t believe it necessarily makes me desperate or that I’ll shag anyone with a pulse which I have been accused of in the past.
It’s more how the person conducts themselves just as much as their appearance that attracts me to someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I watched a TV program years ago where they tried to explain why a person would go to a nightclub and go home with someone that as they described as below their standards....Alcohol involved...They put it down to smell saying that it was pure lust , the animal side to us...I've been with women that I wouldn't normally go with and they've been with me..Good old lust."
This will explain why I go for different types at clubs and not my norm on fab.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it can be circumstantial for sure. Generally there has to be an attraction though
My question especially for singles is if meeting a couple and you find one but not the other attractive do you continue or not? Just curious |
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"I think it can be circumstantial for sure. Generally there has to be an attraction though
My question especially for singles is if meeting a couple and you find one but not the other attractive do you continue or not? Just curious "
I'm a single man who meets couples sometimes. Being straight, I don't find any men attractive – so yes, I do continue.
It's a question of a) finding the woman attractive, and b) finding the man likeable, or at the very least not offputting in some way. Hah.
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